>>81674225At that time her family wasn't fully aware of what was going on, we traveled to the other end of the country together, and my (single) mom didn't care what was going on with me as long as she heard from me now and then. Of course we kept the relationship secret from them, and it caused a lot of family problems when we got married and were able to be honest (at least with family) about it. As for the kids, I wasn't down as the father for any documentation and she had to claim the father was absent.
Now after many years though we don't have to fake anything but we also don't broadcast it either or tell people. We get some weird or confused reactions on occasion if people figure things out because of the age gap and the age of our kids, but never any trouble really. I'm 25 now for reference so people don't seem to get worked up as much as they used to
>>81674251To be fair and honest, I know my personal situation is a weird one and the extreme majority of other underage age-gap relationships shouldn't get a pass just because mine worked out, I think
But yes, it was amazing what we had. I loved it and miss it now and then