>>509657909Sounds like your someone who enjoys results (fruits of labor). Have you ever tried something easy to get into like handy work? If you have a shed or something in your yard or know someone who has one, try fixing it up for them or yourself at an even break (just ask they buy the supplies). Iv seen the most depresssed and bored fucks get excited about doing shit again. If you learn how to cut, dry wall, run some wires, and paint, you can make a lot of money without committing to more than 15-20 hours a week, and you get to choose what jobs you actually want to do. Just an idea, its not good for a boy to be brooding all day.
>>509658360thats a result of someone thinking there's no one out there for them anymore, and this girl is the only thing they can get to stick around so they endure everything and anything.
Marriage is a dangerous game to play these days I wont argue about that. You're right there are two extreme sides of of this issue but the winning move is to just not make girls the main priority of your life. If your daily routine involves "looking for a girl" in anyway shape or form, girls are your main objective in life, and its gonna blow up in your face.