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Anonymous No.81607659 [Report] >>81607670 >>81607678 >>81607679 >>81607750 >>81607771 >>81608306 >>81608837 >>81609062 >>81609667 >>81610096
Can any genuine femoids here tell me what gives you ick? Just anything that turns you off.

I'm interested in what I might be overlooking that might deter women.
Anonymous No.81607670 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
>playing video games
>being mean in any way
>not responding even after I left them on read for hours
>being broke
>being actually serious instead of ironic
Anonymous No.81607678 [Report] >>81607698 >>81608109 >>81608842
>>81607659 (OP)
Im big femcel so I barely have standards, but one thing that icks me out is when guys try to make everything sexual. Another is when they try to act cooler/more popular/smarter than they actually are. Authenticity is 10x better than any form of disguise
Anonymous No.81607679 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
Women like rape, so do it a lot to them anon
Anonymous No.81607698 [Report] >>81607702 >>81607703
>>81607678
Do you hate the word cock? Do you prefer to hear dick instead?
Anonymous No.81607702 [Report]
>>81607698
I prefer the term "peenus weanus" hehe :)
Anonymous No.81607703 [Report]
>>81607698
Cock is cringe, dick is cringe. Just don't talk about your dick to girls you're interested in, it makes us immediately think you're a virgin neckbeard loser
Anonymous No.81607724 [Report] >>81607739
How important is confidence, does a timid dude piss you off. Do you like a man that's very forward?
Anonymous No.81607739 [Report] >>81607780
>>81607724
It's important to have some level of self respect and confidence, but being timid is completely fine and a lot of us are into it. I personally dont really like a super forward guy, but im sure theres some people out there that do, its all personal preference
Anonymous No.81607750 [Report] >>81607813 >>81608188 >>81608564 >>81608968 >>81609081 >>81611599 >>81611599
>>81607659 (OP)
>acts like i dont exist
>puts anyone other than kids or family before me
>ghosts randomly to "get a break"
>brings up sexual shit in public or in front of people
>favourite positions are non-intimate (doggy, reverse cowgirl)
>spazzes about me being taller than them/same height as them
>only watches/plays/reads popular media
>doesnt enjoy music outside of rap or classical or popular 80s rock

both last ones show an incredible lack of character. ive had to teach several guys to not be npcs, its not a fun experience
Anonymous No.81607762 [Report] >>81607795 >>81609690
I guess this is a good thread to ask. there was a chick working at a dollar store that was super nice to me when I went to shop
>greeted me right as I exited my car (she was stacking chairs outside)
>gave me the expected kind greeting when scanning my items
>but also asked me what my plans were for the day, we talked briefly about how I was taking my dog to the vet and she mentioned she had a dog too
I find it hard to believe she had a genuine interest in me since I perceive myself as very ugly and I'm also overweight (which may not be that much of a deal breaker except she seemed very fit).

On the cosmically small chance she liked me I was wondering how I might approach her and ask her out.
Anonymous No.81607771 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
one woman's ick is another woman's turn-on
if she likes you, she likes you so don't stress about the details
Anonymous No.81607780 [Report]
>>81607739
Thanks for that, a pretty obvious answer in hindsight but I guess I just needed to hear it.
Anonymous No.81607795 [Report] >>81607808 >>81607878
>>81607762
Anon not trying to rain on your parade, but that is just regular customer retail conversations. Ive had that same conversation with hundreds of guys while at work and i wasnt interested, it was just easier than standing in awkward silence.

However if you do want to ask her out, which i think why not since at worst itll give you some practice at asking people out and at best youll have a date, just strike up the usual conversation you had before, maybe pivot it to something you like (ie coffee, music, etc), and then if you find something you share an interest in, just casually ask if she'd be interested in going to *shared interest event*. If it doesn't work out for you, its easier said than done but dont feel too discouraged. It might burn for a bit, but I can assure you that when we get asked out and dont accept, we don't start thinking youre a pathetic loser, we're flattered most of the time but are just in some situation that prevents us from accepting. Wishing you well!!
Anonymous No.81607808 [Report] >>81607830
>>81607795
>Anon not trying to rain on your parade, but that is just regular customer retail conversations
Sure I don't doubt that. But for me it was a unique interaction since nobody is ever that friendly to me usually so I ended up fixated on it.
Anonymous No.81607813 [Report] >>81607832
>>81607750
I little have non of theses problems were is My fuking gf
Anonymous No.81607830 [Report]
>>81607808
Yes sorry if my message came off as condescending!! Regardless, its great that you had a positive interaction in public and with time and practice you'll get better at holding and initiating conversation :)
Anonymous No.81607832 [Report] >>81608069
>>81607813
>spelling errors
there's your problem
Anonymous No.81607869 [Report] >>81609697
My main ick is when the man says that his hobbies are sports and music.
Other than that is if he doesn't know how to eat a burger and splashes sauce all over his shirt. I would have never expected for this to happen but it did.
Anonymous No.81607878 [Report] >>81607895
>>81607795
>it was just easier than standing in awkward silence

Do you fuking amircans have to wait hour to scan everything also what the fuck do you mean awkward silence keep your eyes on My shit and move quickly
Anonymous No.81607895 [Report] >>81607942 >>81608003
>>81607878
Not American kek scanning stuff isnt instant, especially if theres a really big trolley of stuff, so sometimes ill just ask someone how their day is going or just basic small talk that everyone does. Not my fault youre so socially deprived that the idea of this is insane to you
Anonymous No.81607942 [Report] >>81608061 >>81608190
>>81607895
original poster here, all i was buying was 1 blanket
Anonymous No.81608003 [Report]
>>81607895
Ok fair I never had much in My trolly but Thier is no way in hell Thier is this awkward silence a non of you want to be Thier and both of want to be out of Thier as soon as possible no one thinks oh dam I have been here for a hot minute and I haven't said anything i should say something it's all in your Insecure mind
Anonymous No.81608061 [Report] >>81608190
>>81607942
in that case she wants penis 100%
Anonymous No.81608069 [Report] >>81608123
>>81607832
Noo please My finger slipt don't go please
Anonymous No.81608109 [Report]
>>81607678
What if I'm genuinely just super cool and smart and this triggers your alarm bells and you think I'm simply "acting" that way, WHAT THEN
Anonymous No.81608123 [Report] >>81610732
>>81608069
I can't be with a man that can't spell... I'm fading away...
Anonymous No.81608152 [Report] >>81608190
Wait there's actually chicks here? *Ahem* *Straightens tie* Anyone want a boyfriend?
Anonymous No.81608188 [Report]
>>81607750
are you european?
do you want kids?
Anonymous No.81608190 [Report]
>>81608061
>>81607942
I second this
>>81608152
Well Anon we need know about your race age and pic of your face or hands
Anonymous No.81608191 [Report]
Tem alguma brasileira solteira aqui? Quer um namorado americano?
Anonymous No.81608306 [Report] >>81608326 >>81608374 >>81609710
>>81607659 (OP)
>annoying voice
>negging
>excessive self-deprecation
>"creampie" / "breed/breedable" / fetishizing pregnancy
>yellow dirty teeth / food stuck in teeth / poop breath
>long greasy hair
>visible ear wax
>dirt under finger nails
>smells like an old dirty mop (wash your clothes properly)
Anonymous No.81608326 [Report] >>81608541
>>81608306
>creampie" / "breed/breedable" / fetishizing pregnancy
this will only work on gay men
Anonymous No.81608374 [Report]
>>81608306
Do lots of dudes just immediately get all dirty and sexual with chicks right after meeting them? I wouldn't think it would be that common nowadays for a dude to instantly be a sleezebag
Anonymous No.81608541 [Report] >>81608864
>>81608326
and how exactIy do you know this, anon?
Anonymous No.81608564 [Report]
>>81607750
Classical makes all other music seem like shit by comparison though.
Anonymous No.81608837 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
"ick" isn't real, either women find you attractive or unattractive. If you are unattractive women will call some innocent thing an ick because they want to justify being shallow.
Anonymous No.81608842 [Report] >>81609074
>>81607678
What's the problem with that? Are you shy when it comes to sexual conversations? Low sex drive compared to men? Women will dress scantily, sometimes do porn and have fucked up fantasies behind closed doors and then complain about objectification. Sure, not all of these women are the same but there's definitely an overlap. Never understood it. I'm curious if even women understand their own psychology. Guessing many times not since it's ok for women to be hypocritical in society. No offense
Anonymous No.81608864 [Report]
>>81608541
dont ask questions if you're not ready for the answers
Anonymous No.81608968 [Report]
>>81607750
>ghosts randomly to "get a break"
I just ghost randomly, I don't need a reason.
Anonymous No.81609062 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
>talking/bragging too much about money (this includes offering it repeatedly and unprompted)
>being bad to animals and children
>saying you hate children
>treating your mother badly (unless shes like a nut job or something, but even then, better ignore than be rude)
>treating your siblings (especially sisters but brothers also) badly
>littering
>drugs and alcohol
>saying school didnt teach you anything (we can all tell)
>treating your elders badly
>being unenthusiastic about everything
>Having no real interests or fascinations to talk about in-depth
>Being a whore
>Acting like you are too good to care about things/be affected by things
Anonymous No.81609074 [Report] >>81610653
>>81608842
i dont have a sex drive and have no interest in it. plus it just feels weirdly objectifying if a guy keeps mentioning sex constantly, especially if youre still just getting to know him
Anonymous No.81609081 [Report] >>81609736 >>81610714
>>81607750
>only watches/plays/reads popular media
>doesnt enjoy music outside of rap or classical or popular 80s rock
So which one is it? Do you want me to listen to boomer metal or shitty newpop music?
Because music nowadays is shite in my opinion. I love me some boomer metal and the occasional classical when I feel like listening to it.
Anonymous No.81609667 [Report] >>81611344
>>81607659 (OP)
> making everything sexual, don't bring up sex unless she has first
> talking about porn or hentai
> late ass replies
> trying to look cool
> lying
> stinking
> being overly pushy when asking a girl out
> using 4chan
> "foid"
> treating women like they're objects
> jokes about how women don't deserve rights (this is ok with close people though)


Also, get a good cologne. I would fold like a pretzel for the ugliest fuck if he smelled nice and I wasn't married. I reccomend valentino born in roma intense.
Anonymous No.81609690 [Report]
>>81607762
Be kind, don't have a strong voice and don't push her. Be pathetic even. Just don't come off too strong or else you might scare the piss out of her. Get on her level, tell her you like her hair or something (NOT A BODY PART), smile, laugh, etc. It's okay to be shy, honestly I find it more endearing than "hey woman. SEX NOW."
Anonymous No.81609697 [Report]
>>81607869
I went on a date with a guy like this and he called me mommy and asked me to wipe his mouth clean.
Anonymous No.81609710 [Report]
>>81608306
I go feral for long hair if it's clean. Honestly my only preference.
Anonymous No.81609736 [Report]
>>81609081
You can't win with them dude
i love old school rap and classic rock like Alice in Chains
>HERE COMES THE ROOOOOOSTERRRRR YEAAAAAHHHHHHH
Like most of them here she just sounds like a real bitch just ignore
Anonymous No.81610086 [Report]
>Can any genuine femoids here tell me what gives you ick?
Posting on 4chan and any kind of hate.
Anonymous No.81610096 [Report]
>>81607659 (OP)
>Can any genuine femoids here tell me what gives you ick? Just anything that turns you off.

Incompetence mostly.
And if a man acts like a "bitch" which means feminine in a weak way.
Feminine in a strong way would be empathic, nurturing but in a weak way it's bitchy, chaotic, impulsive, neurotic.
Anonymous No.81610653 [Report]
>>81609074
>i dont have a sex drive and have no interest in it
Why are women wired like this?
Anonymous No.81610714 [Report] >>81611612
>>81609081
mightve not wrote it properly but i meant, people who only listen to those 3 genres are npcs. if you dont enjoy shit like punk or metal or goreshit gtfo
Anonymous No.81610732 [Report]
>>81608123
Fvck.... FVCK MY STUPID CHVDCEL LIFE!!!
Anonymous No.81611344 [Report]
>>81609667
>using 4chan
That's not fair
Anonymous No.81611599 [Report] >>81611612
>>81607750
>>81607750
>>doesnt enjoy music outside of rap or classical or popular 80s rock

does 90s old school brutal death metal count?
Anonymous No.81611612 [Report] >>81611981
>>81610714
>if you dont enjoy shit like punk or metal or goreshit gtfo
>>81611599


cor
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axa6f8L6hdU
Anonymous No.81611981 [Report]
>>81611612
mindless noise