Thread 82069941

Has a female ever done anything nice for you? (relatives don't count)

>>82069941 (OP)
Maybe a few have occasionally acknowledged my existence but that's it.

>>82069941 (OP)
Classmate bought me flowers once at college. Only knew her name and never talked to her much.

>>82069941 (OP)
My boss made me banana bread for my birthday

>>82069963
She wanted you

>>82069941 (OP)
an acquaintance once got me a pack of cigs but thats about it

>>82069941 (OP)
actually nice or what women think is being nice?

>>82069978
I don't know. I like to think that she did but after that she never talked to me and just smiled at me to be polite.

>>82070010
But I'm still grateful for the flowers, they really cheered me up. First time anyone has done something nice for me.

>>82070010
is there any context about the flowers ?

>>82070010
She wanted you to make another move maybe. Would've been no harm in asking
>Hey are you just being nice or would you like to go on a date

Back in school some girl asked me to walk to class together and kept trying to make conversation. She did this the whole day and the next one too. This was after I've already established myself as socially retarded

I have had a couple of girlfriends do some nice things for me

>>82070050
this entire thread is about missing hints

>>82070035
>>82070036
At the time, my brother killed himself. I was sad and she probably heard and tried to cheer me up. It was honestly sweet of her. I didn't want to risk being a creep to her for being nice to me.

>>82070066
I didn't miss any hints, I just assumed it was a ploy to humiliate me so I stonewalled her in the most icy way possible

>>82070075
oh shit, im sorry anon

>>82069941 (OP)
when I was 6 or so I was playing basketball with a girl older than me
she saw that my shoes were untied so she went and tied my shoe really tight

>>82069941 (OP)
honestly, no. they've only treated me with hostility and contempt

>>82069941 (OP)
Yeah, only very recently
But she didn't stick around
I miss her a lot

>>82069941 (OP)
only two, one brushing some hair off the back of my shirt in class, and another holding my flops while i went down a ride at a water-park. yep, that's it. i'm closing in on my 40s and those happened at 17 and 25

Im a software wagecuck and quite popular with the new engineers since I help everyone out for no reason including ugly moids

the femoids give me good reviews that helps during performance season but that is about it.

I wish my life turned out different

>>82069941 (OP)
Lots, I just have that sorta vibe I guess
>Listen to me ramble on and on about shit I like
>Buy food for me
>Massage me, mess with my arms and tummy fat
I don't even do anything special nor do I reciprocate, I've got bigger fish to fry

nope I can't think of anything. Thanks for the reminder

>>82070075
Your brother sacrificed himself to try and get you laid and you still fucked it up. baka

>>82070001
actually nice

>>82070089
holy virginity protector

Girl at work gave me a hug when she thought I was feeling down. She was right.
I think that's it.

Girl I work with gave me a sandwich, so I returned the favor by giving her couple homemade cinnamon buns. Now she won't leave me alone

>>82070699
you seem like a nice person, what do u hate about ur job

>>82070010
She brought you fucking flowers dude this would keep me awake at night

>>82069941 (OP)
one of my female professors in college helped me getting a job but that's it, now that I think about it, no women my age has ever done anything nice to me

>>82069941 (OP)
The year that I wage-cucked, the mother hen of the office was nice to me and stayed in touch for a while after I left. We both felt the separation anxiety. Towards the end of my time and after, we'd have dinners, sometimes with another colleague. Sadly, she was married and religious, so sex was never a possibility. She was 21 years older and I would have if she wanted to.

>>82069941 (OP)
a girl who was transferring schools wrote the whole class a note before leaving mine said you seem nice wish we could have talked more I kept it in my bag looking at when I was upset until my mom found it and threw it away

>>82069941 (OP)
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
One touched the back of my hand once? I was only to get my attention but that's all I can think of

>>82069941 (OP)
A disturbing photo. What's up with the nipples?

>>82071989
well she's not wearing a bra you see

yeah back in hs a girl bought me a juice box when i accompanied her to the store before class as i didn't have money at the time

>>82069941 (OP)
>Has a female ever done anything nice for you?
Yea-
>(relatives don't count)
Ohhh

a girl told me i was good at teaching

>>82069941 (OP)
Yeah classmate bought me rice when i was sick. That was super nice.
Otherwise not really but ive had fantasies of having girls wish me a happy birthday or going to aquariums with me

>>82069941 (OP)
Yeah, probably the biggest fucking fumble of my life
A cute Asian girl baked me a cake
She came over to my place, and we ate a couple slices together. And I was like
>wow this is great! ...Welp, see ya later!

Adrienne I'm so sorry :(

>>82072382
how does one escalate this situation to sex?

>>82072390
She clearly liked me, but I didn't really realize it at the time, I just thought "ah, she made me a cake", and I didn't think about the implications behind it
I could've made her my girlfriend

>>82069941 (OP)
A girl would make me sandwiches and stuff if I had sex with her.

>>82069941 (OP)
my girlfriend of two years let me hit a few weeks ago and it's been heavenly (she's religious that's why it took that long, and not a former slut religious, a raised religious so she was a virgin)

>>82072400
yeah but how would you escalate this situation to sex/relationship if you had to do it right there
im thinking you kiss her on the mouth and see how she reacts. maybe you cringemaxx a bit by making obvious sexual innuendos beforehand

>>82069941 (OP)
One time when I was getting shit stomped by bullies for being my effeminate self a new wave hippie type substitute teacher was driving by, scared them off, helped clean me up, and drove me home. Ever since then I kinda had a thing for women with her aesthetic

>>82072474
Forgot picture. She looked like this but with a touch more grey

>>82072460
She already likes me, I could've said/done anything.

>>82070010
Probably because you didn't reciprocate and she assumed she wasted her time with you. She literally approached you, how rare is that?

>>82069941 (OP)
a girl bought me a cream soda at a fair i went to with her, i ended up ending the friendship with her so i wouldnt make her suffer after i planned on killing myself

>>82069941 (OP)
I saw a guy trying to take a girl somewhere and it was clearly not his daughter, got into a major fight and the mother thanked me with a blow job (we were about the same age and this was how I met my future wife)

>>82072578
>my wife's daughter

>>82072641
She wasn't my wife at the time, she was literally a stranger, that is how I met her

she then proceeded to take me back to her place and sucked me dry

>>82069941 (OP)
Only for the sake of some ulterior motive.

>>82072647
What did the daughter do to thank you?

>>82072708
be my loving daughter for the next 6 years onwards? she was 4 dumbass, despite how I met my wife being porny I didn't bag both the daughter and mother

>>82072711
Why not? Get in there.

>>82072716
She is 10.

I am not attracted to a 10 year old.

>>82069941 (OP)
Actually, yes. I needed to present something in a computer lab in college, but suddenly I lost access to the building network. A girl sitting next to me let me use her hotspot. It was very nice of her.

>>82069941 (OP)
>relatives don't count
Okay, a friend once made a little crochet bear and mailed it to me.
Things went sour with her after she started going to a new therapist that convinced her to stop taking her meds, she kept talking politics, I cared to much about Trump at the time, mistakes were made.
Another friend once sent me a cute little letter but she did that for a handful of us.
That's about it when it comes to nice acts done by women I'm not related to.

>>82069941 (OP)
A female classmate said goodbye to me once.
Like, "Goodbye, Anon!". A girl saying my name out loud was kind of nice and stuck with me.

But that wasn't a female "doing something nice for me". So to answer the question, no.
I found out the same girl had shit stains in her underwear.

girl in biology class would always give me snacks everyday

>>82072474
Damn, sorry you had to go through that.

>>82069941 (OP)
3 years ago I was waiting for the bus and a cute girl stopped in front of me smiled and asked me if I was ok

>>82069941 (OP)
>a female ever
yeah, my mom

>>82069941 (OP)
There was a cute nurse who made me feel better when I was in the hospital.

>>82073135
Eh. Thank you but it was a regular thing so I was use to it. I dislike hurting people and they were just dumb kids so I just let them get their punches in and eventually they would leave me alone. A bruise here a bloody lip there. No big deal. It was just one of the few times an adult who actually cared enough to step in and help and that makes it a happy memory.

>>82069941 (OP)
Went on a field trip to an aviation museum and a girl in my class bought me a book about fighter planes of the Soviet Union. Kinda a small thing but my autistic ass really appreciated it

>>82070941
NTA, but holy fuck you're a retarded piece of shit.

>>82071741
evil mom

>>82069941 (OP)
Yeah, my ex gf.
Apart from that, it was extremely rare, od it ever happen, that a woman was to be nice with me.