>>81972924 (OP)You'll find the best copes are the ones you can fully detach in your mind from reality. This is why anime, hentai and video games works so well for so many guys it's unrealistic enough where it doesn't remind you how bad real life is. Anime girls are so far removed from real women after you get through your disappointed idealist phase you can enjoy it again as pure entertainment fantasy. I recommend avoiding reminders of real people and real world bullshit if you want to cope in peace.