>>81867677 (OP)I'm reading these stories, and as a married man I identify with it. I also am annoyed and don't want to have sex with my wife. I still jerk off three times a day, it just doesn't seem like interaction with other humans is worth the effort.
I think this isn't a symptom of anything to do with gender or relationships, it's just being too comfortable and losing meaning in life. Usually its women that are stay at home moms and get this level of free thinking and comfort. I got lucky with bitcoin and a very cushy senior "brain trust" position in my company, so I have nothing to do all day but think about my life and hobbies. I realize that I have lost a spark in my own life, in how I relate to things, how I perceive myself and my value. This is independent of others, but has its externalities in how it affects relationships.
These women are likely going through the same thing, only they're women so they have lower IQ and lack the cognitive capability for deep reflection like a man. So they're just staying the symptoms and not hypothesizing.