How do I become a psychopath? I've come to the conclusion that women aren't attracted to you unless you have dark triad traits so what can I do to kill my empathy? I'm kinda on the verge of giving up on love, it's too hard. I'll just settle for a bpd that wants me to beat her and we both treat eachother like shit even though it makes me uncomfortable and all I really wanna do is provide and receive affection. I literally held a door open for a girl today after class and she muttered "faggot" under her breath at me as she walked by. I wasn't even attracted to her but it really made me realize kindness is worthless these days.

Anyone succeeded at this before? How do you become unfeeling, impulsive, and cruel to maximize social and romantic success?

you have to either be born into it or sustain a specific amount of brain damage in the right areas

>>82219175 (OP)
wdym just turn your feelings off bozo

>>82219228
is this something people can do normally? maybe I'm the weird one then because I feel bad for weeks if I'm rude to someone. how do people just go about their day not caring if they hurt those around them?

>>82219272
pretty sure most people have selective empathy and pretend otherwise
if you think someone (in this case women) is indifferent towards you / hates you then i don't see why you wouldn't feel comfortable treating them the same way in return

>>82219175 (OP)
I'm a legit psychopathy, you don't want to be one. Lack of empathy isn't a magical superpower that makes you inherently more happy/successful, rather you just get into trouble all the time and either learn from pain or end up in jail.
Also they myth you don't feel emotions (eg this retard >82219228) is bullshit, you do feel emotions. The idea a cold personality = psychopath is laughable. As for me:
I won't bore you with my life story but I'll say this: when I was in Syria (army) I ran a kid over with an MRAP and it felt no different from drinking a coffee. Thats probably not something to aspire too anon.

>>82219175 (OP)
Psychopaths feel empathy. It's just in a different way. It's a rare condition but yeah, look up new psychopathy studies and empathy.

Emotional intelligence takes a lot of suffering to achieve. They like that more than being cold.

>>82219497
>I won't bore you with my life story but I'll say this: when I was in Syria (army) I ran a kid over with an MRAP and it felt no different from drinking a coffee. Thats probably not something to aspire too anon.
This is horrific but at the same time probably gets you laid all the time when you tell the story. I'm probably just really jaded but I wish it were easy to connect with people or make them care when you speak without having to rely on fear or exploit others to get ahead. It sucks that every action that you KNOW will get you ahead is also unequivocally morally wrong or cruel and you end up taking the "good boy" path and losing out as a result. Why can't women just appreciate kindness man...

holy shit ya'll gay asf

>>82219527
That's not empathy but a fear of consequence for their shitty behavior towards others. Complete difference, but psychopath won't understand that and insist they feel the same thing.

>>82219727
True psychopaths just learn how to mask empathy by replacing it with a fear of consequences. But you can still tell because their behavior changes completely when they're not around people they respect or fear. They behave under a completely selfish worldview. Somehow women love this, idk why.

>>82219727
Not all psychopaths are totally stupid either. A lot are sure, and they end up in prison.

They can still get a pretty good grip on ethics.

psychopaths can go their whole lives without diagnosis.

It's not something we even prioritize in treating.

Bad anon. No cute Minto posting in your bait thread

>>82219823
I'm a good anon that's the problem. I need to learn to be bad.

>>82219175 (OP)
>How do I become a psychopath
I wanna know too. I have too much empathy and can't say no to people. And before you say it no I'm not a fake nice guy doing it for favours or whatever. I genuinely get upset if I have to refuse people

>>82219848
Yeah that's exactly my problem. I can't say no to people. Chads prioritize only saying "yes" to women they want to have sex with and making them feel "special" I guess. But my issue is I'm self-aware that it looks really creepy to only be nice to attractive girls so I try to be nice to everyone even if no one else is watching. Like, then you get the whole "but you're nice to everyone!" thing girls do to discredit your kindness when you do try to ask them out. It's very depressing.

>>82219175 (OP)
If you hit your head the right way your brain might suffer enough damage to remake your entire personality as a cunt. Many such cases.

>>82219272
>maybe I'm the weird one then because I feel bad for weeks if I'm rude to someone.
Same here, though less and less, as people in general screw me over more and more.

>>82219593
NTA, but this caught me:
>Why can't women just appreciate kindness man...
>women
If you're only kind to get women/rewards, this is socio/psycho behavior so you are doing good. Since you aren't, just brush it off, she's some stinky cunt who you wouldn't want to deal with anyways.

>>82220072
That's not what I mean though. I think, at least in my experience, men have a kind of loyalty where doing favors for them or showing kindness will go some way towards building rapport with them. Like, if you meet a dude in class and offer to show him your notes, he'll remember that favor and treat you as a friend forever. I haven't had this experience with women at all. It's not even that I expect some tangible reward but just, I would like to feel like people appreciate you, that being a good person can be mutually beneficial. As a society we should reward goodness. I don't have a problem interacting with men in this regard but with women its like no matter how much kindness you show them they just lose respect for you. I don't get it and I want to know what the other side feels like. Do women respect you more if you're an asshole? I'd like to try, at least. Because I don't want to die alone.

>>82219769
You are trying so fucking hard to trick others that psychopaths have empathy. What you are saying is so nonsensical

You clearly don't understand what empathy is. And you have the gull to self glaze that "woman love this".

Not just a psychopath but severely retarded.

>>82219787
Well you are stupid. That's clear enough.

>>82220137
>he'll remember that favor and treat you as a friend forever
Not all men will, but perhaps more than women, yes. Some may respect you for being an asshole, but why would you want to attract women who want something you're not? It's not sustainable. If you are truly kind, someone will be drawn to you so long as you have good intentions. If not, their loss? Using your time chasing is never worth it to me, don't degrade yourself.

>>82220204
>Some may respect you for being an asshole, but why would you want to attract women who want something you're not?
Because it's the only way to attract women and I'm lonely.
>If you are truly kind, someone will be drawn to you so long as you have good intentions. If not, their loss?
How is it their loss when they find happiness and I die alone? Where exactly are they losing out here?

Isn't it on here who really wants others to think that girls are attracted to assholes so he can justify his own shitty behavior. It's really sad.

There's an anon here who really wants others to think that girls are attracted to assholes so he can justify his own shitty behavior. It's really sad.

Really tired of narc behavior and manipulative posts.

>>82220241
Why would I want that? How would it possibly benefit me to "convince" anyone that women like assholes? I wish this wasn't the case. I literally have spent my entire first 30 years of life as a "good" person and the only people who respond positively to it are men and old ladies. There is zero reproductive value in being kind, in my experience.
Care to prove me wrong? I mean if you're a girl and value kindness be my guest but I doubt you're that dedicated to your claims.

>>82219175 (OP)
What's the point? You wouldn't even be capable of love if you corrupted yourself trying to find it.

>>82219175 (OP)
Anon, I think you may be a victim of homophobia. Bigotry. I'm in the same situation, I'm not gay but my mother told me I do have some kind of feminine sensitivity and empathy which results in people treating me like absolute garbage and if I try to stand up for myself I get called oversensitive, selfish, cringe, etc. Sometimes I wonder if people perceive me as feminine because I'm autistic? This would explain why many autists decide to take HRT and transition. It's especially crazy how people will lash out at me if I do or say even just 10% of what they do to me so I just have to take it like a good boy to avoid getting bullied. I lift weights because of all this but so far lifting hasn't really helped.

>>82220307
Yeah but at least you'd be capable of feeling loved even if you're incapable of feeling love back.
I think at this point I'm just desperate for that feeling that someone wants me, I don't really care about the other way around since I've spent my whole life feeling love for others and it just results in pain and rejection.

>>82220327
I don't know what any of that has to do with homophobia anon, if you aren't trolling. I'm not homophobic in the least. I'm friends with a dyke(bio fem) and she complains about all the same shit over how women fail to respond to kindness or just take advantage of her.

I kinda get what you're saying that people associate being kind with being effeminate and will emasculate you over it, but then the converse must surely be true? Being an asshole is seen as masculine? So, in essence if you want women to see you as manly, treat them like shit? idk.

>>82220341
>I don't know what any of that has to do with homophobia anon
I meant the girl who muttered "faggot" is homophobic and perceived your behavior as feminine.
>I'm not homophobic in the least
Yeah you seem like a kind person, unironically.
>So, in essence if you want women to see you as manly, treat them like shit?
Treating them like shit sounds too extreme but idk I'm an autistic virgin so I'm probably not the most qualified person to give advice about that lol

>>82220445
Oh, I see my bad anon.

>Treating them like shit sounds too extreme but idk I'm an autistic virgin so I'm probably not the most qualified person to give advice about that lol
I think some people genuinely feel more comfortable that way idk. It's easier to be hated than it is to be loved, and either way they'll remember you I suppose.

>>82219175 (OP)

Dark triad maxxing isn't worth it.

>>82220497
I can't really think of any consequences for it desu.

>>82219175 (OP)
Just use trauma reprogramming to kill your emotional response towards suffering

>>82219175 (OP)
I have tried to brainwash myself into being one and it is impossible anon

>>82220707
Is there anyone that has succeeded? A lot of anons have said it's impossible but surely someone's done it successfully?

>>82219175 (OP)
>I literally held a door open for a girl today after class and she muttered "faggot" under her breath at me as she walked by.
step #1 don't do pointless kind gestures for others unless it's an attempt to get something out of them. you should have made a scene so she got in trouble with the school.

>>82221283
>you should have made a scene so she got in trouble with the school.
I don't think that would have played out like you suggest but nonetheless I appreciate the Minto.