As someone who hasn't had a gf yet, how do I make sure I don't end up like idubbbz?

>>81571897 (OP)
Don't get fame and date the first 'fan' who takes interest in you

>>81571897 (OP)
Be secure in yourself. As soon as she gives you shit, tell her to fuck off and deal with the consequences. That may mean no girl ever goes near you again. Better than the alternative,

Ian was bassically a fucking loser nerd who became and millionaire and married the first e-whore orbiter that came his way because hes never had a gf before and though it was the bst he could do. He puts up with her shit because he's scared if she leaves then he'll never find another girl and he's right. But its too late for him now. If anisa leaves she'll not only clean him out of a his wealth but go on a tour of humiliation against him.

This nearly happened to me when I dated a hot girl. She knew I couldn't do any better and emotionally blackmailed me for months until I finally put my foot down and she quit the relationship on the spot.

>>81571897 (OP)
Idubbbz was a subhuman 2/10, but got rich enough to find his first gf.

>>81571897 (OP)
Do not marry the girl who takes your virginity (possible exception: maybe if it's a trade). That's basically it for not ending up like Mrs. Jomha's Husbant.

I also advise people to try not to get too tied down until AT LEAST their third "The One".

>>81571897 (OP)
Y'know, I'm pretty sure the girl I was dating and I had sex with her in 2013.

>>81571897 (OP)
>how do I make sure I don't end up like idubbbz?

Self respect, confidence and being secure. Thats it. Sadly few men possess these traits, especially around here. Most guys go through a relationship like this at some point but its usually when theyre 15/16 and they learn from it. Someone like idubbz never had a gf before that muzie slut so he doesnt understand theres other women out there.

>>81571897 (OP)
never bend over for a woman's demands. guys that let women walk over them end up like Ian. be assertive and learn when to say NO

>>81571897 (OP)
You should already have better judgment than he does by being exposed to incel communities.

>>81572315
all my old friends from my childhood church have been married and divorced multiple times, a few of them cheated on, none of them are older than 25. no sex before marriage just doesn't work in our culture where women are free to do what they want

>>81571897 (OP)
the fact that you recognize idubbbz is pathetic is probably enough to stop you from becoming as bad as him

>>81572355
Wtf are you mormon. That's really young to be married twice

>>81571897 (OP)
Good looking whores can very easily manipulate low test inexperienced men. I don't think a good looking whore would ever target you unless you were rich or famous.

>>81572368
Every man recognizes what a cuck looks like. They just give in and start acting that way after a foid gives them any sort of attention

>>81572380
I'm Atheist but that's a non-denominational Russian-American church and yes they rush to get married the moment they turn 18 there, and then get divorced 5 years later, a fact that my parents forget to mention whenever they try to annoy me about me not being married and not going to church even though there's tons of girls there!!! (literally none of whom are single)

>>81572384
>Good looking whores can very easily manipulate low test inexperienced men

This right here. My ex did it. Not because I was rich but because she a BPD head case and was desperate to have a kid. She knew she could wrap me around her finger. And she did before I put my foot down and revealed my power level. She left that very day. Literally cut her loses and moved on.

>>81572563
>before I put my foot down and revealed my power level
Was it that uncharacteristic for you that she left?

>>81572879
Erm possibly. I think it was a combination of factors;
1. She was looking for an excuse to leave and pushed me over the edge in one argument too far so she could then use that as an excuse
2. Yes it was uncharatesitc for me in her eyes
3. The topic I revealed myself on she couldn't ignore.

The main reason is simple, she was a BPD bitch, early 30s who had been in abusive relationships previously. Part of her original attraction to me was she wanted to "fix me". She openly admitted before she left that had wasted 3 months "training" me to be a "good boy". Thats an actual quote from her. She basically had no real respect for me and when I stood my ground she wasn't going to tolerate it in any way shape or form.

>>81572927
Further more I didnt satisfy her wants or needs and wasn't going to give her what she wanted. If we had of stayed together, got married na dhad a kid like we talked about it would have ended in emotional abuse, domestic violence(from her), divorce and her taking the kid and my money and fucking off. Shes now 37, unmarried, childess and fat.

>>81571897 (OP)
Rape your gf daily

>>81572927
>>81572935
So why didnt you just do what she wanted? Thats the problem with moids, you dont know a good thing when you have it and you dont understand relationships come with work.

>>81572993
>rElAtIoNsHiPs cOme wItH W-WORK!!!

How about you cunts just not be mentally ill?

>>81572927
Why would you start dating a woman in her 30s?

>>81571897 (OP)
Remember. You don't want to be like them.

>>81572342
>end up like Ian
what happen?

>>81573205
Because I was in my 30s.

>>81573472
idubbz is a pooner?

>>81571897 (OP)
The guy married a muslim whore. Its all a humilationrtual.

First step is never getting a girlfriend. If you fail that then don't marry. If you fail that then that's on you.

If you look at his history it is obvious he was always spiraling down for a failure. He has a bad and strained relationship with his father and unfortunately is pretty meek as a person.

I hope I'll see his redemption ark before he spirals down even further. It is painful to be even reminded of his existence.

>>81571897 (OP)
Get into a relationship with a bop so you get experience.

>>81573887
No, a developmentally deficient male. I'm one.

>>81571897 (OP)
dont get to attached and drop her if she tries to control your life ?

>>81571897 (OP)
>end up like idubbbz
With a hot clusterbee gf? Oh no!

>>81572407
>and yes they rush to get married the moment they turn 18 there
Sounds like they got married to have sex which is why their marriages crumbled.
>>81572380
I don't mormons marry or divorce so easily.

>>81571897 (OP)
date a black girl, they make good wives

>>81572993
the fact that you sympathize with anon's ex tells a lot about you

End up like a millionaire celebrity former professional boxer with a smoking hot gf? I don't think many anons have to worry about that.

>>81571897 (OP)
Buy an ad, retard. I don't care who your e-celeb master is.

Don't be a limp dicked cuck

>>81576894
Thats good advice right there.

>>81571897 (OP)
If the gf is controlling and starts to isolate you from friends and family for arbitrary irrational reasons, run.

>>81571897 (OP)
Have literally 1 single ounce of self respect

>>81571897 (OP)
the chances of you ending up like Mr. Jomha are pretty slim. just have boundaries and dont cling to every tiny shred of pussy, no matter how hard that may seem. its better to be forever alone than in mr jomha's situation.

I think she is really hot. Just let Idubbz be a liberal faggot hes got a sexy girl.

>>81571897 (OP)
Just have a spine and don't let them dictate ur life. She literally tells him when he's hungry and when he should eat.

>>81571897 (OP)
Dont date women with Cluster B personality disorders

>how do I make sure I don't end up with a hot gf
don't worry I don't think that's a big risk for someone like you

Wait you people actually think Anisa is hot even with all the garbage graffiti on her body?

>>81577258
nobody think shes hot. those are trolls

>>81577258
before she went full millenial leftist mode she was a pretty solid 7/10. Not absurdly hot but attractive enough

>>81571897 (OP)
I'm pretty sure that girls name is Anisa and I've dated her before. She's a BPDemon stalker who thinks she's God (solipsism) and was trying to make it as an influencer when I knew her. Why she's with such an ugly be-ta look guy is beyond me.
She told me she had sex with 80 different guys before being me and I noped out of there so fucking fast.

iDubbbz really saw this and said "Yup she's the one"

>>81571897 (OP)
Just don't simp and don't take women seriously.

Slowly transform into chad.