>me rejecting a total chad
I cant tell if this makes me extremely smart or very, very, retarded.

if your actions match your true desires then you are not retarded

>>81702643 (OP)
Regardless op, you are gay.
I always feel bad for picrel right, but im glad the world doesnt get her down in the dumps.

>>81702658
These are words of wisdom, thank you anon

>>81702666
False, I am not gay. I want to have lots of children and run barefoot.

You can't really reject a "Chad" because they have 10 other options at their disposal.

>>81702643 (OP)
>Even chad isn't good enough nowadays
Over for every man on the planet

>>81702929
Exactly, and thats why i ended up cutting things off. Chad would constantly accuse me of talking to other guys, which meant... I definitely wasn't the only one. I want the type of man that cant even watch porn because he's only attracted to me.

>>81702733
>"you crack the whip on me"
>they think this is an insult
lol

>>81702973
Perhaps. Or maybe it's an issue that I only have because I value my independence. He was very good looking, tall, and bought me things. But ultimately he got replaced by the gym, vidya and nicotine products. Such is life

>>81702985
What in the schizoposting does this mean? And how do you know my ultimate dream is to enslave underweight cute moids and whip them for fun?

>>81703019
>Or maybe it's an issue that I only have because I value my independence
Did he want you to do his laundry or what
Just have sex with him like a normal woman

>>81702714
care to share your story? why would you reject a person like that? did you know them in a personal level?

>>81703042
I would have probably did his laundry if he asked, but I am also the type of friend that just habitually "tidy up" everyone's living space because it is satisfying to me.

We both definitely have enough smv for people to throw themselves at us casually but it was not a priority in the time we knew eachother. It was like we were undercover incels.

>>81702643 (OP)
Kafka was a robot

>>81703099
>It was like we were undercover incels
wtf does this mean
no one views attractive people as incels ever retard

>>81702643 (OP)
Or if op wasn't retarded The title would be "I rejected a guy" instead of enforcing incels homoerotic vision of the ideal man

>>81702643 (OP)
If you had to describe the kind of guy you could see yourself being with, like the kind of guy you'd spend years with, wake up next to, be excited to see, how would you describe them?
>>81702977
>I want the type of man that cant even watch porn because he's only attracted to me.
Real.

>>81703134
What people find attractive is different

>>81703067
I did know them on a semi-personal level and talked to them for awhile but at the end of the day I just didn't feel he could "match" me on a certain level. He didn't have the same degree of nuance and admittedly, the intensity I would bring to a serious relationship (i become borderline stalker when i really like someone).

For the longest time, I believed that women chose looks over personality. But I am proof that's just not true. I can easily say I'd rather go for a 5'8 average joe that has all my interests/habits instead of a 6'5 True Adam

>>81703145
OP said he's very good looking and tall. What's a better term for that kind of man?

>>81703160
It really isn't. Looks are objective

>>81703019
>>81703099
You were fucking this guy from the way you're talking, you didn't reject anyone, you broke up with him.

>>81702977
>I want the type of man that cant even watch porn because he's only attracted to me.

>>81703165
>I can easily say I'd rather go for a 5'8 average joe that has all my interests/habits instead of a 6'5 True Adam

You want a Guy that's uglier, so he has less leverage in the relationship. Got it!

>>81703165
when i mean on a personal level, i am referring to qualities about the person. is he a nice person? is he kind? does he care about those around him? does he care about having a job, helping you out, things like that?
>borderline stalker
that sounds good, but normies don't really see it as good
>women chose looks over personality
you should drill this into your head: no (people) do (this). there are good women, bad women, lookist women, women that don't care, good men, bad men... you can always find an exception. in my experience, the women i have met do care about looks, even though they usually say they don't. are they virtue signaling? i don't know. but i just hope i marry someone that likes me for who i am

>>81703134
My personal interpretation of inceldom is that it truly is a mind virus. There are tons of incels that are in fact, very attractive and can get sex easily, but have such deep-rooted cognition problems that they end up cucking themselves.

I can recognize that we were both physically attractive but also so mentally ill that it was too exhausting to navigate modern mating rituals. Hence the term, undercover incel: someone who doesn't LOOK like an incel but actually is.

>>81703217
I'm ugly as fuck and no girl has ever shown interest in me. But I'm totally the same as you two, because you're soo mentally ill. Sincerely fucking kill yourself

>>81703169
We never fucked. In fact, we never even kissed. Like I mentioned earlier in the thread, it was the most undercover incel-like connection I have ever experienced, from both parties.

>>81703188
Nope! I don't care about control and power in a relationship. I just found it interesting that looks mean nothing in the face of a lack of attunement.

>>81703278
>im ugly as fuck
Literally just told you looks matter but they aren't everything, and its the first thing you focused on
>Sincerely fucking kill yourself
You are literally as mentally ill as me and thats why you're an incel kek

Let me ask you a question: if a total bombshell, madison beer type came up to you right now and said "let me gag on it" would you even respond properly? Or would you automatically assume it was a joke/scam? Would you, right now, even be prepared to accept such a proposition?

does this mean you would date a robot, if you had the chance?

>>81703206
he was a nice person and presented pretty normal. he wasn't lazy and he wasn't insincere either. but like i said, i just couldn't imagine him matching my level.

>are they virtue signaling?
i have always thought everyone, both men and women, always inherently use physical attractiveness as a guide to romantic partners. it makes sense: we are biologically programmed to prefer certain traits for increased chances of successful offspring. But, I am now learning that it really is not the case. Is this proof the human race is advancing perchance?

i hope you find your person and have a happy marriage anon!

>>81703326
>looks matter but they aren't everything
It's the only thing that matters when you fail to pass the looks threshold

>Or would you automatically assume it was a joke/scam?
Do you think most completely stable, neurotypical men would not?

>Would you, right now, even be prepared to accept such a proposition?
You can choke on it, if you want

>>81703380
>he wasn't lazy and he wasn't insincere either. but like i said, i just couldn't imagine him matching my level.
your level of what, exactly? intensity in a relationship?
>But, I am now learning that it really is not the case. Is this proof the human race is advancing perchance?
i would like to ask you something: how come, then, that dating apps are working the way they are? why are there so many single guys, and at the same time, so many girls complaining about men being abusive? isn't this a sign of people caring now, more than ever in modern times, about looks?
in some sense, i like this about long distance relationships. you don't really know what the other person looks like right away, and if the attraction can't work without sex for a while, then it will die. the distance sucks, but it somewhat filters shallow people.
i don't think we are advancing. quite the opposite, i think we are going backwards. people are obsessed with sex, short term pleasure, hook ups. no commitment anymore
i wish i was attractive so people would try to see what is inside me more often, but those chances are usually lost at the very beginning.
thank you for your good wishes, OP.

>>81703151
After this experience, I have very little physical requirements. I would just like my ideal man to be above 5'7 so my future son wouldn't want to kill himself in the future (genetics) and I would want my ideal guy to not be obese (I am extremely fatphobic).

That aside, I would like a man that is truly a good person. The type that does good deeds even when no one is watching. A man who has a lot of self awareness and doesn't do trashy or gross things. If he doesn't make any money or is disabled, that's fine, I'd make enough money for the both of us anyways. If he's stupid (genuinely slow) or awkward, thats okay too, as long as his intentions are pure. I would like a man that is cheerful, positive and loyal to me.

Someone who I can trust to do the right, moral thing is imperative for me. I want to raise children with someone who has unshakeable good values. He has to love me, obviously, but I have figured out the motifs of human attachment and don't find this hard to cultivate. Someone who has a lot of love and pure kindness to give just warms my heart thinking about.

>>81703360
Yes, 100%. And i would probably treat him so well that his brain would get fried desu

>>81703484
Jaime, pull up this lady's sexual history

>>81703406

>looks threshold
Listen, if you have all your limbs, no severe facial disfigurement, and you're not a victim of osteoporosis, you literally have no right to complain. THATS the looks threshold and even then, some lucky vegetables are able to surpass it.

>Do you think most completely stable, neurotypical men would not?
Yes. The normie response would be to call an uber and hope she doesn't notice all the crumbs on your bed.

>You can choke on it, if you want
I am not Madison Beer, so don't spin this on me. I am satirically proud of my undercover incel identity, unlike you.

>>81703505
Uh, don't you mean Jarvis? MEGALUL

>>81703601
>I am satirically proud of my undercover incel identity, unlike you.
I'm not proud of getting mocked for my appearance, never having hugged a girl and not having friends for my entire adolescence. You'd rather hang yourself with barbed wire and then spend a day as me.

>>81703494
where can i find girls like you? :(

>>81703447
yes my level of intensity. i don't think I am the healthiest but I don't really want to change this part of myself. In my scrambled brain, love isn't real unless it is chaotic and overwhelming.

>it somewhat filters shallow people
I totally agree. And I think it applies to relationships beyond romantic. A lot of my normie irl friends would be shocked to learn i browse this board quite frequently and have a lot of friends I have met through anonymous chat websites. But since you can't immediately perceive a person's social value or other materialistic attributes, your connections are a lot more genuine and in-depth. I have no issue with distance in regards to the pursuit of something so precious.

This is also why dating apps simply do not work on me. The anonymized aspect of certain platforms allows me to see the true insides of a person before judging them on rudimentary standards like height and body fat % and social circles. When I had those dating apps (social pressure + curiosity) I would get 1k matches and arab millionaires attempting to buy me. Unsurprisingly, this sort of thing disgusted me deeply.

>>81703691
>mocked for my appearance
I was once made fun of for my weight at a young age and now, other girls constantly compliment my figure, etc. It's never over. Truly. Modern science has given us so many amazing tools, surgical procedures, breakthroughs in nutrition and readings that have made ascension easier than ever before. You are not special and you have no excuses. You just need to ground yourself and not expect to bag a Kate Moss.

>You'd rather hang yourself with barbed wire then spend a day as me
Probably, but because you have an infection in your brain and not your physical body. I would love to wake up one day and be stronger and more dexterous than the opposite sex. Also doing helicopter dick has been a long dream of mine that I will never achieve.

>>81703694
girls like me are scary asf but if you're up for it then she will come sniff you out like a bloodhound

>>81703697
>i don't think I am the healthiest but I don't really want to change this part of myself.
i think you don't need that, you just need to find someone that matches your intensity. i would love giving the other person my undivided attention 24/7, but most people don't want that.
>your connections are a lot more genuine and in-depth
that is true. the sad part is, very few people are willing to commit to a long distance relationship, because its a lot of work. i think getting to know the other person first, their values, before judging anything about their appearance, is one of the purest ways to meet people.
>I have no issue with distance in regards to the pursuit of something so precious
does this mean you would actually go for a long distance relationship, if the other person actually met your standards?
>The anonymized aspect of certain platforms allows me to see the true insides of a person before judging them
this is a very good thing about 4chan, too. getting to see what's in other people's minds without a filter is a good experience. neurotypical people are used to mask their true self, until they find themselves in a pickle

>>81702643 (OP)
Smart if he was just a fuckboy
Retarded if he was geunuinely nice and had good intentions.

>>81702658
So that's what being a retard is all about huh, guess i'm retarded

>>81703864
I lost 100lbs+ and I've never received a compliment not from my family.

>You just need to ground yourself and not expect to bag a Kate Moss.
no. girl. has. ever. liked. me
I expect nothing. All you boring cunts say the same shit. You're completely interchangeable

>Probably, but because you have an infection in your brain and not your physical body
I thought you were hecking mentally ill, too? Or are you just pretending like every failed normalfaggot

>>81702643 (OP)
Oh and also I happen to be trans, idk if that matters ~

>>81703985
i think it works like this for this case, but it isn't always like this

>>81703955
We will never know. Such is life

>>81702643 (OP)
If he is a normie then there's your reason. If you're posting here then of course things like that will matter.

>>81703986

>All you cunts say the same shit.
You do realize women have a built-in radar to sniff out female hatred right? It's basic darwinism that prevented the majority of us from being raped to death 500 years ago. No wonder you're not getting attention. We can smell the poison off of you.


>Or are you just pretending
No, I am mentally ill. It's just far more entertaining to point out your flaws than fix my own.

>>81703188
>>I want the type of man that cant even watch porn because he's only attracted to me.
that'd probably unironically happen to me. thats just how attraction works for me. that person literally becomes my perfect 10/10, even if they are chubby and have akne.
I had a crush on a girl I was chatting with for about a year, and I could only masturbate to either a) my imagination of her b) non-sexual pics she send me or at worst c) a porn-lookalike that did solo content (which wouldn't have been nesseccary if we were actually in a relationship)
I was hardstuck in the friendzone though and had to end it for my own good.
I still have a thing for light akne like pic related though. (just some random pic from the internet, not the girl I chatted with)

>>81704086
>You do realize women have a built-in radar to sniff out female hatred right
Whatever you do don't look up the main perpetrators of femicide

>I am mentally ill
Odd that "mentally ill" women have the exact same views as the rest of them

>>81703494
Would you want to date, OP? aka hang out online and see if we like eachother or not

>>81703986

I hope you get live long enough to experience having your very own sex bot because you deserve your dick sucked 10 times a day for being this based

>>81703986
I relate to you and I might think it's genuinely extremely hard for normalfags like the guy you are talking to.
It's just a different world to them.

>>81704086
>You do realize women have a built-in radar to sniff out female hatred right?
Very funny. I've got a bridge to sell you.

>>81702643 (OP)
People kept hyping up metamorphosis so I expected some good shit but in the end I felt that, even though the initial idea was good (proper girl gets corrupted and falls into self-destructive hedonism through sex and drugs), the execution of the story was unsatisfying. When you tell the story of a downfall you need to create an emotional connection between the main character and the reader, and here I felt no such connection. The build up wasn't as good as I expected, and the downfall should have been more subtle. It also removes the sexual tension. To me sex is just as much about suggestion as it is about the actual act, just like sometimes a nice suggestive lingerie is more exciting than the genitals it's hiding. Especially in a corruption story.

>>81704753
Clearly you have never read the Jojo ending spin off which makes the entire experience far more satisfying and enjoyable.

>>81704212
Sure. I am pretty young though, are you?

>>81704152
Your incel hate should be directed towards those who commit femicide and not women themselves. These retards make women scared of all men, therefore women pre-emptively call any sort of interaction "creepy." It's stupid but the most safest way a woman can avoid being raped in a ditch is to automatically assume that every man is capable of doing so, which is, statistically sound. But your hate is directed at women, which are the weaker sex, physically. Obviously its pre-determined they will be victims of violence.

>>81705024
how old are you, OP? 18? all girls on r9k are 18 now

>>81704147
This is the best way to approach sex so that you have wholesome, passionate, baby-making plap sessions desu.

>>81704050
Absolutely. Sometimes I wish I could be satisfied by settling for a simple mtn

>>81703946
if that person would live up to my standards, I would 100% easily without hesitation do something long distance. I don't have any problems with trading away my youthful years and living a long sexless life in the off chance that I may actually find someone who interests me and wants to connect with me in a non-vapid way.

>>81705043
im 21, turned this year desu

>>81705116
>I don't have any problems with trading away my youthful years and living a long sexless life in the off chance that I may actually find someone who interests me and wants to connect with me in a non-vapid way.
this is probably one of the biggest hopiums i have ever read on this board, thank you. if you don't mind me asking, what are your standards?

>>81705132
oh nevermind, that's out of my age range. good luck though op

>>81705170
erm im outside rn so i cant list them all without looking psychopathic but uhhh drop social?

>>81706370
okay, my discord is standard.account