Thread 516078585

This is what happens if you don't have a family.

>>516078585 (OP)
You're brown

if he's barely making ends meet alone then supporting a family would just make things even harder.

>>516078585 (OP)
This is why i am planning to amass some money before i get too old so i won't have to wage slave at 60 or even 50.

Btw boomers are waging until they are 70. This guy is clueless.

>>516078585 (OP)
Most married men are depressed and suicidal

>>516078585 (OP)
Said it before and will say it again. When legions of childless men, (and especially women), hit that wall, it's going to be infinitely more gnarly than it is right now. Yikes

>>516079189
How do you mean? Hitting the wall with children is even harder. Guys 50 and complaining about having to work just for himself. Try being in the same situation with adult kids to care for.

>>516078585 (OP)
Theo Von’s dad was 70 when he had him. Anything is possible.

>>516078865
How would you know faggot.

Good men with a healthy family realize how blessed they are.

>>516078585 (OP)
>don't have a family: die alone in a nursing home
>have a family: get divorce raped, lose everything, and then have your children dump you in a nursing home to die alone

>>516079989
Alternatively, love your wife, wisely manage your finances, and exercise consistently.

>>516079837
Well i know from watching my own father life only gets worse as you age. Everything falls apart not excluding your own body. You can't do everything yourself anymore and your kids can't pick up the slack. Just more mouths to feed...

>>516078585 (OP)
I almost had that but some whore ruined it

>>516079989
Basically this, yeah.

>>516078865 maybe for you fat american cry baby I have many wives you see

>>516078865
>>516080137
beep boop

>>516080472
who this nigga is

>>516079989
>>don't have a family: die alone in a nursing home
Alone people won't even get to the nursing home, they'll be found two months after death after the landlord wonders why the rent is late.

>>516078585 (OP)
>tfw your wife who spent her youth riding random dicks sends you a pic of her and your chimeric spawn
>(you won in life)

>>516080169
i'm not a family man, but i would still want to protect my family and those i love, i would never let them be hurt.

>>516078865
Based

>>516078585 (OP)
>Why you no breed/get married?!?
Abolish child support (sexist extortion), alimony (more sexist extortion), divorce rape (even more sexist extortion), and make hypergamy a capital offense punishable by public beheading.

>>516078865
remove the married part and you're there

Make retirement money. Move to a low cost of living SEA country. Marry a younger woman and pretend she loves you. That's my plan, anyway.

>>516080750
Hypergamy for women should be illegal. For men it should be encouraged.

>>516078585 (OP)
Vidya and shitposting is better than marriage.

>>516078585 (OP)
You are supposed to get married at 18 silly.

>>516078585 (OP)
Just go to Thailand and marry a prostitute like other boomer white guys do

>>516081050
I have tasted both. I'll take the freedom to do what I want over having to deal with womens bullshit every time, because you know the next message she sent him was asking him to pick up diapers from the store on the way home and she had invited them to dinner with one of her abhorrent friends that she bitches about constantly.

It's what I worry most about as someone nearing middle age without a family. I can't bring myself to settle for some roastie who already has kids, though. I also can't imagine myself having sex with someone I'm not attracted to, I can't even get hard without porn at this point. It truly is over.

>>516078718
I've seen plenty of welfare families - mo kids mo money.

>>516078585 (OP)
>you are in the office
>you won in life
do normies really?

>>516079837
>Good men with a healthy family realize how blessed they are.
That doesn't change the fact that most married men are depressed and suicidal.

>>516078585 (OP)
is she american? bc if she is i dont care.
u need to get a passport. do not date american women

loooooooool that whore is literally a pornstart keeek

>>516078585 (OP)
The problem with having a family is that you lose the freedom to simply leave the scene if you don't feel like continuing. You can't just eat a bullet if you have kids; that's a form of moral depravity. It will surely damn you in various way. But if you don't have a wife or kids, you can do as you please without guilt.

>>516078585 (OP)
Btw, she's fucking behind his back

>>516083444
All women have the sexual experience of a porn star by age 25. Unless you were her first in high school, you married a whore. Whatever she says she won't do sexually she already did and doesn't want to do it with you (anal, three-way etc.).

>>516078585 (OP)
I hope my parents die first
my grandparents refuse to make a will
so everything will floor to probate
and probably to her kids, first
who treated her like shit,
then ignored her,
and are recently sniffing around now that they are pushing 60
Fucking moochers
her grandkids took care of her and still do
they are fine on her own
but the grandkids are the only ones who visit and have always visited
I hope both my parents fucking die
and I hope it is with such little fanfare I don't hear about it until 15 years after the fact, or ever
pieces of shit

>>516081050
based

>>516083056
Lmao

>>516078585 (OP)
If you're 50 years old and never had a wife or children, then you have no excuse not to be a millionaire by that age.

>>516078585 (OP)
My brother's son recently told him he is a piece of shit and wants nothing to do with him.... my brother is a good man, has given everything to the fucker all his life and is an exemplary parent. So yeah, kids.

>>516084930
Liquid or net worth? I'm 41 and got 500k net worth, but it's mostly in properties, I am low on cash. How's that?

>>516085531
>How's that?
Not great if you were American but as, whatever the fuck, Bulgarian, amazing top 1%.

>>516078865
Only in feminist societies where women can vote.

>>516083056
This right here is how incels are born.

You are not attractive, yet you are angry that attractive women aren't attracted to. You and resent them for that, even though you don't want anything to do with unattractive women either. People like you will die alone angry, blaming women for the same thing you are guilty of.
Hypocrite.

>>516085590
kek. It's funny when someone calls me a third worlder while I live, travel, eat, dress and have better things than them and have more freedom (because the government is the mafia, but lets us do our thing, we don't bother each other). Especially Americans. When I was in the US, I was appealed how shitty their lives are compared to mine.

>>516086256
appalled*

>>516078585 (OP)
>This is what happens if you don't have a family.
>>516078865
>Most married men are depressed and suicidal
>>516080802
>remove the married part and you're there

Its time to go East.
Come home, White Man.

>>516078585 (OP)
>manage heart
>60 hour work week
>all alone
American?

Captcha: DadMx

>>516085969
Or, and hear me out, he might go out with a bang and kill some of you fucking normies before he goes?

Sure, he most likely won't. But it won't take many incels to decide to go out with a bang to make your life into a terrifying nightmare.

>inb4 you don't deserve an attractive young woman

Then you don't deserve me not killing you, fuck you.

>>516078865
I have 2 kids. its allot of work but worth it. Just realized that you don't get to play video games and do all the faggot shit you got to do before kids though.

>>516078585 (OP)
if you have a shitty life like commuting to an office, you need a wife and kids to justify it. if youre comfy, society has to justify the extra responsibility which is usually through shame. in todays twisted matriarchal society, stay comfy frens

>>516078585 (OP)
>poop eyes
gross

>>516078865
>because I say so

>>516080806
Then after a couple of blissful months and you've put your assets in that country.. she asks if her "brother" can stay with you guys for awhile... and then her and her 'brother' cut your throat and steal all your shit and go back to being man and wife.

>>516086923
Yeah, get help. You are not only mentally retarded, you are actively a danger to society, you degenerate.

>>516087726
No worries about the nursing home costs then. That's a bonus.

>>516081050
>Vidya and shitposting is better than marriage.
this

>>516080700
lmfao

>>516080169
Same

>>516080093
>love your wife
She will get bored of your simping and cheat on you with some random nigger who doesn't give a shit about her feelings.

>>516078585 (OP)
Yeah my wife sends me these type of pictures aswell, i have 2 little boys, too bad it doesnt help at all cause im earning way too little to afford a decent life, cant buy a new car so im stuck with an old shittybox and cant buy a house due to insane prices....what im supposed to do with these pictures?
Dontt have time to spend with them cause i have to work and in the end its all useless because i cant afford basic needs

>>516085969
projection much? he didn't express any anger at all for women, he isn't blaming them for anything. you certainly seem to be angry about something. what's wrong hun? did chad stop texting back after you did the special thing for him that you promised yourself you wouldn't do?

Family is good
Freedom is good
If you have one of these things be happy
Also get some friends if you're alone, a good friend is better for your mental health than a woman or child and you don't have to live with them.

>>516078585 (OP)
my parents both ask me what am I going to do when they are gone. I think I will follow them bros.

>>516079837
I know only of a single happy married couple of my whole family, acquaintances, and friends. It’s even worse for people in those groups around my age or younger

>>516089401
Referring to them as roasties tells everyone everything they need to know about how he feels about women, the rest I'm sure you can figure out yourself.

Probability wise, even if you are married you will end up in the same situation as the single man after divorce. Except you have to pay alimony too.

Basically unless you luck out in marriage, stat wise theres a high chance you will get a shit outcome.

>>516078585 (OP)
>Middle aged American man has nobody after both his parents die
Yes, this will be me

>>516080691
That's the landlord's problem, not the dead guy's problem.

>>516086256
Poor country = small inept government = freedom.
All the rich countries are police states.

>>516090157
Us.

>>516086925
The worst part about kids is realizing they don't really remember anything before age 6 or so and not much even then and that they won't appreciate anything you did for them until they have their own kids which these days you may not even live to see.

>>516078585 (OP)
I guess my question is why doesn't this guy take some time off and go apply for a job where he doesn't have to work 60 hours? I was a network engineer and hated how much free overtime I was working for, then they started telling me I cannot take comp days. I got very lucky though, got laid off, got a $15,000 severance and then got a new job doing desktop support for about $5/hr less, but only working 40 hours per week and I feel like I am able to do more and enjoy life more.

I don't have a gf, my parents are elderly. I'll probably have no one when they're gone. Idgaf. I'm happy on my own and I can save money and do things I enjoy doing.

$10 says that woman will get bored in a few years when the guy is never around, she'll start fucking other guys and it won't be long until a divorce happens. Happened to my sister's family. He was out with friends when he wasn't at work, she wanted him at home, she started hooking up with dudes at work while she had a kid at home.

I'm 34 this week and still live with my parents because I largely fucked up my life. It sucks knowing this will happen to me too. I have an active group of friends I see weekly (more or less depending on schedules) but at 50 this will be me too.

Not a fixable situation either so I'm just hoping I can still play video games at 50 lmao.

>>516078718
Life is a lot easier when you have someone to share it with.

>>516090779
You're never too old to get on the right track. I got out of construction with the $40k I saved while living with my parents at like 27, went to night school and got an associate's degree and a couple certs. And got into IT. Now I work a regular 40 hrs and I make close to $30/hr, I'm about 10 years away from paying off my mortgage.

>>516080093
Based. It’s really that simple. That said I married a virgin and was her first everything so I’m kinda playing on easy mode.

>>516090934
I used to agree but I think the gap between 27 and 34 is much more significant than you'd think lol.

>>516091024
I'm 38 currently and thought I would be too old and pushed out of the industry when I got laid off last year. I had a new job in like two weeks. Talk to a recruiter. You'll have to take a few lower wage roles at first to build up your resume.

>>516090779
If you like your parents, treasure every moment you have with them. Fuck what capitalist gynocracy says to shame guys into serving their system. If you can find a way to get by without hating your job, you won. Doubly so if you are able to attract females for sex, and have a pet to experience unconditional love (women can't give you that).

>>516091118
I meant the getting a degree part (funnily I actually have a degree for IT, I just never did anything with it). Going to school again is what I'm afraid of.

>>516091235
If you already have the degree, grab a cert or two because it shows your knowledge is current and try to get back in.

>>516091314
>grab a cert or two because it shows your knowledge
My knowledge is extremely not current (I haven't worked in IT in over like 8 years) so that's probably the best bet to get refreshed. I'd have to study though.

>>516079989
>your children dump you in a nursing home
How the fuck did you get custody, they dont want to see the father that abandoned them through a child trafficking court.

>>516078585 (OP)
He complied bit too much. Can't still muster any pity for a vaxxie.

>>516078585 (OP)
What causes heart failure and how can we precent ourselves from getting it?

This guy can barely support himself. Wife would have left 20 years ago.

Cost of living is cheap when you are 50 if you aren't a complete and utter failure in life. Especally if didn't get fucked in a divorce or two by then.

>>516090934
>$30 an hour
>in 2025
Hoo boy you got it made!

>>516091603
Americans are born with heart failure

>>516079837
>Good men with a healthy family
That's the thing... they are shrinking.

>>516091603
Genetic + processed food + no exercise. Its mostly a lifestyle choice like diabetes if you have it at 50.

>>516078585 (OP)
What does your parents dying have to do with it? We’re always alone. You can be married with 10 kids, but all those people, your wife and all the kids you created are on their own path. You may share it for a while, but when you go to bed at night, you are alone in your own head. You know it’s just you. Be comfortable in that.

>>516090934
Quiet amerigolem.
>>516091603
Inflammation and shitty food, lack of exercise

>>516083970
That sounds like a big mess, I'm sorry anon. Grandparents As Parents Gang, rise up.

>>516089272
Are you terrone or polentone

>>516091603
check out dr tom cowan

>>516078585 (OP)
Yeah. Too bad its not up to me

>>516092141
Fuck off retard from Minneapolis you are wrong I'm connected with everyone and the barriers between myself and others are not truly solid barriers impenetrable barriers my mind melds into anyone else's mind if the conditions are right or I apply my will correctly.

The Jews ejaculate to the suffering that they have imposed upon the world. All so that they can usher in their new age as the rulers of this earth.

>>516078585 (OP)
>Let's send a pic with the baby to distract my husband before Tyrone comes
An unfortunately reality for 90% married american men

I am not alone I am in a universe with all of you.

>>516078585 (OP)
> Middle aged American man has nobody after both his parents die Anonymous (ID
As opposed to having some shit for brained uber-walled roastie spending the last of my money. Or having a bunch of neets to support. I'm good.

I got married at 25 to a woman I met in college. We have two kids together, a home, and a beautiful life. Every day is legitimately challenging, and it can be exhausting to balance everything, but I have never been more happy.

Marriage and children are blessings. And I thank my lord Jesus Christ for what He has given me.

I know these gifts are not guaranteed, and this life is not forever. But I sit comforted knowing that any pain in this existence is temporary, and eternal bliss with the ones I love awaits me after my soul leaves this word.

Read the Bible. Ask questions about theology. Work hard on yourself, and do everything in service of others. Love your neighbors as yourself. All will be made whole in the end.

You’ve got this, OP. Much love.

>>516092641
The only thing your wife needs is to be raped to death by a nigger, you pathetic christnigger simp.

>be 40
>Get fired from my career making 70k
>Now work at a grocery store for $18/hour part time
>Nobody wants to hire me except random commission only sales jobs and job scammers
my life is over.

>>516091955
$30 an hour in places that dont have ridiculous cost of living is actually pretty good. It's mathematically better than making $120k on salary being taxed at 40% and having to make a $3500 a month mortgage payment.

I am 32, I have decent money and don't want to risk that streak to get with some run through hag to later divorce rape me.

No

>>516081192
All women are prostitutes.

>>516078585 (OP)
>divorce raped
yeah, this is what happens to married guys
but they have a "family"
which is a meme, because it's really just people
who are forced to be around each other at appointed times
and its super awkward

>>516092141
You aren't wrong, but that's a cope, and you know it.
Social connections and memories are what make us.
We may be alone when we are asleep, but when we wake up, we are next to our loved ones.

>>516079837
how many families are healthy?
is is possible to raise a healthy family in a toxic society?

>>516092750

I’m really sorry to see you feel this way. Your anger is justified, and it’s okay to tell this way. This world is cruel.

Hurt people lash out. Real talk, we can chat here if you want. Or, talk to your local priest.

>>516091955
We're on 4chan. I bet half of us are single and still live like college students. That is very doable.

>>516080093
> love your wife

Impossible in the USA where 90% of women past High School are literally unmarriageable sluts

>>516092919
Thats the real question, no it isnt. You end up divorce raped.

>>516080169
i wonder how many men are in your shoes?
they thought they were about to "get the prize"
they would "be the exception and win"
how many men realized the game was rigged and didn't walk that path of disappointment to begin with?

>>516078718
His whore wife could get a job

What is gonna happen when all these people that never had children and never got married and that live paycheck to paycheck and don't even own any property become old and sick?

The only logical conclusion is the end of the Western World. I guess the governments will start promoting euthanasia like what the Canadians are doing, but anybody that has had to take care of an old person knows that most of them cling to life as hard as they can. Many used to say "I would rather die than living like that", but when they see death approaching, their instincts will click in and they will survive for as long as they can. And there is simply not enough money and not enough nurses to take care of everybody. They will have to let in even more immigrants, they will have to raise taxes, it will be chaos.

>>516078585 (OP)
MUH DYING ALONE
Not only are you dying alone, you're dying cucked and poor.

>>516093015
This is where social security kicks in. We aren’t going to let these people starve in the streets.

Come on man, we figured this out in the New Deal.

>>516092765
it's just begun
once you've lost everything
you are free to just be
no more pretense
you unironically won the most valuable thing

>>516092846
Only old women want to get married now at least thats what the escort i fucked yesterday told me before i booted her ass out of my uncles apartment.

>>516078585 (OP)
> bringing another soul to suffer in this hellscape
> associating with modern women

lol, lmao even. Ok faggot, id rather just be an ugly hermit.

>>516078865
Getting married and having kids cured my suicidal depression

>>516092641
>>516092765
I’m sorry man, that’s rough. Praying you find good work.

>>516093114
True, that is why I don't. I dated in my 20s, no woman wanted that at that time. Now I don't want it.

>>516093172
you act like that's a viable choice most men have
even if it were, the chances of getting divorce raped
or cucked are so high, it is not worth it
the legal environment is such that rational people wont play that game

>>516092947
What kind of hippie response is that

>>516093231
also, get married and impregnate what?
a goblin or whale?
no thank you, that's dysgenic
completely irresponsible and contradicts the entire point of reproduction
if im not going to make the world better with my offspring
i rather die and let my superiors take over
that's common sense

im early 30s and my dad died suddenly of cancer after getting multiple covid vaccines now my mom is a vegetable and she sold the house we lived in even though my dad left her a large sum of money and she is spending hundreds of thousands of dollars per year to have black illegal immigrant women take care of her as she slowly became a vegetable over the last year and a half, also took all the vaccines. she says shes running out of money, i live with my grandma who has dementia and makes my life a fucking nightmare.
i have no career because i was diagnosed with a bunch of food allergies in my early 20s that fucked up my life making me lose 1/3rd my bodyweight and nearly die of malnutrition and spent the next ten years trying to deal with malnutrition which the medical industry didnt help with at all, worked on and off but cant manage to keep doing it forever, all my bosses are always insane assholes who refuse to respect anyone no matter how hard they work and i just destroy my own health trying to work as much and as hard as they want until i give up and quit because its never enough to make them give me any fucking respect even if im carrying the weight of the entire fucking business on my shoulders and destroying my health to do everyones job for them
my moms going to be dead soon and ill have nothing, no money no job no food and nowhere to stay if my grandma dies which is likely. and shes making it impossible for me to live because she sleeps 4 hours a night and keeps the TV blasting loud as fuck every waking moment of her life which goes straight into my bedroom because i dont have a door and the tv is right there and shes nearly deaf
sometimes i think about killing myself and it helps me go straight to sleep. thanks for reading my blog

>>516093195
I have boned more married women than not including 15 or 20 of them from my neighbourhood and did abuse them a lot and only one so far told me to stop.
Women are horrible people in general but if some young nice pussy want my old ass i wouldnt turn it down but i will warn her family that if i catch her cheating i would execute all of them.

>>516093172
*Ahem*
I feel you should know that microchimerisms are real. Problem is that research on it is heavily (((suppressed))) and so people do it in roundabout ways.

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/ele.12373
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16084184/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10068676/
https://web.archive.org/web/20141113170929/http://press.endocrine.org/doi/full/10.1210/jcem.87.7.8656
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/09/120926213103.htm
https://web.archive.org/web/20151024154921/https://kopfinstruments.com/Carrier/downloads/Carrier79.pdf
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3545914/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC40117/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5293315/

So yes, to those who are married to non-virgins and had offspring, every person who has cummed inside your wife has made their DNA a part of hers, and your wife has passed on that DNA to your offspring. So every time you think; "Wow my kid may share my DNA with me but he looks/acts so different from me! That can't be though she never had an affair!" It may not be her being a cheating slut, it's just her past sluttiness passing on multiple men's DNA onto what was supposed to be YOUR CHILDREN.

>>516090934
Comments like this help me out so much. I feel like my life is already over at 25 but I just have to lock in.

>>516093430
Don't kill yourself.

>>516093545
Wahmen love being abused. Slam their face into the wall and choke them out. They love it. They get turned on by it.

>>516078585 (OP)
If a 50 year old man is working 60 hours a week and has never had a family, he must be retarded if he has no money. Just snorting it or something. Jesus fuck, fuck that guy. He deserves his woes. SERIOUSLY WHERE DID ALL THE MONEY GO?

>>516079794
>Theo Von’s dad was 70 when he had him. Anything is possible.
Charlie Chaplin was 73 when his last child was born.

>>516093616
Uhh thanks for the tip rabbi

>>516079794
yeah but look how he turned out ugh, luckily I know a normal intelligent guy who had a 70-year-old dad so I didn't just demoralize myself

>>516093299
I didn’t come here to fight. I came here to help. I have been in your shoes.

It can get better.

>>516078865
Im married at 35. I make ~200k a year, and my wife makes ~120k. I have 3 kids, and we live in her grandfathers old farmhouse. He gave it to us after he became unable to live alone any longer due to mobility issues. 5br2ba, no mortgage, and I can't even see the nearest neighbors' house. We replanted a lot of the farmland with trees so the ~130 acres of old corn fields is filling in with woods. It costs us like 30k in expenses per year. My wife worked part time until the kids were old enough for school and her mom, retired, stayed with me and helped on the days she worked. I WFH full time and also raise honey bees. I trade the honey to my two neighbors for fresh milk and eggs. Honestly considering having one last kid before she gets too old, I'm 5 years older than my wife.

Every day I wake up is better than the last. I grew up in a family in poverty on welfare, and now I'll be retired by 50.

>>516093735
Rent and utilities alone is easily 25,000 a year minimum unless youre paying 800+ a month just to live in a fucking bedroom in a shared house or apartment

>>516093909
How do people make so much money? What do they do?

>>516093993
Nah. He's wasting it on bullshit. Credit cards, and car payments and flashy living and drugs and hookers and retarded gas station shit and fast food. Just pissing it away on nonsense.

>>516094177
bullshit job, or owner of some form of capital

>>516093231
>the chances of getting divorce raped or cucked are so high, it is not worth it
You realize that this is just your own insecurities right? You look at some statistic and don't understand the circumstances. Don't marry a thot or a gold-digger. Vet your dates first. Make sure she has the same values as you. Don't cheat on a woman so she revenge-cheats. Don't be an alcoholic bum loser gambling addict/whatever so she has to leave.

I married a conservative Christian woman. She is actively anti-feminist, anti-liberal, never leaves the house without me. I have a 0% chance of the problems you describe because I know her character. I rejected women who were models because they instantly flagged themselves as hoes. Most men can't do this so they get hoed on.

>>516078585 (OP)
Old fags are delusional they think 50 is middle aged. Just think back when you were actually young. 34 was old. You refuse to.believe it.

>>516078585 (OP)
I rarely talk to my family when my parents bite it I'll probably lose contact with my brother all together.

>>516093579
All the eggs women will ever have are in them when they are born, I don't see how they could be changed

>>516094270
Anon, are you a plapper? This sounds like a plapper, or fan fiction. All I see are whores, went to church and all there was were old farts.

>>516078585 (OP)

Boomer here. Get fucked. It's your own fault for not growing up. I was married at 22. Had a house (or at least a mortgage) by 23.

>>516094270
>appealing to individual ethical "decisions" in an interdependent system
"choices" people make are irrelevant
what matters is consequences and incentives
steinbeck already went over this
the bank sends bulldozer driver to take trask's farm down he couldnt pay the mortgage
he goes to shoot the drive, the driver says, they'll send another driver if you kill me
i cant believe i have to explain this to people still

>>516078718
Yeah or maybe his bitch wife would get a job (if the bitch existed)

>>516093355
Not suggesting to marry a whale out of desperation, but if you absolutely must, it is probably the least dysgenic option. Being fat isn't genetic, you know. A fat white woman could give birth to fit kids. Even if the kids pick up her shit habits, in generations habits will change and it won't matter anymore if they had a fat anscestor. If you're not going to have kids, they'll just import browns to replace you. I'd rather see fat white kids than brown kids.

>>516094548
Damn looks like you have to meet a person who isn't a completely amoral scumbag and has higher beliefs than materialism

>>516094554
if i had kids, they would be raped by browns
the govt wouldnt suddenly stop importing them because i breeded lol
you are acting like they are doing it for pragmatic reasons

>>516080169
Same. She took the kid. I had a grand total of 2 years of fully being a father before she flipped out and decided she wasn't interested in raising a kid with me.

Guys, make sure your woman is a good woman. Get a fat one or an ugly one who went to church when they were younger. Do not go for the smoking hot skinny blonde.

>>516078585 (OP)
Yea. Now fix the legal system so we can safely approach women. Thanks.

>>516093013
Whoring is a job.

>>516094416
It's middle age you fucking braindead zoomzoom kike hair style faggot. It actually ends at the 50's, when you enter the 60's you also enter the old age.
Every step endure for 30 years, you stay young for 30 years, you star then deteriorating by your mid-life and at old age, well.. you get weak and die. if you are unlucky enough to survive that in the current world you would be even more fucked and debilitated.
Go study something before shitposting, braindead zoomzoom faggot.

>>516094727
that's why i just fuck the hot blonde as nature intended and dont let her legally entrap me

>>516094485
Cope, read the studies, genetic material is passed down all the time, even during breastfeeding genetic material is passed down

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3663450/

Imagine what kind of garbage genetic material a whore with STDs or just a very hypergamous past will pass on

Like dude i like to wake up in the morning and be literally alone and in peace? How fucking cool is that? Im not done with it yet, the moment i am ill surely seek company. A while ago i lived with a woman for 5 years, it was boring, she got pregnant a couple times, and i corrected that, fuck having kids.

>>516080169
Yeap. I was gonna get married at 31, we had been dating since college, and she got what she called an "existential crisis", quit her job and fucked off to Ireland to study "art" with daddy's money. A few months later covid hit, and all of a sudden 5 years went by. It unironically seems like it's over.

>>516094670
the most moral person given the chance may pilfer me just because they can
not opening myself up to that level of exploitation
rather just die if i am going to just sacrifice myself like that

>>516094833
Aristotle said men peak in their 50s

>>516094685
In this world of constant struggle you must fight. And if you do not fight, you do not deserve to survive.

Do you want to see a world run by whites, of beauty and progress where mankind conquers the stars, or a mutted up brazil-world of perpetual poverty and squalor?

>>516094270
>I married a conservative Christian woman. She is actively anti-feminist, anti-liberal, never leaves the house without me. I have a 0% chance of the problems you describe because I know her character.
I thought that was what I was marrying but I still got divorce raped and had two kids instead of 12 like I wanted.

I have not really been able to fix it since either and now look much older than I am, maybe due to stress.

2 kids (both good) is vastly better than most of my peers.

>>516095001
i cannot fight against the entire apparatus of western governance, sorry, im just a guy
and i wont produce more slaves or turn myself into
some exploited beast of burden for a woman
just for the hope i pass on my genes
(even if she is "my woman" there is a 1/3 chance the child is not mine and im technically a cuck)

>>516094494
Churches will be all old people. Besides that, don't go to Church to pick up girls, it is very distasteful and you will be looked down on by everyone. You don't look for girls in a church.

>>516078585 (OP)
let this be a reminder to marry young and dumb and by all means, a wrong decision. I did and ive been married 15 years. If you wait to long becomes a business transaction (for you and her)

>>516094177
My wife is a clinical pharmacist at the hospital. I'm a principal software engineer at a fortune 500.

>>516094177
They lie.

>>516095271
How are you supposed to look for a religious well doing woman but Church? Like wtf, that's so absurd
>Go to a place a religious woman has to be at
>Reeeeee don't do that reeeeee

Lol fuck off, the west is over, you lucked out, good for you, stop rubbing it in our noses

>>516094194
You cant just hand wave my point away nigger

>>516079837
Like Kirk? Look what that got him.

>>516091962
Sure feels like it from all our garbage food. Have you seen the videos of people with intractable illnesses who go abroad and after a few days or weeks of eating abroad their illness goes away?

>>516092079
>>516092165
How much exercise is enough? 10k steps?

>dr tom cowan
thanks for the reference.
this guy?
https://youtu.be/N-Q34vnNaWs

>>516095341
all relationships are transactional buddy,
if you didn't meet the right conditions she would drop your ass in two seconds

>>516092327
>>516095540

>>516095093
The type of people who get cucked aren't decent, hardworking providers. It is the fuckboys who get cucked. They either indescriminately get with hoes (like attracts like) and get hoed on; or they get with a normal woman and cheat on her, so she revenge cheats.

Vet your woman. Don't cheat on her. It's that simple. I have seen women who stayed with abusive drug addicts for YEARS before leaving, after countless attempts to try to save him. Some women are fanatically devoted (and the sad thing is, often to the completely wrong sort of man). You gotta sort out the thots from the keepers. That's just life.

>>516095401
>helping design software that ruins the world and vacuum the money of the entire west out of boomers pockets to help them die as slow and gracefully as possible after completelly selling and letting their children be sold out
Plausible

>>516094177
Everyone on 4chan in America makes at least $200k a year working fully remote from a farm in a 100% white region of rural America didn't you know?

>>516095654
1/3 of fathers are not the genetic father's of their children
dual mating strategy
alpha fucks beta bucks
i dont want to hold someone else's genetic refuse

>>516094914
She studied big Irish cock. Also nigger dicks in Dublin, that was her dual major.

>>516095654
>They either indescriminately get with hoes
Here we go.
If women destroy your life its your fault for not magically intuiting what kind of person they really are
The female gender literally evolved to deceive, their survival and reproductive strategy is to decieve, thats why they have more social intelligence instead of general intelligence. Thats why they paint their faces and act cute and innocent and cry victim all the time. Fuck you nigger

>>516095585
but you miss the point, the olderr you get the more you have to lose and tighter you get, i wouldnt be a woman who didnt have standards. Marry young so she doesnt expect a car career and 401k. Just need to have some semblance of a future. But yes, youre not keeping a female without providing

>>516093013
The cost of child care, a second car, her insane office clothing desires, and so-on ends up making her having a job be negative for the family budget.

>>516095493
Your problem is, you're obsessed with finding a woman, you have no higher ideals besides
>reeeee tfw no gf

Be a good, decent person, who genuinely believes in something higher (can be God, can be anything else as long as it elevates you) and like-minded people will be attracted to you. Old men have daughters. You meet people and they introduce you to other people if they like you. But if they sense you're just trying to get under a skirt they will shun you and rightfully so.

>>516095876
>Marry young so she doesnt expect a car career and 401k.
my first gf literally wanted nothing more than for me to feed me her cum all the time and she laughed at me when i talked about marriage. shes happily married to some other guy now who is a typical cuckservative who prides himself on working hard to provide for her.
>women

>>516096007
christcucks are hilarious.

>>516096007
>Be a good, decent person, who genuinely believes in something higher (can be God, can be anything else as long as it elevates you)
Name one thing besides the retarded christcuck jew worshipping religion as if that even really guarantees you will meet a girl, especially one who isnt trash

>>516078585 (OP)
Lol. I get disability till I'm 72. I'll just move to SEA and fuck some young girls.

>>516096007
>JUST X BRO
>THE PROBLEM IS THAT YOU'RE SEX OBSESSED EVEN THOUGH YOU'VE NEVER HAD SEX

Bro I have enough money in my savings right now to go to a third world country to get my dick wet, if all I wanted were sex I'd have done it already and gotten copious amounts of it too.

>>516095739
Dual mating strategy isn't something humans do. This is your own insecurities looking for some justification to avoid dating because you are afraid of being hurt.

Real humans date based off of emotional currency. You spend time with someone, show them affection, that is emotional currency. You do something to upset them (and women will never tell you, they will bottle it up) you lose it. If some man at work gives your wife more emotional currency, and she DOESN'T HAVE HIGHER IDEALS then she might cheat with him because she feels "distant" from you and "close" to him. So either ensure your wife has higher ideals and would never sully her honor by cheating (my preferred approach) or else put the work in to be close to your wife so you two understand, like, and trust eachother (these two tactics are not mutually exclusive).

>>516094270
>>516096007
>christcuck
Nobody cares about your faggot weak religion nigger. Church whores love getting piped by 5 drug dealers and then tossed to the side. If you dont cheat on the bitch regularly she will lose respect for you and cheat on you. Treat them mean to keep them keen. Alternatively you could walk away entirely from dating bc id rather not have some annoying bitch call me every 5 minutes or complain.

>>516089272
Get her to work part time or get your or her parents to pick the kids up from school until she can obtain part time. In shitaly you cannot afford not to work as a parent

>>516095856
Maybe I just have a superpower, but I have always been able to judge if a woman is a thot or not just from talking to them for a few minutes. It is actually really easy to read people if you try.

>>516096360
It is though. Wahmen are hypergamous by nature. They are literally programmed genetically and mentally to seek out "the best" dude, aka the top of the social hierarchy. What that is could vary.

>>516096360
again, i care about incentive structures
not about some person pretending they would never break the rules
if they get paid to break the contract (divorce)
im not signing up, simple as that
broken incentive
this is not about character its about broken incentive systems

>>516096186
Given your shit comment, you deserve to be alone, bitter and miserable. So no, I won't help you. Guess you are fucked.

>>516092219
neither he's just larping

>>516096296
You have to put down roots. If you have no roots you will be isolated. It is good that you don't just want random sex, but sitting at home playing videogames won't make a tradwife burst down your door to come find you. You have to be open, meet people, display good character.

>>516083669
1000%, I keep trying to tell the trad wife crowd this. And if they think the sexual experience part is bad, wait until they figure out their dream girl who they are madly in love with used to sell pussy. I encourage all men to pay the fee to join seeking and other sugar baby websites so they can see that those normal just regular cute girls are even selling it.

I think it’s great that some guys still dream and have hope, and of course there is a rare chance they can find that diamond in the rough. I choose to live in reality.

>>516096007
you worthless nigger. the purpose of church was always community. if it cant provide a partner it doesnt need to exist. The goddman AMISH literally marry people because and i quote "she saw him at the church singing and liked him".
Lets see you look down on people when your church crumbles to dust.

>>516083669

lot of truth here.

I’m sterile and can’t have kids. Wat do? Seems over for me?! No inheritance either, it went to grandmas rest home costs. I have 45k saved but starter home deposit is $200k. The future looks bleak!!! Also Norwood 2 and no gf

>>516096481
So be the best dude possible. Why are you not the best you can be? You have already lost if you write yourself off as a hopeless loser who can't compete. Look at your internalized values. See that you are the one holding yourself back.

>>516092641
Does larping make you feel better?

>>516095271
>You don't join a cult for pussy, that's disrespectful!
Oh ok I'll pretend Frosty the Snowman is real for no reason at all then. Frosty is King! Yiff yiff yiff!

>>516096729
Who the fuck wants a wife thats been used up and has her teeth knocked out by Chad while unloading inside her.
I dumped my ex after cheating on her. She got married to some dude who swept her up immediately. He doesnt even know the amount of times I've cummed in her cunt and I doubt she'd tell him either. That skank loved being creampied more than any other whore I've been with.
Your wives, lmfao.

>>516096907
dont you see this is a race to the bottom?
there will always be a bigger fish or someone trying to knock you off your block
by playing this game of dominating other men
you make it sacred
you have to opt out because its bad incentives
and dysgenic
then when there are no players the game is forced to change
it's men throwing themselves on a damocles sword as fodder feeding this current order

>>516096837
If you show up, volunteer, make friends with people, then inevitably there will be some bake sale and you will meet that 60 year old man's pretty daughter. All in good time. If you show up in a popped collar "yo where the bitches at?" and hit on every girl you see then you will be shunned. If you show up to a place of higher purpose with base goals, you have entirely the wrong mindset for why you should even be there. Go look at the man on the cross and tell me what that symbol represents to you.

>>516096907
I dont exist to please some fucking ran through slut nigger. I reject women all the time because im indifferent to them. If they even want to look in my general fucking direction, they better offer me money or they can fuck off.

>>516094270
I'll translate from american (continent) to rest of the planet: his wife is a landwhale. Not by their standards, but by everyone else's.

>>516080691
>rot away in the house
>one last troll from beyond the grave

>>516097070
Hes all domesticated and soft. Probably went for the first whore that looked at him. A whipped guy like this wont see the damage until she inevitably discards him and sends him the video of her fucking Chad on the side.

>>516093430
make it your mission in life to get a door on your room; you can do it
find an old door from scrap, they are not hard to find if you are in the suburbs and are generally standard sized
what else u got to do, buddy?
t. Not a tradey

>>516094727
>Get a fat one or an ugly one who went to church when they were younger.
ugly women know you had to settle for them, which will make them resent you and destroy the relationship. if you can't land a looksmatch in high school then you're rolling a die of luck, but even then it's a coin toss. it's worth it for some people, but not everyone.

>>516097229
>rabbi, another dead goyim in our complex on Kosher Ln
>oy vey, the cost to clean this up? this will raise the prices on everyone for sure
there is no winning, anon

>>516097070
>race to the bottom
exactly. the whole thing is women as a consolation prize only works when there are reasonable economic and social standards.
the logic of the dating market leads to nigger hell. why would any self-respecting man live like that in his most intimate relationship?
you either have to be a shameless psychopath or a total cuck.

>>516093011
>Thats the real question, no it isnt. You end up divorce raped.
How can I be divorce raped? I barely make any money, and her parents paid off a 650k house in one go, and I have a beautiful blond blue eyed daughter?

>>516078862
99.9% of Americans wont even have their house paid off by 50. Then theres car payments and the worst is medical insurance which you get through being employed. Idk how old you are but hopefully you are young enough to be this naive because if your over 20 you should already know this.

>>516096729
>>516097076
>Muh roots
>Muh dad and his daughter

Ahhh, you're one of those mythical lucky guys who still lives in a healthy community with healthy activities. Yesterday I touched grass, all I found were faggots, whores, drug addicts and homeless drug addicts at my community events.

>Just relocate

Lol I've relocated around 5 times in my life right now, technically 6. How about, no? Fuck this faggot hemisphere, the west has fallen, unironically billions must die?

>>516080472
RARE FLAG

>>516078718
I make 50k a year and my gf who just got a promotion to 106k keeps begging me to move in with her.

The problem is i have a roomy 2 bed appt and she has a tiny 1bedroom shoe box

>>516093015
>but when they see death approaching, their instincts will click in and they will survive for as long as they can. And there is simply not enough money and not enough nurses to take care of everybody. They will have to let in even more immigrants, they will have to raise taxes, it will be chaos.

Yeah, I agree, and this worries me because I'm an artist and I don't really know how to fight. So then I wonder "where do I go?" and "what do I do?" but I also spend time making art

>>516097076
your blabbering words arent impressing anyone. What youa re describing is just "fitting in" and "reading the room". Its not some idealistic nonsense. You think historically peoplew ent to church because of their strong faith?
it was just part of how communities and social expectations worked. Only a fraction of those people were as idealistic as you. And maybe some could find it in themselves to be more faithful after being part of such a community.

Its not random unappreciated men that fucked up. Its the church itself that fails to help shape society in a way that benefits civilization.

>>516097472
>complex
I'm not a city rat thoughbeit

>>516097660
jews are buying land and houses everyone, dipshit, that's the joke

>>516097070
>dont you see this is a race to the bottom?
Being the best you can be is a race to the top. Giving up on life is being at the bottom.
>there will always be a bigger fish or someone trying to knock you off your block
Not really? Women who try to hit on my wife get glared at and told off, by her and me. She is married. She has kids. She is not in the dating market. She is disgusted when random weirdos stare at her or make inappropriate comments.
>by playing this game of dominating other men
Stop listening to losers like Andrew Tate. Men obsessed with "dominating" are overcompensating for deep insecurity. This isn't how the real world works outside of drunken bar sluts.
>you make it sacred
>you have to opt out because its bad incentives
>and dysgenic
Dysgenic is letting the only good race die out while nogs inherit the earth
>then when there are no players the game is forced to change
>it's men throwing themselves on a damocles sword as fodder feeding this current order
It's your insecurity. There is 0 risk if you know how to judge people and you are smart. If you know yourself and them, you will win every battle. If you only know yourself, you will lose one battle for every one you win. If you know neither, you will lose every battle.

>>516097634
>Its not random unappreciated men that fucked up. Its the church itself that fails to help shape society in a way that benefits civilization

Eventually, you have to realize that people fucking up is just the way it is, and it's your job to rise above it and find the opportunity in the mess.

Otherwise you're just staring into the void without even critically examining yourself.

>>516078585 (OP)
I am 31 and have a wife and 3 kids but I will be absolutely devastated when my parents die. They raised me and loved me unconditionally and have always been there for me. If you don’t have that feeling towards your parents then I feel sorry for you.

>>516084930
enjoying your life and not working yourself to an early grave is a pretty good "excuse" tbdesu

>>516078585 (OP)
I could always just kill myself.

>>516078585 (OP)
I have been universally disappointed in American women. I feel like it was equally a blessing and a curse to be born here. Great 90s/naughts. Good upbringing. Good work, good life, good looks, healthy. All from being born here, but realistic options for our women are so fucking slim to nearly nonexistent solely because of the great propaganda machine (that specifically targets Western women).

>>516079837
You are fine unless your daugther's boyfriend is Tyrone and you baby boy isn't trying dresses and getting railed by old fags.

But yeah, if you don't have that, your family is ok.

>>516097790
>Not really? Women who try to hit on my wife get glared at and told off, by her and me. She is married. She has kids. She is not in the dating market. She is disgusted when random weirdos stare at her or make inappropriate comments.
Wahmen are always single. Your land whale whore of a wife will gladly dump your ass for chad the second she sees you, the beta provider, not being a cash cow anymore. Only way you can fix it is if you are either distant or cheat since women love both.

>>516097930
Modern American women are the byproduct of a nation that worships nigger culture and punishes the nuclear family. I’m hoping the pendulum swings back the other way like most things tend to do when you reach one extreme.

>>516078585 (OP)
>single guy, no dependants
>works 60h a week
>to make ends meet.
fucking how?!
If 60 hours a week doesn't pay the bills:
1) he works an absolute dogshit job
2) he lifes in an expensive as fuck area
What I don't get is why doesn't he just fucking move.
The usual reason why people have to live in expensive AF cities is because thats where the good jobs are. But if 60 hours a week still are barely enough to pay rent, then he's not working a particularly good job is he?
Why the fuck would he work a dogshit job in a mega expensive area when he should just look for a simmilarly dogshit job in a less expensive area.
Because while good jobs are only in the cities, dogshit jobs are everywhere, even in flyover nowhere towns is a grocery store or gas station that needs a cashier or something.

>>516097634
The only men I have ever met who had good wives, were themselves good men.

>>516097930
In america women speak wierd. In other countries they speak normal.
American women either pretend to be children or just do endless nasaly and vocal fry voices. I don't know what it is.

>>516098075
>punishes the nuclear family
By giving them tax breaks and free money

>(You) have nobody after both (You)r parents die
FTFY. No one except your parents actually gave a single fuck about you with no strings attached, and a lot of people didn't even have that much. Marriage is an even worse gamble. But especially if you're a man. If your parents are alive and doing for you, go fucking hug them. Bless them. Cherish them. Do everything in your power to make them happy and do for them like they do for you. Odds are good (You) will never get someone in your corner like them again.

>>516080472
ooooga boooga monkey, you have a banana on your flag, go back to the jungle

>>516098152
>by giving them tax breaks and free money

You’re literally describing a single black mother.

>>516098172
And what if your parents dont give a fuck about you either, what then?

>>516097083
>I reject women all the time because im indifferent to them.
And so you reveal your problem, you are afraid of being hurt. "They can't reject me if I reject them first". You are your own worst enemy.

>>516097117
My wife is (slightly) fat now, because she is a 40 year old woman, but she was young, in good shape, and sought after by other men when I met her. It doesn't bother me that she got old, it happens to everyone and by that time you're not attracted just by looks anymore but by having spent your lives together faithfully.

>>516078585 (OP)
There's no such thing as a happy married couple that isn't financially well off. When your bills don't cause you stress, I'm sure that you can, with luck, find a good enough woman to have a happy family life with. Most people aren't financially well off however and my observation about those couples is that they get extremely stressed, argue a lot, have occasional outbursts, and then immediately turn around to tell you about how you should get married and have kids like them, vaguely spewing something about how "it's worth it" when you can clearly observe their descent into misery. That said, these types of people tend to stabilize by their third kid where their increased experience in running a household coupled with the years of stress eventually eroding their expectations of life allow them to be content in their objectively awful situation, and they even derive some kind of joy from it because I'm sure the fulfillment from having kids does shine through once the constant misery becomes background noise.

The guy in OP would never make it to his third kid, the marriage would fall apart if he's struggling that much just on his own.

>>516098075
you will only make them normal by counter brainwashing or being amish

>>516098310
Then you should look in the mirror and ask yourself what you did to make your parents hate you

>>516094554
>Being fat isn't genetic, you know
hongerwinter

>>516098110
this is something you notice when you travel: American women (including Canada) are the worst in the world.
Europe and other places are only bad insofar as they has been Americanized.

>>516078585 (OP)
white american males have an incredible skill for self pity

>>516098444
it's paid demoralization

>>516089773
>memeflag
>doesn't understand that roastie is so ingrained into chan language that like "fag" it doesn't even need to have bitterness behind it to use
Please go back, or at least lurk a few more years before posting.

>>516098350
>And so you reveal your problem, you are afraid of being hurt. "They can't reject me if I reject them first". You are your own worst enemy.
You know not everyone is a raging pussywhipped bitch like you right?

>>516097463
I've never seen a high school relationship last

>>516098350
>and sought after by other men
that's literally every female of reproductive age, because men far out-number women under 50. look at any population pyramid graph if you don't believe me

>>516098350
>she is a 40 year old woman
I knew there was something off, you're an out of touch GenXer

>>516098396
>bring child into world
>fail at raising them
>hate the personality you helped form
Parents hating their kids is 99% of the time a dog whistle for terrible parenting.

>>516097528
I live in an extremely liberal city with gay flags everywhere. Still there are good people here. There are everywhere if you look.

>>516078865
>most men are suicidal
Ftfy

>>516098353
Money is the root of 95% of peoples problems. Completely agree with everything you said. My mind is also blown when guys I know who struggle claim they are looking for a woman to “build” with them. Those days are long gone.

>>516098641
what can I say? I have.
the dice roll is not worth it for me, and while my siblings had kids I'm infertile, so why should I bother?

>>516094914
you dodged a bullet then

>>516098444
desu most guys in the west are söiboy cucks anyway.

>>516098858
Dont bother lmfao. Once you find out wahmen just want to eternally chase Chad, it all makes sense.

>>516098713
Most parents hate their kids because of how much of a burden kids are and an obstacle to said parent who wants nothing but indulgence and debauchery.
This is why they hate their kids and stiffle their progress early on so they can say see you are a failure and i regret having you.
I know a girl who got breast cancer from her mother rejecting her and saying to her face that she never wants to see her again.

>>516094914
>went to ireland to study art
Im an artfag college dropout. I can confirm without knowing all her work was about her pussy or her period, women dont make actual art

>>516078865
It's because you're American and obsessive about marriage without children.

>>516099032
shut your retarded mouth disgusting filth
call the 4chan pedophile mod grooming your group and protecting you they're gigantic fucking failures at life

>>516098004
I am Chad. My wife was told so by her family, friends, etc. She often shares compliments about me that she gets from other people. I am secure in who I am. Am I a perfect supermodel? No, I'm getting old, not in same shape as when I was young. I'm bald. It's all fine.

Nothing is stopping you from being the best you can be. It's not about dominating, looksmaxxing or anything like that. Just be authentic and take care of yourself a little.

>>516078718
Some companies are more partial to promoting men with a wife and kids over single men.

On the contrary, though, single women are far more likely to get promoted over women who are married and have children.

>>516099125
it's organized agitprop my dude you're not going to convince anyone
they're paid for it

>>516078718
statistically married people make a lot more money and are happier and healthier.
also he probably has heart failure from the vaxx

>>516078865
Men who married the wrong woman maybe.

>>516098088
medical costs, most likely

>>516098310
Well I'd suggest learning to read to improve your station in life to start.

>>516095515
Yes I can, it's a retarded point. Your nonsense is fixable by moving affordable. I literally don't time time to waste on your retarded nonsense. sub40 IQ retarded bullshit like your point means 60 hour work week on its' own. Just kill yourself. Fuckin' NAH, cunt.

>>516098353
>have occasional outbursts, and then immediately turn around to tell you about how you should get married and have kids like them, vaguely spewing something about how "it's worth it" when you can clearly observe their descent into misery

It is worth it. The point of having children is not to be happy, it's to have genetic continuation. The two are irrelevant to each other. If anything, it requires want/unhappiness for you to seek out

>>516098996
I have played the game in my twenties, I know it's not worth it.

>be retarded rightoid golem
>let billionaires own everything
>can't own a house without paying 300 years of wages to Blackrock
>would sooner blame low childbirth on liberal propaganda, feminism, climate chinge hoax, vaccines, video games, nigger music than consider the real issue
The day of the neckshot is coming

>>516099032
In my experience mothers hate their sons alot, i think its jelousy and feminist rhetoric rotting their brain. But i also have see mothers being absoulte monsters to their daughters.

>>516098667
When I was 20, 99% of people had the exact same mentality as I see today. It wasn't easy to find a woman I trusted. I was in 2 relationships where I got cheated on before I met my wife. That's life, you have to sort out the bad people from the good.

>>516078585 (OP)
Women dont want a family until they are 35, ran through and desperate.

>>516078718
Two incomes and tax breaks make it easier, this only applies to chad though

>>516098353
Literally every married couple fights every now and then bro, grow up.

But yes it is very hard to be happy with bills. And it is hard to fund a family on one income. But the single income period doesn't last forever and after a few years you're right back to double income i.e. the kind of cash you had before kids.

Plus by then some of your mortgage is likely paid down and your cars paid off, etc. That is when life gets really really good.

Unless you're a fucking loser who can't reproduce, because that's when seeing everyone else's happy family life really starts to sting.

>>516099032
Absolutely not. I have 2 kids and they cured my depression. My only ambition in life is to somehow save up enough money to send them to college and buy them a house so they don't have to live paycheck to paycheck as I did.

>>516099125
The best to who? Some whore pig like your wife? I bet you believe wahmen dont have to do any effort. Stupid fucking whipped leaf.
I dont exist to please some fucking whore. She can suck my dick and fuck off to the trash where she belongs

>>516097872
>If you don’t have that feeling towards your parents then I feel sorry for you.
I think this really is the line between people like you and losers like me. Both my parents were garbage, dad wanted me to get into sports, I didn't so he just stopped caring and didn't care to raise me and my mom is an insane BPD woman who was terrified of us looking bad in front of our relatives that she was too smothering and over protecting and ruined me and my sister who are both middle aged alcoholics. I felt nothing when my dad died. I felt more depressed that I felt nothing about him dying then him actually dying. It really nailed home how much losers both my parents were. I will never be a father but I feel like I have been raised so poorly I would know exactly what not to do when raising kids.

>>516099493
dude you're wasting your time
you're talking with permanently online retards paid to post demoralization on a dead site

>>516078865
and thinking about the Ghey.

Hermit living is good living.

>>516099575
even then they only want kids because other people in their friend group have them

>>516099639
>seeing happy family life starts to sting
Hahahaha anon everyone of those people will tell you to their face how much they miss the pre kid days

>>516097491
>inb4 health care is free in America because the E.R. is legally obligated to save your life after you OD on opioids

>>516080691
This, at the Walmart, people "leave the company" and a week later we find they've died and rotted in their apartment/condo(bc who would care about us?)

>>516078865
are your parents depressed and suicidal?

>>516078585 (OP)
Dude sounds like a loser if he hasn't been able to make himself comfortable after 40 years of work

>>516099664
>they cured my depression.
>My only ambition in life is to somehow save up enough money to send them to college
you're unironically delusional... and still depressed. pirate a course book, learn cognitive behavior therapy and fix yourself

>>516080834
No, no more whore mongers

>>516098110
>>516098406
All women are garbage whores but yea American women are among the worst in the entire world.

>>516078585 (OP)
i work from home and my 3 kids have always been here. the eldest finally going to school for more than 6 hours a day has been the most exciting thing in ages

>>516078585 (OP)
Internet retards will always tell you they have no friends but never why. God bless him if his life is truly that sad through no fault of his own.

>>516098353
>my observation about those couples is that they get extremely stressed, argue a lot, have occasional outbursts, and then immediately turn around to tell you about how you should get married and have kids like them, vaguely spewing something about how "it's worth it" when you can clearly observe their descent into misery.
Haha, all the best things in life require endless labor and stress. You can simulataneously be stressed out by kids being brats while loving them and feeling fulfilled.

Getting a good job is hard, but if anyone tells you to drop out of college and smoke pot, you know they are giving you bad advice. Same goes for people telling you not to have kids. "Take easy path". No thank you.

>>516098294
I'm literally describing every person with kids. You're a low iq republican.

>>516097483
>I barely make any money
Divorce rape doesn't care. You pay 30% of your income as child support and 20% as alimony for decades. Good luck living in your cardboard box. If you complain to the courts they'll tell you to get a better job.

>>516095652
yes

I'm already in this situation. Nearly 40 and both parents are dead.

>>516099720
>Hurrr if I bury my head in the sand statistics and reality will cease to exist

If anyone wasted their time is me, was responding to him while lifting, instead of focusing on the lifts.

>>516099719
>I feel like I have been raised so poorly I would know exactly what not to do when raising kids.
you'd be over compensating for your shitty upbringing but you're not capable of providing a healthy example because you didn't grow up with one

>>516090181
Fucking based

>>516087334
They're green, it's just dark

>>516090391
My memories started at age 4. Maybe you just had developmental problems.

>>516099719
I’m sorry you had to go through that anon. It’s sucks that literally anyone can become a parent when only half of those people actually deserve to be. I guess if there’s one thing to be grateful to them for it’s that they gave you life but depending on how you look at that it could be a good thing or a bad thing.

>>516099483
It is spiritual, there is no reason whatsoever to hate your own children and torturing them, while teachers at school can and will impede your childs development there is no reason for you to be doing the same unless you have been programmed to think its normal and it has been embedded into your behaviour at an early age thus perpetuating the cycle of abuse.
Children grow up to be fucked up adults only when they are attacked and wounded instead of nurtured and cultivated like a plant. How is the plant supposed to bloom and yield fruit if you keep stepping on it ?

>>516099853
Heaven lasts long, and Earth abides. What is the secret to their endurance? Could it be that they do not live for themself?

>>516079604
>people with families will go postal more often
Maybe if their wife cheats on them, but i think you have it the wrong way around.

>>516099964
>>516098294
>>516098152
Childless people are subhuman paypigs who exist only to support families via taxation.
Here we get free childcare, Healthcare, education, school lunches, paid maternity leave for 18 months, uh, just money sent to us every month because we have kids. None of this is means tested. You get it if you're rich or poor. Just have kids.

>>516100038
I hope Hiro the pedophile end up investigated and put in jail.
I hope the pedo RapeApe and the rest of the 4chan moderation also end up in jails where they belong for everything they did over the years.
Hardly anyone ever deserved it more.

>>516099964
You do realize that single mothers on welfare don’t have to pay taxes right?

>>516100038
People aren't statistics. People have real stories and motivations. If 99% of marriages divorce, be the 1% that doesn't. You have the power to make your own path in life.

>>516100116
I'm only a de jure christian (wasn't raised with religious beliefs) but even I know that no one on earth can say who gets to go to heaven... well, if it even exists.

>>516100264
That’s too optimistic for this website anon

>>516100325
That’s why I can’t agree with Catholicism

>>516100045
I don't think so but who knows. I will never have kids so it's a moot point anyway.

>>516100102
I think it's another reason to hate boomers. Many of them had kids because social stigma was still a thing in their gen and many didn't want to but they did because if they didn't, it looked bad. My dad was one of 8 kids and I suspect he was not loved by his dad just based on the sheer amount of siblings he had and rather than deal with that, he doubled down on that coldness even though he had just two kids. Of all my first cousins I would say only 2 are losers too but their dad is a ship captain they only saw like 2 months out of the year so again that factor of the dad not being there to raise them fucked them over too.

>>516099468
>implying lefties aren't eager to give away all real estate in the land to 3rd world invaders on the tax payer's dime + premium welfare checks on top
i hate leftie cücks so fucking much

>>516100107
Your plant analogy is pretty on the money, sometimes i feel like how i was raised is why i have so many problems day to day but i also recognise that im not a kid and have to break said cycle myself. Its tough but what in this life isnt

The criminal 4chan Community LLC. protect organized harassment campaign against the 4chan user base.
This thread prove they're complicit in criminal activities.
OP Is part of a criminal organization abusing the 4chan platform since half a decade.
The 4chan Community LLC. Ownership and moderation fully know that group is operating on 4chan and fully protect and encourage their activities.
https://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/496741979
https://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/497619695
When is the FBI And the CFIX stop ignoring criminals who lead to real life death like the Charlie Kirk death and the Christian School shooting?
When is the FBI going to arrest the 4chan community LLC for criminal negligence leading to death?

>>516100604
>When will the FBI And the CFIX stop ignoring criminals who lead to real life death like the Charlie Kirk death and the Christian School shooting?

>>516091603
covid and mRNA shots.

>>516100325
It's a Taoist passage, it's expressing the idea of finding happiness or even identity in living for others.

The earth changes every day, tides roll in, roll out, forests grow and burn down. But no matter what happens to it, it's still earth right? It's not defined by what it is materially, but by its relationship to those who depend on it, the plants, animals, people. That's what makes it Earth instead of just one of the trillions of rocks in the universe.

>>516080750
>I need government to make sure my wife doesnt cheat on me.
And thats why you remain a single neet faggot, If you cant keep your wife attracted to you and need government to forcr them to stay with you, you dont need a wife; she already has a pussy she wont need another.

>>516100038
>satan slips its still a man

>>516100677
>the idea of finding happiness or even identity in living for others
and when those people don't want you around anymore, what then? you'll most likely kill yourself. it's not a self-sustainable belief system.

>>516100264
Give me one reason to commit to a stupid whore leaf. One.

>>516100919
Exactly. You get it. Thats the issue with christcucks and out of touch boomers.

>>516100843
>If you cant keep your wife attracted to you
it's biologically impossible, because we're primates, not birds. we aren't supposed to pair up for life, genetically speaking.

You deserve to go to jail RapeApe you filthy nigger and it's going to happen.

>>516078585 (OP)
This is what western society has come to thanks to feminism. The bond between men and women is broken. We all live and die alone, with no wives, husbands, or children. No love. No legacy. Only despair and death. We will regret not seizing control while our bodies still had vigor.

>>516100328
There’s a difference between being optimistic and delusional. 100% of people walking down that aisle think the best is ahead, half end in divorce and 80% of that half that are left are miserable. I don’t hate on people for holding out hope, but to say the people who analyze the numbers are doomers is a retarded take.

>>516078585 (OP)
I've tried to date and get married 4 times and I now more or less hate women as individuals. I understand now why past philosophers talked shit about them.

>>516101054
take a look at jizzrahell, hypergamy is even worse there, paternity testing is banned and divorced men are often hit with a lifetime ban on leaving that shithole.

>>516100543
Yeah bro good thing you're in Ireland 1st world country where life is on easy mode. You'll be alright just read your bible.

>>516097070
>you have to opt out because its bad incentives
>and dysgenic
>then when there are no players the game is forced to change
You think by not trying to have children, the game is going to change?

It's like saying that by not working, you are going to start a business

>>516099426
>The point of having children is not to be happy, it's to have genetic continuation
So it seems, but in that case the unhappiness is only worth it if you care about genetic continuation. Increasingly less people do, and yeah sure our lineage will die out but humanity as a whole will persist.
>>516099639
>seeing everyone else's happy family life really starts to sting.
I've yet to have that happen. Mostly because even the happy ones don't seem that appealing. It's usually two people accepting that they're going to be dumpy, stressed, broke schlubs together. I see the fat, loose oversized shirt wearing woman, with the scent of cheap shampoo hanging on her, constantly running around with the kids and her also fat, sheepish husband wearing cargo shorts and a strained smile that calls everyone buddy and vacillates between saying "haha this is hard I'm stressed" and "anyway you should find yourself a missus and have kids soon". I just don't find that appealing.

I'm not antinatalist by any stretch, it's just that the family life is deeply uncomfortable to me even if money wasn't a constraint. When you're a genuine introvert who doesn't get lonely instead of one of those childless spinsters with dead eyes posting about how happy they are to be childfree, family life is just extremely unpalatable. Maybe I'm just genetically defective but I don't think I'll find any satisfaction going against my instinct.

>>516101174
Ok kike, that doesn't mean it's normal or that we shouldn't fix it. We know Jews did this, either to destroy us or force our society to be more like their matriarchal hell.

>>516101286
you can fix it by removing women from reproduction: artificial eggs and artificial wombs

>>516101339
way easier to just judge jail and hang the traitor in our society
or the pedophile and criminals like the 4chan moderation and ownership
you just them
you hang them
and you don't have any problem anymore

>>516101286
Hypergamy is female nature anon. There is no going back to the past but the future is here and there are plenty of options for that.

>>516100919
>and when those people don't want you around anymore,
The insecurity runs so deep here.

You have to give love to get love. Nobody who genuinely loves you will arbitrarily decide they hate you on day. Some people are users. You have to figure out early who those are and go for better people.

And even if you do end up alone by some chance, the goodness doesn't come from external validation, it comes from within.

>>516100923
Don't commit to a stupid whore. You have to vet the women so you don't end up with one.

>>516101513
it's not insecurity, it's statistics.

>>516101456
Agree. The old days are the old days. If you refuse to adapt, you will just be bitter and angry.

>>516101023
Pairing up for life works fine for some couples. Why not you?

>>516101339
I remember as a kid reading all these sci fi books about civilizations with just men and artificial reproduction and I never understood why people would want that and man does it 100% make sense now.

>>516099775
>Hahahaha anon everyone of those people will tell you to their face how much they miss the pre kid days

I'm in my 30's and single with no kids. Three "family men" at my work told me they envy me.
One confided in me his wife stopped having sex after their second kid and he wants to divorce her but thinks he'll get divorced raped and not be able see his kids.
My parents clearly resent each other and only stay married because they're super Christian and think divorce is a sin.
I had some shitty gfs in my 20's and I think "thank God I didn't marry or have kids with them it would've been a disaster"
Then I learn about how the divorce courts are rigged against men and if I did get married and have kids I could lose the modest wealth and stability I've managed to build because the woman's "not happy".
And the COVID vax too now. I managed to stay pure blood I'm not fucking with vaxxoids.
At this point I just want to be left alone and live out the rest of my life in peace. Better to live alone in the wilderness than share a house with a quarrelsome woman.
The only thing that kind of gives me pause is I feel like a should find an unvaxxed woman and pass unvaxxed genes on to the future as a duty to humanity but after seeing how the average normgroid reacted to COVID I think maybe humanity is shit and deserves to go extinct

>>516101660
because I already tried
and as I said, I'm infertile, so why even bother at this point?

>>516101234
Jeez, superficial much?

>They're dressed sloppily, that means they must be losers
Sometimes things matter more than peacocking. Endlessly fussing over appearances is a game for unmarried people. The thing about the animal world is, animals will move on from courtship to mating. Animals have figured out a basic fact of nature that many supposedly rational humans can't yet comprehend.

>>516101234
>So it seems, but in that case the unhappiness is only worth it if you care about genetic continuation. Increasingly less people do, and yeah sure our lineage will die out but humanity as a whole will persist

The thing is, I'll be unhappy either way. I'd rather be unhappy and struggling with children / relationships, then unhappy and struggling with myself.

And yes, of course I care about genetic continuation, my line is not ready to end