Thread 41467708

are there any traits you look for in a partner? any physical features?
picrel is what my girlfriend will look like when i’m done with her

>>41467708 (OP)
You're going to take a girl and make her like this?

>>41467708 (OP)
uhhhh honestly somebody who will never abandon me & treats me like their dog. does it need to get more complicated than that?

I'm ok with my current BF

Would've been a bit better if he had a dick though

>>41467708 (OP)
i wouldn't know i haven't met them

>>41467974
i have a girl but i’m trying to get her to stop boymoding and become emo
>>41467981
that’s fair enough, pats for you pup
>>41467981
cute, i’m glad ur happy

>>41468001
He's doing his best don't you think he wishes he had a dick too? At least he's hot

>>41467708 (OP)
my ideal partner is a nice and smart and ambitious and beautiful woman with a big penis and no bottom dysphoria

>>41467708 (OP)
Tall muscular long hair goth man with a bunch of nerdy hobbies he can yap about who needs so much physical affection it's debilitating

>>41468210
https://youtube.com/shorts/wTNreKyHxIE

>>41468184
fair enough, very respectable
>>41468210
best type of man, good choice

>>41467708 (OP)
I am actively trying to manifest into reality a redheaded pooner with a decent amount of body hair and bottom growth. If I find him, I will marry him.

>>41468210
I'm working on the muscles

>>41468400
i believe in you!!!!!

>>41467708 (OP)
i want someone thats ambitious and smart and beats the fuck out fo me. also needs to be taller and stronger than me for obvious reasons

>>41468255
I can't believe his mother is a clanker who ai generated my horny prompt all those years in the past to provide me with exactly what the fuck I was craving above all else. He's SO fucking hot, he shreds!!!

>>41468273
Ohoho, I see you too are a man of refined tastes. If you're OP I hope one day you come here and show off your finalized emo girl

>>41468414
Please don't judge yourself against my theoretical most indulgent possible fantasy I'm sure you're perfect the way you are! Sweet boy.

older than me, maybe in his mid 30s or so
taller than me, or shorter than me either way works
maybe a bit hairy with stubble or a beard
muscles/big body
brown short hair or maybe longer metal head hair
kind sweet and caring but also assertive
emotional and soft at times
capable of letting his guard down and being vulnerable
being a sweetheart


there’s a man i love dearly who fits all of the above and more but i can never ever approach him with my feelings

>>41468640
Do it

>>41467708 (OP)
i don't wanna sound like a basic bitch but I like it when guys are taller than me

>>41467708 (OP)
girl who looks nice and keeps up her health and appearance, likes explaining things, is trans so we can relate with each other, and likes cuddles. sex is optional honestly

>>41467708 (OP)
She was

>>41468669
i can’t do so appropriately
it’s parasocial
hes a small content creator
i love him so much but i will never have him and can never tell him how i feel because it’s inappropriate
i hate being a loser creepy faggot tranny failure so much

>>41467708 (OP)
dear santa. i would like a guy 4-5 inches taller than me so i can fit my head into his chest snugly, and preferably heavier than me because i weigh 125lbs and that’s not a very masculine weight. he should be very very very kind to me and also gentle. this is like the main thing id probably fall for. i would also like if he’s very obviously lusty about me in a way i don’t have to wonder about, and it’s a nice bonus if he thinks im smart and funny and cool or whatever else. he has to be cool with me occasionally boymoding and ideally he should find this really funny and tease me throughout the process. i would like to cook for him and learn all his favorite foods and cuddle and travel and go hiking together and have really good sex too. i really hope to find a guy who wants kids i know my body is kinda broken and defective but i hope someone loves me enough to see me as a mom and want to adopt

>>41468640
omg cute, i believe in you!!!!!!
>>41468670
basic bitch, but real
>>41468740
this makes me happy and warm i hope you find a guy like this<3

>>41467708 (OP)
i only want someone that matches my chaotic energy and has a greek nose

>>41467708 (OP)
The same height as me or taller, I can't be the tall one in the relationship it'll make me wanna rope. Ideally bigger and more muscular than me, and HAIRY. God I want him to have hair everywhere.
Also I want him to be a dom but I'm a control freak so he needs to be like really good at the consent stuff because I will freak tf out if something happens to me that I didn't expressly ask for. Like if he wants to put me in a cage he needs to be ok with me holding onto the key cuz otherwise I'd probably have a panic attack. Also nerdy but not autistic. All my friends are autistic nerdy MTG players and I need someone in my life who isn't that.

>>41468939
i had a giant crush on my friend this summer and a lot of these things are because of him ngl. unfortunately i dont really think he's boymodersexual lol also even as a cis woman i wouldnt be his type im not a blond girl

>>41469001
this is sad:( i hope you find someone eventually

>>41467708 (OP)
Did you draw this yourself?

I just need a friend who I can be my 100% authentic self with. There's not a single person in the world who knows Ive been on Hrt for years or the thoughts I have. At a certain point it makes you feel detached from everyone else.

>>41468414
C'mon, tell us what you want then

>>41469278
>>41468400

>>41468988
aww i hope you find him!!
>>41469197
yes :3
>>41469242
i hope that you can find this nona

>>41469382
What if, only nice bottom growth? Trying to find a male redhead in the state of the world these days is rough

>>41469434
Love how it came out! You're good

>>41469464
I could deal. Bottom growth and body hair tend to go hand in hand as far as I know though.
But also I'm kind of memeing here.
The pooner I'm describing DOES exist and he decided after a couple dates that he just wanted to be friends and I'm still moping about it a little.

>>41469507
thank you!! <3

>>41469621
Start by never calling a trans man a pooner ever again forever. It will work out with the next guy. Sucks though, red hair is hard to find

>>41469689
I'm just using the local lingo bud, I'm not so internetbrained that I use it in interactions in my actual life.
You also seem like you're white knighting a bit because ftmg tosses that term around literally all day.

>>41467974
this is what i mean by turn her emo btw

>>41467708 (OP)
>are there any traits you look for in a partner? any physical features?

>MtF tranny
>No bottom disphoria
>Under 5'8
>White
>Small boobs (pretty nipples!!!)
>Fat ass
>clean girl style, somtimes goth/egirl
>Max shoesize 7 (us)
>Pretty feet!
>Freckles
>Healthy hair (blond to brown, but not that important)
>Blue/green eyes (brown eyes are also okay..)
>Kissable lips (not too thin please :/ )
>Chokable throat (not too thic please :/ )

t.your future husband chaser

>>41469829
Your beliefs shouldn't be dictated by your environment, have some integrity.

You sound sensitive, you blew it with a hot guy and I didn't want you to mess it up with the next one, that's not white knighting that's wingmanning. Don't be defensive when you get feedback. Ftmg is literally in a constant state of being raided, the guys there just roll with it out of apathy not acceptance

If you don't understand why it's gross to think of a trans man as a pooner then the word probably reflects your views

>>41469913
Perfection!

>>41469913
>>41469913
cute <3

>>41467708 (OP)
my ideal partner is my Older Brother

>>41470030
u sound awful and i came to this conclusion upon reading max shoesize 7

>>41468210
Literally me but in a toned gacha twink type of muscular
I want a gf/femboybf who is autistic and wants to mutually yap. Gentle/cuddly but also turns into a demented pervert when the time is right. Am also drawn to artists usually

>>41470141
I'm sorry girl... I just listed superficial traits. size?

>>41467708 (OP)
I'm more concerned with their personality and how they treat me and so physical traits are kinda an afterthought so i'll just get them out of the way tall and muscular pretty much. i would love it if my partner was taller than me and has muscle. not too muscular, not like gross body builder bulging veins, just like a little bit to look a little bit bulkier than the average person and to be able to carry me or do other things to me.

i guess it kind of boils down to i want someone who kinda treats me like a dog. and i don't know why... i wanna be firmly lesser. i get butterflies when people talk down to me. i wanna be pet like you would a pet and like you wouldn't to another person, maybe even in front of other people. i wanna have no control. i want a partner who regularly sexually assaults me, who likes making me cry, who likes having total control over me. i wanna be loved and i wanna be looked down on and i wanna be hurt. a lot. i wanna be afraid of them while simultaneously loving them more than anything else in the world. i wanna be completely dependent on them and completely at their mercy and i want them to want that too. I want someone who wants to own me. i don't know why i think about terrible things like this. i guess i just have low self esteem. something about growing up catholic as a knowingly closeted trans girl i think destroyed my mind and how i view intimacy and made me all like this. i feel worthless. somehow that's where it comes from.

I want either a thin femboy like iltak or a cowgirl trans girl that I can breed like wild. Of course I’d love either of em to the moon and back. Thats a given.
Me: muscular, somewhat hairy, big dick

>>41470173
I fit that description. And I’ve wanted a wife like that for a long time. Drop ur disc. I’m awake for 30 more mins.

>>41470159
I'm into all of that and you sound fantastic but despite being a femboy I won't date men whose type is woman/femboy because I need a partner I can grow old with even as my face and body change. Plus I'd be disgusted filling a role someone thinks is interchangeable with a woman, I'm proud of being gay and don't want to participate in some hetero dynamic

You're a catch though! An angel, hope you get scooped up

>>41470164
no you seem like a superficial person. if a woman had all those traits why would she ever want someone like u

>>41470032
>gross to think of a trans man as a pooner
What does the word mean to you? Genuinely curious. As far as I know, nobody can even agree on where it comes from, so I don't think it universally holds whatever connotation you're assigning to it.
Apart from this single interaction I've not seen people on this board talking about the term like it was derogatory. At least here, it just gets treated like a shorter and more convenient way to say "trans man."

>>41470210
i don't want an online relationship :(. i want it to be real. in real life. over the internet is so cold and sad. also if my partner read all those things i just wrote as the first thing they ever knew about me i would be so mortified.

unless you happen to live near me i'm afraid i'd just be wasting your time

>>41470199
What about a cow femboy with a fat ass and thick thighs and flat chest

>>41470238
Where are you based. If I’m within 3ish hours of you, I’m going to own you.

>white
>strong opinions
>loves to talk
>racist
>transphbobic
>uncut

>>41470252
So long as the proportions are feminine :) guy chubby and girl chubby are very different. With trans girls they got estrogen putting their fat in the right places. With femboys, it’s just the generic lottery. Still, I’m hopeful. I can add you :)

>>41470267
southeast united states... :(

i'm a trans girl and i'm very scary ugly looking you probably wouldn't want anything to do with me

>>41470212
Fair. Although ftr i don't view it as interchangeable, I just have a strong preference for feminine men when I date other guys. But those relationships are for sure different than those with cis/trans women have been

>>41470213
>any physical features?
Because I literally answered the question, I just answered superficial, just about optix. I wouldn't date someone without any common interests or if the person is just horrible in gereral lol. Also, I take care of myself, I work out, try to live health and I don't look like shit, I want a partner with similar optix, I don't want a fugly bitch. Looks aren't everything, but it plays a huge part, every tranny knows this.

>>41470292
Name the state. I’m South US.

>>41470222
Pooner comes from the word poon, which is slang for pussy, but modified to fit the naming convention of boomer or zoomer. It means vagina person. It is always used derogatorily, the same way the word tranny is. You can go look at any trans man focused interaction and see someone transphobic calling trans men poon or pooner as a gotcha to shut them up. Most men here are too jaded and apathetic to spell out for you that what happened was meant to be insulting because everyone knows better to be mad about troll behavior. People don't use the term outside of 4chan so no other frame of reference is needed

Disingenuous backpedaling, shorthand for trans man is ftm, which you will see used by people making more respectful posts. I wouldn't call a gay man fag, a lesbian dyke, a trans woman tranny, or a trans man pooner. It's your life be who you are just don't make it other people's problem

>>41470349
north carolina

>>41470270
5/6 :c

>>41470352
>You can go look at any trans man focused interaction and see someone transphobic calling trans men poon or pooner as a gotcha to shut them up.
I also see people using it in neutral and positive interactions with roughly equal distribution. I think you just want to see negativity everywhere so you can lecture people about it, man.

>>41470349
i guess you don't live within 3 hours... :(

>>41470440
Then by your own metric of evaluation, tranny is also not a slur as it is used in equal measure positively, neutrally, and negatively here as well in the same way pooner is

I can't break this down for you any more simply and I am begging you to stop pretending I'm attacking you; calling a trans man vagina and defining him by the thing he rejects about his body is a guarantee that he will avoid you. If the first thing that comes to mind when you think of trans men is pussy, they will notice, and reject you. This is free advice

>>41470362
North Carolina? You really are a dumb girl. Ur really stretching the definition of south east. Nah I’m not near. 10+ hours.

>>41470514
i think it's on the edge. the cusp. it was in the confederacy afterall

>>41470514
Not her but North Carolina is absolutely in the south of the east coast what are you going on about. Sorry you two didn't work though, seemed cute

>>41470531
I’m still interested in you. I want you. Drop your discord. I can travel if need be.

>>41470512
Could you sound any more like a sanctimonious reddit transplant? Holy shit.
You sure seem to love assuming things on other people's behalf.

>>41470554
really? im scared. can you send yours instead? i dont like sharing mine publically on here, i dont wanna be sent gross pics.

>>41470539
thankyou for defending me and saying what ive got going on with this stranger seemed cute

>>41470599
humongousturtle

Add me. I’m sleeping in 10 mins.

>>41470613
ah... im sorry...

>>41470607
Wish the best for you nona believe in yourself

>>41470613
Very gentlemanly to offer yours to her, you seem great too. Hope it all works out!

>>41467708 (OP)
kinda tall very dorky/nerdy guy. facial hair is optional, but i can talk to him about all of my special interests and he ramble about his to me as well and i wanna be able to cook with him and i wanna feel safe in his arms. ideally in good shape physically too. good hygiene is a MUST a well!!

oooooonly thing is i'm mtf but i really do not want my genitals to be touched or anything like that.

>>41470629
Why? Why sorry?

>>41470318
You do really seem like a sweetheart

>>41470661
you should probably know

>>41470676
Does your name start with an M?

I think I'd want a dominant trans woman who is into the occult BDSM type of vibe and weird art. Think Coil or Throbbing Gristle and we'd basically just be friends fwb but including basic intimacy. We'd live separately but call each other up on the weekends or whenever we want to touch someone, cuddle, have sex, or need to cry or vent or whatever. I could never do cis-straight-married we sleep in the same bed type shit. I'd be her sub and pet plaything forever and we could go to sexclubs with me attached to her arm by a leash for her to parade me around and humiliate me in front of others. I could switch the roles a few times maybe but I couldn't be a dom always.

Online there is someone I know not that well who is like this, but she lives 7+ hours away and I'm pretransition anyway so what does it matter T_____T drove me crazy when I realized she could be real though

>>41470682
To anyone else who is wondering. I know this girl. We spoke before. But this time I won’t be letting her go. I am going to completely and utterly own her. She’s going to be so so happy being under my control and commands.

>>41470962
I'm ecstatic! What a relief, I was worried for a moment, you seem so well suited. I knew you were a gentleman, go rope her up and haul her away