Thread 521084150

My brother started dating one and the stuff he tells me is baffling.

She has two teens and they don't do literally anything. They smoke weed all day, barely go to school, and might not make it out of high school. They also eat and snack all day and do absolutely nothing around the house. When my brother brings this up, single mom gets mad. Why? Does she hate her kids? Why is she letting them fail?

Another thing she does is say she's too tired and stressed out for him to come over or to go on a date. Then he finds out that she went to go hang out with her girlfriends.

My bro is pretty done and I am encouraging him to drop her. However, I've watched some youtube videos lately and the comments show that this is pretty common behavior for a single mom. Why is that? Is it the pair bonding? Entitlement? Why do they act so horrible?

>>521084150 (OP)
I did tree work with a guy who was raised by one. He told me his mom got lots of gibs from the government and barely paid attention to him, and favored his sister instead. His sister was super abusive and even pressed an iron on his hand as a kid. He hates women a lot now. Also his sister grew up to be a single mom who went to prison for something he didn’t specify, and his niece is now being raised by that very same mom
Told me his dad was a marine that died in some war or something

>>521084150 (OP)
thanks for being frank with the filename.

>>521084398
Oof. Rough.

>>521084634
Honestly is the best policy.

>>521084638
Yeah, something was clearly off about him too. He barely knew me and started telling me his whole life story, and out of sheer coincidence we happened to agree on feminism being absolute cancer. Not a gamble I would take. He has a kid now and he constantly tries to be there for his kid to avoid repeating history

>>521084150 (OP)
>Why do they act so horrible?

unless they're widows due to an accident/illness, their judgment is terrible or they have drink/drug/mental problems. that's why they're single mums.

their children generally are the centre of their universe and will be prioritised 100% of the time over any man. their lives are generally full of chaos and drama. they have little to no free time.

they're the easiest women to casually plough, but they're absolute shite in any other circumstance.

if your brother doesn't have any children, or isn't dating someone half his age, tell that faggot to get rid of her.

>>521085003
Interesting you bring up the chaos and drama because that's exactly how my brother described it. You're probably right about having bad judgement because she's always struggling for money and my brother is like, wtf is she even spending it on? Turns out it was clothes, dining out, and candles.

Anyways, I get that single moms are broken people, but I just wonder how did so many of them end up this way? Literally millions of cat ladies on the way. Have that many women always been mentally ill? Or is it industrial society and it's consequences?

I'm just baffled dude.

>>521085647
>Have that many women always been mentally ill?
The bible was very clear about the snake and the apple.

>>521085763
hmm...true. I hope you feel extra based the next time you eat a vegemite sandwich.

>>521084150 (OP)
They're hedonistic narcissists. Just listen to the songs Girls Just Want to Have Fun or Material Girl.

>>521086516
Yeah 100%. I'm just wondering why though. Did daddy not love them enough? Does society coddle them too much? Does it go back to eve's apple and that they are genetically disposed to be horrible?

>>521084150 (OP)
>does she hate her kids?
Yes. Those children are a reminder of her stupidity. All the woman bullshit about outwardly saying she wants a betabux while really she wants to tame some chad, and obviously failed at that since the dude isn't in her life anymore.

Those young boys are literally a monument to her failures as a woman, so she desecrates them the same way you would deface a monument to communism.

>>521086645
>Does society coddle them too much?
It's this. We used to gear our entire society around preventing this exact kind of shit, shaming women for being sluts, divorcees, single mothers, all of this is gone and instantly the rates of single motherhood and promiscuity fucking skyrocketed.

Women are intrinsically retarded whores incapable of critical thinking, and boomers took their shackles off.

>>521086860
>and boomers took their shackles off.

Their shackles were let off beginning with the 19th amendment but before that Capitalism demanded more labor since men were at war. It wasn't boomers. They weren't even born yet.

>>521086694
Damn. Brutal. It's just so disheartening to see women claim they love their children, but then set them up for failure like that.

>>521084150 (OP)
women are dumb and have trouble understanding idea of consequences so smart people just burned feminists at stake

>>521086860
You ain't wrong. There's no consequences any more so they can act as retarded as they want and at they end of the day they'll still get WIC and food stamps if Chad and Mr. Beta leave.

>>521086645
>I'm just wondering why though.
You've fallen into the trap of trying to find a reason for why these women are like this. Probably because finding a reason means you can find a solution. Eventually you'll come to the conclusion that a huge segment of the population, female and male, is just feckless and not good for much more than serfdom. Most single mothers of today would've been prostitutes 200 years ago. Now, they have the government gibs and social media lets them apply immense societal pressure to men to accept them as potential mates. It's the same way NEETbux allow people to be NEETs; it was always in their DNA, but they'd have starved 200 years ago if they tried to live that way.

>>521085003
>their children generally are the centre of their universe and will be prioritised 100% of the time over any man.
Except the part where all drug addicts murderers, rapists, and people in prison were raised by single moms.

>>521084150 (OP)
Single Moms = Mental illness. Every single time. There are very few upstanding women who just happen to be single mothers. 99% of the time they're single mothers because they're mentally ill and make terrible life choices and will continue to make terrible life choices until they die.

>>521087500
lol literally this meme.

>>521087371
>>521087623
Yeah it's brutal but it's failing. That's why everyone's screeching about men opting out of society, it completely fails if men stop paying income taxes, or if the government stops siphoning billions of dollars to retarded whores every year.

The government will obviously not stop this voluntarily, so the best weapon against it is to not pay taxes anymore, which is why you see so much propaganda directed at those men who opt out of this bullshit.

>>521084150 (OP)
>My brother started dating one
You didn't call him a fucking loser? Holy shit you must be one too.

>>521084150 (OP)
They are just looking for:
- 2nd dad
- family "feeder" (money)
- oc, they are somewhat crazy (guess why she ended up being a singly mom)

tl;dr

RUN

>>521087660
Yeah, you're probably right. I wasn't going for a solution per se, I've always just been curious about things. I'm in IT so I like to tinker and see how things work. If a solution can be found, great. But sometimes that solution is that it was coded by jeets and we need to change vendors lol.

>>521087814
That explains the drugs (legal and illegal).

>>521088004
Yeah, that's what I'm telling my brother to do.

FORREST GUMP WAS A SIMP HE SHOULDA KEPT RUNNING!

>>521088227
Human being were coded by the ultimate jeet and some of us are just defective. Natural selection had a way of dealing with them. The smartest among us beat natural selection. Now we're here.