Thread 509457420

How does /pol/ feel about spanking your kids? Were you spanked? Is it ever appropriate?

>what do you guys think?
Read the rules.

15 min closed hand beatings for getting in trouble.
Slap to the face or punched for minor things like rolling my eyes.
Smacked with a wooden spoon for using my left hand.
If they microwaved food for me it would be done to deliberately burn my mouth.
Was not allowed to drink water except one cup at lunch, and one cup at dinner, kept in a permanent state of dehydration for alot of my childhood, had chapped to fuck lips but "we can't afford" lip chap so it's either suffer or wear lipstick.
>Those were literally my only two options.
They fed me cereal with bugs in it, deliberately and then went and told all their friends so I'd be ridiculed.
Anytime I did anything embarrassing they were on the phone WITHIN THE MINUTE telling someone.
I don't talk to my mother or grandmother and have no plans on interacting with my family in any capacity anymore.
My grandmother deserves to have acid thrown in her face and be swung from her neck in public.


Oh, any anytime someone beat or bullied me, I would get the shit absolutely kicked out of my by my mom for standing up for myself to the point I developed learned helplessness, and my grandmother (whom I didn't know was a sadist at the time) would gleefully tell me violence is never okay.
"But just because they do it to you doesn't mean it's okay."
And they railroaded me using the mental health system so I was absolutely looked at and told I was the problem.
Major mental health improvements within a week of moving halfway across the country, am now a functioning member of society and doing /very well/ for myself.

We used to thrown across the room or told to go outside when it's 105+ degrees

>>509457420 (OP)
I spank other peoples kids.

SM4SH

>>509458176
Kek. Somebody needs to do the jobs that unspanked liberal parents are afraid of.

I think that if you beat a child, that child has the right to treat you in the exact same manner you treat it.

I don't feel feeling in my face, I have partial facial paralysis and don't have the proper facial reactions to stimulus.
Also took so many blows to the head I developed epilepsy that was magically cured when she switched from punching me in the face to slaps across the face.
What sort of person beats a 4 year old for not listening to it, or beats a child for saying "I don't know"
To any parents here, how many times a day does a child say I don't know.

Also as an adult I tried talking to mother about it.
Zero remorse or responsibility for her actions what so ever, so I cut her out of my life after talking to a girl I liked and came to the conclusion I gave her the ick by being open and talking about how abused I was, also because my dad beat her, it's okay for her to beat me, and my grandmother fully approved of this and conditioned me to believe it.


Women don't want men who are beaten into submission, they want people who will carpe diem and be Chad, I was never allowed to be Chad and fed straight bullshit from age 10 about how it's "my responsibility" to be a real man, and step up where another man stepped down.

The vast majority of the dating advice I recieved is essentially "don't have children, let yourself be abused"
Also after she sent me to my dad's she ran to the hospital and said I was suicidal and had me committed for two weeks.


I will never be allowed to own firearms, serve overseas, or don a uniform because of her.

>>509458003
>Read the rules

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What rule am I violating faggot? Spanking and child-rearing is an important subject to a society with great differences in perspectives across political affiliations. Also there is a sub about fucking sunscreen on this bullshit board with 81 replies so don't tell my I'm off topic, nigger.

>>509457420 (OP)
>not a blue board
>tamest spanking pic one can find

>>509458487
>sub
I mean post. redditard wording stuck in my head.

>>509458100
You were allowed to go outside?

My bed time was 7pm the whole time I lived with my mom.
I was not allowed to leave the yard under any circumstances.

Also she would leave toy guns laying around and then beat the absolute fuck out of me for picking them up and playing with them,


Like real talk the only way to deal with these two people is throwing acid in their face, the lengths they have gone too to insure nobody believes me, or I'm looked at as if I have three heads is unreal.
I've tried talking to people I grew up with about her and it's dr Jekyll and Mr hide.


Their some of the nicest people you would ever meet, pillars of the community.

>>509457420 (OP)
If your kid does something bad enough to spank them you fucked up as a parent.

>>509457420 (OP)
It should happen more often and it should especially happen at school

>>509457420 (OP)
My dad beat the shit out of me, because his dad did that. But my great grandpa didn’t, my grandpa was just a fucking retard with low impulse control. A spoiled fuck who had every privilege life could afford him, and wasted it, then took it out on my dad. I’m not bitter to my dad at all, just my grandpa.
I will not lay hands on my own kids. So it took us roughly 2 generations of this bad habit to turn it around.

>>509458022
>and then everybody clapped

>>509457420 (OP)
I'm in my mid 40s.
My mates all have kids and they're all strictly against smacking them.

Most of their kids are borderline autistic and have these weird social/mental problems. They take them to these scam new-age councellors non stop where they lecture them about "mindfullness" etc and it costs them a fortune and they never show any improvement.

It's fucking maddening.

>>509458022
I'm proud of you anon. Boomers have to go.

>>509457420 (OP)
How old before you should pick a fistfight with your dad?

>>509458648
What if you are in a bad environment and their surrounding influences give them the impulses to rebel and lash out? What about the impacts of their environment on their behavior that you need to correct?

>>509458176
school teachers used to get paid to do this until up until like 50 years ago, pretty sure the Catholics still do it

>>509457420 (OP)
It is usually appropriate, we do not spank our kids enough,l. I bet the "e""""Autism""""e or the "e""""trans""""e rate would aluminum if we hit our kids more.

>>509458648
>Leave plate of cookies on counter.
>Hide.
>Wait for child to come by and take one.
>Mercilessly beat it for taking a cookie.
Anon, some people manufacture situations just so they can beat you for what you did.
Also one time she had a dog and a shock collar, it was pure sadism, Hitler was ABSOLUTELY right about judging people by how they treat animals.

She shocked it non stop for every minor thing it did, anything a dog normally does, it was shocked for.
Also hiding around the corner, eavesdropping and then punching you in the face if you swore or said something bad, or told a lie.
I'm pretty sure my nasal cavity is partially collapsed from all the punches I took to the face too.


Seriously anons. Throwing acid in their faces is the ONLY way to deal with a sadist who abused children.

>>509458628
Yes it was the 1990s things were different. Being told to go outside in the heat as punishment was minor compared to other abuses

>>509458022
Hey anon, just wanted to say I relate. I fully understand. Glad that you managed to parent yourself and move along strong without crumbling. Those sort of cruel shit shouldnt have happened to anyone but it happens. You arent alone. Dont fall for showing mercy, dont doubt yourself and keep up the good work.

>>509457420 (OP)
Maybe illegal for parents but strangers should be able to give them huge ass whoopings

>>509458847
40. If you want to win.

If a parent beats their child and that child goes on to shoot up a school, is the parent to blame?

>>509458022
Cool story, bro

I was beaten as a child I turned out fine

>>509459012
yes, for not beating enough

>>509458916
Jewgle AI wants to hide the truth.

It is usually appropriate, we do not spank our kids enough. I bet the "e""""Autism""""e or the "e""""trans""""e rate would plummet if we hit our kids more.

>>509457420 (OP)
More people need to do it. Children learn discipline that way.

>>509458797
If you ever see anyone advocating for violence against boomers, or instructing people on methods of spreading dandelions with the explicit goal of driving boomers insane...
Something I did last summer is openly talk about how boomers are to blame for all the faults in Canada loudly.
It's hilarious how they duck and make themselves smaller just to "avoid" you.


I also believe in giving boomers the same choice I was given, join the forces, or put a rifle round through the back of your head.

>>509458874
If they succumb to the influence of bad kids you haven't provided them with the tools to stand up for their own principles. There's plenty of good people that grow up in the hood and don't end up in prison. Those people had intelligent loving parents that they can emulate. Your kids become mini versions of you. It's kind of scary.

>>509457420 (OP)
>How does /pol/ feel about spanking your kids?
Beat your children when they are little, so the police don't beat them when they are grown.

>Were you spanked?
Yes.
My father was a cop, as was I.

>Is it ever appropriate?
YES.
If you hate your children, leave them undisciplined.
It is the worst thing you can do to them...aside from letting a single mother raise them.

>>509457420 (OP)
if you beat your kids you deserve to get raped by a pack of aids riddled crackheads

>>509458628
Being raised by narcissists is challenging, but you can move on. Don't let them win your soul.

>>509457420 (OP)
h-hot

>>509458410
Man it must be rough growing up in India. Its okay rajeret, they can't hurt you anymore.

sometimes my dad would hit me if I didn't want to go to school.

>>509458977
Thanks turkanon.
One struggle.


I don't want it to happen to others.
I've seen the long term effects and the cool part about my high paying job that gives me a decent standard of living is I'm surrounded by women and people who are abused, and I get to put my skills to work helping them,

>>509458971
Meh. They treated me like shit and covered for sexual predators in the family making every excuse for them cause they thought they might get something out of it (they didn't) or "it would look bad".


You anons truely have no idea how evil boomers are.

>>509457420 (OP)
Only brown people do that

>>509457420 (OP)
Retarded and for niggers. If you're so uncreative that you can't discipline your children without hitting them then you should not be a parent.
If you wouldn't hit your grandma with dementia you have no right to lay a hand on your children.

Child abuse is the largest public health crisis in the world and I will die on that hill. If you spank your children you are a nigger.

>>509459338
>If you wouldn't hit your grandma with dementia you have no right to lay a hand on your children.

I'm not saying one side is right but how exactly does this relate to discipline via spanking?

>>509459338

Then you’ll die for nothing, people like you are why we have welfare queens jeet

>>509459218
I already won anon.

I'm glad I got out. I sent like 20g worth of tools and alot of money back home with the intention of opening a company.

When I got back, I was told I couldn't cut the grass, we can't afford saw horses, we can't afford wood, we have to use moldy pallets.
They told me, despite doing it 80+ times, I can't fix a door.
All it was was an exercise in buck breaking me.


Also having to deal with hoarding and the "game" of constantly moving things around 30 times to do work, and then moving them around is a disease.

If you have hoarders in the family douse the house in gas and light it on fire, don't ever help a hoarder.

SERIOUSLY ANONS. DO NOT EVER HELP A HOARDER.

>>509459308
There's also low IQ whites that do it. Plus alcoholics that may actually be smart but the alcohol turns them into animals.

>>509457420 (OP)
My dad would hit me and spank me and throw things across the house. When he “realized” it was bad for kids, he switched to locking me in my room for days

I thank him for this because as a result I trust nothing and no one and that’s why I’m here today.

>>509459436
Dementia patients often lack discipline and understanding of causality. If you have spent any time around people with early-mid level dementia, they will seem very similar to young children.
>>509459481
Holy shit! a talking monkey!

>>509459436
I absolutely would hit my grandmother with or without dementia.


Have you ever been tortured with dull hair clippers?

>>509458569
>redditard wording stuck in my head.
then go back dumb nigger

>>509458793
My only friend who lightly smacked his kids against his wife's wishes has normal kids now, the rest are on drugs or yeah going to shrinks.
Kids cannot into logic and reason. You can't explain to them why they shouldn't do something because they have no clue what you're saying. If you smack them they will remember.

They're going to get smacked eventually by another kid anyway if that behavior isn't checked

>>509457420 (OP)
You can usually grab a child's wrist and give them that "I am about to fucking throttle you, and I could kill you in thirty seconds, that's worth considering if you don't cut this shit out now," look and they course-correct pretty quickly.

Spanking is fine. You should not take any quantum of pleasure or relief from hitting a child because of your anger. It's a punitive threat, first, and if they continue acting out I see nothing wrong with paddling an ass.

The only controversial opinion I have is that I do wish that spanking adult women was normalized.

>>509459546
What about people who sit there, watch you be abused

Smile and say "if I didn't see it, it didn't happen"
Is that....evil, or is that dementia.


What if you deliberately harm someone, and then say "well, I didn't know"

>>509458100
Thats bad though retard

>>509459591
I only use Reddit for info about programming and job searching. This is my designated shitposting and discussion website so fuck off.

>>509458176
>I spank other peoples kids.
#ME TOO!

>>509459531
My dad never hit me but he was so abusive that it created the justification for me to be beaten in his stead.

Scapegoating and sins of the father.

>>509459242
>Man it must be rough growing up in India. Its okay rajeret, they can't hurt you anymore.
BDSM Pajeet style.

>>509457420 (OP)
reason with your kid and tell him why it's bad to do certain things. i did that with my little cousiin and it worked. he never needed a spanking

i don't think spanking works. black parents beat the shit out of their kids and their kids grow up to be criminals

>>509459523
>SERIOUSLY ANONS. DO NOT EVER HELP A HOARDER
Uhh, my entire family is hoarders, bro.
There's currently no space on my counters (pic related)

>>509459923
What is the worst thing your cousin ever did?

why do women like being spanked? fuckin weird.

>>509459979
>hoarder bathroom
Anon that's just what a bathroom looks like when a woman uses it regularly.

>>509459923

It’s because they don’t anon, spoil the child or use the rod. Your friend knows the difference

>>509460006
he never did anything bad

I spanked my cat once for pissing on the carpet and I felt bad for a few days.

>>509457420 (OP)
For young kids with no senseless traumas like vax and circumcision, with both biological parents, and who are healthy, I'm convinced even toddlers want to be obedient. Mine will get a warning and if they violate it they get smacked on their ass or leg just below the crying threshold and that's enough to stop the behavior 99/100 times. So far so good. By far the most obedient, happy kids I've ever met. They both also sleep 14-16 hours per day so that helps

have moral discussions with your kids. They will learn not to do bad things

>>509459923
Spanking and abuse don't work.


The end result is I'm never more than 3' away from a knife, axe, weapon.
I seriously hide knives all over the place to keep myself safe, it's the most fucked up thing ever and I only realized it's a side effect of abuse recently.
80% of the time I have an Olfa on me regardless of if I'm working just cause it's a weapon.
I have to do this to feel safe, or I feel naked and....not right.
Hatchet in the driver side door, framing hammer when you open the hatch.
2 knives stashed in my room.


Also I was "never allowed" to defend myself or stick up to bullies So I was made a target and they picked on me.

Odd seeing them as adults and doing significantly better than most.
To all the young anons, alot of the people who are mean to you as a kid/teen will be dead by 25.

It's not worth wearing a trenchcoat and going to school over.

>>509457420 (OP)
Yes. I had abusive parents. Mother struck me until I was too big, then she destroyed me psychologically and ruined all of our lives...

>>509457420 (OP)
Is this what this belgian rodent ment?

>>509457420 (OP)
I support it when done correctly and properly.

>>509460131
Well it seems like he was just a good kid I'm talking about those who may be a little more obstinate and less willing to listen to reason.

>>509458003
>>509457420 (OP)
That's hot, I love seeing little girls get spanked.

Sometimes I go to the park or an elementary school that's releasing little girls and spank them while telling them to behave or else I'm going to have to report them to their parents, they never tell on me lol

you just make your kids fear you and hate you by spanking them
i don't think it stops them from getting into trouble. it just encourage them to lie so they get spanked

>>509458797
Nothing says Boomer like destroying their descendants heritage and lives..

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanking doesn't even hurt the kid. It does however humiliate them in public which is why its so effective. It would be nice if schools could dish out corporal punishment once again.

>>509457420 (OP)
I spanked my step daughter once and she moaned
I never did it again
She was more affectionate and respectful to me after it though

>>509460388
How are you niggers so infinitely capable of making everything into a pedophiliac fantasy?

>>509459979
https://youtu.be/cOy6hqzfsAs?si=Tidyq5gWOm98-D0q

And deep breathing.
Fuck biohazard Tom, the time for screaming is NOOOOOOW.


Funny thing is that they throw out all my shit if I leave it outside of its designated area, or if they don't like it.

Here's a screenshot of me confronting a hoarder after years of being fed years old expired food. You can't reason with them, their sick in the head.

Your not allowed to use the box of cheap disposable razors, but you can use your grandfathers (who's been dead for 6y now) old 1970s razor style razor and soap block.
She worked in a hospital and does shit like this too, also takes gleeful delight in "tricking" people and making them eat shit like this.
I can't deal with it in any capacity anymore. My roommate is muh OCD and the whole house looks like that picture. It's soul crushing.

Parents beat the shit out of me when I was a kid, leather belt.
Now they're both in a shitty nursing home being treated like shit.
Guess it balances out in the end

>>509458022
Now give me a cookie recipe.

>>509460388
based

>>509458100
Nice try, but I learned on /pol/ it was never hotter than 90 before 2004.
Take that, chud.
Also, "The Grapes of Wrath" is a science-fiction novel, depicting a summer in the 1920's so hot the grapes don't grow.

>>509460501
fuck me nice bait...brutal

>>509459979
Rate my government issued bathroom.

>>509460270

Fucking jeet, become a parent first. I was beaten as child and I turned out fine

>>509460757
>I'm too scared to reveal myself while doing the nazi salute
lol faggot

>>509457420 (OP)
>spank my kids
>spank my wife
>spank my sister
>spank my female cousins
I literally spank all the women in my life when they get out of line other than my mother and aunties.

>>509460757
>No morning whiskey bottle

Fail

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanking is less common nowadays, yet /pol/ look to the past as the golden age of US.

>>509458022
Sounds about right, this idea that leafs are some wonderfully nice people is funny.
My dad used to drive 90mph swerving for the ditch at telephone poles ranting and screaming and making everyone beg him to stop.

>>509460892
When was the last time you spanked one of them? Why? Do not lie because I will know.

>>509460796
Saar?

>>509460851
it's a "Roman"

We don't do Nazi salutes anymore we throw and catch Romans.

t. Actually doxxed in a de.rad program.


Here's a picture of me infiltrating Antifa, while dressed as a Nazi

>>509460892
I kissed a cousin awkwardly once...just a manic peck....we were both adults in our 30s...

Then the MeToo movement came out, and she (an obese pig from alcoholic parents) suddenly went full LGBT annouced she was a victim of sexual assault to the family and moved in with a Tomboy dike.
>NeverBeenBackSince.jpeg

>>509457420 (OP)
Yes but not in a gay way

>>509461112
I had a boss like that, would constantly threaten to drive into oncoming, or drive super erratically if you closed your eyes.
Rip ear buds out of your ears for not listening.

He uhh, had a work accident.
No further comment.


It's pretty common to be terrorized by your fellow leafs, the definition of terrorism is pretty much how many of us were raised.
It's the constant threat of "or else" that keeps people in line, but the second you raise a hand and swat away the clenched fist...

Watch how they recoil in fear, "I've been found out"
>And then they dial 911 and cry you hit them and their terrified and your also planning Brenton Tarrant style attacks on people of color.

And now that your on probation, and released into their custody, it's

"Or else you'll go to jail"


t. Fully expects 10.5 million from operation headwind.

>>509460757
Nein out of ten

>>509457420 (OP)
It's not a punishment that should be filed out lightly, but sometimes it's necessary. Gen Z never heard the terrifying sound of a leather belt swishing through the loops of a pair of Wrangler jeans. That's why they're ramen haired pantywaists.

>>509458022
Oh you've met my parents

>>509459127
Gotta be careful with personality types for that with your rents
Mine started physical altercations with me then called the police saying I tried to murder them

>>509460501
Spanking is all about the humiliation, about establishing a clear and unmistakeable hierarchy. When my daughters turned 11, I added anal penetration to the spanking to make my position clearer. That combination of pain and humiliation works wonders, turns then from sassy little brats into obedient little angels in less than 30 minutes. Much better than spanking alone. My oldest is married now, but she still comes and asks me to punish her from time to time. Her husband thinks our kids are his.

>>509461491
Danke, mien Bürgerfuher.

>>509459338
be honest, do you consider circumcision child abuse?

I want somebody to spank me, i've been naughty

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanking doesn't work. You should give timeouts instead.

>>509461628
Lmao, oh no we're fine.

We have worked together for 4 years, and lived together for two, we would have killed eachother by now.
Fucking asshole used high pressure sales tactics and made me buy a truck, now I'm broke. Fucking piece of shit.


He taught me how to do my profession, I give him free labor in gratitude.
>His boomer dad absolutely fucking seethes that I work for free and then just decides "he shouldn't have too" pay for me
>After I show up with 90% of the tools.

>>509461802
It objectively is.

>>509461469
>Watch how they recoil in fear, "I've been found out"
This literal is what happened to me...I stood up to my bipolar mother and step father one time...I was out of the house and the dumped into a boarding school within days...and then the Nightmare just continued.

>>509457420 (OP)
I'd prefer to have a wife to spank, but that's just me.

>>509460599
>can barely write
>mad about a couple boxes in the back of a cupboard
>makes a spectacle about it
unhinged. nobody cares faggotron

>>509461667
>try anal penetration punishment
>wife divorces me
>calls the police
>they let me off because they do it too
Why are women like this?

>>509458022
You go by they/them now,xar?

>>509462025
I only ever stuck up to them as an adult.

Force fed them their own words and brought up all the fucked up shit she does infront of her new husband.
She was jumping and moving like she was electrified. Odd behavior for someone who needs a cane.

Just straight denial. Then I asked her about the hair clippers and she said their fine cause she cuts his hair with them, and I looked at him, and the dude sighed and looked like he was going to cry.


I /almost/ feel sorry for him, then I remembered he's pilfering the gold coin horde while she "turns a blind eye"

He's stealing from me, my brothers, to give to his children, and she sits there and lets him.


When the boomer Lord died we were all told we could have "one thing"
So I asked for the rifles.
>No.
My 1/5 the stake of the coin horde.
>No.
A 50$ pocket knife.
>No.

And then she comes out and gives me a dead man's socks. , and tells me "how he would have wanted me to have them", and their still good.

So I walked downstairs (redacted )the .357 he got off the local dirty cop, it hasn't been seen since. Nobody knows where it went.

I disavowed that faggot Stephan Molyneaux when he came out with that video about how you shouldnt spank your kids. And in my mind since he has been nothing but a faggot.

>>509460757
I'd give it a 14 out of 88.

>>509457420 (OP)
my wife loves being spanked and it’s very sexual for us
so trying to spank my kids would be really, really weird. it’d be like trying to have sex with them. I couldn’t.

>>509462282
I prefer
Auf panzer.


Or "tIIii guur"

See the Black community. They beat their kids all days, none of them grow up into a faggotl sadly they have that violent gene though.

>>509462469
There are tons of down-low niggers in the ghetto. They don’t care if dicks touch when railing a hooker. They’d fuck a femboy at any chance before beating him and calling him a faggot. They’d make enemy gangs suck their dicks.

>>509460591
I like to use her salty tears as lube so the rape actually hurts her and it's entirely her own fault for making a big deal out of nothing

If I can get her snotting then there's definitely going to be a round 2, possibly in her ass

>>509457420 (OP)
Women like to be spanked during sexy times. So when you discipline your kids, find some way to do it that doesn't also turn your wife on during sex. Because other wise you're crossing wires.

>>509458410
>so I cut her out of my life after talking to a girl I liked and came to the conclusion I gave her the ick by being open and talking about how abused I was
Bro, as a general rule never tell a woman your feelings be it your mother, sister, cousin, friend, girlfriend, wife, whatever, because the moment you do that they will think you're trash.

My dad used spank me with several stuff: hand, flip flops, shoe, magazine rolled up as burrito, clothes hanger, belt.

At the age 10 i stop giving a shit and i stop crying for the pain, i just accept it.

Now as adult i just noticed i can't fall in love with any woman and im not able to love anyone. I feel sexual arouse beating women into bdsm shit, im not antisocial, so everything i do is with consent.

>>509462469
It's the low impulse control. They are a spinal-cord species. That's why liberal whites are such a problem, their proclivity to outgroup preference will compel them to undermine (or facilitate by virtue of the fact) other whites on behalf of minorities so as not to be "immoral."

>>509462660
>Now as adult i just noticed i can't fall in love with any woman and im not able to love anyone.
That's because you hate yourself now, not because your father disciplined you two decades ago.

>>509462558
I dont know any black or browm being a faggot. Only Whites who lack the beating to straighten themselves.

>>509457420 (OP)
I'm OK with it if I get to touch lolibutt

>>509460757
Is that box cutter so you can cut yourself like a little faggot bitch?

>>509462660
You're just projecting.

Abuse is notoriously generational, you'll probably beat your kids just the same if you don't sort yourself out

>>509457420 (OP)
My mom spanked me and now I browse /pol/ 6 hours a day. Turned out fine desu

>>509459765
>I only use Reddit for info about programming and job searching.
go back dumb nigger

>>509462778
this whole time i thought i fell in love several times but then after learn about psychology i just realized that was just sexual attraction, in other times codependency, but never love, i like to think i just developed Avoidant attachment.

I don't hate myself, i don't cut myself or do drugs like a faggot, i don't even drink or smoke.

>>509462140
Better learn to speak Indian and eat slop then Leaf...

>>509457420 (OP)
It’s similar to the relationships (or lack thereof) that cause people to turn gay

Try not being a deadbeat

>>509463077
I browse pol 18 hours a day and you didn't turn out fine, you're a loser and she should have beat you harder

>>509458487
I think you're basically asking "is X degeneracy?"
Unlike you, English is my first and only language so I recognize when people twist words.

>>509462286
If you had shot her....you wouldn't be such a fag right now.

>>509462257
>>they let me off because they do it too
>Why are women like this?
lmao.....brutal

>>509457420 (OP)
I was turned on by getting spanked. No, I am not joking.

>>509462405
My wife

>>509457420 (OP)
Yes it is.
Yes i was.
Yes it is.

Little kids are acting like retarded niggers because parents are not beting them and then "MUH CHILD IS ACTING LIKE NIGGER? AINT NO WAY IM JUST LETTING HIM ON THE PHONE 24/7 AND THEN WHEN HE HAVE NO ATTENTION HE ACTS LIKE A NIGGER IN A SCHOOL ? WHAT?!" fuck you... beat that little shitheads.

>>509462469
>They beat their kids
You misspelled Nigger.

I was always fascinated by videos of some six year old destroying an entire store and making 10.000 of dollars in damage and all the adults just stand there and look at him.
Are kids really sacred cows over there and absolutely NO ONE not even their parents is allowed to discipline them in any way?

>>509463041
Physical punishment was just part of my childhood. After learn about psychology i noticed thst my dad has traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder so he used humiliate me a lot to the point at a early age i stop giving a shit about seeking the aprobation of anybody so that shaped my personality and reinforced my Avoidant attachment

>>509462994
I use it to cut things out of my body, like shards of metal and wood.

The knife I use to cut myself is wedged between my headboard and the wall for ease of access.

>>509461993
Sounds about right
It's good he taught you something but typical to wave it in the air like you're supposed to pay off some imaginary debt by letting him watch you rot

>>509457420 (OP)
My parents rarely got physical with me but I'd get my ass beat whenever I stayed with my extended family, I'd like to say it didn't have any impact on me but now I'm only attracted to women who hit me

>>509463596
Damn bro, I thought you had free healthcare and sheeeit?

>asinine question
>lust provoking image
Yup. You’re posting in a slide thread.

Can you guys really not spank without being abusive?!
This is exactly why it's outlawed now.
I believe there's time and place for spanking. That is for willful rebellion of children aged under 6. After that they should already be obedient and capable of reasoning if told they are wrong and why they are wrong.
Spanking shouldn't be abusive and never done in anger, but rather a loving discipline that ultimately settles the wrongdoing and ends in hugs. Do not cause trauma on your children.

>>509463235
>I think you're basically asking "is X degeneracy?"
I see your point, but I think that is a stupid rule that is overly general considering numerous topics regularly discussed on this board can be essentially boiled down to "Is X degeneracy". What retarded nonsense is it to disallow discussion of moral questions on a sub about politics? In summary, fuck jannies.

>>509463606
>by letting him watch you rot.


You mean letting me renovate his basement, garage and kids rooms in exchange for not having to be subject to the abuse of my family?

Pretty good deal.

I hope you know what it's like to have your parents tell you you can't, and your too stupid to use a wrench and flip the fuck out anytime you pick up a tool, you might appreciate things a little more.


I'm happy having friends, and not being driven insane for the amusement of others and constantly gaslit and having to talk for the sake of talking, and talks all around ya, and through ya, but never listens.

East coasters are fucked in the head, they derive some sort of amusement from being idiots and bringing people down to their level,

To put it into perspective, the reason "I can't" mow the lawn, or enough space to work, is because they always want you to do things in the stupidest way possible so you get frustrated and give up,

I took a bunch of pallets and laid then on the grass for a platform instead of "mowing" the lawn and she freaked the fuck out and said I had to move them so she could mow the lawn, then I told her were not mowing the lawn, and I've already committed to action, and that I'm not doing it her stupid east coast way, or changing how I'm doing things part way through to accomodate her stupidity and calmly explained how Romans built roads FIRST, not built a bunch of shacks, and then "moved them to where she wants them" after their built.

Everything she does is so fucking stupid I refuse to involve myself in it,
She wants me to get eaten by ticks all day, and have to suffer and do things in the hardest way possible.
Can't cut down the trees so the 30ac she has is essentially a write-off since she let the scraggly trees take over and flips absolute shit if we want to cut them down before they infect the rest of the land.

I'm done with her in every capacity.
Not my fucking problem anymore.

>>509457420 (OP)
Women get really turned on by spanking because the act of sex is basically smacking your crotch into a woman's butt over and over again.

>>509458022
Stay strong out there bro, my family sucks hot dogshit as well. Pro natilist retards have never experienced the pain of growing up with deranged family

>>509464213
>sub
fuckin' hell I need to stay off of that website.

>>509463836
If by free healthcare you mean being abused by the system, being sent to 4 south, remanded to the ACT because they can't put me in juvie, or ordered to attend bullshit programs I couldn't afford and then were later held over me because "I cost money"

Yeah, sure. Throw acid in the face of probation officers too.


Our free healthcare meme and the abused children that fuel the beast is worth noting.

Operation headwind is cool cause you can abuse 140 kids and not be held in custody, but if you smoke a cigarette it's 30 days of being abused and the institution charges you if you don't like it.

>>509457420 (OP)
no
physical punishment encourages lying and deception rather than a healthy response to failure or mistake

>>509464277
>Pro natilist retards have never experienced the pain of growing up with deranged family.
I broke the cycle, my children aren't going to ever meet their grandparents or know what it was like for me.
Now that I no longer have to bear the burden of being the only one who makes money, and is looked at to support others, I'm able to save up my goybucks.


It's amazing how much money you have when you stop helping your family,
But alas, I committed the greatest sin a son of the east coast ever could.


I don't send money "back home"

>>509457420 (OP)
It's appropriate and necessary. I used to feel conflicted about it but you would have to be an idiot to not see that as soon as people stopped doing it kids went to shit.

They act like spanking your kid makes them retarded but everyone was spanked up until like the 90's. The people who went to the moon, invented electricity, open heart surgery, etc were all spanked. That's always been a meme jewish excuse because jews know if they can take that away things will go to shit. Men need to be able to physically discipline their wives and children for society to function.

>>509464512
Nah.

You force them into a position where they:

Admit their lieing and get beaten.
Say they didn't do it, beat them and call them a liar.
Admit they did it, and be beaten less, but assigned guilt.


It's about conditioning them to believe regardless of the outcome, they ///deserve/// to be beaten, classical conditioning.

>>509457420 (OP)
The argument against this is always some faggot going: "OH YEAH WELL MY PARENTS SLAMMED MY HEAD INTO A BRICK WALL THEN CUT MY EYES OUT AND SET ME ON FIRE WHILE THEY RAPED ME!!!!!!!!!!!! DO YOU STILL THINK SPANKING IS OK? HMMMMM?"

>>509464754
Having known what it's like to be beaten to the point, as an adult I can't feel my face.


I will never harm a child, unlike the boomers who did it with glee.


I openly support violence against boomers and have taken the "anyone over 65" pledge.

When the great happening is upon us, boomers get dropped regardless of circumstances.

>>509458931
I no longer believe these stories. Every single time this subject comes up these anti-spanking shills materialize out of thin air with the same moral panic bullshit about parents re-enacting a Rob Zombie movie on their kids as though it's impossible to differentiate between some jewish gore fantasy and traditional discipline that humans have used since Man was expelled from Eden.

It's truly just a ploy to take away the Father's ability to keep his household in order so they can destroy society.

>>509457420 (OP)
I do when I need them to stop doing what they’re doing right fucking now because it’s dangerous or they’re hurting one of their siblings.

>>509459436
It doesn't their only tactic is to resort to histrionics in an attempt to take advantage of the White Man's endless compassion so they can gradually destroy our society.

>>509464717
you can condition without the use of beatings or violence

in fact its more effective if you do not use punishment based reinforcement

>>509464920
It's single motherhood.

I explicitly was not allowed to have a father, and any visitation was entirely dependent on "if he paid child support"
I don't blame the guy for refusing to play her stupid games, and as much of a piece of shit as he is I do respect him for that.

One time she let me stay up till 11/12
>Note 7pm bed time.
Just telling me my dad was coming to get me, blowing smoke up my ass about how much fun we were going to have all weekend.
It was a fabrication of her mind designed to make me not like him, they absolutely will use children as weapons, or harm the child to get back at the parent.

I asked her about it and she admitted she did it,
I asked dad and he explained that he was never allowed, even when he wanted too, and that said event was all her doing.


You don't have to believe me, but for any anons who are going through what I did, leave and don't look back, go no contact.
If your underage& you have more supports to "get out" than someone who's 20+ and fucked with any time they try to escape.

Some people are sadists and genuinely take pleasure in harming people.
Out of 3 kids, none of them talk to her lol.

>>509458022
>my grandmother would gleefully tell me violence is never okay
White people are so pathetic for teaching their kids this "violence is wrong, turn the other cheek" Jewish nonsense

>>509457420 (OP)
>Were you spanked?
No, but I was put in the corner once. Maybe if my parents had a more strict approach towards me I wouldn't grow up such a pussy faggot gaylord.

>>509465319
I agree and she's why I support the Varg method of dealing with churches.

"Violence is wrong, turn the other cheek"
"It's okay for me to hurt you"
"Do x or I'll hurt you"
"Two wrongs don't make a right"


The lengths Christians go to cover up and justify abuse make a nigga wanna pledge loyalty to ISIS and start beheading christcucks.,
Also fuck white people weddings, who the fuck looks at food for 4 hours and then eats it cold.

>>509464367
I'm sorry bro, I don't understand half of what you wrote, but it sounds like you had it tough. For the absolute nothing that it's worth I, an internet stranger, am sorry you had to go through that shit.

If it's any consolation your bathrooms looks pretty OK. Just make sure you floss, nigga. That shit sneaks up on you. Maybe get a waterpick if that's in your budget.

>>509465069
I was never given rewards.

Anything I owned could be taken from me as punishment or used under strict terms,
Alot of the things I had would get thrown out or "accidentally misplaced" when they noticed I played with them.
A big thing they did would always grab my Lego base and put it in reach of a toddler, then when they grabbed it and it smashed on the floor and you had me crying, they would laugh.

After the 4th time I stopped playing with Lego.


They do this deliberately.


You don't have to believe me, or you can mock me for crying about broken Lego, but all this shit is real, and did happen to me.


I don't want anons to go through what I did, normies can be pure evil.

>>509465542
>turn the other cheek
FWIW this doesn't mean to let people walk all over you. It's a reference to ignore assholes and small slights instead of immediately chimping out like a nigger or a muslim.
>>509465399
Ironically it was my mom that hit me the most when I was a kid and I'd runt to my dad for "protection". She doesn't really remember it much any more (or doesn't want to) and I've forgiven her long ago because there's no point keeping a grudge and I now know she had a fucked up childhood herself and was just doing the only things she knew to do.

>>509457420 (OP)
Most painful punishment I got in school was having so sit on my knees, but with a square ruler underneath my knees. No resting your ass on your heels either, had to be upright.

>>509465676
Thanks fren.


Just know the "problem children" you may hear or see in your travels are probably being abused.


Ask them, or explain to them what abuse is so they know, I didn't know what child abuse was until I was an adult, it was conditioned into me to "keep quiet"
And I was looked at as defective so nobody believed me.
Mom recently brought up that as a kid I told people she was trying to poison me.
Given the.... incidents with food, force fed pills for epilepsy I didn't have, and then the constant and repeated threats on-top of being deliberately kept in a state of hunger and dehydration....


I was 240lbs at 12 years old.
I wasn't allowed to work out, or play football or any """"""violent """""" sport,
I just had 2% milk removed from my diet and was forced to drink skim milk, and then punished if it expired and I didn't drink it all.


I've aten so much expired and rotten food in my life, that anon, when I say I support the use of chemical weapons against der entwined boomer, not only will I gladly bear the sin of genocide against them,
But I would gladly pour the zyklon pellets into the gas chamber, and I'd be proud.

>>509466001
Would you consider this abuse? If it was done to your kids would you be opposed?

Nigger behaviour. It teaches kids that violence is a valid option

>>509465821
To a boomer it means

"Let people abuse you, and then turn the other cheek and let them abuse you more"


Again, see my comments regarding Varg Vikernes and supporting ISIS because of the behavior of Christians.

>>509463479
What county are you

Don’t do it

>>509466098
No.

t. Tradesman who kneels on gravel.

>>509466083
Your arms looks pretty fit so at least you rose above your weight issues. I say that without any irony because I'm still dealing with mine.
Child abuse is a challenging topic because it's impossible to fix. Even if we could 100% identify and kill the people who perpetuated it it would not bring back the childhood you (and others) were robbed of. So what to do?

I hope that, day-to-day, you don't harbor any (or a lot) of hatred in your heart. Not because I believe in that "forgive and forget" shit, but because I know that hatred weighs us down and it's easier to just spit on those people and live our best life.
Not trying to give you advice on how to live. I just hope you are not living in as much mental pain as what you are showing to random anons here ITT.

>>509457420 (OP)
>Were you spanked?
My stepfather used a belt on me. Bruised me something serious.

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanked, slapped, coffee cups and plates cracked over my head, still have bald patches and scarring on my scalp. One time, was beaten with a metal broomstick until my were legs were purple mush. Collapsed in pain going up stairs at school, CPS was called when the nurse saw me bleeding through my pants. Dad went to jail, mom guilted me and my bro into sayin nothing so she could stay out. They were horrible people even when sober, mom was never physical but she egged him on during his episodes. To her credit, she did house and feed us in that time. Dad came back home when I was 16, stayed sober for a few months in some court mandated program before getting back into his routine. One day, mom and him got into their usual drama and he tried to blow off some steam in the usual way. Except I wasn't 12 anymore. Broke his arm in two places and was into process of converting the 3rd finger on his right hand into ground beef with a hammer before neighbors pulled me off. Spent a year in juvie, word got around and other kids left me alone. Didn't start shit with the COs and was polite to those who were the same so marked for general good behavior. Also had a good social worker who compiled reports from neighbors and got me on deferred custody for my last 3 months. Went to counselling and a group home. They were decent, like an aunt and uncle who understood what I went through. Was able to spend senior year as a high school student. Haven't spoken with my bio parents in 10 years, I know dad ended up losing his entire right hand. Hope he remembers who did that.

>>509466323
I don't talk about the nice things I do.

I have a job where I can make a difference using my labor,
Recently spent 30hrs organizing and painting the shop, for free.
Painted a bunch of other things in the town, refurbished two benches and placed them where people would use them.
Last community I was in I taught a few kids how to do painting and basic tool use, once had 6 kids helping me, then they locked me out of my work truck, kek.
Spent 18mos teaching my helper, then left him all the tools he needed to do his job.
Most recent exploit is capturing two picnic tables and placing them in a scenic location.


It's not that I think I'm better than, or have things to attone for, I just think it's important that when it's 11pm and they see someone working, that it's a white person.


>I'm doing my part.

>>509466098
No, I was a little hellraiser. The little square ruler added an extra dimension to the pain, my weight was resting on it.

>>509466554
You inspire me.

Good job for using violence against those who abused you, you should go look them up on Facebook and go ask him if he forgives you.

I had a rough time in juvie and was labeled "targeting a vulnerable peer" because I didn't want to be lowest on the totem pole so I went after the unit rodent, repeatedly.

Hilarious that they repeatedly punished me for refusing to participate in swim class given the dudes abused 140 kids.

>>509464621
>my children aren't going to know what it was like for me.
Thank you for this. My mother had a horrific childhood and she trauma dumped it on me very frequently all throughout my youth. It fucked me up.
Now that I'm an adult, I've realized that parents NEED to act like the hero their kids think they are. Do not sperg out in front of your kids, don't overshare, don't regale them with all your worst memories, and don't cry in front of them, because it'll make them feel so powerless and despairing that they can't save their fucking parent.

>>509466290
Bullshit. Tradesmen have little mats to kneel on. If you don't, you're a retard.

>need to result to violence to educate a human being
Fucking retarded niggers.

>>509467244
My grandmother did the same to mom.
She went on to do it to me, grandmother covered for her and groomed me into believing I deserved it, then when I wouldn't fight back she actively participated and abused me.


The deciding factor was actually finding out that we had a few predators in the family who were being covered for by aforementioned grandmother, her sisters and their husbands.
It's okay to molest your family, cause when you do it you'll have a line up of boomers making excuses, telling you deserved it, or "must have done something".
It's actually sickening how far they will go to cover for eachother, while being the first to pick up the phone and dial 911 over.......me having a girl over.

And yeah the trauma dumping shit is real.
Despite my dad beating the fuck out of my stepmom multiple times, I actually find it hard to imagine him being violent to my mom cause I know how she is, and he never hit me.

She once beat the living fuck out of him, went down to the cop shop, had him released, and then beat the fuck out of him a second time, then one time he came home, climbed the front porch and saw her fucking his best friend's brother.

I don't hold it against him for refusing to play her stupid games, but if you had it rough and you go onto abuse your kids, you are worse than the people who abused you.

Sometimes breaking the cycle means breaking someone's hand with a hammer, like the heroic anon.


Also, boomers will cover for child molesters.

>>509466862
>spent 30hrs organizing and painting the shop, for free
Working for free is not exactly a flex, bro. If you get personal satisfaction fro this then OK, but in my experience most people don't appreciate free labor at all.
Personally I stopped all similar attempts a long time ago. I still volunteer through my church, but that's only because people on the receiving end understand that they are getting free help/labor and are GRATEFUL for it. Doesn't mean "kiss my feet", but if someone doesn't appreciate what I do for them then what's the point?

>>509467511
I'm not an electrician.
>Those colors.

Or an RCMP officer.

>>509465267
Don't care, don't believe you.

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanking kids is for peasants. Upperclass cultures all through history never did it because they wanted their children to grow up in high status positions. Beating your kids teaches them to have a low self worth and take orders and obey authority without question. High class families even had whipping boys who would take punishment on behalf of their children.

>>509467720
Yes, I know. But they cost next to nothing. I'll gladly take the ridicule if it means having more comfort.

>>509467173
I mean if your kids turned out to be hell-raisers like you would you be okay with them receiving the same punishment? No?

>>509457420 (OP)
Why is that roastie spanking a skinny midget roastie?

>>509467911
Yes. A beating is more subjective, I wouldn't be ok with someone else touching my kids. This is more disciplinary.

>>509467691
Sometimes you have to do things that suck, so that nobody ever suspects your up to no good, or doing things in the grey area.
It's kind of a mini-game we play up here in remote communities to amuse ourselves.
Last community we put 300k worth of material into stock, because it was just abandoned and still good, the locals would have just left it laying on the ground.
I ran out of weed too, so.....uhh.
The extracurricular activities will continue, until the package arrives.
>I have really bad insomnia.


I volunteer my labor to my friends, and never expect anything more than a few beer, that being said, regardless of how many years you have doing this, they aren't going to "let" you, until they see proof of craftsmanship.
>Case and spray foam a window for my stepmom to a high standard.
>Only accept baked goods as payment.

One of my next hiests is sanding and re-, painting the deck/railing at the school, I'm going to see if I can do it without being challenged or asked what I'm doing, kek.

>>509467878
I have kneepads, the cheap gardener ones are actually better than the vast majority of brand name kneepads.

The (Team red) knee brace kneepads are absolutely fucked. 0/10 threw them off after 15mins.

>>509460036
Spanking is hot as fuck. Are you gay?

>>509458410
sure thing red dit. now where's that belt? your ass seems itching...

>>509457420 (OP)
Spanking is a poor replacement for building a guiding relationship with you offspring. For example, some people suggest training cats by throwing things at them or spraying them with water, but you're trading temporary discipline for permanent resentment. With my cats, I can just tell them not to do something and they immediately listen because they know I'm a bro. I don't have kids, but that's the same type of interaction I've seen with kids who have close bonds with their parents.

>>509458022
One of my biggest fears when it comes to having kids is that i am afraid that i could not keep my cool if i found out my kid is being bullied.

>>509468555
Just make sure you don't raise little faggots.

>>509461215
based. I'd love to hear more of this story, anon

>>509464267
Spanking a woman is hot as fuck on its own.

>>509468744
Ergo you must consult the handbook
https://americanstasi.com/

>>509468555
Put them in boxing, teach them to spar, and don't give them 15 minute closed fist beatings when you see them wrestling with other kids.

I'm good at fighting, I just pick my battles, and come from behind with surprise, the downside of always getting in trouble is sometimes your the kid who pays attention and notices the weakest bully leaves a class early on day X and is alone,
So you wear camo, lay down in the woods with a stick and ambush him.

I don't like violence, but robbing drug dealers is a great rush. I miss that.

>>509468464
8/8, Bravo!