im 24
i dont know anything

>>81869774 (OP)
Why do you say that, little fella?

>>81869789
>Why do you say that, little fella?
im not sure

>>81869802
Well, are you of the male gender or the other one?

>>81869812
guy
originally

>>81869891
>>81869774 (OP)
Game over

restart?
Y/N

>>81869899
its okay.. i have my videogames still..

>>81869965
What happened to everything else?

>>81869971
i didnt cultivate any relationships or sought to improve myself and it feels impossible to start now
my aging parents are still there

>>81869774 (OP)
i'm in the exact same situation as you. 24 and don't have a single friend, online or offline, family divorced when i was little and left me in the care of my aging grandparents. then they passed. and my life has been a blur ever since. i don't know basic things about life. i'm too stupid to learn how to function in society by myself. i'm just lucky enough to be living off neetbux and an inheritance they've left me. but my life just feels worthless. i used to be content with being alone and drowning myself in escapism but that doesn't do the trick anymore. i wish there was like an alcoholics anonymous but for neets in messed up situations trying to reintegrate into society.

>>81870249
Hi vampire anon I remember you

>>81870272
hi, thank you for remembering....
it hits me right in the kokoro
and makes me shed a singular, sparkly tear

>>81870249
wth do we do
im a grown ass man i dont know shit

>>81870321
my (farfetched) fantasy is that one day i'll meet a woman who is far more competent and mature than i am, who also happens to have a thing for useless shut-in neets. and she'll tard wrangle me towards being a functional member of society, and be patient with me and teach me everything from the very basic stuff to the very complex things that i need to function. that's the only way i could see myself getting my life un-screwed

>>81870282
why can't you make friends when you sound interesting and look and sound nice

>>81869774 (OP)
i' m 27... and i still don't know anything. bros...

>>81870356
i appreciate you thinking such about me, but there's not much i can do when i live in a tiny village in the middle of nowhere. the average person here is over twice my age and there's no hangout spots where i could go and meet people. and i feel like i'm becoming more and more insane by the day aaa

>>81870391
but you can make friends online and use the inheritance money to travel and meet them, right? or you could move to a more urban place

>>81870415
>but you can make friends online
i'm burnt out on online friendships after my longest lasting online friend of 7+ years ditched me without a second thought the moment she was able to meet other people (after i built her confidence throughout all those years and acted as a free therapist day in and day out)
>use the inheritance money to travel and meet them
i just have no idea how the whole travel process even works. that's part of what i meant in my previous post when i said i don't know basic things about functioning in society. i never traveled before. never been on a train or a plane. i feel like i wouldn't even know what to do at the airport without someone there to wrangle me.
>or you could move to a more urban place
i'm not *that* rich now, come on... i like how everyone thinks they can solve my issues by saying stuff like "just do this" "just do that" "have you considered this?" ETC ETC YES I HAVE CONSIDERED EVERYTHING ALREADY, I'M GONNA COMBUST IN A BALL OF FIRE AND FURY AAAAAFFGHGH

>>81870461
xD well there's nothing else to do, the alternative is just rotting away in the village and waiting for urbanization to happen or your future gf to collapse in front of your door
but I can sympathize because I grew up in a village too, have no friends, etc.
building a network of online connections that actually lead to real life actions and results is what seems like the only way out for me right now, and probably for you too
I know another polish guy that had the same circumstances and he met his partner online and now moved out and life is looking good

>>81870571
not even sure how to meet people online these days. r9k has always been my go-to place for that but i feel like outgrew the age demographic here. tried twitter but never got any interaction on my posts.

>>81869774 (OP)
i'm 27 and i know what i do not know

>>81869774 (OP)
I know 1 thing

>>81870669
Probably stuff like vrchat where people can connect better, i.e. the more you can simulate real life interaction the better. It was fun hanging out with a friend group there, playing pool and stuff. And everyone used it as a stepping stone to getting a partner or friends irl, and it worked. But you have to potentially spend a lot of time to find someone worthwhile, just like irl I guess. Posting here, on X, etc. is pretty much pointless since you're anonymous and people can't get to know you. If someone takes a liking to you, you eventually move on to voice or video chat. But when meeting other neets, autists, etc. the progress is slow because everyone is awkward, tired, nervous, afraid, etc.

>>81870773
VRchat seems like a good solution in theory. i used to hang out there with an old fren i made on here circa 2020. it definitely helped us become closer at the time. but the issue is that all the good rooms or servers, whatever you wanna call them, are all private. if you go into public rooms, they're filled with actual children or normies, or normie children!! and they're always screaming and being obnoxious just like IRL. so what i'm trying to say is, in order for VRchat to work, you need to already have a friend who'll invite you to the cool, laid-back private rooms. also this is gonna sound schizo as hell, but the way you type reminds me of a german dude i used to know named Toshihiro. i hope he's doing okay, he was a nice fella.

>>81870837
And then the extended friend group starts having vrsex next to you. Happened way too many times... It's entirely possible we met in-game before in a public or semi-public world, my name is Stillness.

>>81871058
nahh, i didn't play for that long, and i've only been in the r9k hangout room like once or twice

>>81871106
Thanks for all the long and thoughtful replies, anon. I'm sad we have to part and that we can't do more for each other and will never meet. I will probably remember you and your village for the rest of my life. Take care.

>>81871298
i'll be around here unless something me pushes me over the edge to commit sudoku already. i think about dying every second of every day now

>>81869774 (OP)
Stop worrying, Im 30 and still inept, I just stopped caring at 25, got a job, cut all social connections and just spend money on myself, never been happier, its literally all about stopping caring about menial stuff and focus on your hedonism without going full degenerate

>>81869774 (OP)
I'm 24. Wage slaving and coping with drugs. My advice is to just learn to be comfortable with yourself and your own company. Needing friends or a partner is a psyop to get you and others to consoom more.