Red Flags for Men Thread - /r9k/ (#81614023) [Archived: 749 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:36:02 PM No.81614023
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In which we post red flags for potential suitors. I'll start.
>he hates tattoos
>he has a bad relationship with his family
>he lives at home
>he doesn't have a license
>he paints his nails
>he doesn't read
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:39:32 PM No.81614059
>>81614023 (OP)
>he paints his nails
that is either a gay man or a married man with a daughter
Replies: >>81616998
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:45:04 PM No.81614114
>>81614023 (OP)
>he likes me
Replies: >>81620309
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 9:54:58 PM No.81614233
>>81614023 (OP)
Red flags for women. I'll start.
>Uses tick tock
>Ugly
>Fat (BMI 20+)
>Has tattoos
>Had ex boyfriend/s
>Non virgin
>Expects you to pay
>Looks for a daddy who will take care of her
>Old (20+)
>She has a dick
>Flat
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:18:14 PM No.81614473
>>81614023 (OP)
> he cheats on me
> he is a commie
> he is into children sexually

The third one is oddly enough every man I have been romantically interested in. Cursed?
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:20:03 PM No.81614492
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>>81614023 (OP)
>he is 5'7
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:20:49 PM No.81614496
>>81614233
>complains about men
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:21:24 PM No.81614504
>>81614473
Define children. I'm not into 14-16 year olds that's disgsuting. 18+ is whatever, or above aoc as long as it's not 16 and under basically.
Really depends on personality though I'd prefer someone above 25
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:21:52 PM No.81614513
>>81614023 (OP)
>>he lives at home
Where else would he live?
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:24:34 PM No.81614538
>>81614504
1 to 16 they use the I was raped as a kid excuse for their attractions in my experience I think my maternal instincts are malfunctioning and I try to love and nurture anyone who even talks to me for more than 1 day

Like if you were raped by your babysitter why are you grooming a 16 year old online?
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:25:50 PM No.81614551
>>81614023 (OP)
I hate tattoos because they indicate low IQ.
Replies: >>81614670
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:27:04 PM No.81614563
>>81614513
In an apartment that his rich dad payed for
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:28:50 PM No.81614582
>>81614023 (OP)
These fucking reddit bitches flooded r9k delete this shit
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:35:46 PM No.81614652
>>81614582
Don't you ever fucking tell me what to do. You are a god damn loser, nobody will ever listen to you online or otherwise.
Replies: >>81616394
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:38:01 PM No.81614670
>>81614551
I wouldn't even say I hate tattoos on principle, but a lot of women just get the same shit. Butterflies, flowers, plants in general, or some pop culture reference. For being a way to express yourself and be unique, a lot of women sure seem to express themselves the same way.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:45:30 PM No.81614774
>>81614538
I'm surprised you're actually reasonable. Ive dated someone young (legal young like I mentioned) but I'd never go near an actual kid. Might be ironic for me to say but people who go near literal kids are disgusting. I'd prefer someone over 23 though
>I try to love any nurture someone who even talks to me for more than one day
Then you're either chasing failed chadlites or you give almost anyone a chance. You wouldn't like guys that other women don't like often either way though so whatever
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:50:53 PM No.81614830
Mine for women;
>spends too much time on social media
>forms opinions based on whatever the tiktok comments are saying
>has male friends, or doesn't realise every male friend is likely just waiting to fuck her or something
>doesn't have any hobbies (collecting shit and watching stuff doesn't count)
>lacks self-awareness
>drinks too much
Replies: >>81616597
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 10:59:37 PM No.81614941
>>81614473
>> he cheats on me
many women have directly said a man who has no side hoes is less attractive because she is wondering why no other woman wants him
>> he is a commie
50/50. some lefty women cant stop fucking MAGA men, but some also say they only want lefty men so it's a toss up
>> he is into children sexually
some women also like this, usually ones who are nonces too, or want a DDLG relationship. Deny it all you want, princess, but we both know there's a reason there's a sexual element in your supposed "innocent" arrangement
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:02:42 PM No.81614972
>>81614941
I never wanted him to have side hoes I loved him because he seemed sweet and gentle. He wanted me to dominate so it was not a DDLG relationship.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:03:47 PM No.81614985
>>81614023 (OP)
>>he hates tattoos
most people hate tattoos. they always have
>>he has a bad relationship with his family
understandable
>>he lives at home
who doesnt in this economy? Also why cant he live with you? I thought this was a partnership
>>he doesn't have a license
Unlike burgerland, not having one isn't such a big deal. Many eurofag and asiafag countries have a strong cycling culture.
>>he paints his nails
so you're just gonna ignore all the emo and goth guys? because last I check bitches love emos
>>he doesn't read
neither do you. you just like to pretend you do to look smart. well tough shit. gaming is the most popular hobby in the entire world. you're gonna have to accept that every partner most likely is into it
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:03:47 PM No.81614986
>>81614473
Not any of these. Now how do I talk to you for more than a day so you can try to fix me? Asking for a friend (in Minecraft of course)
Replies: >>81615020
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:04:04 PM No.81614990
>>81614473
>he is into children sexually
How the fuck would you know that? Were they all retarted enough to confess this to you or did you just happen to conveniently discover their loli hentai/cp collection? Sounds like some bullshit to me and you're just accusing them of being pedos because you hate them.
Replies: >>81615020
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:06:08 PM No.81615020
>>81614990
He was retarded enough to tell me about cheating on me with 14 to 16 year olds. He was always into loli but as an otaku I did not think much of it. He compared me to Hina from BA and liked having me call my vagina a cunny. >>81614986
Sure I have an email it is Dorotheaalbright@proton.me
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:08:28 PM No.81615047
>>81614023 (OP)
>he has been to prostitutes/escorts/massage parlors
>he takes a long time to respond
>he talks to other women
Replies: >>81620675
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:08:46 PM No.81615052
>>81615020
LOL what the actual fuck
And wow alright I'll send you an email
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:11:31 PM No.81615092
>>81614023 (OP)
why does dislike of tattoos in particular anger normalfags so much? A woman could have a mile-long list of requirements for a male partner and that's ok but god forbid a guy doesn't like tatoos, he must be some kind of incel chud
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:11:45 PM No.81615094
>>81615020
did you just give away you email to strangers on the internet? ur either the biggest idiot or this is b8
Replies: >>81615243
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:25:46 PM No.81615243
>>81615094
It's a throwaway email obviously
How new are you
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:32:03 PM No.81615310
>>81614023 (OP)
For women:
>Non-virgin
>Non-white
>Under 5'5" (short girls are evil)
>Has never had an eating disorder
>Pickme
>Has male friends
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:37:07 PM No.81615375
>>81615310
>not cherishing pickmes
this anon is gay.
Replies: >>81615668
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 11:54:36 PM No.81615576
>>81615310
>Nonwhite
Really nigga?
Replies: >>81615668
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:00:45 AM No.81615644
>he doesn't read novels
>his main interest is anime or video games
>does not exercise
>smokes
>drinks heavily
>does drugs
>tattoos
>has a low-tier job like retail
With exception of people just now getting into the workforce to get experience
>has visited a prostitute
I don't care if he's a virgin or not. A prostitute is something completely different.
Replies: >>81620675
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:02:38 AM No.81615668
>>81615375
She's still going to seek validation from men other men

>>81615576
They're either aforementioned pickmes or radfems (traumatized by men). White women are more likely to be actual people with their own opinions
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:02:43 AM No.81615669
>thread for women to post their redflags
>moids immediately come in with their redflags for women
And they complain about women being attention whores.
Replies: >>81615686 >>81615790 >>81615816
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:04:00 AM No.81615686
>>81615669
this is a reddit tier post im glad it got derailed
Replies: >>81615800
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:06:15 AM No.81615709
>>81615668
Okay absolutely based. I like minority women, esp brown women based on looks (I'm brown) but if they're westernized they're self hating as hell and I'm not dating anyone that isn't westernized.

Nearly EVERY minority woman turns out how you described
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:15:07 AM No.81615787
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>>81614023 (OP)
I only got the tattoos one, I dunno you guys can't convince me to like them, I just think they look tacky like car stickers
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:15:07 AM No.81615788
>>81614985
Emo hasn't been a thing since 2008.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:15:19 AM No.81615790
>>81615669
Men have a right to have red flags, women don't
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:16:16 AM No.81615800
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>>81615686
>redflags for women
OKAY!
>redflags for men
NNNNNNNOOOOOO! THAT IS NOT OKAY BECAUSE IT'S REDDIT TIER!!!!!!
Pic realted: it's you.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:17:47 AM No.81615816
>>81615669
Nobody will take a "men red flag thread" seriously on a male dominated board. So no it's not for attention.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:18:24 AM No.81615821
>>81614023 (OP)
Damn I pass all but one red flag.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:24:50 AM No.81615874
>>81614023 (OP)
>paints his nails
do women rlly hate this? i like to paint mine to match my eyes or outfits and always get compliments on it.
>inb4 fag
straight but i work in fashion
Replies: >>81615920 >>81616685 >>81620064
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:29:25 AM No.81615920
>>81615874
I have a niece that uses my fingers as a way to look at how different colors and brands look. There are reasons for it.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:23:28 AM No.81616352
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Here's what we put together in my femcel server of 4+ years. We have a channel that's just called "icks" with a 6 hour cooldown, we post shit in there that moids do that deserve ridicule.
>He's too emotionally open
>He complains
>He blames or talks down on other people (coworkers/parents/friends)
>He is not perpetually planning to enter or re-enter education or training (men should always seek to be the best version of themselves possible)
>Does not exercise
>Watches movies or television shows (huge)
>Watches anime or reads manga (nuclear)
>Plays video games past age 18 (terminal)
>Blames his exes for past relationship failure or talks down on previous partners
>Cannot take criticism
>Talks about his day (feminine)
>Cares about his fashion
>Takes selfies (ULTRA VIOLET WARNING)
>Doesn't watch sports recreationally, at least one sport (well roundedness is a must)
>is overtly political or attempts to steer conversations about current events (slave to the Jewish Media Hate Machine, MUST CONSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOME NEWS)
>is racist, sexist, transphobic (immature)
>Shaves his ass, balls, ect.
>Is too clean
>Cries
>Doesn't like animals or children
>Is blunt, crass, or otherwise non-verbose
>Doesn't read, hasn't read the Greeks, the Russians, the Germans, or the French
>Doesn't own at least one firearm
>Is good with money (shows a controlling personality, will eventually judge or try to dictate how I spend money)
Everything stated in the OP is 100% endorsed as well. Men who live with their parents deserve less than the nothing they have.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:27:59 AM No.81616383
>>81616352
you forgot to mention the small print
>all of these icks are null and void if moid is exceptionally attractive
Replies: >>81616421
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:29:16 AM No.81616394
>>81614652
if you died tomorrow, no one would notice
Replies: >>81616428
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:29:59 AM No.81616401
>>81614233
the only women who could possibly fall out of your red flags are busty highschool girls who are religious
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:31:44 AM No.81616414
>>81616352
Besides Proust, Voltaire, Barthes, Diderot, Dumas (regretted), de Sade (just to be edgy), Rabelais, Flaubert, Camus, Rousseau, and Fourier I will never read a French author as long as I live or any of that race of subhumans.
Replies: >>81616437
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:33:02 AM No.81616421
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>>81616383
Robots never want to hear this but looks don't really matter. It's about ambition, forward thinking, the ability to conceive the spiritual and the artistic about the world and be able to provide in the material sense. You will scream, you will screech, you will walk away from this thread thinking this is bait, but it isn't.
No where in my entire fucking post did I mention attractiveness, height, ect. Exercising is a good habit that expresses discipline and routine. I did not explicitly state they need to be "buff" or "tall".
Your fanfiction about genetics is what is ultimately so pathetic, because we (women with vaginas) do not care about them as much as you do and that drives you INSANE. The reason why it drives you INSANE is because everything I posted is WITHIN YOUR CONTROL.
You SCREAM. You cannot TOLERATE THAT. You cannot IMAGINE A WORLD IN WHICH YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. YES, YOU. YOU DO NOT LIVE A LIFE WORTH SHARING WITH OTHERS. YOU ARE PATHETIC. YOU ARE A LOSER. YOU DESERVE TO BE HERE. YOU ARE NOTHING. YOU DESERVE NOTHING.
You will never be worth loving until you accept you are the problem. It isn't about your looks, it isn't about your height, it wasn't the fact you were circumcised, or your parents were divorced, it's you. You are the problem. Your personality, your habits, your lack of passion.
I'd spit on you but you'd just wallow in the victimhood of it all.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:33:39 AM No.81616428
>>81616394
Reply to me again and see what happens.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:34:36 AM No.81616437
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>>81616414
the only French media worth anyone's time:
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:34:53 AM No.81616439
>>81616352
>>81616421
Based foid dabbing on robots
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:36:02 AM No.81616445
>>81616421
It's cruel to eviscerate me like that without aftercare anon. I feel like I'm 8 years old again
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:37:10 AM No.81616459
>>81616421
lmao struck a nerve. any man that fits your criteria will be so on top of their shit, they won't want to have someone like you in their life that provides nothing to them. foids like you are so delusional to enforce all of these criteria on men but never enforce them on yourselves
Replies: >>81616495 >>81616500
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:38:32 AM No.81616475
>>81616421
>AIE I HATE YOU DIE DIE DIE
>But I'm actually being le empowering to you inkwell
Someone needs to fuck you calm.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:41:02 AM No.81616494
>>81616352
>Watches movies or television shows (huge)
>Watches anime or reads manga (nuclear)
your fantasy that you just want men to be your slaves is showing. "every living moment of your life must be productive to me in every way shape and form" kind of insane impossible standard don't you think?
Replies: >>81617058
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:41:10 AM No.81616495
>>81616459
These women larp like we didn't go to high school or college with them. Good luck putting that horse back in the barn.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:41:30 AM No.81616498
>>81615092
Because they impulsively got four of them when they were nineteen after seeing someone else get one and don't want to be forced to acknowledge that was a short-sighted, impulsive, self-destructive decision.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:41:42 AM No.81616500
>>81616459
Girls just have to be pretty, have good hygiene, and not be too loud. That's it.
Stay mad though :)
Replies: >>81616520
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:43:31 AM No.81616513
>>81616421
Nice fan fiction. Looks are more like a subconscious factor that determines whether there is underlying attraction or "chemistry" whereas all of the traits listed here >>81616352 are intellectual reasons (not) to like the idea of the man in question, but whether you actually love him is a matter of properties such as his physical appearance, wealth, and social status.
You can think you want a well-read, cookie cutter guy who lacks any of these red flags, but if he's short, fat, and balding it really doesn't make a difference. In your mind, the supposed "guy" who matches these criteria is always a faceless blank slate of pre-existent attraction or an already attractive man, and when you imagine an ugly man, it is without the visceral disgust of the physical reality.
Replies: >>81616534
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:44:01 AM No.81616520
>>81616500
i can tell you're an incel because a real foid would argue that they're not even required to do these things at the very least
Replies: >>81616557
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:46:05 AM No.81616532
>>81614023 (OP)
My red flag for women is
>she browses r9k
Kys whore
Replies: >>81616597
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:46:34 AM No.81616534
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>>81616513
trvth nvke
>Ugly man without a single red flag = Miserable marriage for the woman
>Handsome man without a single red flag = Disney princess fantasy for the woman
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:48:43 AM No.81616557
>>81616520
Tell me you've never talked to a woman without telling me you've never talked to a woman
Replies: >>81616581
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:51:06 AM No.81616581
>>81616557
i know a few women that would call you a misogynist for saying that women HAVE to be pretty, have good hygiene and be quiet. even non-feminists would find it rude to be told to "not be too loud". where do you live? in an amish town? how did you manage to get internet?
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:53:00 AM No.81616596
I am the living red flag for women. All of them must fear my existence, be repelled and disgusted.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:53:04 AM No.81616597
>>81614233
>>81614830
>>81615310
>>81616532
nobody asked, dildos. post timestamped cocks or gtfo.
Replies: >>81616610 >>81616614 >>81616678 >>81616858 >>81620992
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:54:36 AM No.81616610
>>81616597
don't do it, they have a cock database that they can identify you with to dox you and send your cock pics to everyone in your entire city
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:54:40 AM No.81616611
>>81616352
Such a weak troonslopa bait only low iq bronwiods would fall for this lmao.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:54:59 AM No.81616614
>>81616597
You killed the mood by being mean to us
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:55:37 AM No.81616616
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>>81614023 (OP)
oregan oregon
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:01:18 AM No.81616659
>>81614023 (OP)
>>he lives at home
Why is that a red flag?
>>he doesn't have a license
License for what?
Replies: >>81616682 >>81616704
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:03:06 AM No.81616678
>>81616597
I'm shy and it's mid
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:03:16 AM No.81616682
>>81616659
For a car you stupid fucking retard.
It shows he isn't independent. Why the actual fuck would I waste my one life on Earth with a shit eating troll who lives with mommy and daddy and can't handle the stress of driving?
Replies: >>81616699 >>81616860 >>81616882
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:03:33 AM No.81616685
>>81615874
Yes, most women hate feminine men, this should go without saying.
Replies: >>81616730
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:05:47 AM No.81616699
>>81616682
holy mother of projection, this goose is on the loose
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:06:07 AM No.81616704
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>>81616659
>Why is that a red flag?
Because only homeless boys are hot, picrel
>License for what?
To make toast in his own d*** toaster!
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:07:34 AM No.81616723
Yellow Rat
Yellow Rat
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>>81614023 (OP)
Mine for men
>When his sexual tastes are a little too pedophilic
I don't want to be seen as a child in any relationship when I'm an adult wtf.
>Clearly doesn't respect "no"
An example of this is when I say no to something (like sex) and the guy starts convincing me and bargaining, like "atleast give me head" FUCK OFF AND DIE WORTHLESS DICKBRAIN, if you don't respect "no" in text there's no fucking way you'll respect it when you're physically there *shiver*
speaking of
>Treats me like a sex object/object in general
I'm a human being so treat me like one pls.
>Being ugly
Not even going to hide it, I'm gorgeous so I'd like someone appealing aswell, I'm not a charity.
Replies: >>81616727 >>81617145 >>81619460 >>81620675
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:08:42 AM No.81616727
>>81616723
These are reasonable. Nice foid. I hope you find a good guy
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:09:02 AM No.81616730
>>81616685
yet i havent had a problem getting laid since i was 15
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:13:00 AM No.81616769
>>81614023 (OP)
>have tattoos
>paint nails sometimes
>live with my old man
>have hot streamer gf who makes a fortune doing nothing but playing games and selling gay crafts
skill issue
Replies: >>81616783
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:14:13 AM No.81616783
>>81616769
how many children did you have to sacrifice to have the privilege of being enslaved to such a succubus
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:17:06 AM No.81616816
>>81616421
I've been saying this on /r9k/ for years, they cling to the superficial and reject 100% evidence that supports that women don't care about genetic factors or attractiveness. It's like talking to a fucking wall
Replies: >>81616840 >>81616906
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:19:31 AM No.81616840
>>81616816
men are just projecting their own obsession over genetic factors and attractiveness. ugly women aren't even human to them
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:21:05 AM No.81616858
>>81616597
Post your tits you fucking whore
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:21:17 AM No.81616860
>>81616682
Do you live at home?
How old are you?
Why the fuck would I move out in this fucking economy when I can stay at home for free until I got a good job?
Replies: >>81616915
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:23:20 AM No.81616882
>>81616682
Also it's a huge redflag to get mad so easily.
No one wants to be with someone that's as emotionally unstable and unstoic as you are. You should work on that.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:25:54 AM No.81616906
>>81616816
Personally, I just don't trust women that say that they don't care when their actions say otherwise. I don't mind things being my fault, in fact I prefer it. At least then I know it was under my control, and that I had the choice to do things better and didn't. But when I can't choose if the other person is lying, when the other person doesn't display any problems until it's too late and now I'm the one that gets screwed, I just don't want to bother. I'm not going to pretend I have no faults, because I have plenty, but when you can fail despite making all the best choices and doing everything correct because of things outside of your control, I stop caring. At least like this I can say I did it instead of someone else doing something to me.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:27:06 AM No.81616915
>>81616860
No I own my house you stupid bitch, I bought one when I was 22 because I didn't sit around for four years with my dick in my hand, I got to work.
I'm 27.
Replies: >>81616937
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:29:57 AM No.81616937
>>81616915
>with my dick in my hand
Lmao tranny confirmed.
No one wants you faggot. You are gross and you have the emotional maturity of a 5 year old.
Getting mad at people for not being the same place as you lol.
Replies: >>81616958
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:33:04 AM No.81616958
current-lightsaber-tech-is-way-scarier-than-real-lightsabers-1695429580
>>81616937
I hate losers.
I hate men who are failures because of their own actions and have the audacity to blame others.
I hate weakness.
I hate cowards.
I hate bullies.
Is that wrong? Am I evil for valuing strength in my potential suitors? Is that why you hate me? For wanting what's best for me?
Replies: >>81616976 >>81616979 >>81617002 >>81617109
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:34:55 AM No.81616976
>>81616958
I hate you for being what you hate.
You are emotionally weak.
You are a coward.
You are a bully.
You act like a complete child when someone even asks you a simple question.
This is why you are alone.
This is why you will never find a man that does not have serious issues. Only men that are desperate want to be with you long term.
If you ever find a man that is stable enough he will only pump and dump your stupid ass.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:35:17 AM No.81616979
>>81616958
Nta but I dislike you because you're full of yourself
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:36:18 AM No.81616984
>>81614233
i check out four of these, is it too bad?
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:37:39 AM No.81616998
>>81614059
There have been a few occasions I've had to paint my nails to reinforce their structural integrity due to various things I was doing, but I always used clear polish because no homo. Otherwise agree.

>>81614023 (OP)
>hates tattoos
I worked in a lab before doing [classified but relevant]. I hate tattoos because it's well known that your body takes in the ink and it's super unhealthy, outside of being fantastic indicators for poor future planning.

>>81614538
Being sexually assaulted (while young) does weird/bad things to the brain. It turns some people hypersexual, it causes an attraction to the same-sex or young-ages in others. If they were molested that obviously wasn't their fault, and if they have an attraction to X that's also not their fault. Acting on the attraction is when it becomes their fault (and potentially illegal).
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:37:51 AM No.81617002
1747341779148839
1747341779148839
md5: cba338afcb9b57c7a19addce542afd84🔍
>>81616958
>Am I evil for valuing strength in my potential suitors?
not evil per say, you just have a narrow view. think of a loser, who is very poor, is unable to do many works, but has unparalleled kindness and emotional intelligence. would you value such a 'weak' individual? or would you value their unconventional strength? for they may provide something no one else could, despite not having a home, not having a car, or not having a job.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:38:25 AM No.81617006
>>81616352
this is retarded
t. a female
Replies: >>81617017 >>81617030
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:39:31 AM No.81617017
>>81617006
IT'S A FEMCEL SERVER YOU STUPID BITCH NOBODY CARES YOU HAVE A VAGINA GO FUCK CHAD
Replies: >>81617063
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:41:19 AM No.81617030
>>81617006
you're retarded
t. a real female
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:45:47 AM No.81617058
>>81616352
>>He is not perpetually planning to enter or re-enter education or training (men should always seek to be the best version of themselves possible)
This one is kind of weak. I agree with the "be the best you" but if a guy is doing something like plumbing, you don't need constant new plumbing techniques, often times it's a "you can't keep up with the work you already have". Similarly, having a job like academic research you're constantly keeping up with the new thing so you don't have to have some outside validation to satisfy some woman's "ooh some third party validated him, that's so sexy~" thing.

>anime
ree

>doesn't like animals
I do have a question on this. I like animals just fine, I just don't like them in the house due to shedding and other such things. Does that count as "not liking animals" to you?

>>81616494
There are non media hobbies anon. Rock climbing, kayaking, taking walks, reading, whatever. I don't even have a television in the house so I understand the "ick". Then again see above I do watch the odd anime here and there but I only do it by myself and find it uncomfortable with other people, nor do I even talk about it with other people outside of my sibling, so I fail to see the "ick".
>he doesn't watch recreational sports
Watching recreational sports is a means to bond with others and/or have something to talk about. There is zero difference between "watching sports" and "watching anime" from that standpoint outside of the interested parties. This was probably slipped in due to the girl enjoying it herself.
I can accept the "ick" if she also doesn't do it, but if she watches television while bemoaning men who do it, THAT'S a true red flag.
Replies: >>81617083 >>81617287
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:46:23 AM No.81617063
>>81617017
You sound more like an angry roastie than a femcel. Tomoko was an awkward sweetheart who needs to be protected at all cost. You just sound like you got ran through by chads and are coping with your poor decisions by blaming men instead of your partners or your choices.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:48:33 AM No.81617083
>>81617058
>he doesn't play video games
Playing video games is a means to bond with others and/or have something to talk about. There is zero difference between "playing video games" and "watching board games" from that standpoint outside of the interested parties. This was probably slipped in due to the girl enjoying it herself.
>he doesn't watch movies/tv shows
Watching movies or tv shows is a means to bond with others and/or have something to talk about. There is zero difference between "watching movies" and "watching anime" from that standpoint outside of the interested parties. This was probably slipped in due to the girl enjoying it herself.
Do you now understand how retarded you sound?
Replies: >>81617094 >>81617168 >>81617182
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:49:41 AM No.81617094
>>81617083
playing board games* copypasted too hard lmao
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:50:54 AM No.81617109
>>81616958
>I hate losers.
>comes to the loser board
kek
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:55:08 AM No.81617145
>>81616723
>I'm a human being so treat me like one pls.
Part of being a human being, is being an being inherently sexual. A man has a sex drive, and he seeks to express it / satisfy it with a partner.
This is the equivalent of bitching about "stop saying you're hungry more than once a day OMG". I only eat once a day myself but hunger is a normal drive humans have, as is sleepiness. If someone eats more than me (and isn't fat, they just work it off / have a high metabolism) I don't begrudge them that.
If someone else has a higher sex drive don't begrudge them that either, they're trying to satisfy it, which is a pleasant bonding experience, with -you-. Would you rather them not say anything and just go off and fuck someone else or masturbate to random porn?
Because that's the only other option available. You can't simply tell them "no, lower your sex drive to match mine", that's incredibly selfish.

t. dated a girl long term with a low sex drive. getting repeatedly told no was "fine" in that I didn't push her for it, but the frequent "rejection" was bad for the self esteem, it made me feel unwanted, etc. we broke up for other reasons but that was something that stuck in my mind.
Yeah don't be a dick about it but try to put yourself in their shoes (impossible for you I know).
Replies: >>81618272
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:57:51 AM No.81617168
>>81617083
Not at all actually.
If you're playing boardgames with friends and talking about bonding, what's the issue?
If it's a "so he has something to talk about at work with the other BALLGAME-consumers, what if your coworkers are nerds who only talk about videogames?
You never actually addressed the point in contention, so please try again.
What makes -watching- sports different than any of those other things?
If you had picked playing I could maybe understand, but no.
Replies: >>81617175
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:58:53 AM No.81617175
>>81617168
The point is, anyone can bond over any fun activity. Your inhumanization is showing.
Replies: >>81617203 >>81618826
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:59:12 AM No.81617182
>>81617083
She's not totally wrong. I use video games like heroin to avoid thinking, it's like that scene with Asuka in NGE. Notice as soon as she stops drowning her pain in maladaptive bullshit she slits her wrists in a bathtub. Some people will never understand
Replies: >>81617274
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:02:01 AM No.81617203
>>81617175
Yeah, that's -my- point. So why do you focus on "they must do this one activity I approve of (watching sports)"
>well-roundedness is a must!
I would argue that point applies equally to anime or video-games as it does to "watching sports".

You have now three times failed to explain why "watching sports" is fine but "watching anime" or "watching TV" is bad, when your physical person is doing the same physical activity for all three things (sitting on couch, looking at TV screen).
Replies: >>81617215
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:03:29 AM No.81617215
>>81617203
I never said watching anime or TV is bad. You're arguing for no reason.
Replies: >>81617233
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:06:37 AM No.81617233
>>81617215
If you are the same femanon posting icks I was replying to originally here >>81616352 then yes you did.
>Watches movies or television shows (huge)
>Watches anime or reads manga (nuclear)
>Doesn't watch sports recreationally, at least one sport (well roundedness is a must)
If you aren't then you jumped in to a conversation and I wasn't able to pinpoint where you did so and mistook you for them.
Replies: >>81617287
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:11:33 AM No.81617274
>>81617182
In my case, I'm not blaming games because I can find a way to access maladaptive bullshit purely through imagining it. Even in the middle of doing something productive, I'm halfway in my own head and sort of ignoring what I'm actually doing.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:14:02 AM No.81617287
>>81617233
I'm not her, I looked back and I misunderstood that post I originally replied to (>>81617058), my bad
Replies: >>81617333
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:19:39 AM No.81617333
>>81617287
No worries, these things happen all the time.
Hope you enjoy a nice dinner / snack tonight.
Replies: >>81617350
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:21:02 AM No.81617350
>>81617333
Based trips of wholesome agreeableness, you too
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:22:04 AM No.81617355
>ragebait (male)
At most a dozen replies
>ragebait (female)
This thread will hit 500+ replies and spawn a new general.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:53:02 AM No.81617575
>>81616352
>Watches anime or reads manga (nuclear)
>Plays video games past age 18 (terminal)
>Doesn't watch sports recreationally, at least one sport (well roundedness is a must)
>Talks about his day (feminine)
>is racist, sexist, transphobic (immature)
>Doesn't read, hasn't read the Greeks, the Russians, the Germans, or the French
>Doesn't own at least one firearm
>Is good with money (shows a controlling personality, will eventually judge or try to dictate how I spend money)

Damn it... only 8 out of 20..
Replies: >>81618105 >>81618307
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 5:15:59 AM No.81618105
>>81617575
>Is good with money (shows a controlling personality, will eventually judge or try to dictate how I spend money)
I didn't even see this one the first time, kek.
Imagine KNOWING you're shit with money and blaming men for it.
Replies: >>81620228
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 5:45:14 AM No.81618272
>>81617145
So what do you suggest I do when someone wants to have sex when I don't?
force myself to do this "pleasant bonding experience" even when I literally don't want to and therefore won't feel pleasure from it?
Just accept to meet up a guy for sex within less than an hour because I'm supposed to be a charity for weirdos that can't even pretend like they see me as more than a sex object?
If I don't feel like having sex I'll say "no"
and if you keep pushing for sex despite not getting consent for it, I'll castrate you so you shut the fuck up, stop thinking with your dick, and accept my "no" as an answer.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 5:49:24 AM No.81618307
>>81617575
>Eventually judge or dictate how I spend it
If you're a fucking retard that can't save up for a rainy day, why shouldn't man have to waste more money on bailing you out when there's bills to pay?
At the end of the day you're just going to blame him for not being able to provide anyway.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:17:30 AM No.81618799
>>81614023 (OP)
>tfw no license to be your bf
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:25:15 AM No.81618826
>>81617175
video games are fun activities, if you're younger than 12 years old. For adults it's a shit hobby to have, a timewaster.

That and watching tv are consooming media mindlessly, are very highly correlated with not having any other passions or activities of actual interest
Replies: >>81618960
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:26:31 AM No.81618834
don't care didn't ask plus you're a female
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:48:07 AM No.81618960
>>81618826
I'm probably insane or broken in one way or another, because games not mattering much is one thing I appreciate about them. With other hobbies, it feels as if they're made so you can extract value out of them. Make it a career, get women, get fame, get fitness, get this or that or anything else. But with a game, it's just the game. You don't learn it to extract physical value out of them. There's a certain purity from this kind of enjoyment if you ask me.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 8:44:11 AM No.81619243
>>81614023 (OP)
Is sea monkey a red flag?
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 9:44:46 AM No.81619460
>>81616723
>I'm a human being so treat me like one pls.
This is why women are so boring and not worth dealing with
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 11:38:24 AM No.81620064
>>81615874
Traditional or more mentally stable women don't like it but weird for the OP because many tattood women do like it. Overall my experience is that painting my nails helped me get laid and it wasn't a deal breaker even when she didn't care for it.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:03:44 PM No.81620228
deaddeer
deaddeer
md5: c211420926188d803c2bbf52599b1b55🔍
>>81618105
Its not even the being bad with money part that would upset me, its the hoarding of consooom crap that women buy just for a having a microsecond of dopamine until your house looks like the backroom of a goodwill.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:06:52 PM No.81620245
>wide faces

Not even joking. The wider the face the higher correlation with narcissism/sociopathy

>if they support Israel
Replies: >>81620256
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:08:16 PM No.81620256
>>81620245
>Don't be ugly or I'm going to rationalize it with some bullshit
They only appear that way because they're frustrated from getting rejected. Good looking guys are way more narcissistic but can hide it better + you give them an automatic pass
Tl;dr
You're a retard
Replies: >>81620278
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:11:10 PM No.81620278
>>81620256
t. wide face haver
Replies: >>81620305
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:14:30 PM No.81620305
>>81620278
>t. Retard
Keep coping. Women like you only know how to point fingers at others instead of being honest with themselves
Replies: >>81620335
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:15:07 PM No.81620309
>>81614114
>he doesnt like me
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:19:37 PM No.81620335
>>81620305
The wide face thing applies to both genders

Scientifically proven
Replies: >>81620438
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:29:21 PM No.81620402
>>81614023 (OP)
Answering some of these but a bunch of them are bullshit, like nigga where I live guns are illegal and who the fuck complains about being too clean

>he hates tattoos
Who likes them
>he has a bad relationship with his family
Kinda, I hate my sister and my extended family
>he lives at home
I own my house
>he doesn't have a license
Not essential if you're not American, but I have mine anyway
>he paints his nails
Who the fuck
>he doesn't read
I read but it's stuff like Lacan and Deleuze
> he cheats on me
I won't if you're actually nice, newsflash most people aren't
> he is a commie
GOD DAMN IT
> he is into children sexually
Define child, like nigga I'm not delusional and if a 40 year old is hot she's hot, same with a 14 year old. I'm into fat chicks though so I almost never find anyone underage even slightly attractive
>he doesn't read novels
Who the fuck reads woman jerk off slop aside from women
>his main interest is anime or video games
Nah, I'll play video games but honestly my main interest is communism
>does not exercise
I bodybuild
>smokes
Nah
>drinks heavily
I binge drink on weekends
>does drugs
I'll do LSD/Molly/weed with a girl if she's open to it but I'm not habitual
>tattoos
Tattoos are disgusting but I'm considering getting them because they suit me
>has a low-tier job like retail
i have one of those jobs where no one outside my field knows what I does that is quite technical and difficult (white collar)
>has visited a prostitute
Nah
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 12:34:16 PM No.81620438
>>81620335
>People who are discriminated against get jaded and hateful
>Haha look they're innately bad people!
I wouldn't expect a turd like you to be able to interpret the results of scientific papers. The average moron shouldn't be allowed to draw conclusions from data they can't wrap their heads around.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:08:31 PM No.81620675
1744147662480559
1744147662480559
md5: 0bdec2170f0c9a118d787bbba14968dd🔍
>>81614023 (OP)
Time to see how many I have
>>81614023 (OP)
>he hates tattoos
yep
>he has a bad relationship with his family
nope
>he lives at home
nope
>he doesn't have a license
yep
>he paints his nails
nope
>he doesn't read
nope
2/6
> he cheats on me
would never
> he is a commie
nope
> he is into children sexually
nope
0/3
>>81615047
>he has been to prostitutes/escorts/massage parlors
nope
>he takes a long time to respond
sometimes, i work a busy job
>he talks to other women
yes. i would never date someone who would tell me i couldn't be friends with women.
1.5/3
>>81615644
>he doesn't read novels
nope
>his main interest is anime or video games
yep
>does not exercise
nope
>smokes
recreationally, not habitually
>drinks heavily
nope
>does drugs
yep
>tattoos
nope
>has a low-tier job like retail
nope
>has visited a prostitute
nope
2.5/9
>>81616352
bait
>>81616723
>When his sexual tastes are a little too pedophilic
nope
>Clearly doesn't respect "no"
nope, but if you dont want to have sex with me then why are you even dating me? I'm breaking up with you. I'm not going to demean myself by bargaining.
>Treats me like a sex object/object in general
nope
>Being ugly
yep
1/4
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:16:08 PM No.81620740
>>81614023 (OP)
There's no greater ick than a man being obsessed with marvel or some other normie slop.
Replies: >>81620886
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:40:45 PM No.81620886
>>81620740
I play a ton of marvel rivals and NOTHING you say will stop me
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:45:00 PM No.81620904
>foid trying to claim integrity by having standards she doubtless makes exceptions for anyway
you're just like me
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:58:55 PM No.81620992
>>81616597
>nobody asked, dildos. post timestamped cocks or gtfo.
This is literally:
>Shut up, woman. Post tits.
Stop stealing our shit. GOD! Why are women so uncreative? Literal leaches.
At least say something like:
>If you be quiet then I'll have sex with you.
Or:
>Men are ultra-superior. And I love cock and I wouldn't mind seeing yours, superior anon :3
Stop trying to be like us. Even though you hate us?
So really, you hate yourselves. Yet again, score 1 for the patriarchy. We were right, yet again. Women hate themselves.
Goddamn, it feels so righteous being right about everything and wrong about nothing.
All thanks to male penis. You will never possess these genitals. Keep seething about your hole, wretched one. This phallic is mine. And you shall not see, touch, smell, hear, nor ever taste it's glory.

Now, final order of business.
>Shut up, woman. Post tits.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 1:59:53 PM No.81620997
>>81614023 (OP)
>don't care for tattoos
>good relationship with family
>live in my own place
>have a license
>paint my nails sometimes
>read sometimes
I already have a gf (female)
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:00:28 PM No.81621002
>>81614023 (OP)
>He hates tattoos
You are a parasite.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:22:31 PM No.81621127
>>81614023 (OP)
>he hates tattoos
nobody likes tattoos anymore bud, they're out of fashion
celebrities are getting them lasered out because it makes them look cheugy

your other points are valid
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:39:11 PM No.81621241
>>81614513
If you're not homeless is over for you