Thread 516667372

How the fuck are young men in their mid 20s supposed to meet women in this day and age?

>>516667372 (OP)
have u tried having white skin?

>>516667548
You do realize most incels are white right? Brownjeets get arranged marriages and shit

>>516667548
im white but 5'8" and ugly

turn 31 nex tmonth

never touched a woman in my entire life

>>516669169
And their women live on White dick until that day.

>>516667372 (OP)
Idk. Every woman I’ve fucked since 2022, I met on tinder. There are no single, non obese women irl

>>516667372 (OP)
You're supposed to meet them in high school.

>>516667372 (OP)
It's easy. Be White.

>>516667372 (OP)
Wherever the fuck you could come across them and by being friendly and having small talk first
Imagine listening to alpha male faggots and their muh cold approach advice lmao

>>516669515
>>516667548
> just be the only race that gets banned from tinder for being proud of itself, it's easy brah
You troon kike jeet niggers

>>516667372 (OP)
you don't, you grind until your 30s then you can worry about women

Don't you all have to go to college or university, why are you not finding them there.
Ps. Vaginas reek

>>516669528
That's how a normal person would describe approaching women.

i'm 29 and met my current girlfriend at a concert. we immediately hit it off and crazy coincidence she also browses 4chan.she lives 5 hours from me but we're making it work. shits cash, don't lose hope, you can still meet women naturally. just put yourself out there bros

>>516667372 (OP)
>>516669219

You can be the most charismatic and good-looking man in the room, but it counts for nothing if women don't know you're there. Lads, the simple truth is, you need to put yourself out there. Initiate conversations with a set number of women each day, and spend quality time getting to know them. The more you interact with potential partners, the higher your chances of finding someone who's attracted to you and wants a relationship. So, get out there and make it happen!

>>516669795
> go to concert
> tons of women
> ...they're all lesbian couples

Dating an educated black woman genuinely changed my life anons. Give it a try.
She's even racist towards her own kind, aka the niggaz. It's fucking wonderful.
They don't play the games white women play. Best relationship ever.

>>516669219
>5'8
Have you tried estrogen?

>>516667372 (OP)
apps are GOATed desu; they'll really get you right with girls who will like you. You just gotta do your best and the all of the little things will come into play but the more important thing is just keep trying even after you feel it's too late, just come back cuz they're just gonna be even more nervous.

>>516670184
i dont think that would improve my life in the slightest

also i am way too straight

>>516670184
She's built like a fridge though, and you know once the camera is off she looks like a freak.

>>516667372 (OP)
Go after what you want, Anon.

>>516667372 (OP)
By putting away your phone and going out to do things.

>>516670184
Holy shit the nose when he brings out the e.coli

>>516669738
A woman is nothing if not normal.
It's why they're incompatible with good men.

You're not, and any attempt to do so is an extreme act of rebellion you will be persecuted for, mostly by your own peers. If you feel awkward its because everyone knows that heterosexual mating is verboten, but it's also verboten to acknoledge that it's verboten. They just have to keep gaslighting men for ten more years and the white race will be gone for good. The millenials were the last white generation, they mostly failed to reproduce, and their youngest women will be entering menopause soon.

>>516667372 (OP)
Through Jihad

>>516669169
There's literally a word for chinese and Indian incels

>>516667372 (OP)
Who cares? Focus on riches not bitches. Trust me, boy, if you've saw one vagina then you've saw them all, the rest is all in your head.

>>516667372 (OP)
Another thread about women, holy shit stay on /r9k/, you worm to every board and ruin it; go to /fit/ see anons talking about what muscle women prefer on men, go to /o/ see anons talk about what car future mothers prefer, go to /fa/ anons talk about what length of hair women prefer. Kill yourself

You can even see the persecution I'm talking about in this thread, from supposedly "red pill" men. Half the responses are mocking the OP for even asking the question, reinforcing the idea that men are somehow not "good enough" for their own women. Just ten more years of this gaslighting and it's lights out, forever.

>>516667372 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men in their mid 20s supposed to meet women in this day and age?
School
Church
Anime Con
Gas Station
Coffee House
Randomly crossing paths on the side walk.

>>516667372 (OP)
I literally look like this guy except I'm leaner.
I'm a kv at 26.

>>516667372 (OP)
We live in objectively one of the weakest, most impotent generations of males ever to exist. The silver lining though is that any guy with any shred of "oompfh" is immediately sexually and socially successful. If you aren't having your pick of women, you're just admitting to being part of the lowT/oversocialized problem

you just grab the first one you see
and take her back to your dwelling

>>516667372 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men in their mid 20s supposed to meet women in this day and age?
I'm bringing arranged marriages back.
it will be up to your parents to set up an intervention.
majority of you guys don't go to college... and if you do only 35% of you have a college degrees

I need to talk to Mike Rove about this.

More shaming and gaslighting to prevent men from pointing out that a problem exists. This shit is so poisonous...

There’s no world where you can meet women or even build a social life in general. And it has absolutely nothing to do with personality, as normies claim, who themselves will advise you to do the most awkward and weird things, like meeting complete strangers in a bar (often advice from retarded millennials) as if they were in The Sims. In fact, society has just lied to you, plain and simple. They made you believe that meeting a woman was something normal, something that will happen at some point in your life, except it’s not. It’s absolutely not something natural. It’s not for nothing that brownoids do arranged marriages. Anyone who dares to say otherwise is either a teenager or a normie who doesn’t know what adult life is like when you’re starting from scratch.

>>516672558
A social life, and by extension meeting a woman (because you need a social life to meet women), is impossible in adulthood because a social life is a train you catch at the station, and that station is called adolescence. If for whatever reason (moving, dropping out, or whatever) you couldn’t build strong bonds in the same place during your childhood, once you’re an adult, it’s just over. It’s adolescence or never. Because once you enter the workforce and leave the school system, it’s done, ppl don’t make friends anymore, only colleagues. You can be “friends” with a coworker for 10 years, but once your contracts end, you’ll never see them again. It’s the same with a sports club; everything is transactional and interest based. You just have “filler friends” in the common places you find yourself in, nothing more, nothing less. You won’t meet women in the workplace either (you’ll just witness married women committing adultery at work, which will redpill you even more). People already have a family and a full social circle from childhood when they’re adults; they don’t need to make friends like they did in the school playground, and add to that the fact that time passes quickly and does its work, it’s over, you’re already 30. And meanwhile, women, to whom obviously none of what I’m saying applies to them, have slept with hundreds of guys, traveled, and known 50 guys before you. It’s just pointless, utterly useless.

>>516667372 (OP)
They aren’t. Enjoy the future

>>516669834
>put in effort for a used up hole
No. MGTOW forever faggot. Dating is inherently dysfunctional

>>516669219
Buy some cocaine. Go to a bar. Let some women know you have a bit of cocaine. Then let them know you have more at your place. Smash.

>>516667372 (OP)
Be good looking and/or rich

>>516667372 (OP)
well the tall ones that look like him will have no issue

>>516672462
Here's the catch 22
>If a man isn't able to independently and successfully court women, the lesser and mentally childlike gender, by himself, what makes you think that same bitchless man has what it takes to instead convince a patrician father or traditional mother?

>>516672647
This isn't a joke. This will actually work, subject to minor variations. Doesn't matter how ugly or autistic you are.

>>516672111
>School
I don't believe in education.
>Church
I don't believe in God.
>Anime Con
I don't watch anime.
>Gas Station
These are obsolete and will be gone when oil runs out.
>Coffee House
I don't drink coffee.
>Randomly crossing paths on the side walk
I don't believe in fate or chance. This advice is for DUMB people.

>>516667372 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men in their mid 20s supposed to meet women in this day and age?
Just look her in the eye and give her a firm handshake.

>>516672838
Die mad and alone, lazy nigga

>>516672604
And in all of this I haven't even mentioned hypergamy, heightpill and all those glass ceilings which make it all the more over

Dating sites are also useless if you don't look like a 6ft model. You can't meet someone on the street as a complete stranger, nor on dating sites; they're glass ceilings everywhere, it's over.

Even those who manage to meet someone are cucks who cope on their gf past.

>>516672558
>>516672604
Nigga just hang around people and don't be an antisocial faggot, people socialized during the worst wars in history and the most boring times alike.
No, chicks won't give you IOIs or whatever the fuck you expect, they need to be familiar with you to figure out if they'll like you or not, you literally need to be friends with them first. If you have a fried zoomie brain this will sound incomprehensible to you because you'll likely overcomplicate shit and live by some preset rules
And go to /adv/ to talk about this shit, not here

>>516670184
all women should be force-fed estrogen to maximize breast growth

>>516667372 (OP)
Church

>>516669169
some of the most insane jeetcel cope ever witnessed

>>516667372 (OP)
wtf did she do

>>516672772
yeah I'm so averse to confrontation I can't imagine meeting someone else's parents (or showing someone to my parents)

>>516667372 (OP)
Boomers will say church
Kek

>>516672558
>>516672604
brootal trvke, but of course /pol/ ignores it

>>516667372 (OP)
>going out of you way to get sex only to need to visualize a porn scene to nut

>>516669528
as a woman this is how i meet guys
if they can't do this then i don't want to date them

>>516669310
>until that day
After that day, too.

>>516671273
>and their youngest women will be entering menopause soon.

Youngest mill is 29. Average age women start menopause is 51.

“Soon” is 22 years.

>>516669528
>Wherever the fuck you could come across them and by being friendly and having small talk first
I dont talk to dumb whores. They can get the fuck out of my fucking way unless its for money.

>>516667372 (OP)
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, in the past sure maybe but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2025, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out. And let me tell you alone as a 30/40+ year old male, it's not going to go well. You would at least need a wingman but even then the odds are stacked against you not just because of the age difference.

>>516674849
i mean i literally met my current bf in a bar so and before that i met my last one at a party.

>>516669219
Similar age and same

Lots of good attractive guys are virgins for some reason

>>516667372 (OP)
Approach them in real life.

There are basically only four ways to meet women:
>Dating apps
be an 8+
>Cold approach
be more prolific than most other men
>Social circles
be alpha
>Social media
be famous

>>516672604
This

>>516667548
Projecting brownoid

>>516674566
YWNBAW troon

>>516667372 (OP)
Why would any guy waste their time doing that? Acquiring resources is infinitely more important.

>>516669528
>just walk up to a woman
Women call the police when you do this

>>516673213
He's not wrong though. You can make feeble "acquaintances" after age 25, but you can no longer form a real, long lasting friendship, possibly the cut-off age is even lower, maybe already at 20. And it only gets harder to make new connections as you get older. For true bonding you need proximity, repeated unplanned interactions, and a setting that encourages people to let their guard down and confide in each other. This is why people meet their lifelong friends in elementary, high school or college. Research found that starting at age 25, we lose more friends than we make each year. In the professional world, "proximity" is hard to maintain, as work colleagues are reassigned or move on to new jobs. The workplace is a rather anonymous, superficial and competitive environment, so people usually hide personal details, vulnerabilities and quirks from colleagues. Once people start getting into serious long-term relationships in their 20s, the challenges only increase. Making friends with couples is like matchmaking for two. Children complicate things much more. Suddenly, you are surrounded by a new circle of parent "friends", but the emotional ties can be tenuous at best. You meet them because both of your children are friends, not you adults. Even when parent friends develop a bond, the resulting "friendships" can be fleeting and subject to the whims of the children themselves. And good luck if you remain childless, you have a good chance of losing your parent friend over the years as your daily routines grow to be vastly different. After 25, people also often experience internal shifts in how they approach friendship. Self-discovery gives way to self-knowledge, so you become pickier about whom you surround yourself with. I think also a big hurdle is that after age 30 people concentrate more on maintaining their existing friendships than forming new ones.

>>516670603
Women are literally on their phones. Youre a kike

>>516672838
>I don't believe in God.
Then kys and fuck off. You shouldn't be with anyone if youre not going to acknowledge Christ as Lord

>>516675517
mfer looks tall as well

brootal

>>516669645
>college woman
>i.e. used up whore who has been passed around by half the sports teams.
Lol, lmao even.
If you take a college woman, you absolutely deserve it when you find out later that she has always been cheating on you and the kids aren't even yours.
That's just God's divine justice.

>>516667372 (OP)
how many are worth meeting? maybe 5%? you won't keep her, she WILL divorce rape you.
buy onahole, be happy, save your cash for a nice hooker every 2 weeks

>>516676101
>You shouldn't be with anyone if youre not going to acknowledge Christ as L-ACK
*Neck pouring blood*

>>516667372 (OP)
>How the fuck are young men in their mid 20s supposed to meet women in this day and age?
it's literally not my problem

>>516674566
>as a woman* this is how i meet guys
*man who pretends to be a woman on the internet

>>516667372 (OP)
By the time I had turned 20 I had already given up on women for years

>>516675882
>>516676431
you guys can mald about being virgins while my bf fucks me

I wish I had an actual father that gave a shit that pushed me to care more about this when I was 18 and didn't let me just drift aimlessly in life as he drank and watched sports every day and let my psycho over controlling mother do all the work

Thread full of autistic 20 something losers. The highlight of your Saturday will be gaming and jerking

>>516667372 (OP)
Why would you want to meet with 3DPD? Ewww

>>516671386
indian is poocel but what's the chinese one?

>>516667548
im white but have autism and ugly face. Ive been alone my entire life ill be 30 in 8 months.

>>516676577
Holy shit I haven't been here in ages but you're still here obsessed with what you consider losers. I bet you never stopped. You can't help yourself, like a fucking junkie.

>>516671942
this is inherent in men, the one's with survivors bias
who end up with decent positions and are selected by women in this rigged system
commit the fundamental attribution error
associating their "success" with their "superiority"
and another man's "failure" with his "inferiority" (completely discounting the rule enviornment)
couple in sexual access, and you get the results we see
they have an incentive to prevent competition
so they shit on "lower males"
men are the one's driving all of this,
yes, it's through the vehicle of women,
but make no mistake, it's men
men could eliminate this drive to accumulate and compete
but they wont because it gives them an edge with women
the freemasons and other elites have harems
because they are the most "successful" in our society,
so have the highest levels of sexual access and the greatest ability to prevent access to competition
it's this simple

>>516676773
Normies are perpetual children who still think living for other people matters lmfao.

>>516676577
woman detected
>>516673685
audrey hale thought most men were "losers" as well
women dont get to decide what to do with men's lives

>>516676735
>516676735
would love to add you, but the space is running out

>>516669169
cope

>>516676487
My dad tried to convince me to approach some girl and I just refused. There's no point to any of it. I don't know why parents with a failed relationship expect all their kids to want to experience some variation of what they did.

>>516676773
>Holy shit I haven't been here in ages
Hey Chud. Maybe you should crawl back from where you came if you don't like me giving you a reality check

>>516676700
Ricecel

>>516676994
they haven't read "3% male"

>>516667372 (OP)
You were supposed to meet them in college.

>>516677070
I haven't either. No one needs to to see relationships aren't worth it.

>>516667372 (OP)
Just have a job, go to the mosque and ask the imam if he knows about marriage-aged girls looking for a husband?
Or are you in Malaysia for vacations?

Step 1 - have a purpose or at minimum a job
Step 2 - make male friends
Step 3 - leave the house
Step 4 - spend time in group activities and places where women actually are

Let me know which step you’re struggling with and I’ll tell you what to fix.

>>516667372 (OP)
>Superman's head bounces back from a kiss
>Superman
>Being affected by a female's slight inertia
This is why this movie was shit.

>>516677033
Maybe you should get off your knees and learn some self awareness instead of sucking loser cock all day every day.

>>516675396
Anon. We’re talking about women, your gay bar experience is irrelevant.

>>516677182
in the 3% male you learn that "approaching" is a failure to understand female attraction

>>516667372 (OP)
Touching grass.

>>516677318
You've obviously spent the day on your safe space. You've been building courage all day to enter pol, and got rustled instantly by real talk. This is why you should stay in your safe space and live out the rest of your days in a blurred fantasy of cope

Dawn of the dead was a documentary goyim

>>516677336
let me put it this way
>women seek security and strength in man
seeking a woman automatically means the man is seeking something outside himself
to "validate" him in a sense
if he plays all the rules of modernity
of "being polite" and all that horse shit
even worse, because now he is weak, supplicating
and seeking validation
a deadly combination to female attraction
her vagina just became a desert, congrats

>>516677576
Bitches like you are all over the site so there was no safe space. Fag can't even use his words right.

>>516677784
I enjoy that your doll hands are shaking and clammy while typing that out. Just leave. You're a loser that can't get any pussy. I'm sorry to break that to you. I'm sorry you've taken that badly

>>516677593
one mistake a lot of men make too besides chasing
is they believe that attraction is something that can be negotiated
it can but only if initial sexual attraction is present
if she isn't already fucking you in your head before you open your mouth
you already lost, and no joke or "personality"
can bridge that attraction chasm

>>516667372 (OP)
You're not. Build your wisdom and red pill an 18 year old in your mid thirties and get married. Working out for me. I worried a little towards my late 20s, but it worked out better than I could have imagined.

>>516677994
in her head*

>>516677593
Female attraction and judgement doesn't matter because it's not based on anything consistent and the women are in sorry states. Why would you even care to read a book for it? Their feelings change regardless.

>>516677953
You enjoy pretending to have control as an illiterate retard obsessed with "losers". You're beneath the ones you're trying to insult.

>>516676943
well atleast im not alone in this position, one of the reasons ive always enjoyed 4chan is i know their are other guys like me out there.

If you didn’t meet her in school. Meet her through church or work. If your job is dude centric like mine, use the apps (lmao good luck).

>>516678091
it's not about producing static states or having absolute control or predictability
it's about understanding the general layout and strategically orienting oneself intelligently
you already do that in things like, how you act at work or in public
without maybe even being conscious of it, you adopt these strategies
why wouldn't you want to be intelligent in how you approached the subject of females?
in a war, you want to understand your opponent
in a game, you want to know the rules and options available

>>516667372 (OP)

I look like that actor and women spit at me.

He must ve a Jew or some kind of psy-op. Or maybe he has a heart of gold, lol.

>>516667372 (OP)
Have a coed hobby. Sports always worked well from my experience. I know a lot of chill single women through coed volleyball who don't use any dating apps or social media, and they all talk about it being hard to meet someone (I'm already married).

There still are a lot of normal women out there who just bounce between work and a hobby or two. You have to actually do that hobby to meet them though, which is the disconnect for the hermits here.

>>516678241
You're a loser and it upsets you. Where ever you've been hanging out all day (reddit), you've all be patting each other on the back, cuddling, in loser therapy. You've come onto pol, and real talk has hit you like a ton of bricks. All your meditation, coping and therapy undone in the blink of an eye

>>516678443
The issue is making it about their attraction when you should be avoiding them because they offer nothing but lies and problems. Nothing about them ever lasts.

>>516667372 (OP)
Men should start wearing hats again. Wear it as a public symbol that you're a traditional guy only interested in traditional women
> countdown to hats are misogynist

>>516678556
going outside and interacting with people made me even more of a hermit, you realise how awful most people are.

even harder if you have autism like myself, i find it hard to read people

>>516678679
If I'm a loser you still kiss my dirty boots because I'm obviously better than you. I already explained I was still on the site arguing with retards like you. There was no safe space. On top of begging for losers attention you really can't read. You're a special class of loser.

>>516667372 (OP)
You can't, we're pretty much fucked due to various circumstances, but mainly because the men are too cowardly and weak to take up arms and destroy the system that created this mess in the first place.
That fast food, porn, and video games is just too good to give up for the ability to have an actual life and family for the majority of men, especially those that like to bitch on here.
Ironically they are proving the point they are the lesser males that deserve to never reproduce by doing so.
So now everyone gets to enjoy the hell they go out of their way to allow to exist in the first place.
Enjoy your suffering anons!

>>516669834
This is the correct take. Women do not even see 95% of men. Your fantasy that a woman will notice the book you're reading, or that you have a nice smile, from across the bar/library/office/wherever are totally unrealistic. Women, on their own, only notice men that exhibit size and power. If you are tall and broad they will notice you. If you are seen as the leader of a group, where other men (and much preferably other women) look to you and listen to you, then women will notice you. If you exert violence or physical power over others then women will notice you. Those are the only situations where a woman sees a man as anything other than a physical object. Even in those cases you still have to say hello to her. She can notice you all day but if you don't choose her, and don't have the BALLS to say hello to her (the first test of many), she still won't be interested.

>>516667372 (OP)
Just literally be superman

>>516679037
I'm white, 6'3, good looking, charismatic. I've never had to compete with losers for female attention. You don't know about that life. You're a loser

>>516678449
Anon,... It's acting

>>516678811
doesn't mean i dont have the desire to fuck them
just because i want to fuck them does not mean i am
trying to move in with one lol
fuck that, i simply want to understand how they operate so i can exploit that
to produce outcomes i desire
fuck it, they exploited my father for his resources and kindness
i exploit them for their pussy, and good riddance

>>516679056
Kek yeah the men are too cowardly to kill themselves fighting the heckin gubmint so the fat whores and fags who survive can fuck all over their corpses. You chicken McFly? What a retard.

>>516677593
The only reason sex is even worth it is for the validation. You're still seeking validation by trying to find this perfect zen mindset where you can somehow bypass this made-up idea that women will get turned off when you actually want them. This zen mindset taken to its natural conclusion will just make you not pursue women at all. There is no world where you somehow zen your way into gathering the motivation to approach.

>>516679422
women approach me though

there's plenty of fat women and single mothers out there who would take a good dicking from just about anybody, you incels just want 10/10 models who wouldn't touch you with a 10ft poll or younger women way out of your league.

>>516679181
>I'm white
Sure you are Muhammad. You have so many bitches on your dick that you come on here begging on your knees for losers attention. Get some therapy and try not to rape her this time.

>>516675517
Truth is that women just don't like men. That's what I have observed over my lifetime

>>516679473
wrong, i've been seeing a woman in her forties for nearly two years. i will fuck any age woman if im attracted to her.
i just refuse to engage in situations where i am at a strategic advantage
or i cannot place the women into the pursuer role
where she prefers to be anyways
women want to have to prove something and earn it
most men give it away free. too easy turns women off
i had to learn this not only from reading it but practicing,
because at first i didnt believe it, i thought approaching
and being genuine were the way. they aren't

>>516679671
strategic disadvantage*

i actually had a really hot stripper girl chasing me a year ago
and i folded into a chasing mess and blew up her phone and fumbled it
she had MASSIVE tits and i never forgot the pain of losing out on her

>>516679473
>Non fat/deformed women without bastards in the way or menopause are automatic 10/10
Only to lesser creatures like yourself