anons would you take a gf who dissociates during sex and doesn't enjoy it at all but does it to please you anyway because she loves you a lot and values your happiness???

>>81772747 (OP)
yeah, and I'd avoid having sex with her unless she's in the mood. have had a girl like that before.

>>81772747 (OP)
Only if she would take a khhv in his late 30s

>>81772747 (OP)
no. i dont trust women anymore, never again. i will only use one as birthmachine to get a son that i can have fun with

>>81772747 (OP)
>t. average married woman

>>81772747 (OP)
in case you got raped, sry that that happened to you
in case you don't actually like guys, fuck you

>>81772753
what if she's never in the mood and you have to decide when you want it?
>>81772820
neither of those

>>81772747 (OP)
Does licking a girl's clit during her dissociation wake her up?

>>81772747 (OP)
How often are we talking here?

>>81772747 (OP)
If she doesn't enjoy it we wouldn't do it

>>81772747 (OP)
do you dissociate when you make out with your boyfriend like is it a thing that happens whenever youre doing anything sexual doesnt necessarily need to be sex

It's not like women enjoy sex with me anyway

>>81772842
don't do that anon
>>81772843
once a day?
>>81772855
men need to have sex or they die
>>81772871
i'm only repulsed by the idea of being penetrated

>>81772747 (OP)
If it doesn't involve enthusiastic consent and active participation, I don't want it. Eventually a person who puts up with your sexaul desires will get sick of it and feel like you're assualting/raping them.

Yes I think I would like that better than a nympho girl. I would find it wholesome and cute that she does that for me.

>>81772894
We can have a good old fashioned wank and call it a day, masturbation is sex and no, we don't die if we don't have it

>>81772894
>once a day?
deal

>>81772932
dude shut up they aren't supposed to know this

>>81772747 (OP)
Only if she is okay that I dissociate during sex and just go through the motions for the nut

>>81772894
Very few guys want to have sex with a woman doing her best impression of a corpse. Even if you are never horny, soulless love making is a fast way to tank a guy's self esteem. Like, "oh I do such and such to keep her happy but she acts like it's a chore to fuck me. Why do I even bother with her?"

>>81772894
>i'm only repulsed by the idea of being penetrated
i think i could be perfectly fine with zero penetration given my personal fetish.
sex for me is as much as giving pleasure as it is receiving i wouldnt wanna have sex with someone who doesnt enjoy it

>>81772894
>don't do that anon
Why not? What's going to happen?

>>81772837
if she's literally NEVER in the mood? mutual masturbation or something? Idunno, wouldn't want to have sex with her if she didn't like it.

>>81772773
That image if suicidefuel, a true blackpill, and the worst part is that so many have been groomed into believing this behavior is okay.

>>81772991
i wanna inject trenbolone directly into my balls to become chad

>>81772747 (OP)
no
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>>81772985
oh also I'd offer to try drugs with her. maybe she'd enjoy sex more on some light drug like ecstasy/small acid/weed edibles.

nothing crazy like meth

>>81772747 (OP)
It's not a dealbreaker but it's certainly a major negative

>>81772904
>Eventually a person who puts up with your sexaul desires will get sick of it and feel like you're assualting/raping them.
Promise?

>>81772957
>doing her best impression of a corpse
lol
hm ok but this is only in response to being penetrated, most everything else she would be receptive to
>>81772971
>given my personal fetish
which is?
>>81772978
you'll be bonked on the head :/
>>81772985
i meant in the mood for being penetrated
>mutual masturbation or something?
yea that'd be fine

>>81772747 (OP)
yes that would be such a turn on, cant think of anything better

>>81773069
my kink is just kissing and making out i go limp if we dont do that and honestly i derive more pleasure from that than penetration

>>81773106
>my kink is just kissing and making out
lol really?? why??? o_o

>>81773069
>you'll be bonked on the head :/
Awww, okay then. I thought giving women orgasms during their dissociation would fix them, but I guess not.

>>81772747 (OP)
Lads, between this (dissociated starfish, but available on demand) and the other side (very enthusiastic but only occasionally and 100% on her schedule) what are you picking?

>>81773146
I'd pick neither and be a wizard 2bh

>>81773146
the one that doesn't cheat

Probably not because I struggle to connect with someone if they're not in the same "lane", but it's amazing to have someone who loves you and who goes as far as having sex (which is a physically and emotionally demanding thing) just to please you.

>>81773146
I pick on demand because it's an upgraded version of fapping

>>81773146
The latter since I want to masturbate to anime girls, too. Gives me time

>>81773153
Let's assume she's clever enough to avoid getting caught in either case, so you have to operate on a probabilistic basis - which one do you think is less likely to be cheating? The one who is never horny (well... with you, anyway) or the one who is horny but only once in a while?

>>81773180
Definitely the latter in the general case. But I'm not choosing either if I get a even a hint she's "clever" in this kind of way.

Depends, are (You) said gf?

>>81773254
Any woman with an IQ over about 110 would have the sense and capacity to delete incriminating text messages and come up with a good excuse for schedule anomalies or whatever. You are sentencing yourself to only dating legitimate retards if you hold to this rule.

>>81773262
no anon i'm asking *for a friend*!! (i don't have friends)

>>81773127
idk it just is.
i can only get off to kissing scenes in porn
if a girl doesnt wanna kiss my dick goes limp during sex

>>81772747 (OP)
What are your feelings about giving blowjobs? What's causing you to disassociate during penetrative sex? It would make me feel like a rapist and I'm not sure I'm into that.

I would help her heal so she can enjoy it with me!

There is no reason she needs to suffer. I want her to be happy.

>>81773365
i like the idea of giving bjs as long as he's not trying to make me deepthroat or pull my hair / do other degrading things
>What's causing you to disassociate during penetrative sex
i'm a virgin lol
it's my proposed coping method for dealing with being penetrated because i don't want to be penetrated

>>81773439
ok deal, we're dating now anon, I expect you at my house by the end of today. I'll eat you out, and you can give me a blowjob, then tomorrow we can spend all day going around thift stores buying stupid shit

>>81773497
o-okay anon o_o

my first girlfriend was like this, we lost our virginities to each other and everything, but all the time when we were fucking i'd be breathing on her neck pressing into her and usually feel her pull me further into her but every now and then she'd let go of me and just put her hands over her face like she was trying to hide, and just go quiet, i'd always stop and check in on her and everything and it'd usually be over then, but i remember one time she started to dissociate a bit but was clearly trying to regain her composure still, she encouraged me to keep going anyways and she was almost tearing up but i felt her lock her ankles behind my butt and pull me into her so hard, i remember feeling kinda slimy that it was as hot as it was but i think we both knew it, and for better or worse i still remember it so

Cringe edater niggers in this thread probably both 2 male, dumb tranny lover.

>>81773439
Your first time should be made special and with someone who you will not disassociate with when it happens and if you have a tendency or a feeling that that will happen and the person should be understanding enough and work on their end to do the best they can to make it so that you naturally are able to be comfortable

>>81773795
>the person should be understanding enough and work on their end to do the best they can to make it so that you naturally are able to be comfortable
i worry that i won't ever not be repulsed by it, so i would rather date someone who is ok with my dissociation method just in case

>>81773439
>i'm a virgin lol
then how the fuck do u know you would dissociate during sex yhou fucking retard

>>81773863
>how the fuck do u know you would
did you not read the sentence after that?

>>81773888
you cant dissociate on command thats not how it works. you shoudl just lose your fear and stop being a faggot about it theres nothing special about sex its just penis inside vagina thrust thrust thrust moan moan moan kissy kiss then splooch inside the uterus

>>81773540
anon it's almost midnight where are you?

>>81772747 (OP)
this is very sweet but that's... like really sad for you, isn't it?

>>81774260
i got lost and fell in a sewer nonnie ;_;
>>81774277
no i'd be ok

>>81774286
>no i'd be ok
are you sure? what parts of sex do you dislike?

>>81774293
yea
i don't like penetration or having to act submissive, penetration is p much the ultimate act of submission
but i can learn to deal with it if i'm allowed to just lay there quietly

>>81774332
i have never had sex but this sounds pretty sad to me, almost as if you were being used as a cum rag
do you masturbate?

>>81774359
well that's how all women are used
>do you masturbate?
yea but not with penetration

>>81774383
anon... making love is a mutual thing, people don't use their partners like cum rags.

>>81772747 (OP)
>anons would you take a gf
Yes.

>>81774383
i don't think that's how women are supposed to be used. i don't want to use a woman, i want to love her and feel like she loves me back. sex is a side effect of this love
can you enlighten me? how does a woman masturbate without penetration? i really don't know

>>81774447
they rub their clit, anon. never had a girlfriend?

>>81774393
but all women just lay there and get fucked, except they moan and scream and squirm too and that's the part i wouldn't do
>>81774447
by rubbing clit, where all the nerve endings are

>>81774473
a lot of that's just porn anon. usually there's a lot of kissing/rubbing each other during it.

If you do that even if she agrees, you are a terrible lover. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for both. What you are doing is abuse whether she realizes it or not.

>>81774485
>kissing/rubbing each other
we can do that before and after the terrible part

>>81774469
no, i'm not a tourist, but thank you.
>>81774473
i see. thank you for the information. why do you dislike acting submissive? just curious

>>81774512
i don't know, just always been that way
it made me think i was a lesbian or asexual for a long time, but i'm not attracted to vaginas and i do have sexual urges

>>81774551
i see. do you like being dominant, then?
its just weird, you are very nice for putting up with an activity you don't like for the person you love, but at the same time a person that loves you wouldn't put you in a situation you don't want to be.

>>81772747 (OP)
Yeah I would. But I'd be a little disappointed that she doesn't enjoy it

>>81772747 (OP)
That depends, would you accept a bf that took pleasure in you dissociation during sex?

>>81774571
yea but men don't like that so i've given up on it
>you are very nice for putting up with an activity you don't like for the person you love
it's not a big deal, like eating an unpleasant bite of food

>>81774786
>yea but men don't like that so i've given up on it
what kind of things would you do with your partner in your ideal relationship?
and well, it's a big deal for most people i think, sex is a rather important aspect of a relationship for almost everyone

>>81772747 (OP)
No. I'd much rather have a partner who is into the sex, and in the moment with me.
I already had escort sex and it was mostly crap because it wasn't 'real'. I could never get raging hard, or cum.