Thread 82377161

I'm paralysed from the waist down so I'd like to know

this includes wheeling me places, dealing with the cunts who public who act like they're better too, as well as helping me with showering and going to the toilet too

also doubles as an AMA I guess

>>82377161 (OP)
No. I love to travel and exercise. I believe that my partner should be my best friend and I wouldn't be able to do the things I love with someone who is paralyzed.
Ironically I would date someone with no legs because I could just put them in a backpack like a toddler.

Yes, many men would. But being australian is an even larger disability in comparison.

So do you just not manage to go to the bathroom or take showers right now, since you have no partner to help you?

>>82377161 (OP)
yeah i would, but i hear you have to be giga hung to even help her feel anything. i'm above avg length & girth and idk if that would be enough.

i'm so down though. i love washing a partner by hand over the side of the tub and reading to her.

I'd get mad at you and leave your ass in the closet.

>>82377161 (OP)
okay so like. how would i fuck her without paralyzing her even more. diagonally? egregious angles

id date a paralyzed girl if she seemed right for me but fuck would it be inconvenient since im pretty outdoorsy
>and going to the toilet too
isnt there training for this kind of stuff
i dont feel like wiping ass every day
i read two arms and a head not too long ago so i have sympathy for the situation

>>82377161 (OP)
I don't really go outside but I am actually functionally employed and lift but I guess I just give women the ick because I used to be fat.
My house isn't really built for someone who's in a wheelchair so it would be a big change for me in that respect too.
I'd have to really know I'd want to spend the rest of my life with her. I would give it a chance.
It really appeals to me because I feel useless a lot of the time. I doubt a woman like that would enjoy some subby loser with a savior complex though.

>>82377161 (OP)
Only if you are nerdy and a virgin.

>>82377241
You're not wiping my ass, I can do all that just fine, and I can do all of it on my own but it's extremely inconvenient

>>82377161 (OP)
>would you date another whore that is higher in maintenance than other whores?

no

>>82377245
>nerdy
literal escorts are nerdy in their free time too. Its really not a nich thing nowadays
>a virgin
impossible to tell

what happened to your waist-down

>>82377161 (OP)
would YOU date me if you werent paralysed tho?

>>82377321
>Its really not a nich thing nowadays
It is I am not talking about watching some casual anime or playing some phone game I am talking about reading books, liking history, being really into video games, lore, fantasy etc.
This is very rare.
>impossible to tell
It is not, sure she could lie but a liar is the worst possible partner.

>>82377337
>It is not, sure she could lie but a liar is the worst possible partner.
thats just women

>>82377326
I got hit by a car when I was 9 (drunk driver) coming home from school

Were you born paralyzed or did something happen? Do you feel anything from the waist down, like if you eat something spicy does your bum burn or no?

Sounds like a good deal to me desu senpai

>>82377161 (OP)
Sure, why not. She can be my fuck doll

>>82377161 (OP)
most girls on wheelchairs are very fat and hideous

>>82377161 (OP)
What is YOUR ideal bf, nona?
What do you enjoy doing? What do you want for the future? Would you want kids, are you able to?

>>82377233
op can you confirm or deny?
am i cooked or can a paralyzed patricia feel me

No I'm too retarded inattentive and unreliable to help you in the ways you'd need

>>82377354
>>82377351

>>82377370
I'm underweight
>>82377381
somebody who actually cares for me

>>82377161 (OP)
Question:
How do you know when you have to go to the bathroom? Like do you just piss and shit yourself and then smell it and thats when you know?

>>82377402
>somebody who actually cares for me
bitch please... we know that aint all

>>82377402
>>somebody who actually cares for me
Someone who would truly care for you like that would want to know what you enjoy? What are your ideals?
An ideal relationship would definitely not solely be your gratefulness for a person who takes care of you.

>>82377161 (OP)
Are you able to have kids? Okay with some sexual contact? With the toilet thing do you mean wipe your ass?

>>82377402
in the us, even 176 lbs is considered underweight

>>82377161 (OP)
You may be paralyzed, but you and everyone else knows you have no impairment or lack of options when it comes to dating.

>>82377161 (OP)
yes i would do all of that but she would have to be an adorably cute and fun person for me to put up with a cripple

>tfw no disabled girlfriend to cherish and take care of forever until we both have mobility issues from old age

:(

>>82377161 (OP)
I'm already taking care of my disabled mom that has made the thought of having to do that for a lover unappealing but I do know how to help do those things

>>82377161 (OP)
After thinking about it for a bit, I'd only date if they were able to really be cuddly and reciprocal in what I would give to them.
It'd kind of be awful to take care of her, give her my all, and then when I just want to hold her close and cuddle or something and kiss her hair, it was like a doll.
I'd want to do that for them but if someone gives you their all they might have emotional needs too. I would love that, if it existed. Just being her superhero. Cuddling and encouraging her in her hobbies, kissing her head. I have a lot of love to give but I know it'd hurt and I couldn't do if I just can't get the feeling of being cuddly and intimate like that and she loved that too.

>>82377161 (OP)
I think i would but i haven't had actual real world experience with one so I can't say I would long-term. It isn't anything personal, I just think that it would come with its own set of issues that might be avoided if you just date a woman who can walk.

>>82377161 (OP)
well can you feel anything? Like can guys give you an orgasm?

>>82377161 (OP)
Can I use your crippled feet to give myself a foot job? If u can't feel anything below the waist would u even have a problem with me using your feet any time I'm horny?

>>82377161 (OP)
No, I would fuck one. But only if she can feel it down there, otherwise there's no point.
Has to be something she can hold on to for cowgirl and doggy too. Can't just have missionary and pronebone.
She'd have to be a great cocksucker too, with rimming as a bonus.

>>82377161 (OP)
kill yourself whore god hates you and thats how he tells you

>>82377784
why so mean? it's not her fault a car hit her at 9. she might be sweet

>>82377161 (OP)
I have the medical ability to restore your ability to walk, but I'm above modern medical lunacy of coping with disabilities and disease.
Sorry to say, I'm not looking for a woman, they're just not worth the trouble!

>>82377784
>>82377798
What the fuck? Have we had this interaction/thread before? I got deja vu from these two posts. Samefags?

>>82377161 (OP)
They are better, entitled burden. They don't need someone else to wipe their ass. How do you not realize that's literally better? Is your humility paralyzed too?

>>82377161 (OP)
If I remove her limbs she can fit my backpack

>>82377798
She probably didn't look both ways and dressed like a boulevard.

>>82377161 (OP)
if you loved me and tried to do things for yourself, me and us.
do you work?
do you look after yourself?
can i carry you?
do you want children?
will you say goodnight and goodmorning?
what are your hobbies?

>>82378258
Imagine a fish asking a worm personal questions. You got so baited.

>>82378370
At least he's not roleplaying as a woman on an imageboard only for (You)'s, I think he comes out ahead

>>82378443
Yeah, worst is OP, then that retard, then literally hundreds of people smart enough not to take the bait.

>>82378039
It's the eternal recurrence. You just remember it from living it before.

>>82378216
Imagine having a gf with not limbs. You'd have to take care of her every need. Do you think that would be worth the sex?

>>82377161 (OP)
I would date a paralyzed girl, it wouldn't stop me from loving her.

>>82379575
Not necessarily, they can be independent, it certainly helps to have someone though.

I am taken already, but yes. I would support you in every way I could.

>>82377161 (OP)
If you're nice and express love and appreciation then ye why not

>>82377161 (OP)
of course, it would be cute to take care of you, challenging, but any relationship is challenging.

>>82377161 (OP)
If you don't feel pain down there I'd probably kill you so I don't know.

>>82380191
I'm very nice.
>>82380737
I feel no pain around my legs, but I've got all my sensations in my hips upwards

the thread is still up? I literally went to sleep

>>82377161 (OP)
Plenty of disabilities are not deal breakers.
It is important to me that my wife be able to bear my children.

>>82378258
I don't work
Yes
Yes, I'm light
Yes
Yes again
Reading, that's pretty much it

>>82381898
So you're like L2 or L3? If you have sensation in your genitals and aren't incontinent I'd date you if we didn't live on opposite sides of the earth.

>>82381981
>Reading, that's pretty much it
What kind of stuff do you read?

>>82381986
Yeah L2

>>82381898
Does your vagina work? If not, have you gotten into nipple play to compensate? I've heard some women can orgasm from their nipples alone.

>>82382179
Same question. I don't think I could date someone who doesn't feel anything down there. It would feel too dirty, like I was using you as a human Fleshlight.

>>82382265
It's funny that you automatically assume you'd still be fucking her even if she didn't have any feeling down there.

>>82377161 (OP)
Do you leave the house a lot? I dont really like to go many places

>>82382896
i mean whats shes gonna do, run away

>>82382896
That's the exact opposite of what I meant. I wouldn't date someone if I couldn't fuck them, and I wouldn't fuck someone who couldn't feel it.

>>82382179
Yeah all down there works perfectly fine so I can orgasm and stuff

And I am going to phonepost for the next 9 hours if I post at all

>>82383352
Do you like manuls?
do you like mountains?
are you an alpinoid?

post chair or larp

>>82383352
That's cool. You got a bush?

>>82377161 (OP)
Sure, why not. I think it would be cute. I know it's kinda bad, but vulnerable women are very attractive.

>>82377161 (OP)
>this includes wheeling me places, dealing with the cunts who public who act like they're better too, as well as helping me with showering and going to the toilet too
Who does all this while you're not dating anyone, your parents? What if your BF has a job do you just wait till he's home to go take a piss

>>82383582
No
>>82383896
Yes
>>82384304
Nobody
I just dont go places and do all my shopping online

>>82384319
>Nobody
Then you don't need a personal caretaker and those would be bonding activities if anything, so yes

>>82384319
>Yes
May I see it?

>>82384386
It makes it easier

When I lived with my family my brother would help me with all that and it took a long time getting used to doing it all alone

>>82377161 (OP)
i unironically would since I have a saviour complex. She needs to be fertile though since i still want to have children. i would pat her head and carry her to grocery stores

>>82384646
I do have a wheelchair you know so there wont be carrying

>>82377629
man, I'm a straight dude yet, now I kinda want to date you.

>>82377161 (OP)
If you weren't paralysed, you would never even entertain the idea of dating anyone on this board.
Even paralysed, you're just making this thread get some attention from failed normalfags.

have you ever dated anyone before?

I would date a girl I liked even if she happened to be paralysed.
I wouldn't date a girl just because she's paralysed.

>>82385444
Only my brother

>>82377161 (OP)
What do you look like?
What's your body count?

>>82377351
Jesus that sucks, sorry to hear that op
if u were a qt I'd date

>>82377161 (OP)
No.
Your love is conditional on your own disability.
You will grow resentful of me for being me, for you will want something I am not.
You will be too preoccupied with yourself to ever care about me, you will expect me to be better than you, not your equal.

But that's your being a woman, your paraplegia can be worked with.

>>82377161 (OP)
What do you think? Obviously we would, what's the point of posting this. You're not actually disabled, and if you were, I'd consider that an upside because I hate normies and I'd want someone different and someone who'd understand. Pointless thread

>>82377161 (OP)
It is actually my dream

>>82377161 (OP)
Appeals to my protective nature and desire to please by helping you.
Why not?

>>82377161 (OP)
you wheely girls should roll around outside more so I can actually meet you and have a teary romance anime moment
imagine a bunch of girls just rolling around outside your house looking for some dick
they should make a horror anime out of that

>>82377161 (OP)
I dated a paraplegic in Collage. For about two years. When we started getting intimate i started helping her with her daily routine. This is where i found out that people who are paraplegic require curtin means to use the toilet . And i'm not talking about using a catheter to pee. I would have to with a gloved hand insert two well lubed fingers and move them around in her ass. This would start the function of pooping. Then do it again half way and finally again to make sure the bowels were empty. Had no clue this is how people who have this kind of spinal accidents have to poop!! It was not a issue as i loved her, it became a issue when she started cheating on me, with another Girl. She explained i was giving her everything she need it in a relationship but i could not give her the part she wanted in the bedroom. She asked if she could see this women and still date me and this was a no go for me. So we sadly broke it off after two years of dating and one year of living together.. Still have the fucking handy cap shit all over my fucking bathroom that made it easyer for her to get up of the toilet or in the tub.. as once that shits installed its there till you renovate other wise you get mold and shit.. So im all set up for anyone else who may have medical needs lol.. So the short answer is yes but only if we hit things off and like each other but not till i'm 1000% sure were correct as i don't wanna put more of my life in to something only to find out its a wast and dose not work out..

>>82377161 (OP)
I would fuck her if she has huge tits, big ass and a pretty face but idk about the rest
The rest probably no but I'd be down to fuck as long as she meets the criteria
Maybe I'd consider it if her tits are like G cup and her face doesn't have a single flaw but would cheat the moment I met a non-disabled woman with huge tits, big ass and a pretty face

>>82386993
G cups with a tiny waist obviously, don't want a landwhale, only slim-thick girls

I remember a girl in a wheelchair back in school that got bullied. Not necessarily because of her wheelchair, she was acting very timidly and would cry/freak out for seemingly no reason and not strictly bullied, more like excluded/avoided. Kind of fucked up in retrospect, she obviously had a lot of issues, but kids can be absolute cunts.
Did you get bullied OP?

>>82377161 (OP)
Do I get to grab you by the hips and bounce you up and down?

>>82377161 (OP)
Not sure if you are still posting, but since you stated that you can still feel sexual pleasure, I would. Well, provided I get a job after graduating university (in my final year rn), you are fine with a relatively average looking autistic guy who makes cartoons and possibly long distance for a while depending on where you live, I would. As a fellow disabled person I can understand to a degree what it is like to be different, so if work/life balance works out for me to take care of you properly, I would be happy to take you anywhere, bathe you and pretty much do whatever you need. Still, I would expect you to work some kind of job eventually at least until I have enough income/savings to fully keep you as a housewife if that is what you actually want, and I like reading too, but I would probably have to introduce you to some of my hobbies so that we have more in common.

The only reason I even care about whether sex would work out or not is because if you could not do it, we would both be disappointed to a degree because sex should be a genuine expression of love and if we cannot communicate that to each other then there would be a problem.

This is the most human answer I can give you. My heart goes out to you, I hope you find happiness with someone eventually

>>82377161 (OP)
I'd be really worried about accidentally hurting her but I would if I loved her yes

>>82377161 (OP)
Tits or gtfo and cease attention whoring