Thread 82150594

Are women actually more desperate for relationships than men?

>28-38
No shit, they're the bottom of the barrel women who rode chads dick for too long.
And now they're looking for a simp to handle their son.

>>82150594 (OP)
there's a lot more appetite for this if you're the one picking, and don't even say anything retarded like "well if you're one of the few guys who shows up they'll be more likely to pick you" -- you know it doesn't work that way

>>82150594 (OP)
>28+
Expired

>>82150618
So you think it would not be a good idea to go to this? I was thinking that maybe it would just be lonely/unlucky women, maybe more accepting of someone that has no experience. I don't really think I'd fare well with someone like you're describing.

>>82150594 (OP)
I would love a christmas cake gf

For relationships, yes. Men are the gatekeepers of relationships, and women are the gatekeepers of sex. That is why men should actively refuse them relationships and pump and dump.

>>82150631
Theres probably going to be lots of oldchads there. I would just stay home and go to sleep. Go back to sleep dude just take a long nap and stay there.

>>82150631
Yes you should go to it. If you don't like any of the women so be it but you'll have a better chance here than you will on any dating app.

>>82150631
Fuck no, you're going to get used for money and trauma dumps.

>>82150631
You can try. In my experience desperate women are even grosser than incels.

I accidentally matched with a 4/10 on Hinge and when I ghosted her she somehow found my Facebook, added me and kept trying to call me on Facebook messenger. So I blocked her and then she messaged me on LinkedIn.

>>82150645
Thats not true, girls wont go for a guy who is less than an 8 out of 8. Incels should just stay at moms house and sleep a lot to make the pain go away temporarily when you arent aware of the pain.

>>82150655
You got a female stalker?
Wow

>>82150698
I'm a 6/10 with nerd interests so I occasionally have 4/10s really into me.

>>82150661
Sleeping is boring. Play video games for 10 hours a day

>>82150748
>only 1 life
>have to spend 1/3 of it sleeping

Men 28-38 are too busy banging college age girls to bother with hags.
>t. one of them

>>82150830
I'm 27 and only ever slept with women a decade older than me. Current one is 35

Younger girls don't like me so I resent them. But the older ones have baggage out the ass.

>>82150748
Yeah they knew about gaming, thats why every item is named after sex. Every npc. Everything. They really just want us dead. The god does that.

>>82150843
Why would you prefer baggage?

>>82150631
Maybe you can find some ex-Mormon or turbo religious women there who arent exsloots loooking for betabucks, it won't hurt to just go and check it out

>>82150867
>Why would you prefer baggage?
I don't. I take what I can get, which is shit apparently.

>>82150594 (OP)
>28-38
Zero interest, and I say that as a 35 year old man. I'd do 28-30 but you know most of the women going to events like this will be towards the end of that 28-38 range rather than the beginning. Single women in their mid to late 30s are all either single moms, desperate to have kids soon because they feel their biological clock ticking or militantly anti-motherhood. All of those are deeply unattractive. Also a 95% chance they have some serious trauma and baggage about dating/men from past relationships.

>>82150883
My condolences, anon. You're old enough to trigger the daddy issues now though give it a try.

I'm sure it's been pointed out, but much as is the case with anything profitable these days, it's a scam.

The organizers target cities with populations of middle to high class working women that don't have enough Chad to go around. They then get a handful of Chads to sign up, either via genuine interest or outright hiring them as actors.

The women get to feel like they're getting close to high value Chad, but really Chad just gets more plates to spin. As someone that was worth "curating", he doesn't need to be tied down to get sex, after all. Organizers pocket a couple dozen grand per event. It's pretty much escapism for the women involved.

The takeaway for you should be that women are desperate for relationships with Chad, not men in general.

>>82150631
It's a paradox, the women who go there already know they are on the losing end, and when they see you there, they'll apply what they feel about themselves to you, i.e. you'll look like a loser to them for even showing up to an event designed to get them out of singlehood.

Additionally, even the 34 yo women with kids who go there want a handsome tall guy who will pay for everything in their life, and you fall short of those expectations.
They'll treat you normally to get a conversation, an ego boost and some free meals from dating you but it's not going anywhere.
You'll only waste time and money.

>>82150594 (OP)
> 28+
I would love to meet one if they were femcels, but we all know this is broken women that were used for years, without any man wanting to settle down with them.
But now they don't even have their youth to bargain with: so who is the man that hates himself so much to fight for one of them? I unironically think that their only choice is 50+ men who are looking for someone younger.

>>82150902
I travel all over the place and meet tons of new people. No dice

I don't get it desu. I get along with most people, always groomed and dress well, in shape with abs, I have a ton of hobbies and experiences to talk about. I see so many greasy fucks with girls out of their league

Of course I know that doesn't mean they are good relationships. I've experienced enough to know it's not always what it seems..

>>82150980
It's probably because you're autistic, anon.
>but they can't tell!
Yes they can.

>>82150594 (OP)
Why does it have a lower age bound set at 28? If you're a very successful guy in your thirties, then why would you go for another 30yo, and not e.g. a woman in her early 20s? Makes no sense. That's what I mean when I say the society doesn't know what men want and doesn't care.

>>82150980
I'm just speculating here but it sounds like you think being groomed and being nice should've gotten you something at least, which is a valid expectation at first according to what we start out knowing about women.
The truth of the matter is that being nice is boring, and most people stumble into relationships. Being groomed and easy going might increase your chances to be introduced to more people, but it's still up to chance.
People in relationships will say "just get out there and meet people" and it won't work for you because it was 80% up to chance that they met and were compatible enough to get together. As soon as they break up they all say they don't know how to find another person or they just roll the dice and stumble into another relationship.
Also, people don't really articulate this well but nice people are sickening because all we interact with are nice people who are fake. Being nice just says you're scared of taking a chance and saying what's on your mind, you're just being fake nice to please people, which makes them gag internally but at least you're not hurting them so they tolerate you. Stop being fake, offend some people, and some of them might stick around while others fuck off

>>82151014
No anon you WILL be in a relationship with the used up hag otherwise you're a predator/insecure

>>82151014
You're literally a pedophile if you're in your 30s and you want a girl in her early 20s

>>82150631
of course not, retard. those are the women no one wants to have a real relationship with. this doesnt equate to them being lonely/unlucky so dont respond with something retarded if you think otherwise

>>82151049
Extreme misinterpretation of the situation. I do more things than almost anyone else I know. I've been more places than almost anyone else I know. I'm more in shape than anyone else I know. I'm not saying this to brag, it's just the facts

>>82151080
Like I said in my post, you think being those things is enough to get you a girl.

>>82150625
It really doesn't, they are looking for a rare chad.

>>82151014
Women younger than 28 don't need these kinds of events to get Chad dick

>>82151095
I have weekly arguments with my girlfriend because she's a damaged selfish asshole. Is that good enough?

>>82150947
>It's a paradox, the women who go there already know they are on the losing end, and when they see you there, they'll apply what they feel about themselves to you, i.e. you'll look like a loser to them for even showing up to an event designed to get them out of singlehood.
Are you telling me that when we were 20 they were too busy getting dicked by tinder chad to give me the time and now in our 30-ies they have unachievable standards and they still won't be together with me?

>>82150594 (OP)
If women wanted relationships with men they would have them. They're desparate for something that doesnt exist except in their heads.

Why didn't you show up to the speed interview with all the HR girl bosses, anons?

>>82150594 (OP)
Relationships for women is just being entertained and then if they get bored they can leave.
For men we have to put in a lot of time and effort and all that investment can just be dumpstered on a whim.

>>82152086
Just look up what percentage of divorce are initiated by women
It'll tie into the percentage of women who get custody of the kids in divorce

>>82151049
>because all we interact with are nice people who are fake
I think you're just highly neurotic bro, but don't worry most women are like that also. Courting women with gifts and displays of affection used to be how men got life long partners, but now you ARE in fact a retard for doing it when women chase drug dealers and abusive losers like their lives depend on it. Don't be that guy, but not for the reason this neurotic retard uses.

>>82150899
Maybe you're just homosexual? none of those things are bad. It's perfectly normal to have a defined stance regarding kids at that age.

>>82150594 (OP)
They are desperate to boost their ego by turning down normal dudes and to compete with 8 other girls for a spot on Chad's rotation

>>82150594 (OP)
They say they're ready to settle down now, then panic when guys either don't commit or straight up avoid them at this age. Hence the matchmaker.

As a man it's already over and I made peace with it. My only dating prospects at 34 are "experienced", so I can't even share expereinces with tehm as it's shit they already done with a bunch of other men. Like if I can't get the "I love you" when you're naive and believe it, when sex was still some really special, amazing thing in your head becuase you never did it with anyone before. Why would I want you now? Becuase christ knows my emotional needs aren't going to be met by women who can't even feel emotion due to ruining themselves through desensitization.

>>82152224
I'm not saying any of those things are character flaws that make them bad people unworthy of love. However, in my eyes they are dealbreakers from a relationship compatibility standpoint. I don't want to date a single mother. Tried it before, too much drama and bullshit dealing with another man's children. I also hated always feeling like an outsider and a supporting cast member. For the record I don't have kids of my own and if I did I'd be open to dating single moms.

I'd like to have my own kids eventually, which rules out women who are dead set against motherhood because they'd rather devote their lives to wagecucking for Mr. Shekelberg and going on vacations to wherever they think will get the most clout on social media. That leaves me with one group to date, women who aren't yet mothers but want to be. But there's a problem once that group gets to their 30s. Their biological clock begins ticking hard. They want kids and they want them now. I want to take a couple years making sure we are compatible and having chidless fun together before parenthood changes our lives. Women in their 20s can do that, women in their 30s cannot.
>tldr my only serious dating pool consists of childless women in their 20s who want to be mothers someday

>>82150594 (OP)
>>82150631
>So you think it would not be a good idea to go to this?
i went to several of these events in the past and let me tell you this: the women that go to these events aren't as attractive and they mostly pick the one very attractive and extroverted guy who is talking to several women before the event event starts. it's nice to talk to women once in a while but don't have your hopes up too high. i too thought they were desperate, but the day after the event i find out that none of them had picked me. it's demoralizing but i kind of got used to it, and it's their loss.

>>82150594 (OP)
These events usually have one male model, or some other chad who is paid to attend. So all the women feel like their efforts weren't wasted and they all try to match with him. While all the men in attendance get ignored. Think about that. It's like clubs and tinder all over again. Just another system where sub 8 men pay to get ignored while looking for a partner. Go read about the average man's experience in speed dating. Every other story is about how half the women suddenly need to 'use the restroom' when it's a short guy's turn. Or how women will blatantly skip talking with you to hang out with their friends, and they will always make sure to talk to the male model.

>go
>all the women resent their 5 minutes with you
>get no matches

>>82153128
Women are evil anon, dumb whores don't know what they are missing out on

>>82150594 (OP)
Bros, bros, please. Women aren't going to the event for the intended purpose. They're not trying to meet guys. They're going to be seen and to see other women. They want to know where they rank compared to the other ladies in looks and lifestyle. For women, this has next to nothing to do with guys or dating.

>>82150631
Go there and make friends with the 3 other dudes that went
Make plans to go hang out after
Have fun with your new bros :D

>>82150618
>And now they're looking for a simp to handle their son.
Absolutely not, they're still looking for chads.

>>82150631
>So you think it would not be a good idea to go to this?
I've been to a few. It's definitely older women and unless you're a chad, you will still face a bit of an uphill battle.
That said, the third time I went to one I did actually meet a solid 7.5/10 that clicked. Dated for around a year before Covid fucked her job and she moved back home for work.
tldr: If you're confident and aren't autistic, then I say go for it, but don't go expecting that much different of an experience than swiping. Same women, same expectations.

>>82152703
And the biggest joke about that, is that the women in their 20s don't want to date guys like you becuase they want to have fun fucking chads. This isn't a slight agaisnt you, it's just that women now want their cake and eat it, the ones in their 30s want to rush to have kids because they spent their 20s riding the cc. Excluded from relationships in the fun phase, the they want you to rush into marriage and kids in the "stable" phase. It's such a shit deal for men that I'm pretty much checked out at this point because it feels like by supporting the 30 something, I'm essentially saying she can indeed have her cake and eat it, yass queen those years you spent ignoring guys like me thinking you would find us waiting until you were done and here I am to prove you right. I have no idea what my future is, but it won't involve kids or marriage, that dream is pretty much dead.

>>82150594 (OP)
They should charge the women by the pound. Thats starting to get to the wall-hitting age for women where they plump up and disappear from male radar.
Those things do not attract the single moms because its hard to get a baby sitter for little Shaniqua, they attract the spherical women who've plumped up too much for the bar scene.
Sometime they attract the GirlBoss who's a mental FtM (usually not physical). Guys have no interest in meeting a successful male competitor who's secretly the opposite gender under the business power suit.

>>82154394
Yeah, you hit the nail on the head. If I'm going to seriously commit to a woman I deserve to have fun with some of her best years in her 20s in return. Dying childless and alone unironically sounds more appealing than bailing out a woman in her 30s trying to beat her biological clock. When women tried to come up with this meta I don't think they anticipated the internet/dating apps/social media would show the boyim what exactly we were missing out on. Nobody wants to be invited the next morning to help clean up after a party that specifically excluded them, which is basically what childless women in their 30s are trying to do.