Thread 81660830

is there any place on the internet, period, that isn't chiefly/primarily inhabited by and thus centered around and catered to disingenuous narcissists?

Or idk how could I even find half decent people to try and build up a friend group with?

it's so hopeless, it's no wonder everyone is so fucking lonely

>>81660830 (OP)
no because the internet is for regular people now and thats what regular people are like, especially post-covid

>>81660850
Yes I've said this as well, normies are egocentric you're just so not egocentric you are surprised.

>>81660830 (OP)
You can find decent people left and right even at shitty places and then make your own, small, private community. That's what I've been doing the last 10 years.

Some altchans like Hikaru3 are nice but very few people use them

>>81660986
>Hikaru3
Hikari3*

>>81660830 (OP)
>any place on the internet, period, that isn't chiefly/primarily inhabited by and thus centered around and catered to disingenuous narcissists?
No and there isn't anywhere in real life like that either the majority of the human population are retarded narcissists once you see it you'll realize how hopeless the situation actually is for the minority sane authentic people. Also the internet is an incredibly biased selection TOWARDS mentally ill people. You're always going to find MORE narcissists than sane people online. Even worse ratio than in real life. Think about it no accountability, easy attention seeking, easy lying, hide behind a computer screen and a block button the internet is a cowards dream land.

>>81660986
WRONG! All altchans are trash, just like 4chan. And even worse.

>>81660830 (OP)
For you? None. Well adjusted people have friends and they dont want to get involved with terminally online people who will desperately cling on to anyone giving them the time of day. The only types who will are the types who like to play with people.

>>81660982
I've always felt like furries have this easier because they genuinely have no standards and just want people to jerk off to diaper foxes with

I want actual human connection though, so that's really not gonna work for me. Also, I have boundaries and don't want to fuck my friends or have my friends wanting to fuck me.

I like mature, intelligent people with strong boundaries and consistent morals.

>>81661009
>>81661021
If being "well adjusted" and mentally "well" (not ill) means being a disingenuous ego driven narcissist then I'd really rather stay maladjusted and mentally ill

>>81661021
This. If you're an outcast loner loser the only people that WANT to interact with you are narcissists that prey on desperate weirdos that tolerate them.

>>81661009
Blocking retards at the internet is a based move. Also it prevents the narcissists you complain about from getting more attention. It also makes mad all these dramafags that want you getting mad with them.

>>81661018
Wrong + CRINGE. It's just like 4chan but better and unfortunately slower. Except if we're talking about basedjak party

>>81661041
>If being "well adjusted" and mentally "well" (not ill) means being a disingenuous ego driven narcissist then I'd really rather stay maladjusted and mentally ill
How did you derive that from any of what we said?

>>81660830 (OP)
f-list is ok if you know how to form an elitist aesthetic and ignore sexual degenerates.

>>81661041
>I've always felt like furries have this easier because they genuinely have no standards and just want people to jerk off to diaper foxes with
Depends. For example I am into certain weird fetishes and yet I cringe really hard with all these fags that turn their favorite fetishes into lifestyle, a cult. And they generally behave like fucking degenerates instead of acting and talking like normal human beings. And let's not start with all these gross leftists and LGBT creeps all these communities attract. You can't even talk to video games forum anymore without having trannies lecturing you about Trans Right.

>>81661049
I agree but that's the point ALL you are going to find online anywhwere is preying narcissists looking for attention/validation and desperate outcasts neither of which any sane person wants to deal with. Whether you are getting blocked or doing the blocking the point is you kids need to stop expecting to find decent people on the internet just because you have no life. You're looking for gold in a flaming dumpster it's just a waste of time that's only going to make you more bitter as you get played and discarded over and over again.

You see the other side of the problem ITT.

Yeah, thanks to social media and "like" culture taking off we're definitely seeing a push towards disingenuous ego-driven behavior... but even in anonymous spaces where you're not rewarded for ego, people find plenty of reasons to superficially hate one another.

The major problem I think is just too many fucking people. When the only true social outcasts in your middle school were you and the fat furry cringelord, you fucking made friends with him because you didn't HAVE any other options. Fast forward to the adult world, everyone theoretically has the ENTIRE WORLD as an option and so we're all inherently more judgmental and dismissive of others.

It goes the other way as well, people are less willing to reign in their shitty traits because everyone feels like "there's someone out there who will accept ME for ME, why should I have respect for my fellow man or pay attention to other peoples boundaries or needs!?"

I can see the problem quite clearly. I can't see a solution of any kind, unfortunately. Even if I personally strive to be very likeable somehow and give others free reign to be asshats to me, that's only going to find me very short lived "friendships" that burn out once they realize I'm not actually anything like them.

>>81660830 (OP)
>disingenuous narcissists
can you or any other anon define this clearly?

>>81662061
(You) and frankly I don't think I can be any more clear than that.

>>81662123
no its pretty vague and its a serious inquiry, remember what einstein said
>if you cant explain it in terms even a toddler would understand, youre full of shit