>>82093758 (OP)
Personally experienced this before as an autist, and luckily had a female acquaintance who cared about me enough to explain some of this to me.
>aloof
Yeah, if another girl approaches you, you're not likely to reciprocate ESPECIALLY if you're busy with something or someone, or busy in your relationship. Problem? Just ignoring or being distant to someone doesn't bring joy to the female partner; the male partner often needs to express STRONG distaste towards outside advances; something that is distinctly not aloof.
>emotionally distant
Yeah, you don't really give two shits about half the things that would trouble the average guy, and might be even more emotionally resilient than most. Problem? You're emotionally resilient to her venting. If she has a problem, she'd want you to at least feel a bit of her suffering, not in having to deal with the problem yourself, but in coping alongside her as she dealt with the problem; something which is distinctly not emotionally distant.
>only care about retarded interests
Well, yeah. You're not going to bend head over heels to be a simp, so you'll always have a bit of chase to you. You'll also have things to busy yourself with too, so you won't lovebomb her. Two problems though! For one, they don't care that you have any retarded interest, they SPECIFICALLY want you to have an interest that in some way will benefit THEM too. Whether this be monetarily, through connections, emotionally/socially, etc. For the other, she still wants to value her time with you, and so she'll want plans made on her schedule. If you got your interests overlapping her free points in her schedule, well now you're fucked.
It's never that simple, and yet it's so much more simple at the same time.
