Thread 81680282 - /r9k/ [Archived: 543 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/1/2025, 6:56:31 PM No.81680282
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Is 30 too late to make up for lost youth? I still want a friend group I go out drinking with, to fuck young alternative college girls, to be in a band and play live show, to feel young and at the edge of culture and to be cool. I spent my entire 20s NEETing.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 6:58:19 PM No.81680301
>>81680282 (OP)
I thought you were going to jail.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 6:58:39 PM No.81680305
>>81680282 (OP)
Depends on how you look and what kind of shit you're doing. You're not too old for a friend group to do exciting shit with but this post is premature midlife crisis
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:00:39 PM No.81680328
>>81680282 (OP)
There are literally furries with their shitty fursuit walking in the streets and you concerned about these normie things?
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:03:20 PM No.81680366
>>81680282 (OP)
I wonder what my sea monkey pp feel like in her mouth
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:06:22 PM No.81680392
>>81680282 (OP)
You missed the boat. Better luck next life, idiot.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:39:29 PM No.81680650
>>81680366
Absolute euphoric heaven
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:47:23 PM No.81680728
>>81680282 (OP)
>30
you're a zoomer, no one cares if you want to hang out with other zoomers and have sex with them.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 7:49:57 PM No.81680753
>>81680282 (OP)
it's too late
oh mother i can feel the soil falling over my head
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:12:39 PM No.81680999
>>81680728
Kek, zoomies are autistically age obsessed. College aged kids would treat anon like he is nearing retirement
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:31:00 PM No.81681139
>>81680999
>>81680728
Yeah I'm 34 ppl think I'm 27 and I still get called unc. At 30 the highschool/junior high gf Exp is no longer possible
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:31:06 PM No.81681140
>>81680999
Yeah. To a zoomer anything over 25 is a wrinkled old groomer. I wonder if their cancer will pass on to the alphas. I literally have no idea what alphas are like. Zoomers have invaded all my games and sites but alphas seem to stay on their own shit. Pretty based of them.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 8:51:33 PM No.81681299
>>81681140
Im 25 now and im really hoping that in a decade when im 35 this generation is cool and will let middle age niggas fuck again
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 9:21:07 PM No.81681542
>>81680392
This felt like getting shot in the gut
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 9:27:16 PM No.81681591
>>81680282 (OP)
You can find drinking pals at any age but the rest of the stuff you listed requires an extroverted personality and good looks, both of which you probably don't have.
But yea, I'm 30 too and not feeling any sort of decay yet. I can still do everything I could do at 20, not that I did much at 20...What sucks is that now I have a job, so even tho my body is still up for playing vidya 8h a day and drinking a case of beer, I no longer have the time to do that stuff. I'm working on retiring early, hopefully in my early 40s.
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 10:15:48 PM No.81682012
>>81680366
Like getting kissed by a thousand angels at once
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:23:12 PM No.81682595
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>>81680282 (OP)
I'm currently in the same boat. All my youth every person around me were controlling. Even with my "friend" nothing I wanted to do was fun nothing I said was funny, etc.. and I was led to believe that I was wrong and I had to change to fit in. Everyday trying to figure out what was wrong with me and what did I need to change to be a "normal person" but at the end of the day I was just around boring ass people. I would hang out with them and their definition of having fun was sitting down at a bar drink beer and talk about their job. I wasted my life hanging around these people and trying to fit in with them. I like adrenaline, I wanted to fight, do mountain bike, drifting, try bungee and parachute. At 30 now that they have kids and I am all alone I'm starting to figure out what I really liked and all the time I missed out on and seriously I don't know if I can do all those things... alone... In my 30s
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:48:07 PM No.81682828
>>81680282 (OP)
ngl its kind of rough if you have been doing absolutely nothing your *entire* 20s (you have no job or college degree or career) but you might be able to make it out.

>>81681139
im 23 sorry why the fuck would you even want to date a high schooler even if they are 18? they are kids and all the problems that come with that. Id want someone personally around 19-28 or so.
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Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:48:11 PM No.81682830
>>81682595
Where is your baby mama at lil nigga
Anonymous
7/1/2025, 11:49:33 PM No.81682840
>>81680282 (OP)
That girl will never fuck you, sorry
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:20:58 AM No.81683127
>>81682595
>I had to change to fit in.
The moment my life changed for the better was when I realized I was just a weirdo and stopped trying to fit in/be a normie
Just embrace being a weirdo
It's not like anyone will care either way
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:21:39 AM No.81683131
>>81680282 (OP)
>Is 30 too late to make up for lost youth?
yes.
it's over.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:24:27 AM No.81683165
>>81680999
This

I'm 24 and multiple 19/20 year olds treat me like a father figure
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 12:55:37 AM No.81683457
>>81680282 (OP)
you either spend your 20s partying or you spend them NEETing, not both
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 1:30:57 AM No.81683800
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>>81680282 (OP)
um you can have a friend group and do fun shit at any age... young college girls might be out of reach depending on how old you look
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 1:47:42 AM No.81683950
>>81682828
I'm not talking about dating a high schooler. I'm talking about those extremely cute first kiss relationships where love is simple, and naivety about life's difficulties lets love be passionate and pure.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 2:41:37 AM No.81684388
>>81683950
ULTRA LEL

You're never getting that.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:10:42 AM No.81684611
>>81683950
NTA, but without some degree of this I don't see what the point of being in a relationship is. I get that there are SOME adult things to have in order when you're older, but if relationships are going to be so stiff and transactional I'd literally just rather be a man-child and play video games and no amount of insults is going to make me feel otherwise.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:57:25 AM No.81684914
>>81680282 (OP)
>go out drinking
Faggot
>to fuck young ran-thru annoying college girls
Bad taste
>to be in a shitty band
Go to /mu/ and see where that ends
>at the edge of culture and to be cool
Pick one, the edge has always been for people who have no insecurities about being called weird, not people who want to be cool. I really can't grasp what you miss about being 20 here. Growing older scares me because less vidya and getting a job, all of the things you just listed are less fun than playing a videogame by just about every metric.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:21:12 AM No.81685070
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>>81680282 (OP)
>same girl
Why are zoomers like this?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:26:07 AM No.81685098
>>81685070
She obviously hates her Conservative parents
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:37:00 AM No.81685168
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>>81681542
Its amazing the power I wield over oldfags like you.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 5:53:36 AM No.81685586
>>81685070
The Jews. Like always
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:30:39 AM No.81685778
>>81684914
>all of the things you just listed are less fun than playing a videogame by just about every metric
Do you know how much of a dimwited retard you have to be to like videogames past high school?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:34:33 AM No.81685802
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>be depressed sack of shit
>care about literally nothing other than videogames while working part time retail from the ages of 18-29
>suddenly get a huge feeling of FOMO, want to go back to school and get a better job and take roadtrips and make art and have my first kiss and explore my sexuality despite never having a conversation with a woman ever.

I wish my brain didn't go into panic mode so fucking late. I've made some changes but it feels too little too late.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:42:32 AM No.81685856
>>81680366
in your case you'd cum faster from her kissing your tiny brown pp
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:19:18 AM No.81686055
>>81680282 (OP)
Why are you calling being a pedo "lost youth", the fuck is wrong with you. Hand yourself to the authorities
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:28:12 AM No.81686474
>>81685802
Same exact thing happened to me. I feel like such an idiot
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:33:52 AM No.81686512
>>81685802
>>81686474
>>81685802
Some people don't wake up until their 50s and are just fine.

Why are people so obsessed about the idea "It's over past X age"?

You can even go back to medical school at 40yo as long as your financial situation allows you.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:38:47 AM No.81686537
>>81681140
It will get SIGNIFICANTLY worse with gen alpha. They are raised totally online and get all their social interaction online. They will be terrified to even interact with people irl much less have sex and im sure even in their mid 20s they would be stuck in a sort of suspended development, mentally 14 forever.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:41:02 AM No.81686551
>>81680282 (OP)
theres still a chance to be a cool 30 year old that younger girls want to fuck, if you play your cards right.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:42:20 AM No.81686556
>>81680282 (OP)
Nothing you do will be nearly as exciting without the teenage hormones and mindset, but you can still do fun crazy reckless shit. Just look at John McAfee.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:46:28 AM No.81686578
>>81686512
sure, you can achieve zen and only think about present conditions and the future, but we are humans not gigachad ubermensch, we are going to look back and regret and this is a huge one, it is not like running around like a retard and stubbing your toe or missing a hot stock tip
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:48:16 AM No.81686586
unc needs a hoe phase
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:48:39 AM No.81686591
>>81686556
teenagers are also incredibly retarded and cringe, I'd say 90% of teenagers are terrible people, I'd like to feel like a teenager not be one

I often wonder if I should just smoke weed with niggers to get the good feelings, but I don't want them to lace it with fent and turn me into a junky
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:51:55 AM No.81686615
>>81680282 (OP)
My 30th birthday is around the corner and I am in the same boat, as I have wasted my 20s away doing nothing. Honestly, I see no way out of it.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:30:40 AM No.81686843
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>>81680282 (OP)
As someone who turned thier life around in their 30's and actually got to make up for lost youth, it is very possible, but it requires some work, and you have to be above a 4/10 in looks or don't try.
Changing depends on: creating TINY daily habits that compound over very long periods to create irreversible change.
>For example, you're a fat fuck?
Try eating ONE less donut a day, can't do that? leave on bite left. Point is to do something everyday no matter how small and work up from there.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:26:51 AM No.81687169
I'm on a similar boat, i moved away and started from scratch somewhere mostly hoping it leads to significant changes in my life. I'm also taking better care of what i eat, i go out on walks every day instead of staying inside all the time.

It is not working that great desu but i'm still hopeful.

>>81686843
Hopefuel
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:33:53 AM No.81687492
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>>81687169
>Hopefuel
there is some stuff I left out:
>how I did it
Three years of constant increasing habits. I started with just making my bed everyday. Then eating one less donut a day, and so on and so on. By 2023 I had lost 70 pounds and due to tons of meditation I was able to fake confidence and appear joyful. I started going to community college and could (fake) match the energy of the loud extroverted kids. Long story short this got me to hanging out with them, which got me to parties, which got me to losing my virginity at 34yo to a 22yo to half-puerto-rican half-white girl.
>lots of mistakes
I made a fuck ton of humiliating mistakes learning how to be a pretend normie, but you learn very fast from mistakes (better to try and make mistakes then over analyze shit). Normies are brutally unforgiving if they find out your a socially stunted autist, they kind of will go out of their way to try and cast you back down, such as talking shit about you or saying snide casually cruel "sarcastic" comments or being passive aggressive, or snickering to each other when you walk by.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:35:00 AM No.81687497
>>81687492
it is possible to be the educational antichrist also
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 1:08:25 PM No.81688012
>>81680282 (OP)
If you have the time or can afford it, it's never too late... Just get yourself a young gf too!
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:33:30 PM No.81688934
You're literally me. I still live with my mom but I've been trying to have sex.

I've been rejected 8 times this year. Even after girls make out with me at bars and flirt hard they usually don't want anything to do with me. I haven't had sex in like 7 years.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:39:14 PM No.81688976
>>81688934
I hooked up with my boyfriend when he lived at home, but he also has a ton of friends and a job and Chad hobbies. What do you have
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:50:19 PM No.81689060
>>81680282 (OP)
Idk, but I know that it's beyond over in my case.

I couldn't get women when I was at my peak, I know I won't get shit now in my 30s.
It's sad that I will never get to experience such a huge aspect of life...but whatever.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:57:03 PM No.81689109
>>81688976
I work at a warehouse and I'm a gamer

I have nothing
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 3:59:09 PM No.81689119
>>81689109
You should start lifting or pick up a team sport. You sound cute you just need some more things to reel them in. You'd make a good project for a woman
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:04:36 PM No.81689175
>>81689119
I'm not gonna lift I already work 10 hours a day and I'm a 6'2 lanklet who can't grow muscle. I'm just gonna jerk off.

I invited an alt gamer girl who draws furry porn to a date this week and she said yes, but then told me to back off because she's still talking to her ex or something.

She didn't even know what a NEET is. Dumb bitch plays valorant and overwatch all day but I'm a counterstrike kind of guy. It's over.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:08:22 PM No.81689203
>>81689175
My bf worked warehouse nights and he would still go to the gym after work and pump it out part of what attracted me to him
Unless you find her on soc you are not going to get the 4chan girlfriend of your dreams. You have to make peace with her being a normalfag that won't know stuff
I bet if you play it cool and act like you don't care that girl is hung up on her ex she will bang you in less than a week. She wouldn't have been chatting to you otherwise
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:13:09 PM No.81689246
>>81689203
>part of what attracted me to him
I see lifting as a complete waste of time and effort. I guess it works for your meathead boyfriend since it attracts foids like you. What a fucking clown show.
Replies: >>81698869
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:14:42 PM No.81689260
>>81680282 (OP)
33 is when people notice you are not in your 20's. 30 to 32 you can still look young enough for people to take your ID, people under 23 might notice so don't hang around people that young.
So maybe 1 to 2 years to get it out of you system, being a mid 30's trying to be 20 will make you look foolish.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 4:23:15 PM No.81689331
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filled with peeps who lost or wasted their youth

we are beyong the point of return, pals

ANTICOM

incels
neets
outcasts
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:19:00 PM No.81690307
>>81689260
I seriously need to get my act together. Im 28. Im running out of time
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:39:00 PM No.81690505
>>81680282 (OP)
Young college girls are not happening unless you have status maxxed which you clearly havent. Still a lot of hot people in their 30s if you stop being such a faggot for once. Anything else you can do but it will always have an aura of unc cringe. Just learn to dgaf if you really want to do it and you will be happy. You will do none of this though since you are asking for anonymous online faggots that you will never meet if they approve of your choices.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 6:44:24 PM No.81690555
>>81680282 (OP)
>I still want a friend group I go out drinking with
You can have this.

>to fuck young alternative college girls
No, they'll all think you're cringe.

>to be in a band and play live show
You can do this.

>to feel young and at the edge of culture and to be cool
A 30+ trying to act young and in-fashion will always be cringe. Being cool at 30+ necessitates accepting that you're 30 and acting like it, not like a 23-year-old.

You sound like you're on the path to becoming the "hello, fellow kids" meme.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:16:07 PM No.81690889
>>81680282 (OP)
If you're vampire tier in the sense of you look like you're in your early 20s or like 19 years old then sure.
If you're a balding 30 year old and look 30 then fuck no obviously you'll just have to act 30 at that point.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:17:36 PM No.81690905
>>81685070
Damn this gives me hopium I'm a lightskin nigga and have a goth aesthetic and this nigga looks ugly as fuck in comparison to me and is a manlet.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:18:13 PM No.81690911
>>81680282 (OP)
Nah times up. Accept wizardhood.
Replies: >>81692032
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 7:50:42 PM No.81691222
>>81690505
Girls are not hot in their 30s can we be serious for a second
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:05:34 PM No.81691404
>>81680282 (OP)
I'm 29 and still want all that but there's a reason I've never had it in all the years I've been alive and that's because I'm a square.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:13:11 PM No.81691490
The problem is eventually you're going to run out of steam and feel even worse than if you hadn't tried at all.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:43:44 PM No.81691781
>>81689331
>wasted youth
>server is full of minors and under25s
lol
Replies: >>81691822
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 8:48:13 PM No.81691822
>>81691781
Whenever a millennial builds something, expect a flood of zoomers. I don't know why the twerps don't tick to their own.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:10:54 PM No.81692032
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Anyone else here is a 40 year old hypersexual bisexual virgin who has had very strong sexual desires since she was 3 years old? This is urgent.

>>81680392
>>81680753
>>81682840
>>81683131
>>81690911
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:11:02 PM No.81692036
>>81691822
maybe it's because their own kind sucks and they're outsiders looking for big bro figures
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:22:26 PM No.81692174
>>81692032
how can you even be anything sexual if you're a virgin?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:25:46 PM No.81692220
>>81692174
What exactly do you mean? That because someone is extremely sexual and bisexual said person can't be a virgin?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:27:32 PM No.81692239
>>81692220
more like, masturbation doesn't count as sexuality.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:28:06 PM No.81692248
>>81685802
Same. I mean what do we even do in this situation? I really feel like necking is the only option.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:38:52 PM No.81692374
>>81692032
>very strong sexual desires since she was 3
look, last time i heard about someone being sexual that early that person became a pornstar.
how exactly are you still a virgin?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:42:02 PM No.81692414
>>81692239
You are seriously just a fucking idiot
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 9:44:12 PM No.81692441
>>81692414
unless you're not a real virgin?
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:38:39 PM No.81693004
>>81692374
Tremendously weak bait
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 10:56:45 PM No.81693191
>>81692239
You see, hypersexuality is a condition characterized by an unusually intense preoccupation with sexual thoughts and urges, not with the amount of sexual activity you have.

>>81692374
>how exactly are you still a virgin?
I imagine it has a lot to do with my tendency towards being overweight and my ADHD.

That said, I do distinctly remember having very sexual urges from an extremely early age. Being three years old I obviously didn't know about penetration or any of sort.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:00:10 PM No.81693219
>>81680282 (OP)
>Is 30 too late to
get a dog or a horse? no
>make up for lost youth
yes
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:05:20 PM No.81693266
Ok I think we can all agree that it's too late for OP

But what about a 27 year old khv like ME?
Do I still have a chance if I set my mind to it and get my shit together?
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:08:39 PM No.81693295
>>81692032
what you call hypersexuality is just normal male libido. lol
Replies: >>81693417
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:09:44 PM No.81693308
>>81693266
>if I set my mind to it
what is "it"? you want to have sex with women sure and play music, sure but dont expect an audience or for the woman to be good looking. look up the statistics, most women your age who aren't taken are usually single mom or obese
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:10:42 PM No.81693320
>>81682595
>I wanted to fight, do mountain bike, drifting, try bungee and parachute.

I dont know about fighting (like IRL outside like in bar, not martial arts, where it would be good to have a buddy to get your back), but for other it not too late. Some of them you could try alone (bike, jumbee), for those that require more skills you can join a course and later a club. Many people, even if they have friend group, start those more specific hobbies by themselves.
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Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:20:40 PM No.81693417
>>81693295
I am pretty sure a little kid doesn't have constant thoughts about hugging a naked peer of the opposite sex and dreams about being completely naked in the bathtub with them.
Replies: >>81693505
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:24:35 PM No.81693454
>>81680282 (OP)
Back in my prime I barely did anything besides gaming and going out to bars, still couldn't bag any girls despite talking to a lot of them, I'm 30 now and in the last 2 years gotten fat which I need to fix but knowing back when I was skinny I wasn't treated any better than I am now so that's a big demotivater unfortunately
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:31:15 PM No.81693505
>>81693417
you don't know the haIf of it
Replies: >>81693537
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:35:08 PM No.81693537
>>81693505
What do you mean by that, exactly? I don't understand you.
Replies: >>81693556
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:36:24 PM No.81693556
>>81693537
little boys are obsessed with sex, it's all they talk about when they discover it.
Replies: >>81693582
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:39:19 PM No.81693582
>>81693556
As with foot fetishism I hoped I would the only one suffering something so atrocious.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:47:41 PM No.81693662
>>81680282 (OP)
so do it.
yeah people are gonna comment on it. just do cocaine until you stop caring.
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:51:48 PM No.81693695
>>81693308
Why not date younger?
Replies: >>81697921
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:59:41 PM No.81693767
>>81680366
Same as any other mouth

Try Grindr
Anonymous
7/2/2025, 11:59:45 PM No.81693769
>>81680282 (OP)
It's called having a midlife crisis
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:16:05 AM No.81693941
>>81680282 (OP)
My dad after being unemployed for years got engaged to a 20 year old at 42ish and was with her till he died. Though she wasn't an alt girl, she just had a shaved head and other than that was average looking. So uhh.. maybe? I wish you best of luck.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:39:40 AM No.81694177
>>81693266
There is no difference between 27 and 30
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:52:25 AM No.81694286
>>81680282 (OP)
No one can ever make up for lost youth. I'm 26 and I already know that shit is past, I'm not getting back what I never had. You ain't going to be on the edge of culture. Hanging around zoomers will only make you feel older.

You gotta find something worth living for. And you can find elements of what you seek. You can fuck younger girls if you are able. You can find people of a similar age but who are of a similar level of development and milestones as you. You aren't alone in this experience.

>>81680328
Are you actually twelve?
Replies: >>81699089
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:58:28 AM No.81694359
>>81680282 (OP)
Honestly yes

Girls your age are ran through and ready to settle down. You'll have a hard time getting them with zero experience, let alone college girls

Grow up
Replies: >>81694411 >>81695272
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 1:04:34 AM No.81694411
>>81694359
What makes you think OP wants girls his own age? But it's true that college age girls are pretty much ran through by that point anyway. If you want a true romance with a virgin girl it has to be in high school at the latest.
>Grow up
Easy to say, anon. But the point is that there is no growing up for people like us. We missed the requisit milestones. A man who has had a sexless adolescense will never truly be a fully fledged adult. Society thinks that a man can be sexless for his entire youth, and then somehow reach 30 and morph into a mature husband material and father figure who is perfectly happy to settle down with a woman with double or triple digit body counts and raise a kid. It does not work that way. Don't complain about manchildren when we live in a system that creates them.
Replies: >>81697134
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:05:18 AM No.81695272
>>81694359
I dont know how. I seriously dont know how to move on and abandon this vision I have for life. Its the only thing that sounds good to me
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:55:01 AM No.81695605
>>81692032
If you are bisexual why havent you just fucked a gay guy
Replies: >>81699609
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:49:25 AM No.81695986
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PornMAXX. This guys 33 or some shit and fucks girls in their early 20s on the regular
Replies: >>81696879 >>81697298
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:51:13 AM No.81695998
>>81680366
You will never know. Stick to your own kind.
Replies: >>81698815
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 5:10:35 AM No.81696172
>>81680282 (OP)
lil bro thinks 30+ can cope with lost teenage love
Replies: >>81696339
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 5:29:55 AM No.81696339
>>81696172
Not OP but similar. I doubt he cares about teen high school sweet heart innocent love bullshit. He just wants to fuck cool hot young girls, and fit in with the "hip" crowd.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:34:58 AM No.81696879
>>81695986
Just have a giant penis bro
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 6:37:20 AM No.81696893
>>81682840
She will if you have a criminal record, I know old dude excons who plap zoommettes
Replies: >>81697134
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:07:40 AM No.81697134
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>>81689260
>>81690307
You look young as long as you're still in shape. People in their 60's look in their 20's when they stay in shape. When you get in your 30's you metabolism slow down. You get fatter weaker of mind and body, etc... So that's what make a person look sterotipically old. But if you stay in shape you'll look young.

>>81689331
Dude I ain't joining a discord of downer. That shit will keep you down and won't help you progress.

>>81685070
>pic rel

>>81693320
I should save some money and try to do them. Idk if I can save enough in a year to do everything I want. This give me some hopefuel. Thanks anon

>>81694411
I agree with you but a lot of fathers actually have our life path. Woman eventually settle down and when they do its with the very nice little boy sadly.

>>81696893
This is true. Woman have all the freedom and right in the world. We are currently in a matriarchal society even tho feminist say the opposite and woman does'nt have to look for a relationship and a good man. They look for every "experience" they can have. They want to fuck criminal. get raped, they become hooker for quick money for a couple of nights and don't tell anyone, go to different country and do whatever they want. They don't have to provide for anyone and to plan a future because it's not a woman job to do so. All the money they make can be spent instantly and once it's all over and they had all their "experience" they marry someone who spent their whole life getting a successfull career and live the good life with them.
Replies: >>81697259
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:24:41 AM No.81697259
>>81697134
>People in their 60's look in their 20's when they stay in shape
Name a single example of this
Replies: >>81697450
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:27:12 AM No.81697278
>>81680282 (OP)
30+ guys: how (and should) I get over my guilt of fucking married women? I am okay looking and in condition (esp compared to men in my age group), but am a lonely loser, but I have a job that makes me travel a fair bit for business, and I often end up in situations where I meet women in their late 20s-early 40s who are presumably bored in their marriages and are looking for adventure. I've had a fair amount of women of this sort proposition to me. They are all extremely sexually forward, like they start touching my arm and texting me, it's very clear what they want.
My personal record was when I was in an Airbnb in Germany, the owner's wife came to pick up the keys as I was leaving, and she remarked I'm so nice I must make my wife so happy, to which I responded I was single. She immediately started rubbing my arms and chest and we were kissing and fucking within 10 mins of meeting her.
Looks-wise they range from plain moms to women who were literal 10/10s in their prime.
I feel extremely bad about their husbands/families which is kind of a mood killer for me, so I end up rejecting most of them, but did end up having sex with a few of them. I did have a few of them contact me afterward wanting more hookups, but I never had anyone 'fall for me'.

This is kinda hollow and with my falling libido in my 30s and the shitty feeling, combined with me not having a real relationship makes this a very controversial thing for me.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:30:26 AM No.81697298
>>81695986
Doing porn as a male is literal cosmic horror tier. The men have to take meds that give them permanent rock hard erections that won't go away (not Viagra, that shit's baby tier compared to that), unless they take another drug, and for the cumming scenes, they literally inject lotion up their dicks they have to squeeze out.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:52:33 AM No.81697450
>>81697259
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yGNMkS_pw_I
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OGnS4mbjwhY
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OozcgOORfsA
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/-q88kOTezXk
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/YEdNSIOnEEo
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/vxQrqjtnF3s Just typed on youtube like 70 years old workout and these videos pop up. If they have gray hair just imagine them without hair
Replies: >>81697782
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:53:13 AM No.81697456
>>81680282 (OP)
20 years old was too late, you haven't wasted your 20s in regret right? Noone can turn back time.
Replies: >>81697477
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 7:55:48 AM No.81697477
>>81697456
30s, 40s, 50s are exciting in their own way, family, career, community achievements hit their peak.
Replies: >>81698074
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:36:51 AM No.81697782
>>81697450
Its fair to admit these guys look more appealing than others their age, but they still appear elderly
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 8:44:56 AM No.81697818
29 year old here. whats the best way to find 18-21 year old girls i can mindbreak like my hentai? i want to destroy their self worth and make them sexually fucked up
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:04:50 AM No.81697921
>>81693695
>Why not date younger?
Those women expect you to be interesting
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 9:30:46 AM No.81698074
>>81697477
>Just finished caretaking period and turned 31
>never had a gf before because i was too busy looking after old folks from 23 until now
am i too late?
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:30:53 AM No.81698784
>>81682595
Recently turned 30 and I'm coming to terms with this. Even looking back in high school I realized how hard you have to conform.
>you should play football where seniors will abuse the fuck out of you in practice and you get the shit kicked out of you every friday/saturday
>nah sounds really fucking gay. i would rather go rock climbing instead. oh wait, i live in bumfuck, nowhere and the only rock climbing gym is in the big city 1.5 hours away that i won't know about until my mid 20s
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:37:08 AM No.81698815
>>81695998
>he says while whites fetishize brown women here daily
Yeah nah I'll keep chasing my white angel
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:43:43 AM No.81698844
>>81680282 (OP)
I'm 24. Growing up poor shitty parents etc I never got to do anything I wanted except play vidya. I still love vidya but I want to do other things. I especially want to do physical activities I want to lift more and I want to do HEMA. I have the money and I have the time but fuck the energy is just gone due to my job.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:46:22 AM No.81698856
>>81685778
Uhuh and consuming poison that makes you retarded is smart though LMAO glad my fellow zoomers have been kicking the alcohol jew despite their reliance on nic and pot.
Replies: >>81700235
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 11:50:17 AM No.81698869
>>81689246
It's so funny when you DYEL crabs consider anyone who lifts to be a meathead. Just shows that some of you are exactly like the normalfags you hate.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:29:32 PM No.81699068
>>81680282 (OP)
Despite all the detractors in this thread, it's not that hard to be pretty close to what you described. You just have to really, really not give a shit about what turbonormies think which is a bridge too far for many people even when they try to claim that it isn't. The only thing that gives me serious pause is that it seems like you're looking to grovel for approval from zoomers which is just an awful move. Whatever you are (including your age), just be that. A lot of people appreciate those who are confident and genuine, even if being damaged or depressed is a part of that. Nobody says you have to fit in with some boring stereotype of being 30+, and I agree that that just seems awful. Be genuine (but not attention seeking or an emotional burden) and completely ignore/dismiss turbonormies. These two things will make you friends of all ages.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 12:34:14 PM No.81699089
>>81694286
Im 20 (21 next week) its literally over
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:07:50 PM No.81699609
>>81695605
Because most of them are too old or too ugly and the ones I would fuck aren't interested in me.

Also, someone reply to this!

>>81692032
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:31:29 PM No.81699752
>>81686512
The problem is that when /r9k/ says they missed their youth they mean they missed fucking tight college girls, and that has a pretty hard age gate. Despite what 4chan users like to say, most college girls are not down to fuck a 28+ year old man and the few that are mostly going to be broken bpd whores with tats, not the innocent cute virgin blonde girl they always imagined ending up with.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:42:10 PM No.81699816
>>81691222
They can be attractive, but rare and it's in a different way. They're definitely not as hot as tight college girls though.
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 2:44:20 PM No.81699835
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>>81680282 (OP)
The biggest thing I noticed as a 33 year old is moving to the city. I moved to a big city (Tokyo) to do some work. Before this I lived rurally alone with my parents. I was a web developer and decided to use the Digital Nomad Visa to stay there for a bit. I was able to make loads of friends, drinking buddies and I even met a girl there who I had sex with several times.

Before I moved, I was a literal NEET in a sense even though I had a job. I never left my home except for the odd work meeting and getting groceries. Didn't have friends. Didn't have a sex in over 10+ years. Every weekend I just sat gaming or browsing this shit board.

So yeah, moving to the city provided me with the means to socialise. I've pretty much come to the conclusion that living rurally or suburbs is what fucks your life up.

I had to come back home since you can only stay in Japan for 6 months on that visa. Now I'm alone again lol
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:42:34 PM No.81700235
>>81698856
New studies are coming out showing Gen z is consuming alcohol at a more normal level actually
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 3:47:34 PM No.81700274
>>81680282 (OP)
35 here in a similar situation. You can do all of that stuff if you just find the right venues where older patrons don't look out of place. If you're like me though, simply having the energy to go out and drink and dance late at night is the hard part
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:05:24 PM No.81700380
Imagine not antiagemaxxing early and looking 17 at 30 like me
Replies: >>81700706
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 4:50:25 PM No.81700706
>>81700380
What tips do you have anon
Anonymous
7/3/2025, 5:11:23 PM No.81700867
>>81681542
Why do you get worked up about what some anonymous retard says to you? Just try to make the best of your life, that's all you can do. I missed out on all the good things too, but I won't let that keep me down. I have always regarded life as a battlefield anyway, and the true winner will be the one still standing in the end. Suffering doesn't mean anything