Thread 82283105

It was over something stupid but hoping he doesn't become a troubled child without a father

on the other hand I'm proud of him because coming from everybody's stories he was only defending himself and he still won

>>82283105 (OP)
he is destined to become chadson and you stacymom. In 15 or so years you will have the best sex of your life.

>>82283109
Something tells me you frequent that "momcest" thread.

>>82283122
sorry but this thread is momcest-coded

>>82283105 (OP)
>he doesn't become a troubled child without a father
The venn diagram of troubled child and without a father have significant overlap. Poor kid doesn't stand a chance.

>>82283105 (OP)
>hoping he doesn't become a troubled child without a father
Unless Jewish, the father usually encourages such things.

>>82283160
yeah I highly doubt that
>>82283176
well I'll try my best
>>82283185
from what I've seen the father encourages correct fighting, not random fighting and bullying, an example would be defending yourself or somebody else

Cool. Now get him into MMA classes.

>>82283193
I am not going to be getting my son MMA classes, he does not need them.

>>82283192
>correct fighting

will get you killed.

>>82283105 (OP)
Why are you posting pictures from an incest game on 4chan if you have a teenage son? Thats a little sussy, I remember seeing these themed threads for a while but I don't really get the point.

>>82283264
Incest game? you seem to misunderstand the content of the game, I just like how Renee looks because she's always fed up.

also I do not have a teenage son, he is 6.

>>82283216
Yes, he does. He needs to be a better Chad than what he already is. It is your responsibility as a mother to make him the Chad of Chads. MMA classes will make him even more of one.

>>82283216
>be getting my son MMA classes
Why not? He needs father figures. His coaches can be decent role models. There are a bunch of pro athletes that stayed out of trouble thanks to their coaches and their love of the sport. You are fucking up not signing him up to an outlet.

>>82283273
I think 6 is to young to have any real disputes for fighting over and that behaviour should probably not be encouraged, assuming it was an actual fight and not just messing around.And the games reputation is that of an incest game and you know what I meant. You should instead be focused on getting your son minecraft crocs, its what a growing kid needs

>>82283280
>>82283282
>implying she could afford them
Single mothers are almost always broke (which they will complain about yet always smokes a pack of cigarettes per day.)

>>82283319
>Single mothers are almost always broke
Hm. Depending on her job, maybe she can make it work. There's also team sports part of public schools. She should sign him up for those. If sports aren't his thing, then idk other activities

>>82283293
the reason the fight started was stupid, but my son was just defending him
>>82283319
I could certainly afford it if I need to, and I'm certainly not broke and I don't smoke.

>>82283341
I am saying you should be ensuring he develops the emotional maturity to diffuse the situation. It is important to learn so that he can look after himself and behave appropriately

>>82283105 (OP)
>he doesn't become a troubled child without a father
fighting doesn't cause this. not having a father causes this

wtf am I reading

>>82283105 (OP)
I bet you're black

>>82283508
>I bet you're black
what makes you say that? and no, I'm white.

>>82283216
Karate or Tae Kwon Do are great for building discipline and respect. It's not about beating people up, it's about controlling yourself.

>>82283520
>what makes you say that?
The kid is fatherless, for starters

>>82283216
Unironically putting your kid to do some martial arts is probably a good idea. It will teach them a lot of good values, specially with a good instructor. It's typically part of most martial arts to teach you proper self-control, discipline and how to handle agression. Well, it does depend on the instructor, of course.

>>82283520
>white
is the father black?

>>82283105 (OP)
I hope you told him you're proud he stood up for himself

>>82283524
>>82283529
Discipline and self-control hivemind

>>82283246
It will be an honorable death. Think about it. The alternative would be the kid becomes like you. I think i would rather kill myself

>>82283105 (OP)
Digits or 69s or 420s and you have to give your child heroin and make him pump iron for 3 hours daily.

>>82283192
>yeah I highly doubt that
you posted the hot mom from the incest game, you encouraged this

>>82283524
Karate and TKW suck as martial arts. There's a reason why almost all MMA fighters don't use it, or if they do, it's only maybe one or two things from them.

>discipline and respect
>controlling yourself
MMA does this too. Just doing simple drills like footwork drills and mitt work help this.

>>82283524
I have heard good things about Taw Kwon Do before.
>>82283534
No.
>>82283537
I did, I made sure he knew he wasn't in any trouble, but he would be if he started a fight

>>82283541
No idea what you mean. It's my experience with martial arts.
>>82283557
BJJ works as well. For younger kids, I personally wouldn't recommend striking martial arts, maybe I would teach my own kid in a controlled environment but I wouldn't put my trust to randos.

>>82283105 (OP)
What is it like being a mom?
Young mom or in your late 20s/early 30s?

>>82283105 (OP)
Is this the 28 year old, with 2 kids, whose husband left because he decided he didnt want to be a parent?

>>82283696
I have no time to play my games, I watch my kids play the games I want to play, which is not a problem.

it's also a blessing, and tiring, it's a lot of things.

I'm in my late 20's, 28 to be exact.
>>82283731
did you remember me from the post I made months ago? you've got a startling memory

>>82283744
So you have two kids? Give them lots of hugs? They ever miss their dad?

>>82283781
I give them plenty of hugs, they hug me lots too

my son wasn't old enough to remember his dad, and he left before my daughter was born

Are you going to get a new father?

>>82283789
Hope things get better for you, mother anon. What video games did you used to like? Can't give any advice cause I'm an early 20s loser with nothing but a dresser and a computer to my name.

>>82283802
No, it is unneeded, a new husband? perhaps
>>82283830
Nothing needs to get better, my life is fine.

>>82283857
>a new husband? perhaps
Yes, this is what I meant

>>82283857
>Nothing needs to get better, my life is fine
If you say so. Probably too early to ask but any plans for Halloween?

>>82283870
just to take my kids out trick or treating, like every year

>>82283893
Sounds nice. I hope to have a family of my own one day when I get a better job. Got any tips on how not to be a shit dad/pick a good partner?

>>82283931
just try your best, my husband was perfect and was a great dad until he decided he was tired of it

>>82283976
I don't want to end up in crappy relationships like my parents or my step father's first marriage. I'm scared, lady. I don't want to be hurt.
What do you think changed in your husband if you don't mind me asking?

>>82284016
zero clue, he just got fed up of raising a kid, no time for himself or intimacy

>>82284034
Strange. He cut all contact with you and the kids?

>>82284049
No, I cut all contact off with him when he gave me an ultimatum

>>82283744
>did you remember me from the post I made months ago?
From the thread made by a different single mother recently that you commented in. It's a small board.
Anyhow, you seem to be on the right track considering you aren't punisbing him for standing up for himself. Even if it's not ideal that your son is getting into fights, its better that he's standing up for himself rather than being a pushover. Being slightly more aggressive seems to take you a lot further in life than being passive does, for boys at least. You can always justify actions after they've happened, but you cant do that for inaction. 10 years from now when he's a teenager you'll be happier with an outgoing son who gets into trouble occasionally, rather than a depressed and meek son who can't socialise properly because of negative early development experiences.

>>82284120
thank you for reassuring me, I know not to punish somebody when it isn't their fault, I find people consider me very understanding

>>82283857
>a new husband? perhaps

Did you know that risks of abuse goes up hundreds of times with a non biological male in the home?
Kinda screwed either way...

You are a cool mom from what i have read so far, though, good luck.

>>82284254
No, I did not know that, and I see no reason I should know that either

>>82284254
>non biological male
what are these males made of, clay? the mind boggles

>>82283109
i have like a 4-0 record in school fights and im a tranny now

>>82284254
>a non biological male in the home

>>82284329
>>82284335

Sorry, i keep making these mistakes for some reason.
a non biologically related male.

>>82284348
are you suggesting to me that I should not remarry?

>>82284545
I guess I am.
Its not a good situation for the kids either way.

>>82283524
I used to do Tang Soo Do, I loved it!
>>82283541
>self control hivemind
what the fuck does that even mean? would you rather the kid grow up to sit on his ass all day, eating precooked meals, watching porn, and playing vidya all day like you?

>>82284597
I will not remarry until my kids are at least 15, they are my first priority, not marrying somebody

i sincerely hate all you faggots for continuing to entertain this weird gay larp.
the fact that it didn't occur to everyone that this was bullshit when "she" posted about her kids having a crush on each other while avatarfagging as the mom from this dogshit game is ridiculous.

>>82284869
a crush on each other? I never once mentioned that? you should probably get your head checked, and the post image has nothing to do with the actual content of the game.

>>82284890
>can't keep your larp straight
this is annoying. I don't feel like digging up your old thread

>>82284931
>states bullshit
>I never mentioned that
>I don't feel like proving it

>>82284346
Now you can't be CHADSON

>>82284968
https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/81119518/#q81119518
annoying faggot. your obsession with this shitty game will continue to ruin your obnoxious larp.

>>82284988
That's not me?

just leave the thread alone if you don't believe it, you can even hide it too, you're less mature than my son is

>>82284994
>That's not me?
>>82283273
>fed up.
https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/81119518/#q81120019
same faggot excuse, same reddit spacing. not sure why you decided to pretend that's not you, but now it's really blatant that you're complete bullshit

>>82285019
then leave me alone? it's simple

I'm going to ignore you now, you've got it in your head that I'm the same person as another mother but also somehow not a mother

you should get your mind checked out before you do something really bad

>>82285022
>blowing the lid off your own larp like this
very silly. I guess all you can do is play dumb now.
hopefully everybody sees this retarded display and stops giving you attention
bye bye :)

>>82284680
Hivemind posts are when two people post identical things in short, uncoordinated succession.

>>82283105 (OP)
that's good, i wish i fighted back my bullies when i was at school.

Also, i had friends without father that were fighting a lot in school and they are just fine nowadays, just keep on track with your child.

>>82285022
Just ignore her. She's a schizo who spends days upon days straight just shit posting and posting the same threads the entire time. Keep up the good work raising your son to stand up to his bullies.

>>82286025
if you continue you believe this person, then you are a faggot desperate to co-parent a nonexistent child

>>82286246
If you continue to be this obsessed....oh wait, nevermind. You always are. How many larps are you up to now, btw? You have to be up to fifty.

>>82286280
i don't know who you think I am but it's very ironic to call me obsessed over a 10 min pdn edit when you're having a schizo episode about somebody who nobody else is concerned about

>>82286340
>I'M NOT OBSESSEDDD!!!!!!
>*goes so far to make screenshots and connect posts in the archive*
OBSESSED.

>>82286364
if taking screenshots of 4chan posts seems like that much effort to you, then you are far beyond reason.

>>82286406
If seething this much over being obsessed seems too much for you, you might want to permanently fuck off of 4chan.

>>82286419
you've spent as much time trying to paint me as obsessed as I did making that image.
sorry I burst your bubble, sport. No amount of screeching that I'm "obsessed" will turn her into a single mother that wouldn't have fucked you anyway.

>>82286455
You've spent so much time screeching and having a meltdown over not being obsessed while being extremely obsessed.

>>82286465
I don't see any motive so I'm just gonna assume you're the faggy mom larper trying to cover for himself. nice try.
bye bye :)

>>82286488
I see you are having a meltdown and need to run off because you cannot stand seething this much over being called out on your obsession. Nice try. Bye bye :).

Always nice to have a schizophrenic ruin a cozy thread. As if there isn't enough slop on this board. The few nice threads get spoiled by those spastics.

>>82283557
Almost guarantee this posters opinion is based off watching tv and never actually doing any form of martial art or at least sticking with one for more than a month. Karate or TKD is fine when the point is to learn when it is or isn't appropriate use. The basis of the two is to strike once and strike clean. In a situation where running or getting away is not possible you use what you have learnt to create that opportunity and in a way where the agressor isn't expecting you to bust it out of no where. Street fights have no rules or honour, they aren't like your comic books or wrestling shows. MMA is a sport not a philosiphy like TKD or Karate. Self preservation is a priority on the street, there are no refs or scorecards or protective equipment like mouthguards ect. A single punch or blow could fuck you up for life, and for what? To look like a hero? Fuck that. You have the wrong mindset, physical altercations are almost always finnished within a matter or seconds not sustained bouts or whatever

>>82283105 (OP)
>single mother
>dissing his son for defending himself
A father is supposed to teach his sons to do fend for himself. Only a father truly understands a boy's life and what is required. You should ONLY feel pride for what he did today. What do you expect him to do? Sit and take abuse? It would only get worse and then he'd be scarred for life

Women have no fucking idea how to raise boys on their own
Start worrying if he starts bullying other children for fun. A father teaches their sons the code of chivalry, to be a man of his word and to not devalue it, to protect the weaker, to be brave, but also to protect himself. Otherwise you're going to raise either a pussy failure or a little shithead. Anyways, fights are very normal for any child

>>82283105 (OP)
give him rape correction

>>82283216
>I am not going to be getting my son MMA classes, he does not need them
I hate single mothers so much
The damage you're going to do to your son is heartbreaking
It's not about MMA, it's about your attitude and lack of understanding to what is crucial to a boy. This thread has to be rage bait