>34th birthday was today
>still deeply miss my girlfriend from 8th grade
It will never get better, huh?

>>81663158 (OP)
You are genuinely a pathetic scum fuck of a human being to have never fucking grown as a human being since 2005.

>>81663158 (OP)
Damn nigga you was heartbroken before I was born. 2006 anons in this bitch!

Pussy ass nigga seriously

>>81663158 (OP)
Better to have had and lost than to have not had at all.

im sorry to hear that fwen, but you gotta move on! the only thing you can do is let go :(((

>>81663627
>Better to have had and lost than to have not had at all.
kill yourself

>>81663158 (OP)
>>81663200
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>>81663621
Don't listen to the rude anons, OP. They're just jelly u had a gf in the 8th grade

>>81663200

I've lost count of the adults that I know are badly hung up on one of their first few crushes and simply never bring it up, because it would jeopardize their current relationships.

This is just the human condition, bro.

>>81663688
God it would be so hot if someone fell in love with me and would never be able to fall out even years later

In the time since you broke up, I was born, went through elementary and middle school, graduated high school, and now Ive finished my 2nd year of college. Grow up faggot

>>81663750
you're not the main character idk why you're sharing this

>>81663670
At least you had a gf bro.

>>81663158 (OP)
it does get better but it never goes away just you start accepting it more as time passes

>>81663688
Ex of mine is like this.

No matter who she ends up with she always ends up pining for me and ending up back in my bed.
(We lost out virginities to each other btw)

>>81663824
let me guess, you're autistic and she has BPD or bipolar?
this is basically me with my ex

>>81663959
I'm ADHD and have a hard time socializing with people initially. If I get past the talking and hanging out filter I'm usually good.
She is BDP for sure, though.

Oxytocin is a pretty cool hormone, released during intimate moments. It promotes feelings of trust and attachment between partners, and is believed to allow for the strengthening of bonds between partners before pregnancy occurs.

This hormone is released less and less, especially when we switch partners. People become biochemically connected to other people, not just from sex, but from feelings of intimacy. Our brains are not adapted to keep switching; maybe a few times, maybe early in life, but not constantly.

I'm not saying that this hormone is the only factor, but it is definitely a contributing factor.

If you bond with someone a lot, (and they you,) and they betray you, they are fucking at least 2 people over. They will feel less love from anyone, and so will you, for a long time. Of course, there are obvious and subtle ways to prevent/heal this, but most people don't give a shit about that. They deal a blow to your favorite feelings in life. The brain is an amazing thing, so I think that there are ways to come back. Best of luck.

>>81663158 (OP)
Older than you and almost drunk texted the girl that crushed on me in kindergarten. Good thing chatgpt talked me out of it. Or maybe that's a bad thing. Who knows

Lot of zoomer normalfags itt

You're going to be seeing her in your dreams forever, sorry bro

>>81664614
very hostile tonight

>>81663158 (OP)
Happy cake day anon