Thread for discussions about self harm and mutual support

hooni fuckin dies edition :0

Hello
>How are you doing today?
>Any plans for today?
>When was the last time you hurt yourself?
>Why did you hurt yourself?
>Is there anything bothering you right now?

Here's a bunch of helpful links

> long list of self harm alternatives (thank you muddy):
https://imgur.io/a/7Q2zgw7

> first aid post cuting:
https://www.lifesigns.org.uk/first-aid-for-self-injury-and-self-harm/

> wound care guide:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CsvJs8qNCVkHWHKekMSmCn6qn0GBEcgnq9fIqlA6Uv0/mobilebasic

>a bpd workbook:
https://d-pdf.com/book/1781/read

>a bpd Information Book (anon said it's exceptionally good)
https://annas-archive.org/md5/1a4f329474320214a120a4d553c6b60c

> bdbt (dialectical behavioral therapy)
workbook is intended for BPD but can work for anyone:
https://cursosdepsicologia.com.ar/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/THEDIA1.pdf

Please don't post any drastic images and if you have to, spoiler them

>>81757348 (OP)
Are trans people welcome here?

>>81757364
anyone's welcome honestly
just don't be mean
how's your day going anon?

>>81757348 (OP)
I'm hungover :3


Headpat /cat/ kind of day.

Wanna tell this girl ive been talking to that I love her but im afraid of what comes after. Want to disappear from her life sometimes just so I dont have to feel this way.

>>81757435
thank you
how are you? is the hangover bad?

>>81757527
Hello anon
>been talking to that I love her but im afraid of what comes after
you mean the rejection or being in a relationship? or both?
I don't know if that's a good idea anon because ai don't know your relations, are you friends? have you ever talked to her before?
>disappear from her life
If you can fo that maybe you should do so after asking her out?
also btw I've never been in a relationship so my advice can be wrong

hello/cut/, I did it again, at first I wasn't doing it right and no blood wanted to come out but in the evening I tried again and sticked the needle deeper and it worked. Though the blood didn't flow out, it more so dripped out and stopped after a while, I wonder if the needle isn't too small or maybe I should be using a tourniquet

Scared that she doesnt feel the same way. Im not taking any advice from 4chan seriously anyways I just like hearing other peoples opinions.

>>81757348 (OP)
heya cat how are you?
>hooni fuckin dies edition :0
oh no how could he be so oblivious :c

>>81757636
stay safe and if you do change anything make sure your extremely careful.

I haven't cut for a few months. I only cut on my chest and shoulders so no one sees. The scars are really visible and gross, but as long as I don't take my shirt off I'll be fine.

>>81757636
hey anon stay safe and don't collapse a vein

>>81757653
>Scared that she doesnt feel the same way
I guess that's normal
>not taking any advice from 4chan s
that's good
some people take this place too seriously

>>81757783
Heyo ali!
how's are you?? what dod u do?
>cat how are you?
I'm doing okay, I went to some stores and messed around in the garage
>how could he be so oblivious :c
it's a tragedy
everyone knows to watch out for big waffles

>>81757785
hello
>haven't cut for a few months.
that's good anon, do you want to stop hurting yourself?
>scars are really visible and gross
how do they look? are they're like red or purple? it usually takes a couple of months for them to start turning pale

>>81757785
that's good you stopped.

>>81758049
>how's are you?
I'm okay. bored tho, nothing to do.
>what dod u do?
sounds like your accusing me of something lol but yea I didn't do anything today. I'm about to eat dinner form yesterday tho.
>went to some stores and messed around in the garage
that's cool, buy anything nice? and did you do anything exciting in the garage?
>everyone knows to watch out for big waffles
exactly, it's a common thing. such a sad way to go out :(

>>81758634
>bored tho, nothing to do.
how was your sleep? did you watch blade runner?
>buy anything nice?
I got some ramen or something to see how it tastes and it was okay
>and did you do anything exciting in the garage?
nothing special, a friend found some old bike and I'm repairing it
>such a sad way to go out :(
yep people never expect it and then boom, big waffle!

hey anons I hope you all had a good day
I wonder why I don't want to stop hurting myself for no reason. I truly do not want to improve/fix myself. the harm is not very dangerous but I'm doing it very often and want it to be worse. help

>>81758959
>how was your sleep?
pretty good actually. slept a tad long but good. how about you?
>did you watch blade runner?
I watched like the first hour but then got sleepy so stoped. I'll finish it today tho.
>ramen or something to see how it tastes and it was okay
fair ramen stuff can be pretty hit or miss sometimes.
>friend found some old bike and I'm repairing it
well that's very kind of you, and super cool!
>never expect it and then boom, big waffle!
exactly, why you always gotta be on edge of it, you never know when it's gonna hit you.

>>81759002
j get that, and I feel that a lot too. I guess mainly if nothing has changed that makes you want to stop, you feel like there's no reason to stop. I've very recently actually started to want to get better. but that's only cause I got a friend. I guess best thing you could do is work on yourself and give yourself a reason no matter what it is to get better for that.

Confirmed femmies
>/cat/
>meowster :3
>white gator

>>81759002
hello anon c:
>hope you all had a good day
thank you, it was nice
hope yours was no worse than mine
>wonder why I don't want to stop hurting myself
I guess it depends why you do it, maybe you like it or don't have a reason motivating you to stop or both
how does your life look like anon? do you think it'll get any better?
>m doing it very often
how often?
>and want it to be worse. help
not sure how to help, I'm sprry, if you want to your can always talk with us and vent and just share your thoughts maybe they'll help ^^
but I kinda understand wanting to get worse
it's not good or healthy but I get it

>>81759065
>slept a tad long but good.
you needed that fren !
> how about you?
nothing special, no dreams and it was a bit short
>watched like the first hour but then got sleepy so stoped
it's a long movie, understandable
>finish it today tho.
have fun watchin
>stuff can be pretty hit or miss
I guess, it's pretty cheap so it won't taste great
I'll try to get sardines next time I'm in a store
>kind of you, and super cool!
thank you, I just like working on bikes
>you never know when it's gonna hit you.
the big waffle D:
oh btw have you ever had waffles?

>>81759159
why me? I don't think I've ever been called that on here desu

>>81759387
>you needed that fren !
i suppose do, i did definitely enjoy it.
>no dreams and it was a bit short
fair enough then, hope you Geta good dream tonight.
>it's a long movie
yea long but very good so far. i rarely watch movies like this.
>pretty cheap so it won't taste great
yea always the problem with Instant stuff like that.
>try to get sardines next time I'm in a store
well i hope you do and you enjoy them.
>just like working on bikes
that's great you do then, they are super interesting.
>the big waffle D:
the scariest natural disaster ever :o
>oh btw have you ever had waffles?
I've had a few times. none ever like homemade or restaurant made tho. still very tasty. have you?

>>81759460
>suppose do
after not sleeping for so long you deserved a good sleep
>hope you Geta good dream tonight.
aw thanks you :D
>rarely watch movies like this.
me too
it's easier to just watch shot videos
>and you enjoy them.
oo well see, maybe I'll get them tomorrow
>they are super interes
I think so too, especially older ones
>still very tasty. have you?
I agree, same
but wish I could make them at home
though then I'd probably eat them every day lol

Everything at my mom's house is going quite well

I even started a volunteer job at a local thrift store

>>81759993
>you deserved a good sleep
I guess, I definitely was extremely sleepy at that point.
>it's easier to just watch shot videos
yea exactly you don't have to put in a big time commitment or anything.
>maybe I'll get them tomorrow
hope there nice then :)
>especially older ones
true old stuff is very interesting also weird and silly stuff too
>wish I could make them at home
yea sadly just something very hard to make at home.
>then I'd probably eat them every day lol
fair hehe. they are the perfect breakfast too.

>>81760127
that's lovely to hear bibbit
>started a volunteer job at a local thrift store
that's very cool and kind of you. seems like a cool place.

>>81759065
hello. thanks for replying. congratulations on the good sleep by the way
>I got a friend
that's something precious. I'm happy for you anon. I'm scared of people and can't find myself close to anyone
>work on yourself
yea that's what I was saying. but I do not want to improve and I hate that I do not want to. I hope I don't go too low before changing my mind (if I ever did)

>>81759387
>hello anon c:
hello c:
>maybe you like it
I'm not sure how I feel about it. it's mixed and changing
>how does your life look like anon?
it's not bad but I feel isolated right now
>do you think it'll get any better?
I don't want to think about the future anymore. it takes effort and makes me sad
>how often?
every day. but it's small. I do big things rarely
>your can always talk with us
thanks. this place is nice

I gotta go sleep becouse it's late
goodnight friends

>>81760127
hey bibbit glad stuffs working out :D

>>81760219
>true old stuff
you like reading old newspapers and stuff? I like old bike catalogues it's fun how at one point that stuff was new

>>81760382
>not bad but I feel isolated right now
hmm I guess it's a strange place where you are not having to fight for survival but also nothing fun happens?
I'm guessing you don't have friends? (sorry if you don't wanna talk about it)
>about the future anymore. it takes effort and makes me sad
same heh
>it's small. I do big things rarely
that's good, at least you don't need to visit a hospital everyday or spend a lot of money on bandages

>>81760382
>congratulations on the good sleep by the way
thank you very much.
>scared of people and can't find myself close to anyone
it's not easy at all. I only know him cause he randomly messaged me, I'd probably be dead if he didn't desu.
>don't go too low before changing my mind
well you can always usually revert whatever things you do, may take work that's very difficult but it can be done. I really hope you can. life is rough can't deny that tho.

>>81760489
goodnight sleep tight cat.
>like reading old newspapers and stuff?
sometimes yea, really depends I'd say. very cool when I do tho.
>one point that stuff was new
yea they probably thought that's what things would always be like, it's hard to think anything is gonna change lol

>>81757348 (OP)
rip hooni, atleast he died by tasty waffle

hello every1!! super sick and it's about time for me to eep but just wanted to stop by and say hi!! :3

>>81760892
hii!!! make sure to eep well. oh also I hope you get well soon!

>>81760892
hey meowster!
>rip hooni
rip to the second cutest boy on earth :c
>atleast he died by tasty waffle
exactly how I want to go out :3
>super sick and it's about time for me to eep
aw :( well goodnight sickness is the absolute worst :/

>>81760489
Good night, /cat/, sleep well.
Again, thank you for keeping this general alive.
You and the other regulars are nice to talk to :3

sup everyone, just popping in to say hi. i've been isolating myself a lot so maybe a bit of posting won't do me bad

>>81757348 (OP)
hello. could you please make this the picture for the next cutgen? thank you

>>81761662
hello been a bit, good to see you.
>isolating myself a lot so maybe a bit of posting won't do me bad
oh yea that doesn't sound good.. definitely will be nice having you here. how have you been?

>>81762159
hey good to see you all too.
>how have you been?
i've been doing fairly okay i suppose, i just stopped talking to a lot of people.

thanks for the tears, wholesome thread

>>81762402
okay understandable you dan make always come here if your lonely tho

>>81762498
your welcome