>>81973380
>what is the point of living just for myself
It's not about living for yourself. People who intuitively have a sense of being content with themselves are just bad at explaining how they feel to people who don't have that.
I'll try:
When you "love yourself", you don't feel incomplete and like you're missing something anymore. You don't lack for an other to covet or please. Instead, you feel a profound sense of liberation, joy and calmness. Like you can do anything, and in fact, want to do everything, like life is a fun adventure that you're more than happy to embark on. And you don't NEED others, but you can still enjoy others just as much, if not more, because you're seeing the Other from a more objective, less emotionally compromised and fantasy-addled perspective. Your vision is clearer, you're no longer dying of thirst in a desert. Instead, you're in a comfortable home and you could go for a glass of water every once in a while.
>what am i looking for? there is nothing but sorrow in there.
You're looking for the origin of the sorrow, usually. To change things, it's useful to understand their origination.
