>>510874694>>510874963When you're angry, arguing, or fighting with someone - you are most likely using your Shadow archetype (or rather, being used by him)
When you are actively performing towards achievements and goals (not just fantasizing about them, but doing them) - you are most likely using your Hero archetype
When you are working on creative things, like drawing, or writing poetry, composing music, or simply just enjoying those things - you are likely using your Anima (or she is using you, to be exact)
When you are solving problems, calculating, planning - you are using Logos
When you are predicting, anticipating, seeing trends and patterns - this could be Wise Old Man or some other Priestly or Prophetic archetype.
Some of these Archetypes can also be directly linked to cognitive functions (Ni/Ne, Ti/Te, Si/Se, Fi/Fe).
But it's good to remember that archetypes are templates of sort - they perform more or less similar functions in every person's mind: i.e. everyone's anima is creative, and everyone's logos is rational. But each person's anima/logos/etc are still unique in flavour, behaviour, aesthetics, autonomy, etc.
Hence why Jung can't really (nor can I) give you a direct clear roadmap as to how your archetypes look. You can only be given basic pointers where to look for them, but what you find will be uniquely yours, and nobody else's to repeat or re-experience.