>>508836135 (OP)
nigger faggot

>>508836239
A nigger faggot with a dead phone and a warpig wife

>>508836135 (OP)
its okay bro she was probably cheating on you anyways

I bet he's on SSRI's.

>>508836135 (OP)
All I'd ever want is a family
And a real life
But I was born with unsalvageable genetics
While this guy wants to throw away his privilege

>>508836135 (OP)
Tell her how you feel. Go from there.

>>508836440
Why are you a manlet too?

>>508836135 (OP)
Once you have kids, you forfeit this selfish right. If you only want to stay married as long as you're in love, then don't have kids.

>>508836135 (OP)
yeah that's how guys think and talk for sure, super emotional faggot shit

>>508836135 (OP)
>the add
>the support he would get if he was a she talking about her husband

>>508836135 (OP)
>merck
Buy a 4chan ad you gutless, corporate faggot

>>508836135 (OP)

>wtf getting married didn’t fulfill me I can’t believe it

Wow bro that’s crazy. Next you’ll tell me that life is a meaningless cycle of desire and that contentment is impossible because of samaric currents that just keep dragging you back in.

>>508836135 (OP)
This guy is an athiest. True following of Christ would ground him.

>>508836135 (OP)
What's the difference between op and a picnic table?

>The picnic table can actually support a family

Amazing.
When a man thinks like this, they deserve death and ridicule
When a woman posts about wanting to leave her husband of 20 years because he gave her an ick once, she's brave and beautiful
Behead these people with double standards

>>508836135 (OP)
People confuse lust and love. Lust always fades and people think "I am not in love anymore". What nonsense.

Marriage is a duty to GOD and your children. You stay together. It's 100 times better to stay together even in a "loveless" marriage that is a "prison" than to broadcast your failure to your children and relatives and die with cats alone and hated by all.

>>508836856
Legit Kek'd

>>508836135 (OP)
1pbtid

>>508836320
My phones not de

>>508836599
I open a thread and catch strays... US bros need to stop shooting.

>>508836856

>>508836954
Marriage is a scam for cucks. God doesn't exist and your children might not even be your children genetically 'cause women are whores. Family and friends be damned as well, family is just a burden on the self.

He should just leave, his wife would do that after having taken 7 dicks prior to divorce raping him

>>508836135 (OP)
God I can't take people and their drama seriously, get over yourself ypu aren't special.

>>508836135 (OP)
Mine started beating me up randomly. It was bpd. She hid it until we had married then let rip. Worst mistake of my life.

>>508837178
Reddit is the worst for that shit. a bunch of ordinary fucking losers trying to paint their lives as interesting melodramas while other ordinary retards comment on it. It's even worse when you see anons on /pol/ trying to do the same shit here.

>>508836856
kek

I'm ready to leave my wife because she's not a very good mom.

>>508836135 (OP)
It’s called the 7 year itch you dumb nigger.

Around 7-10 years your monkey brain wants new pussy. Feel free to go get it but no one anywhere near your social circle, or places you shop and use a fucking rubber.

Never seen a 7-year-itch related divorce go well. Go get your dick wet and be a Dad and a Husband again.

I swear making brothels illegal is a Jewish conspiracy to make divorce lawyers money.

>t. Married for 16 years

>>508836135 (OP)
kick your wife in her big fat ass

>>508836135 (OP)
I like how you dumb fuck nigger retards don't see that this was just a rage bait posing as an inversion of the justification cunts use to leave their husbands.

>>508836135 (OP)
do it. women suck. fuck having a wife. some nag hag yapping cunt that sucks all of the fun out of life constantly? no thanks

>>508836853
don't wanna divorce your wife when your mouth and ass is full of neanderthal cum!

AM I RIGHT OR AM I RIGHT, FELLOW CHRISTIANS!

>>508836599
Also baldlet and more

This dudes wife probably has a job on top of having all the child care duties. Does he seriously think his wife enjoys booking appointments for the kids, does he think she wants to talk about it, and not that she simply believes that he cares about whats going on in his children's lives?
This dude without a doubt thinks pulling a slightly bigger income than his wife means she depends on him as if she isn't the one who also schedules everything for him and is essentially his mom.
No doubt the subtext here is that she hasn't blown him since his birthday 3 years go and never brings up having sex and when they do have it, its clear she's doing it to get it over with so he can shut up about how miserable he is because all she cares about is her dream life of being a mom.

>>508837023
Kek. Don’t worry you’ll be writing letters to communicate after fat wife drags you through divorce court and you can’t afford that phone.

>>508837140
>Marriage is a scam for cucks.
It was designed by GOD. It is the evil and bad laws of men that have perverted it.

GOD is self-evident in everything around you, as proof he exists. As you are not worth my time, I will not reply to you again.

>>508837255
lol
Missus should shake when you use your big boy voice not vice versa

>>508837488
Brother, we're not going to make it.

>>508836135 (OP)
>Retard thinks his wife can read his mind
>Expects her to just know how he's feeling, somehow
>Going to destroy his entire family because of this
Fucking moron needs to TALK about how he feels to his wife, but instead goes and posts on the fucking internet instead like some prima donna

Stop being a faggot and get some college pussy on the side

>>508836135 (OP)
That must be one ugly wife. That is why I'm going to marry a beautiful girl. So this never happens to me. Good luck finding another loyal wife if you aren't rich. Women are all hoes now.

>>508836135 (OP)
This is like listening to a guy eat an entire cheesecake for dessert from an infinite cheesecake machine in his spare bedroom and complaining that he’s sick of doing it and that he hates his life because of it while my diet consists of a small potato every other day that I search for deep in the bear and wolf infested woods and dig up with a spoon.

>>508836393
this. nothing will cause an empty restless feeling more quickly than ssri disassociation. probably safe to say there is at least some mild porn addiction happening too, that makes it even worse.

>>508837514
My wife and I just had this conversation and she literally teared up when I sent pic related to her.

At the end she was like “Aw.. Hitler made me cry.”

Women unironically crave this. It’s why cat ladies are so crazy. It’s either doctors appointments or vet appointments they wouldn’t be doing it any differently.

>>508837581
Your God is a bad designer and evil if he's real. He is the source of all evil. You worship evil. I have seen enough evil in life to know that if this was all created by one being, that being is absolute evil incarnate. Death, decay, rot, deception, illusion, pain, suffering, poverty, disease, aging, eating other living beings to survive... It's all made by an evil being.

>>508837749
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
Ah you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
She'll always give you peace of mind

>>508836135 (OP)
Hole isn't giving him sex, so it's expected that the cuck wants to bail out

>>508837749
Beware, my friend. Looks are superficial and eventually fade, and I think we'd grow tired of fucking even a 10/10 exclusively (look at what's his face an Elizabeth Hurley fkr example). Personality trumps all, then other qualities like will she make a good mom, her aspirations, etc. These are all things I wish I had known before I got married.

>>508836135 (OP)
>another normie followed the script and realized it's just duty upon duty
Got what he askes for. Alimony makes sense for these types.

>>508837890
Very dysgenic song.

>>508836135 (OP)
I think about this all the time.

>She demonstrates love for me and happiness at my presence
>But does she actually love me since she's busy raising a family, trying to make ends meet, and is busy with modern life?
>I can't just be open with her and talk to her about my problems and insecurity she could put to rest right away, no, I need to run away instead

Literally just tell her that you'd like some personal time together. She's not being cold or neglectful, you're a grown man, use your words.

>>508836440
>But I was born with unsalvageable genetics
Top kek

>>508837927
Looks are everything. What you said was dysgenic uggo cope. I don't want my kids coming out fucking ugly and being doomed to be incels.

>>508836393
I am too (for a month) and I don’t really feel great about it

>>508837584
Not when she would go into a rage and call the cops. Second time cops came around was when I decided it was time for me to leave her. There is no saving the marriage after that the trust was gone

>>508837927
You are a liar. Personality doesn't matter at all, only looks and sex matter.

>>508836135 (OP)
What a fag.

>>508836135 (OP)
Ok no judgement anon, but for real get advice from actual people who are healthy fuck 4chan and reddit

You have a wife that lives you and kids thatove you, I could stop there and say that this the most important thing in life, but think what could you have better? A sexy 20 yo cumslut who would suck and fuck you all day and call you daddy, ok but what next? Where's the future in that living life for hedonistic reasons? Your kids are with you so is your wife along you life journey 100% on your side, you could do anything you want.
Maybe take a trip with your wife on a resort and get juvenilated
Or
Take time off by yourself for a week or something go visit nightclubs and go back your home, wife and kids.
If you feel like leaving is the option i feel like you're not getting the full picture and haven't tried to learn it out of some shame or guilt but you can and you really should
Best of luck anon

>>508838049
You misunderstand, the two aren't mutually exclusive. You should by all means find an attractive female, but you have to make sure those other things are present or you'll end up unhappy for sure.

>>508837719
Talking is worthless. I went to therapy for 6 years talking about my issues and it was ZERO help at all and only made me worse.

>>508836440
If you could, you probably wouldn't. You're just sad you never had the option. Besides, what the fuck would you marry? German women are terrible sluts from what I hear, not that others are angels.

>>508837719
>Women
>Listening to a man they don't respect
Good joke, virgin anon.

Wasn't worth the squeeze

>>508836739
Because women generally support another woman making bad decisions, anon. It brings them glee to see another woman suffer because they suffered too.

>>508836135 (OP)
shes dreaming about tyrone

>>508838129
If you needed it to survive, I think that's okay. But I would suggest getting to a place where you have more freedom and then look at how you can fix depression other ways. I learn from bioenergetics, and a lot of people in that spehere are of the opinion that ssris are for dissassociating from pain rather than fixing it. But if the alternative is offing yourself or having your life collapse, it makes sense

>>508838220
>talking to some jew therapist instead of your significant other, or family
retard, of fucking course it's not going to work

>>508836135 (OP)
He fails to mention how much she weighs. She's probably a fat fuck and he exhausts himself putting it inside.

>>508836440
You think you do, but you don't. Having a family sucks.

>>508836135 (OP)

Congrats on becoming an adult, faggot. Oh you fell for the Disney happy ever after slogan, lol.

The vast majority of people feel the way you are. It's up to you and anyone reading this to keep the relationship alive. It takes work. You gotta flirt, you gotta take her out, you gotta keep her thin.

Good luck.

>>508836135 (OP)
noooo don't do it wife guy don't leave your better half! you can't afford to anyways so there's no real threat. another win for the state.

>>508837840
It's a very beautiful speech I must admit I got emotional too when I first heard it because you never hear anyone appreciate our god given roles anymore. It's very well written I think

>>508837840
Your wife sounds like she is a retard.
If she's not retarded she likely thinks its really weird how obsessed you are over Hitler but her upbringing left her with a fear of speaking out on thoughts like that for what might happen.
Make no mistake, if a nigger with more money than you wanted her, she'd be out the door.
Women do not have the mental ability to give a shit about Hitler like you do, to her he's just the star player on your favourite sports team you never stop talking about, not really the Hitler you are obsessed with.

>>508837719
You people are fucking retarded. He lets these feelings out, its over no matter what. He knows this. 50/50 shot she blows up in his face making it all about her and her feelings or using the kids as an emotional weapon OR she explodes and sees him as weak and loses "respect" for him.

All of you people need to realize that some people just arent programed for this shit, and no amount of "god" or "therapy" or "talking about it" will EVER work. Some people are meant to be ditch diggers and whores, some are meant to have kids and some arent, some are meant to be great yet lonely minds whille others are just meant to be a statistic. Trying to get everyone to lock step in line and all do the same fucking thing (start a generic as fuck family and work generic as fuck 9to5s and pay taxes so "society" can keep going down the same generic path while green line go up red line bad for mr shecklestein nosenbergs company and presidents war) is going to create these outliers. The number of outliers seems to go up exponentially every year until shit collapses and resets eventually.

>>508836135 (OP)
Guy is probably thinking of trooning out

>>508837178
That's because it's fake
It's a Jewish psyop to stop whitey from breeding

>>508836135 (OP)
I think most people here unfortunately see his life as such a pipe dream that they don't realize how shitty it is once you actually get there on your own merit. Having a job, wife, and kids doesn't mean life is a vacation. Life goes on. Life continues to suck. I sympathize with the poster, although he's probably a faggot, I know where he's coming from.

>>508838280
who said she doesn't respect him?
if your wife doesn't respect you that's a whole other issue.

>>508837719
>omg just talk to a woman about how you feel
stfu virgin the adults are talking

My gf is literally begging me to breed her. Me on the other hand am so over all of this working, responsibilites etc. etc. I just want to get plastered and see the nukes go off. I just can't see myself doing the "after school sports" thing and whatever the fuck else my parents did for me when I was a kid. I don't know what the fuck to do.

>>508838592
>some are meant to be great yet lonely minds
Yeah I would believe in a god with a bigger plan for me than anyone else that just hasn't happened yet too if I was an unfuckable midwit like you seem to be.
Things aren't predetermined, no one is meant to be anything you stupid nigger, you're just ugly and not stupid enough to be okay with it. Even in the days when a good job could get you pussy, it didn't get you hot pussy if you were ugly and guess what, thats how your ugly parents met.

>>508838572
You are so fucking stupid holy shit. I wouldn't be surprised if you have literally never kissed a woman on the mouth.

>>508838811
I instinctively avoided relationships, mostly because I knew I was too broke anyway. God that was a blessing.

Reap what you sow. You had sex, probably deflowered her. Time to MAN UP!! LMAO

>>508838572
man you’re bitter as fuck lmao

I’ll still be married years from now and you’ll probably be a she/her my guy

>>508837370
The highest words of wisdom I’ve read so far in this thread. Well said, my nigger.

>Im thinking about leaving my wife
>comes to /pol/
kill her then kill yourself faggot

>>508838650
If you have to open up your feefees as a man, she already doesn't respect you. A man is supposed to command. To take charge. To be the boss. But we've got a whole generation of faggot cucks who do anything for their girlboss cunt queen. Totally dysfunctional.

>>508838885
Nigger I am such a man that my ex's literally give up on being straight women after I am done fucking them.
My high school sweetheart clung on to dick only for me and has been eating pussy since I dumped her.
My ex wife straight up changed genders after I mace her eat pussy a few times.
You ever have a woman eat your ass? Get the fuck out of my court faggot

This is 100% written by a bitter woman.
No question

>>508837370
Pretty much. Did this before proposing

>>508838811
Seems like a lot of pressure doesn’t it? I wonder how our parents did it, but they were just trying their best, with good or bad results

OP's picture (not the seething reddit post but the picture being screencapped) is actually an exquisitely clever game of changing a single pronoun and therefore revealing the hypocrisies of those who read it.
>it shows the same people who defend/criticize a wife leaving for the exact same reason will change their principles depending on who has the pussy
>it shows the people who denounce a wife for leaving will denounce a husband for the same reason because their principles are sound
An actually good OP because it reveals this naked ideological divide within /pol/ itself, without /pol/ even realizing they are being skewered.

>>508839054
LMFAO???

>>508836856
The food contents don't look half bad either. Could use some rice.

>>508838572
least deranged leaf

>>508839054
So you're an overweight fat fuck who smells like cheese and banged the ugly blue haired chicks and did extremely degenerate shit with them.

I could see you banging a man in a year or two. It's okay to express your true sexuality. Go learn something new about yourself.

>>508838358
talking to my family is also worthless and made me feel worse. billions must die.

>>508837514
I can tell you're a woman or have never been in a relationship with one.
Women are the ultimate busybodies and complain when their peers don't waste their lives running in place along with them.
There is a reason why nearly all philosophers were single men.

>>508838129
>I willingly take drugs that only fuck up my brain and dont even get me high
Die

>>508836440
ovER

>>508836135 (OP)
>I dont want to fix it
Could literally just fucking talk to his wife. What a fucking nigger

>>508838938
Dude you'll be crying picturing her face in your empty apartment sooner or later. She will be getting dick pics from her friends and dying her hair and doing all the things she told you she thinks women are whores for ever thinking about. She's going to do it because of how bad you made it all seem too. The ironic part is that you've already groomed her into knowing exactly how to tear you apart. She would have just moved on with another white guy if not for your weird obsession with racemixing you always talked about.

>>508838917
I've been thinking about doing a 1 for 1 if it happens. As soon as the baby is born I just blow my head off lmao.
>>508839094
>wonder how they did it
They could afford a house on 3 years salary is how

>>508836135 (OP)
kek vax status?

>>508836135 (OP)
>Become a dad.
>Feels alone in the house.
Meaning
>I dont love my kid either

Sounds like a loser dad whoes been drinking to much beer and the estrogen is fucking with his brain.

>>508836135 (OP)
he is spiritually a woman

>>508839273
Uh no I am a 6'2" gigachad, women literally can't compose themselves when speaking to me and it took me a bit too long to control myself because everything was an option.
Been with my girl for 5 years now, have a dog and 2 cats and just moved into the house I inherited.
Sorry bud, you aren't going to get much over on me

>>508839444
You gotta marry and be a responsible father. It's over leafanon. You made your bed.

>>508836954
You and I may have a different notion of who or what God is, but I agree with everything you said.

I'll add - grow up and stop believing in the fake perfect family posts on Facebook or Disney romances or whatever bullshit you were programmed with as a kid. This is a broken world full of broken people. No relationship or family is perfect but we have a responsibility to survive this shitty filler episode in history until the next Man Against Time brings about a new Golden Age. We want to have descendants that will be around to help bring it about and then enjoy it.

>>508836393
>I bet he's on SSRI's.
or porn
dopamine and delta phos B problems from porn causes a similar disassociation feeling to SSRIs

>>508839674
Or video games. Or TV. Or tabletop. Or books. Or cars. Man has hobbies? WTF? May only work.

Nah. Family life is just a hard life. Normies are being lied to.

>>508836440
>privilige
Dude, he is a biorobot thats taken for granted. His entire life is "something that keeps the lights on"

>>508838129
make sure you're educated on what your taking it's side effects and if it's right for you

>>508837581
Your brain on christcuckery

>>508836135 (OP)
this is a thinly vieled o9a thread

>>508836135 (OP)
ever think of talking to her about it?

>>508836135 (OP)
His wife still smiles when she sees him. And he thinks that being the breadwinner is rock bottom. What a pussy.
Try when the wife sneers 75% of the time she sees him and starts fights over nothing because she had a bad day. Try surviving when she hits the adulterous bitch stage that 96% of women go through in the western world.

>>508837370
Also why men have a "mid life crisis", so they go out and buy a sports car and make jews a bunch of money

>>508836135 (OP)
sounds like a faggot unfit to deal with reality

>>508836135 (OP)
women like to be led. if ur relationship has become routine and boring as you say, its all your fault.

>>508836135 (OP)
you arent supposed to "like" your wife like your buddy, you are supposed to do your duties and fuck her when your horny. if youre jerking off to too much porn and your never horny then yeah no shit youre gonna start wondering why are you bothering with paying this person to be in your life

he's paying for a live in pussy and not using it like a retard. like a man whose had an abundance of water so long he forgot what its like to be thirsty and stops tending his well.

>>508836707
Don't get married ever if you want to be loved in the honey moon high stage of carnal passion. Marriage accelerates the end of that stage real quick. Marriage is not for empty sex. Marriage is for having kids. And women only need sex 3-4 times a year to get pregnant.

>>508839651

>>508839599
>calls himself gigachad unironically
>writes fantasy cuck novels about how anon's girlfriend is gonna leave him for BBC
you're at least like 25% gay dude. probably more but I'm being conservative here.

meanwhile my gf just dumped me because I tried to fuck her mom
she was close to perfect too... FUUUUUUUCK

>>508839962
>but dis sux even harder!
Yeah it does. Doesn't mean it's great in any case.

>>508840120
Imagine Juden Peterstein talking down on you. "MAN UP!" Hahahahahahahah

>>508836440
The grass is always greener, and this is sadly true for everyone, everywhere. This is why all rich people are insane and evil--they can literally do everything all of us wish we could do at any time, so it becomes mundane and boring and they have to constantly seek new "experiences" like trafficking children and drinking blood while worshipping demons.

>>508836856
>assumes OP is black
White men leave their families all the time.
https://charleyproject.org/case/nicholas-stephen-francisco#:~:text=Details%20of%20Disappearance,disappearance%20and%20is%20now%20remarried.
https://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/nicholas-francisco-family-man-disappears-revealed-leading-double/story?id=11145043

>>508836856
Why did I laugh so hard at this

>>508836440
Don't worry, a lot of American genetics were culled by WW2 and other past wars, the great phenotype went off to fight a war, and narrowed the blood line and gene pool on both sides.

Survival of the fittest doesn't apply to war. Death can be random, artillery etc. your good gened ancestors died, and the weak cowards remained.

I like how he crops the image to include the merck ad. Holy fuck propaganda has become so fucking lazy... just like the jeets that code it for their kike masters

>>508837514
simp fucking faggot. womens primary instinct is
1) bring men down
2) motherhood.
women live to ruin men for the sake of it. i feel sorry for men who don't know this. my godfather told me long ago "love is like a barrell of shit with a little honey at the top. u eat all the honey and its so nice but then the rest of ur life u gotta eat the shit!" true.

>>508836320
Nah, I know exactly how he feels and my wife was 7/8 face (blond hair, blue eyes, beautiful lips and cheeks, dainty chin, nose and eyebrows a bit too big) and 10/10 body (massive tit and ass, slim waist). I just increasingly realized she could never understand me or share my soul and it was as impossible as understanding assembly language verbally. It is extremely depressing and now that we’re divorced I am happier alone.

>>508838811
Same anon, I used to really want them, now I'm over 30 and I don't anymore. Maybe it would give me a reason to live. And the medical industrial complex has only grown more powerful to try and poison them.

>>508840260
what is this gross shit, it's ramen noodle packets with chips... and there is no point isolating the chips from the ramens because ultimately they touch either way and the whole fucking thing is drowned in whatever shit is in those bottles.

>>508836856
i'm heaving laughing

>>508840260
Literal fucking goyslop and nigger apologetics?
Go back.

>>508840296
>webm
I am curious and I want to learn more about this item? Is it a doll for sale? Or is it some Asian comedy skit?

>>508840477
>>508840273
how new are you ppl. You should know every meme ever fucking rookies

>>508840121
You're the only one thinking about gay sex here faggot, pretty telling.
Im just to warn that telling your retarded woman how much you love Hitler is just going to lead to her fucking niggers to spite you.
I had a girlfriend once who mentioned she had dated 2 black guys, I made a joke about how I won't be upset if my dick isn't the biggest shes ever had because mine was already too big for her so it must not of worked out and she responded saying "actually its a really hurtful stereotype to black men that can really hurt them" and it was honestly almost worse than if she had said yeah they had huge cocks because I don't want to hear about how she dated some little dick sad bitch boy niggas

>>508836135 (OP)
I'm 61 in a 39 year marriage.
When women become mothers they cease being your wife.
It is what it is.
The sad part is when the kids are gone they desperately try to get that flame back, but it's gone.
I'm just here to pay the bills and she is just a companion like another dude.
I have never seen anyone else or messed around in her, but stopped having sex with her not to long after the 5th kid.
She got to where she felt like she had to pick a fight and reassert dominance after sex to protect the kids I guess.
I finally gave up and let her raise them but she ruined them.
I don't feel resentment or anger anymore, I don't feel anything really.
But I do lay here by her some nights and wonder what it would have been like with one of the other passionate romances.
Probably the same.
Guess I'll go to sleep I have to get up and work in the morning
At 61.
All of the kids failed to launch.
She spends all of my money, she got a job and spends that too.
Then she took out credit cards and spent all that.
Maybe it's revenge for no sex.
I don't know.
Please God kill me so I don't go to hell for blowing my brains out.

>>508838811
>begging me to breed her.
do it, do not listen to the part of you saying not to ... you will only later regret *not* doing it.

>>508840474
>webm
that's a Japanese restaurant creation, isn't it? I think I have read about it. Japanese people are nothing if not creative.
>>508840568
>goyslop
I mean, what did you expect? We are American.
>nigger apologetics
It's possible to make a sensible case against making broad sweeping generalizations without defending niggers. I believe I did just that

>>508836135 (OP)
My best friend is like this, he has become too busy with his family and kids to the point where its just not fun to hang out anymore. He just wants to get drunk and sit in peace. He doesn't want to talk about his day, just exhausted from work and home life that he is no longer himself. And when we do finally get a fishing day or something it's just not the same.

When he got drunk he told me how lucky I was without a wife and kids, he says he loves them but its too much pressure and he can't do anything he enjoys, he gets to play an hour or 2 of call of duty or doomscroll if he's lucky. Then the chores, mowing the lawn, fixing shit around the house. He told me in confidence that he understands why some guys snap and murder suicide, it was a wtf moment for me, but he immediately told me he wasn't being serious and that it was a bad day at home that day. I haven't brought it up since.

Why are some couples happy and others miserable while having no actual hardships like cheating or domestic violence? Like what's the secret? My friends marriage is based on his love for his wife and kids, up keeping his appearance, but there is nothing more to it from my view. They don't talk about anything deeper than surface level shit. I am unmarried, but had ex girlfriends so I can relate to having a partner but not someone who I spend most of my free time with, and kids I am responsible for. It sounds so easy since most people pull it off and are all close to each other. Why are guys who have everything so depressed? Little debt, house, wife, kids, a job, routine...wtf

>>508836135 (OP)
I thought about leaving mine lots of times Anon. 25 years later, I’m really glad that I didn’t. Question: how much porn are you watching?

>>508840182
>meanwhile my gf just dumped me because I tried to fuck her mom
LMFAO

>>508840182
that's what you get for FAILING TO FUCK HER

Whoever shared this has an upside down, accent lettered gypsy homo gamer username with an 80's tranny doodle pfp. Opinion rejected.

The Merck ad INJECT yourself with our latest vaccines! adds a somewhat dystopian touch to the suffering on display.

>>508840708
I can relate to op picrel, I can understand what your saying. Your my future self ffs.
Just accept it I guess?

>>508838572
This jew is terrified. The most frightening thing they can imagine is White Men bonding with White Women over how profound Hitler's speeches were.

>>508840708
Go blow your brains out if thats how you feel.
5 kids your wife raised for you and all you can do is bitch that she tried to romantically win you over after you emotionally checked out and left her to raise the kids.
Maybe your kids are ruined because they have a spineless faggot for a dog who stopped caring about them them moment his dick stopped getting wet without being asked to do a chore.
If I were one of your kids I would have already killed you myself, but its no surprise such a weak willed bug like yourself raised even weaker faggots.
I don't see my dad is because I think I would likely beat him to the point he was unrecognizable and suffering for the rest of his life and he wasn't half the whiny faggot you come off as.
Please go get the gun

>>508838811
Just breed her. You'll forever regret not getting her pregnant. Don't worry about how you'll have it in you to raise kids. If you're not a completely irresponsibly selfish degenerate, you'll manage. Every man in history with a family has had the same concerns you have had and managed to raise decent kids successfully

>>508836135 (OP)
He just needs a blowjob.

>>508840708
>All of the kids failed to launch.
Nigger you had 5 kids. Of course they failed to launch. Sons always depended on inheritance and daughters on getting married young.

>>508836135 (OP)
get your physician to prescribe a pfizer pez dispenser.

>>508841066
>managed to raise decent kids successfully
lol no
And they didn't even raise them alone like they have to now.

And that vid is cringe wtf.

>>508841039
I spend 0 hours a day thinking about people of other races and like that my girlfriend makes money and buys me things.
You guys are the only ones bringing up race every day

>>508836393
Beat me to it

He sounds a lot like 99% of women

Brain medication is the culprit

>>508837374
>kick your wife in her big fat ass
some men might not survive attempting this.

>>508840855
What's his wife like? Im convinced that the "leave to get milk and never come back" dads are married to terrible women. And it really is its own type of hell.

>>508840426
I was hoping that (((israel))) and (((iran))) would actually do some work but, turns out nothing ever happens anons were indeed correct and we are doomed for eternal slavery. Just you wait for the Digital I.D/Currency to roll out, it's going to be way worse than it is now even.
>>508840794
>>508841066
I ponder this hourly anon, I want to have children but, at the same time am so demoralized that its a 50/50 split that is fucking with my head like I've never had before.

>>508841060
I'm calmly introspective and you rage.
Who is the guilty party here?

>>508840855
If you want an honest answer, then I can give one to you. Your friend, and other individuals and couples, failed to understand that "making it" isn't the end of the game. Life doesn't end the moment you have the partner, the kids, the house, the car, the job, etc. It keeps going, and they were too stupid to realize it. Life is a marathon, but it's not a 25k, or a 50k. It's for a lifetime. It won't stop. Even when the kids move out, life goes on. When the grandkids come to visit, life goes on. When their popping medications on a cruise ship in their retirement, life goes on. And on, and on, and on.

The reason people "snap" in a relationship is because they're finally realizing just how deep the abyss is, and they're not ready for it. They look down into it, and blink. They don't find satisfaction in what they have because they thought it--whatever "it" is--was going to make them happy. How can a wife make you happy when life goes on and she's getting wrinkles, her hair is graying, and she's getting more tired because life goes on? How can the kids make you happy when their dentist bills, school supplies, and food costs keep money out of the savings account because they're growing up and life goes on? How can the house, when it needs constant repair and upkeep because life goes on?

They can't handle that life goes on. So, they want a break from their lives, and will do absolutely batshit insane things in an attempt to, as they perceive it, "break the monotony", when in actuality, they just want their life to end. Once life is over, it stops moving on.

>>508841275
HAHAHHAA
I'm gonna wake everyone up.

>>508840260
>>assumes OP is black
uh, he knows his kids names, clearly not black

Am I the only person who read it and just went
>damn dude that’s fucking heavy. I’m sorry to hear it. Good luck with it.

>>508841376
or its not that deep and women just nag and bitch nonstop and it fucking sucks and women drain the life from men.

>>508837140
That’s a really sad and pathetic outlook on life. If you haven’t figured it out already, your outlook becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. You only see what you look for.

>>508841513
An open mouth is ready for a cock. If she's bitching, it's because you're not filling, retard.

>>508841530
hes wrong about no god but hes right about marriage being a scam. Ask urself this honestly. u ever met a happy couple that has been together for 5 years plus? i havent. and im sure a few unicorns exist but the vast majority of men in relationships fucking loathe their wives. its cause their wives are cunts and dont do anything but bitch and complain nonstop, turning every man into a hapless sack of pussy shit "h-h-appy wife happy life hehe am i right fellas?". fucking puke

>>508837488
PP405 will us my fellow bald brother!

>>508841617
ooooh so alpha bro! u really got me with that one.

>>508836135 (OP)
>men whining about their wives
when men are unhappy in marriage, they whine about it to friends and coworkers and nothing ever happens.
when women are unhappy in marriage, the marriage is over.
imagine marrying some ham beast and then your stuck with her forever or divorce raped. what a nightmare.

>>508836135 (OP)
>Waaaa she doesn't ask me how I'm feeling
When you're an adult male nobody gives a shit about your feelings. And it doesn't matter because you're a man. If you want her, fuck her brains out. Don't just sit around and mope about it. Otherwise, focus on your passion.

>>508841667
What was that? You being a little bitchy, huh? You want me to twist your nipple? Maybe spit on your face a bit? Huh? You want me to shove my tongue down your throat? Maybe finger your butthole and tickle your prostate? Want me to frot your cute little dick with mine? Is that what you're looking for, faggot? Maybe I should bend you over and just fuck you in the ass. You seem like a master at assfuck. You might even make me cum within half an hour.

>>508841752
>If you want her, fuck her brains out.
hard to get it up for a fat cunt whose primary form of communication with u is nagging and bitching. u ever tried it?

>>508836856
I forcefully exhaled through my nose while smiling

>>508841291
>I want to have children but, at the same time am so demoralized
>demoralized
this is one of those instances in life where you're going to need to ignore the negative thoughts. family life is way more rewarding than you can possibly imagine right now. it's worth it. it's not always going to feel great, but you'll feel way more fulfillment with having a family of your own than without one.

>>508836239
I fully agree with this post.

>>508841400
Checked
>>508841404
KEK!!! Good one, I have to admit.

>>508838223
Where did you hear that about German women?

>>508836135 (OP)
Marriage is only an 18 year commitment, it serves the purpose of raising children together in a healthy household. When the children are gone there's no reason to keep the old infertile hag around. Dump her and be at peace or seek another fertile womb.

>>508841352
You're a passive faggot and proud of it
I am not the one posting about how I never took part in raising my family and as a result my wife stopped fucking me, if you had an ounce of introspection within you, you would never be posting about this online and would be wallowing in guilt with a gun in your mouth over how much of a fuck up you are before doing something about it one way or another.
But you're an inactive pussy so you will just think about it all day for the rest of your sad life ruining your wife and kids lives even more because you're a pussy surrounded by pussies

>>508836856
Saved

>>508842126
I think I'm going to leave my wife once our last kid leaves the house.

>>508836135 (OP)
I think about leaving my gf of 5 years at least once a week. Nothing wrong in the relationship. I just get bored of being with the same person day in and day out. Is this normal in a long term relationship?

>>508842116
Germans.

>>508841214
>And that vid is cringe wtf.
She's just a wholesome young woman who is eager for the arrival of her baby. Nothing is wrong with her.

>>508836135 (OP)
He needs to go kill something and let out his primal rage then come home and fuck his woman ragged. That will fix his problems
>boohoo I'm so alone
Welcome to being a man, nut up

>>508842292
Likely just porno brain or general boredom, would it bother you to know that she thought the same thing about you every week? Would you want to know if she did?

>>508842342
She's clearly autistic and someone did a background search on the one you just posted and determined that she's an atheist and liberal.

>>508836135 (OP)
he's definitely has an anal fetish

>>508842292
>Is this normal in a long term relationship?
Yes

>>508842393
I do have porno brain. Shit fucking sucks. I work from home, so it could be boredom, too. No. I'd want her to keep that to herself lmao

>>508836135 (OP)
I too thinking about leaving your wife.

>>508841983
I find women calling me "daddy" extremely creepy and off-putting. It really bothers me that everyone else is so turned on by it. What the fuck is wrong with people?

>>508841376
Good reply, but I have to ask...is this AI assisted or do you just use proper grammar?

>it--whatever "it" is--was

I know AI loves to use the em dash

>>508841504
Na same. Bro never took the time for himself and let the joy be tucked out of life. His only hobby is probably listening to podcast on his commute. Truly brutal.

>>508840855
>>508841376
I can empathize with your friend. I also disagree with the abyss take.

It's the shift from charging forward to your goals and stupid adventures with a high appetite for risk to something more subdued and risk-adverse. When you have a wife, family, home, your risk profile changes. You have people depending on you as their provider, protector, and leader. Your risk appetite is still high, but the risks you are now encountering are low to moderate. You continue to work the career you've been in for over a decade to keep the paycheque coming in to pay your mortgage and afford a comfortable life, you maintain your family's environment to keep them safe, and the replacement for your stupid adventures is now going to the park or getting ice cream. Men are wired to be fighting, conquering, adventurous beings. Running a family, while fulfilling, doesn't provide the same thrill. Men's have become like domesticated women in the modern age with little opportunity to do what makes them actually feel like a men.

>>508842637
I would say you're more likely bored of your job and you shift your attention to porn and then find yourself running on empty by the time your girl is home.
If you cant get yourself more engaged with work maybe its time for a new position, or get a dog so you have it taking up too much of your time to cranking your pecker all day.
I used to jerk off at work multiple times a day to waste time because I was bored, it was a routine to waste time. Ever since I got a more engaging job I only really ever goon out when my girls been too tired or she's gone for the weekend.
You're also turning your desire for a new job into a desire for a new girl because you haven't actualized the issue to yourself yet and are mentally throwing darts at whats making you unhappy

>>508836135 (OP)
Kek, fell for the "this is how humans are supposed to live" meme

>>508836440
Dude needs to tell his wife how he feels. All I ask from mine is that kids are healthy and she drains my balls every other day. Is the grind unforgiving and cruel? Yes. Do I always get the immediate recognition for every little sacrifice I make? No. If you walked into marriage and parenthood believing the universe will suddenly give you the validation you need to keep going your gonna have a bad time

>>508836135 (OP)
Any man who has to talk about himself and write about his feelings is gay.

>>508840182
what? elaborate?

>>508840421
>I just increasingly realized she could never understand me or share my soul and it was as impossible as understanding assembly language verbally.
Extremely gay. Women are for sharing your DICK with

>>508837370
Where did you get your dick wet during that period of your life?

>>508838811

Things change when you genuinely enjoy seeing your kids do stuff.

My wife is 6 feet tall and gives me a 30-60 minute massage every morning.


Open access sex policy so lots of spontaneous fun.

Bought and sold homes, lived in an RV together
Had kids. It's pretty cool

Im.40 amd she's 35. Been together like 25 years

>>508840421
>I just increasingly realized she could never understand me or share my soul and it was as impossible as understanding assembly language verbally
Twinks don't have this issue but /pol/ isn't ready for that conversation. The rare monogamous fag couple may be the luckiest in the long run.

>>508840708
>>All of the kids failed to launch.

how the fuck did that happen? You're not supposed to check out and just turn yourself into a living atm. Honestly most people are too self-centered to raise children correctly or even have them in the first place.

>>508836856
https://youtu.be/vJXSnlTOta0

>>508842852
not the guy but I doubt it. kinda repetitive wordage, and that's not how you use a semicolon to separate thought. in any case - if you even care - this is probably the most appropriate way to use it. you definitely don't go double double

>>508843352
>open access sex policy so lots of spontaneous fun.
What is that, cuckshit?

>>508836393
SSRI's seem like the ultimate scam. In exchange for not feeling mopey you instead feel like a dissociating husk that wants to kill and ruin every good thing you have ever had in your life until you are surrounded by ashes? And people actually think that's a good trade deal? Just get shitfaced stoned on edibles. Yeah you're still using drugs to dissociate from your problems but at least that will just turn you scatterbrained and goofy for a few hours. The other one just turns you into a robotic zombie that lacks the mental restraint to not kill itself.

>>508836135 (OP)
based goyim
monogamy and a loving marriage is bad for you, 13 reasons why!

Love is a choice.

>>508843598
You've been here too long. It means they both understand either of them can initiate at any time.

>>508841807
That's not the reddit guy's problem. He's detached because he wants her to show interest in him first.

>>508836135 (OP)
Total Kike Death heals the world, including redditors.

>>508841060
Fags like you get mad about this stuff because you've centered your whole life around this fantasy you can have a family and you become manly-man who ceases to have needs or desires. And when someone points out it's almost never the case your whole world shatters because "that's not how it's supposed to be." Some of you bitches and unironic incels need to grow the fuck up. Probably why half of you types don't even talk to women in the 1st place.

>>508838180
Nigger there is no woman on earth who would be fine with her husband going out solo to bars/nightclubs. And the resort thing? Good luck trying to get her to do more than just move around the pool.

>>508837514
christ, shut the fuck up you miserable old roastoid

>>508836856
Thanks anon, this did more for me than you'll ever know

>>508836135 (OP)
A woman or a fag with the mind of a woman wrote that. Sick shit.

>>508844617
Sounds like you're a shitty inactive father as well. Im sure you will blame your poor wife when your son becomes trans and prostitutes themselves out to old gay kikes but deep in your heart you will know its your fault for never showing him what a man was.

>>508837514

Women exist to nag. They exist to create problems, drama and burdens where there are none. It's almost an art form when appreciated from a distance but death by a thousand cuts when you're living in it. If there's nothing that needs doing they'll invent something it's torturous.
Then when you've had enough you snap and tell them to shut the fuck up and then they cry and get all argumentative about how you don't pull your weight. Then you tell them to shut up again and they storm off in a huff. Then you go upstairs, pin them face down on the bed and blow their back out. Then they're like little kittens, making tea, doing the washing up, fetching you a drink.
It goes round and round like this. They have a relentless need to be led and dominated. They're not adults in their own right. If you're a chill guy like me who prefers to give people their own agency and live and let live and all they will walk all over you, they can't help it. Appeasement and compromise don't work you've got to be dominant almost to the point of abuse or they're not happy. They're fucked in the head. It's like the meaner I am the better she is. I don't like the dynamic but it is what it is and we have a son now so I get along to get along.

>>508839334
>>508840319
>>508845250
You will never fumble the kind of girls I did to build a knowledge base of what makes a good partner.
You are the guys no arrow points to on those incel images showing how most men are unfuckable, I am one of those guys with lots of arrows.
I come off as a woman to you because I can actually communicate with them and do on a daily basis and usually agree with their views on men. Literally all you fat retards do is advocate for marital rape and forced brides like a bunch of fucking pussy commies

>>508836135 (OP)
fuck this sounds like my brother in law

>>508836135 (OP)
Isn't this exactly how women think? Like to a T? Don't women complain that they end up feeling "out of love" after 6-24 months because the relationship is too stable and too productive?
This is pretty gay, I say do it though lmao, give them a taste of their own medicine. Enjoy getting divorce raped though.

>>508846901
dude its 2025 you can just come out of the closet, being gay isnt a big deal anymore

>>508838811
Have you seen people in their 40s without kids? Completely broken.
Your woman will leave you if you don’t impregnate her. You should decide quickly if you’re going to do it.

>>508840677
>>508846901
dude you're literally fucking gay. you sound like a submissive fucking bitch and you are mad that you don't understand women so you're raging at literally everyone here. even guys who are married and have 5 kids. all you have is some dumb whore who has been with 10 other guys before you. if you really are a "le 6'2 gigachad with an inheritance' then it's no surprise that you are one stupid motherfucker and think you have it figured out when you really don't. you might have sex with dumb whores who dated black guys but you are already old and you don't understand how women actually operate. you're lost.

>>508836135 (OP)
What's it like to have a relationship? I know it's probably torture for people if they feel the need to divorce but I can't help being jealous since I'm completely socially isolated and can't even make friends online. So even a dysfunctional relationship is something I'm envious of.

>>508847795
Not being a footfag would be a good start.

>>508839054
>Nigger I am such a man that my ex's literally give up on being straight women after I am done fucking them.

>jeet turns straight women gay because of the smell
>even in his fantasies women are so repulsed by him they turn gay

this is a strange kind of meta-larp

>>508838572
You tried really hard to appear reasonable but you just couldn't help yourself but invoke mutt's law kek
Back to plebbit with you ramjeesh

>>508847694
>>508847509
I've been in relationships consistently since I was 17 and I am 30. If I were gay I would still be a fuck ton more successful at being straight than you ever will be, whats your excuse?
So what you're telling me is that you, a fucking loser with no experience with women, understand how women operate better than I do, seems unlikely.

>>508848111
Cope

>>508836393
They changed my life

>>508848187
Im a feather not a dot, women cant resist the Redcorn

>>508836856

>>508841642
it isnt hard to keep a wife happy. make her an ice cream, surprise movie or show. keep things up around the house. don't be irresponsible. if she nags you, tell her you need a priorities meeting, and give her things to do that'll make your life better, then you won't resent making her life better. mutual benefit. if her clothes look tattered tell her to buy herself something. acknowledge her effort. It might sound like a lot to a selfish fuck, but it takes almost no effort on your part

>>508843215
I don’t need a wife for that, if I want it. But I’m not that interested in sex if there isn’t something deeper there. It’s enjoyable but not a blissful experience for me unless it’s with someone I really enjoy spending time with and that tends to fade with any woman I’ve been with for over three months, if that

>>508843437
I have considered dating men for this reason but I can’t connect with homosexuals, I don’t like their culture and I don’t like effeminate men. I can emotionally bond in straight friendships, sort of, but homos give me the creeps if the relationship is too close, even if I don’t feel animosity toward them in general. Overall I feel less lonely being by myself than with people I can’t connect to.

>>508848241
Of course you've been in relationships consistently. I know your type very well. You're a fucking fag. You beg for vagina like a dog. You are the most submissive man possible. But because you get laid so much you've never had time to reflect on it. You can pound and pound and pound away but you'll never be a dad unless you do some more soul searching. Seems like you're doing a good job in this thread. Keep going little faggot.

>>508836135 (OP)
What a mentally ill retard.

>>508848111
Lmfao
But yea weebs only deserve to be alone

>>508837370
>Around 7-10 years your monkey brain wants new pussy.
Same except after 1 night. This is why I won't marry.

>>508848663
Ever have a woman look you in the eyes with excitement to shove your cock in her mouth? Again, guys like me don't have to beg. You're like a peasant looking at a noble, your peon brain unable to understand any aspect of my being.

>>508848880
>20pbtid
Get a grip, you act like a 13 year old who just fucked his first pussy and is telling all his friends.

This isn't impressive to adults.

>>508836135 (OP)
To be fair his wife should be taking an interest in him and at least asking how his work is doing and it's strange she isn't. Though that's something they could talk about instead of just building resentment until you eventually divorce.

>>508836440
No you don't. You only want what you don't have. You want an attractive girl that suckles on your dick and gives you nice feelings. The second she squeezes out two bastards and becomes a fat snoring ogre that sleeps next to you every. Single. Night. You'll wish you were alone. Shut the fuck up you little faggot bitch.

>>508849213
No I am having a hard time in life with my grandmother who raised me losing her sanity and being in a hospital and shitting on you guys makes me feel better about myself.

He forgot the most important thing about life, wife and kids are just one part of your life, at the end of the day, you are still just one individual in your own pursuit of happiness.

>>508837581
The fact that so many people don't believe in god or believe in different gods is proof that god is in fact not self-evident. Unless you're trying to suggest that only your religion houses rational people and everyone else is just being irrational.

>>508848731
You're a memeflaggot commie, don't try and act above anyone bucko

Being a father must be a fucking nightmare nowadays
>kids are ipad kids
>can't relate to them at all as all they watch is bullshit tiktok and play shitty roblox games

>>508849626
Full blown materialist atheism didn't even exist before the 18th century, which points very strongly to it being just one of the many retarded civilization destroying ideas that spawned out of that time period.

As to different people having different religions, the existence of the divine is self-evident but that doesn't mean its nature is self-evident. That's a whole other conversation you aren't equipped to participate in though.

>>508838592
>>508837370

sometimes this place feels like some /r9k/ alt board but then you anons mention some real shit.

>>508849897
Humanity is like 300,000 years old. I'm sure atheism was invented before the 18th century.