Thread 81479924

How do I love someone or be loved when I don't love myself a bit?

>>81479924 (OP)
That is a good question because chances are you will hurt someone who tries to love you with an attitude like that. Why don't you love yourself?

>>81479924 (OP) You've answered it yourself. Love yourself.

>>81479924 (OP)
Improve your virtue

>>81479933
I know how horrible person I am better than anyone. How could I love myself? I'm the worst of the worst and a trashbag

>>81479954
The fact that you acknowledge your flaws means you are not a bad person. If you were so far gone you wouldnt even realize you have things to change

>>81479954
You haven't killed anyone that I am aware of and I doubt you have what it takes to be a bully. Simply hating yourself doesn't qualify as the worst. Do you not have a single person to speak to? There's many lonely people out there.

>>81479977
That doesn't matter the person who I am doesn't matter when there is no one who likes me but no one will like me when I don't love myself and the cycle goes on there is no hope I will be dead in a few years there's no hope I was just born too weak

>>81479989
I don't want to speak to anyone, even my parents or friends, because they will never understand me and it will make them think I'm weird and unfit even more

>>81480000
How are you going to get love without a single word exchanged, then? You do have to put some effort in.

>>81479954
love yourself first, it's important that you recognize this to grow.

>>81479924 (OP)
you have to find someone who loves you for the way you are. after realizing you're capable of being loved, i believe you'll be able to appreciate yourself more. does that person even exist? i dont know. but i guess all you can do is hope.