Thread 81763459

Fugly foid recently turned tolerably attractive. Long ago, I accepted I would be alone forever. Not because of muh self pity but because it's what I genuinely enjoy. But it kicked in... a slight curiosity of what it feels like to be near the opposite sex. To be held and to be desired. Downloaded normie dating app and got to work.

Matched with a wonderful person. Spoke all day, every day over text and on the phone and finally had our first date yesterday. After spending a dream-like day on the beach, he took me to his condo where he insisted I blow him. With an uncomfortable demeanor, my rejection was obvious. In the end, all he wanted was a quick hook up.

I really liked him...

So why go through all that trouble? Why butter me up for so long and so intricately? Was I supposed to be a whore? Did I fuck up with a wonderful person because I didn't want to suck his dick on the first date? Is this what happens on dates? Is this how it's always gonna be? Am I retarded?

>played the harlot
>will forever be worthless
>abloo hoo I'm a whore, pity me
You should be stoned to death for everyone's benefit.
Theres the street corner and the grave, take your pick, whore.

WILL YOU BE MY GF PLEASE RESPOND

>>81763459 (OP)
The big trick is for both of you to start ugly, then both turn hot together

>>81763459 (OP)
I can not and do not empathize with anyone who has an abundance of opposite sex dating options of any quality.

>>81763459 (OP)
least obvious gpt post

>>81763481
can you explain how she is a whore?

>>81763459 (OP)
It's probably because you shouldn't try to have a serious relationship with straight men when you have a pp. Date a homosexual instead.

you never go to someones place on the first date. him taking you to his place was a sign he was interested in more and you went along so he took that as a yes. it's ok to do that after a couple of more dates once you get to know them better but someone inviting you to their place on the first date usually signals that they want to get physical.

>>81763575
Ok. I didn't know this. Nobody ever told me this. I just feel stupid. I just wanted to spend time with him.

>>81763459 (OP)
I'm not sure why you expected commitment out out someone you met on a dating app.
Does anyone who is actually interested in having a relationship use those?

>>81763605
I remember going to a girl's house when I was young. We were even in her bed but we were just watching a dvd. She really only intended that and I kept trying to have sex with her. She suggested we go to her place and even picked me up. She had room mates too and I met them. I didn't find her attractive but hadn't had sex before and thought this was it.
We didn't have sex because she kept refusing but even still she wanted to see me again after.

I kissed her a bunch but she was kind of gross for a girl. I was just really horny and blind to that. I kept dry retching for weeks after when I thought of kissing her.

>>81763678
Millennial here. It used to be pretty normal before swiping apps.

>>81763459 (OP)
Moid here with solid advice:

NEVER PUT OUT ON THE FIRST DATE. EVER. If a guy isn't willing to wait, he isn't worth your time.

The type of men who get a lot of pussy are very suave and VERY good at being mentally manipulative. They will work their way into your pants if you let them.

>>81763605
it's ok don't feel stupid. you didn't know but also you didn't do anything wrong so don't feel bad. you also most likely dodged a bullet. just don't ever go to someones place on the first date, because it can also be dangerous. get to know them better first

>>81763459 (OP)
Sorry that happened to you femanon. Modern dating is a fucking nightmare where everyone wastes each other's time and thinks meaningless sex with strangers is some kind of meaningful achievement.