Thread 82386220

>be me, fembot
>fantasize about dating a moid
>realize he could interact with other girls
>might have female friends
>other women could like him too
>what if he spends more time with others instead of me
>want his full attention
>wish he didn't exist to anyone else but me, like a ghost
is this too much to ask for?? i feel like i'm crazy but i can't help my insane jealousy, i just want someone to only be mine and mine alone. do any other anons feel the same way?

>>82386220 (OP)
Like a yandere gf? Yes. I never interact with anyone anyway

>>82386220 (OP)
Sounds like a perfect girl but she would get bored of me and leave me like all women do or hate that I am clingy.

Jealously is healthy and normal.

Don't let anyone shame you into thinking it is somehow pathological.

>>82386224
i don't know if i would call myself a yandere cause they usually kill for their lovers, but i definitely get violent urges thinking about it
>>82386232
i actually would prefer to have an overly clingy bf than a cold one. it would show me that he really loves me and i wouldn't get bored of it
>>82386234
thanks anon, most people shame jealously so it's nice to know it's normal :D

>>82386273
>i definitely get violent urges thinking about it
Close enough. It's cute. I'd "put up" with it.

i want u hiii

Alright guys, op's either an incel trolling, a tranny, or if we're lucky, some foid seeking Chad. No need to reply

>>82386220 (OP)
You want monogamy. You would have to trust the person you're with though after vetting them. If it were the other way around, you can't expect a woman to never have a male friend or interact with another man. Sucking and fucking them is the boundary you'd have but they'll eventually have a male coworker or a male friend.

>>82386273
>i actually would prefer to have an overly clingy bf than a cold one. it would show me that he really loves me and i wouldn't get bored of it
Every single one said this until I was suddenly too much and "depended" on them and they needed "space" and ghosted me.

>>82386220 (OP)
no that is fairly normal for a girl, my girlfriend is insanely jelous when I text other girls (I don't text them romantically, but friendly, or professionally, or in discord servers, etc). I blocked other girls for her because she wanted me to, 2 of which were decent friends of mine, one of which I had known for half a year (but was annoying to deal with anyways). It's normal. I would like her to keep me locked up in her basement so that I couldn't interact with anyone else but her, it is a fantasy she has.
>>82386273
you would want a clingy bf? I am very clingy by nature but I have read a billion times that girls hate this, so I act cold on purpose even though I have the desire to text her every second of every day.

>>82386280
even if those violent urges were towards you at times anon?
>>82386281
haii, i'm not sure if you really do anon :S
>>82386296
>incel trolling
no i'm not a guy
>tranny
refer back to the first point
>foid seeking chad
only one part of that is true, i'm a foid. i'm not the chadsexual kind you guys talk about though
>>82386299
>If it were the other way around, you can't expect a woman to never have a male friend or interact with another man.
except i would if i were a guy, or at least i assume my brain chemistry would be the same with this stuff. i would be really unhappy in the relationship knowing they're interacting with the opposite sex
>>82386323
>I would like her to keep me locked up in her basement so that I couldn't interact with anyone else but her, it is a fantasy she has.
ur gf sounds just like me kekw, that's really the perfect romantic fantasy :D
>I act cold on purpose even though I have the desire to text her every second of every day
you shouldn't do this anon, lean into the clingly-ness if ur gf is similar to me. i'm sure she would love it, i know i would

>>82386220 (OP)
>realize he could interact with other girls
I don't interact with women at all.

>>82386423
You sound perfect. Anyway how big are your tits

>>82386423
i would only date you if you were cute and gave me joi

>>82386220 (OP)
No that's perfect but I'm 30 and it's over for me and my family can't take care of themselves so it'll always be over

>>82386220 (OP)
I dated an extremely jealous woman. It was a massive turn off.

>>82386220 (OP)
This is literally all I want

>>82387312
Why would that turn you off unless you are a man whore or somehow shifty? You just wanna fuck around and have a dumbo "cool" gf to let it happen. At least be honest about it

>>82386220 (OP)
>tfw no jealous obsessed foid who only loves me
I need this...

Are moids here really so far gone that they can't realise OP is a blatant troon?

>>82387329
I'm desperate for attention at this point, even if it is a troon I'll just leave the thread.

I would never let my bf have any female friends. He isn't allowed to talk to any exes, either. If you allow that shit you might as well be in an open relationship or just do hookups because you look like a fucking fool.

>>82386296
Fucking finally anons are waking up to this shit

>>82387329
I'm fine with trans girls

>>82387338
Hi can I be your boyfriend

>>82386220 (OP)
If you weren't a baiting tranny this might be hot.

Tho desu, if I was really with a girl like this, it would piss me off after a certain point. Kind of like the endless "would you love me if I was an ___" questions, once it's overdone it's not cute, it just comes off as insulting to me as the guy because you clearly don't trust me still. As a man you want to make your girl trust and rely on you. If she doesn't give that immediately that's normal ofc, but long term it just feels like you're sisyphus

>>82387329
Yes r9k is lowk ruined these days because NOBODY CALLS OUT THE FUCKIN TRANNIES

>>82386220 (OP)
Honestly I would definitely prefer for my girl to be at least a little jealous. I like feeling desired and part of that is the idea of her thinking "He's mine."

She'd just have to be okay with me also being pretty jealous. And also not try to stab any old women at church, because I do talk to them.

>>82387359
>it just comes off as insulting
No you just are lazy and don't want to be comforting. You should just get with Stacy with the perfect mental health then

>>82387381
I don't want her to never trust me though. If she's always worried that I might cheat on her or w/e, that means she permanently thinks of me as a potential cheater, which is pretty frustrating

I guess I do understand that a lot of people need help with negative mental loops they can't really change. But still, it's hard when they directly lash out at you as you try to help

>>82386220 (OP)
Would I put up with one?? Anon...

>>82387319
Imagine coming home from a completely platonic outing with two colleagues who happen to be women.

GF thrusts her hands down your pants in the doorway to check that you're not still slick from fucking them.

Shouts at you while she's doing this.

Apparently satisfied, drags you to the bedroom and fucks you while still being angry. (Coomers will love this but its actually quite distressing).

Brings up you daring to go outside with another female at every possible opportunity to create an argument.

>>82386220 (OP)
>i just want someone to only be mine and mine alone. do any other anons feel the same way?
That appeals to me, I want to be owned by a woman
I can actually imagine myself grovelling and apologizing for talking to some woman for work over video chat she starts getting distant and I put two and two together or she just tells me that she's mad at me

>>82386220 (OP)
I'm extremely jealous bordering on the psychopathic so I would prefer my hypothetical gf also be similarly jealous (but have some self control as I do) and that would be perfect.

>>82387478
Company party, your gf should be there. You should never, ever, ever go on a "platonic outing" with two female coworkers. Fuck your shit, you really think women are stupid huh? Here's a hint, just don't act single

>>82387584
It wasn't a party retard, we all just went out and there were two of them so it couldn't be construed as a date.

You're an asshole.

>>82387584
This. Never understood why some dudes think being out alone with a group of women is chill when I know I'd be pissed if my girl was out with a group of dudes.

>>82387618
I'm not as brand new as you wish I was, sorry. That's not normal. Men and women can't be friends and it isn't normal or appropriate for a man with a gf to go out with two women from work.
>>82387627
Because you aren't a piece of shit

>>82387777
Whatever, she was abusive and so are you by the sound of it.

Fuck you psycho.

>>82386220 (OP)
Most anons here, including myself, fit your description
>realize he could interact with other girls
The only people I interact with are random anons online.
>might have female friends
I barely have any friends.
>other women could like him too
lol, lmao even
>what if he spends more time with others instead of me
I spend all my time in my bedroom.
>want his full attention
Don't know who'd else I'd give it to.
>wish he didn't exist to anyone else but me, like a ghost
I'm invisible to most women.

>>82387831
Men can't be abused save your lies for your diary

>>82386220 (OP)
>other women could like him too
I do have a couple of women friends (gf/wife of friend) but they aren't gonna like me that way.

>>82387777 (Checked)
>you aren't a piece of shit
I wouldn't go that far, I can be a pretty carppy person.

>Men and women can't be friends
I hate this mentality. You can argue that there have to be specific circumstances for it to just be a friendship but it's entirely possible.

The idea behind not wanting your significant other out with the opposite sex is just that you don't like them being out with them because of temptation and because you should feel like enough.

Even if you trust your partner, it makes creates a feeling of paranoia in anyone if their girl/boyfriend is out "unsupervised" with a bunch of people that may make a move on them.

>>82387956
>I hate mentality
Too bad, it's reality. No man wants to be my friend unless he wants my body. They've proven it true every single time. And even if they hadn't I don't want some sleeper creep as a friend. I'd rather have a female friend that doesn't want to fuck me. Don't feel like responding to the rest of your post

>>82387982
I don't know. A lot of people are shitty and I know I'm weird. But I do have a couple of women I'm friends with. Granted, mostly they're the girlfriends of guys I've already known for a long time and the ones that aren't are old women from church, but still.

Besides that I don't think I could be in a relationship with a woman unless I was friends with her first. I can't see myself just having sex for the sake of physical attraction, I want to get along with whomever I take to bed.

>>82386220 (OP)
i would be your bf, but i'm going to cheat on you all the time. :D

girls who aren't virgins don't deserve to be this possessive

>>82386220 (OP)
I have had 2 super jealous girlfriends they were always accusing me of cheating when I never did and were jealous in really psycho ways like jealous of drawings of women and women on tv shows. One of them went thru all my emails and private messages and that ruined any trust. That was too far. Maybe they were over protective because I got them off too hard and often? Also they were both heavy drinkers/alcoholics, I'd prefer jealousy to that.

>>82386220 (OP)
Only if they're fine with it being two-way

>>82386220 (OP)
I'd be fine with that if she was fine with the inverse as well, I wouldn't date someone with a Hatsune Miku pfp thoughbeit

>>82386220 (OP)
1. You're not a woman and your deception is weak.
2. Pretending you are a woman, which you're not, the answer is always the same. Yes, you are crazy. Nothing you say matters because if you like the way I look enough, you will think what I tell you to think. It won't have to be in a direct call-response type of way. Your will just simply isn't strong enough to impose on me. When it comes to the question of a weak man, you can make him do whatever you want, but you it will be you that leaves him because it will be deeply unsatisfactory no matter how you rearrange the pieces in your little head.
3. I repeat, you're not a woman and this bait is weak.

>>82386220 (OP)
OP do you have any friends?

>>82386220 (OP)
Head over to /soc/. Post your contact info in one of the dating threads. Your DMs will be flooding in no time.

>>82386220 (OP)
A girl who is jealous and possessive rather than avoidant would be a dream come true.

>>82386220 (OP)
At this point ill put up with anything aslong as she doesnt cheat

>>82386220 (OP)
This is me but as a guy, having BPD is a bitch

>>82386423
>even if those violent urges were towards you at times anon?
Yeah I wouldn't care. What's a little violence between lovers?

>>82386220 (OP)
smoke some ciggy?

>>82386234
very based, anon
retroactive jealousy as well
if your gf was a massive whore and they all were then your retriactive jealousy is also valid and you should embrace it, buy not loving her

>>82386220 (OP)
i would be greatly depressed because i know she was a whore slut before she got with me, and i never was with anyone else

not to mention, if i could id be with other women (not that i can)
id hate her but id probably tolerate her for a bit because she'd be my first girlfriend

idk how long id last having resentment towards a girl who i have to pretend for

i think after i got some sex and cuddles, ill just stop pretending and whatever happens happens i kind of dont care

>>82387338
if you arent willing to entertain the idea of your boyfriend dating another girl with you, sleeping with girls with you
then you dont love your boyfriend
not that you're capable of love anyways

I think only a very possessive girl would work for me. I need someone to constantly poke at me otherwise I detach and disappear. I don't think anyone will ever do that for me and I don't blame them, but it's just how it is.

>>82390875
My bf would fucking murder you for saying that shit to me you are lucky you are behind a keyboard you fugly ass tiny wristed nigger

>>82390900
im sure he would. your bf is a simp cuckold who is pussywhipped because he's a pathetic roastie worshiper

all men want to sleep with other women. its just natural for them. but because he's a simp who must protect "muh lady" then he'd get into fights with anyone who you point to

but you dont love him. if you loved him you'd want the best for him. and the best for him is for you to be okay with him sleeping with all of your friends and get a second or third girlfriend. thats what you would do if you loved him. because when you love him, you embrace him as he is

>>82390900
He's cheating on you with well hung black men

>>82390951
>>82390948
Yeah yeah shut up niggers

>>82390977
You have to be 18 or older to use this site retardo

>>82390992
I was posting here when you were still in diapers

>>82391010
That's pretty much impossible since I came over with the goons

>>82390948
You know, sometimes I forget just how fucking dumb the people on this website can be.

Then I read something like this shit. And it all comes back to me.

>>82391021
Men always wish they were a part of something bigger but never seen someone stolen valor being a 4chan oldfag. Hope life gets better for you, nigger

>>82390977
That pic made me LOL

>>82391035
You're a special kind of retarded aren't you?

>>82390977
its very easy for a girl to find a boyfriend. flexing that is meaningless. its like me flexing i have tea in my stainless steel cup i got from walmart

like, okay?
nothing changes. you dont love your boyfriend and he's a simp who secretly wishes to sleep with other women but pretends he doesnt

>>82391069
if they're on an ldr it's guaranteed he's fucking sidepieces

>>82391030
what do you mean bro?
ive been friends with legit slayer chads with like a 30+ bodycount who've all been in relationships and shit

they all want to fuck random girls. they say they pretend to their girl. but when a hot girl walks by, theyre all secretly looking or trying hard not to double take despite wanting to

everything i said is true. male sexuality is not monogamous, but theyll pretend it is if they dont have options or their girl pussywhips them

>>82391086
>if they're on an ldr
>long distance relationship
not necessarily. lots of guys cant get new hoes. maybe a ldr is the best he can get, we dont know that
some guys will even be failthful in a ldr (lol)
but it doesnt matter because the truth is he wants lots more, but cant get it for whatever reason

>>82391086
He lives with me and I know his every movement

>>82391089
>legit slayer chads with like a 30+ bodycount
You're telling me guys that struggle with monogamy... struggle with monogamy? My mind is blown.

Some people are perfectly happy being monogamous. Yes, that includes men. Back when I was married, I was happy with monogamy. Just because (You) are a disloyal cunt doesn't mean everyone is.

Even if every man on the planet had discontent in a monogamous relationship, monogamy is still what works best for both partners and their children. Go look at some stats on polyamorous couples and divorce/mental health. It's rather damning.

>>82391099
Especially since foids like her are always the lowest quality. If he's not cheating it's just because he's too timid to do it.

>>82391127
>he's too timid to be an evil pos
No he just knows what he has, a woman who loves him

>>82391145
Hey if it helps you sleep at night more power to you

>>82391120
>Even if every man on the planet had discontent in a monogamous relationship, monogamy is still what works best for both partners and their children. Go look at some stats on polyamorous couples and divorce/mental health. It's rather damning.
>if you arent willing to sacrifice your wellbeing for others then it will go to shit

yeah im sure if you are willing to live a dogshit life in every aspect you can make a marriage work. have fun suffering. wow what a great life
im sure children of such families are grateful lol my dad was like that, i hate both of my parents!

the facade your built is for the outside world. you and your children know the truth. and they know how hollow and fake all of it is

no man is happy with just one woman, even if he is the most pathetic simp in existence

and the marriage statistics for monogamous relationships is just as bad if not worse you clown, hahaha

>>82391145
>a woman who loves him
hahahaha
cmon he doesnt have a girl who loves him
if she really loved him, shed say "i know what you want, and i want to give it to you. you like other girls dont you? im okay with that"

your relationships is built on lies and supported by the norms of our society

>>82391149
He helps me sleep at night with his strong arms around me and giant dick against my butt. I run cold and he runs hot so we are a perfect pair

>>82391171
Does your penis get hard detailing this fantasy?

>>82391156
>if you are willing to live a dogshit life in every aspect you can make a marriage work
Did you know that there are people who have happy, functional marriages? Your fucking daddy issues aren't emblematic of the entire world you silly bitch.

Your only argument here is "nuh uh married men can't be happy" and it's fucking retarded, based on pure anecdotal experience.

>statistics for monogamous relationships is just as bad if not worse
According to fucking what? You talking purely out of your ass?

Sidenote: You know what tends to end a relationship really fast? Extramarital affairs. Almost like people of both sexes don't like it when their partner fucks someone else. The only relationships where that is common tolerated are homosexual relationships.

Go touch some fucking grass, dear God.

>>82391207
>Did you know that there are people who have happy, functional marriages?
hahahahhaha
bro you cant be serious
the arrogance in your post
https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/
"its possible to have a happy commited monogamous relationship!"

yeah, i suppose it is. but its still built of lies fundamentally, because all men want more

>Your fucking daddy issues aren't emblematic of the entire world you silly bitch.
i beg to differ, because i think theres a lot of mirroring with my own disfunctional family and the outside world. and my dad was married to my mom for 30+ years and died from covid

>"nuh uh married men can't be happy"
thats a strawman. i think they can be, but fundamentally they want more, and in many times its quite miserable, and their marriage is just status for other people. a facade. looks great on the outside and miserable on the inside. ive seen how my parents were, i grew up in this household bro

>based on pure anecdotal experience.
you casually forgot the part i mentioned that most marriages end up in divorce, and even the ones who dont are often times miserable. this is another strawman!

>According to fucking what?
google. google marriage statistics broski cmon now

>You know what tends to end a relationship really fast? Extramarital affairs.
oh yeah, for sure. but its like, do you know why they have affrairs? because they arent happy.

>Almost like people of both sexes don't like it when their partner fucks someone else.
exactly. they have to accept not having good sex if they want to be with someone. how is this happiness?

>>82391175
My clit kinda does dunking on you losers. Gotta go and primp my bf will be home soon

>>82391259
You guys suck at flirting lmao why do you keep posting that?

>>82391270
My kink is being super duper nice I know it's nasty

>>82386220 (OP)
I already did that. She was stupidly jealous to the point where shed stalk my game history for any female names and got mad when I ordered something at a fast food place and the cashier was a girl. It was all projection and hypocrisy. Shed talk with other guys and ended up cheating on me. So no, fuck jealous whores. Theyre the same as a non jealous woman in the end just while being a pain in the ass you have to walk on eggshells for.

>>82391259
yikes, you two sound like children (if this isnt you just talking to yourself on your alt)
>>82391270
its either fake or theyre autistic

>>82391327
I feel bad for zoomers do you guys ever get sick of having to posture so much? No wonder you guys look so wrinkly and stressed. Shit really isn't that serious

>>82386220 (OP)
So you are literally me if I were a girl. Impressive, very based. Would you become a ghost too in return?

>>82391251
>Links a Reddit community
I can't tell if you're trolling if you are actually just retarded. Did you ride the shortbus, anon? You know communities dedicated to scat exist, I guess all people enjoy eating human shit.

>think theres a lot of mirroring with my own disfunctional family and the outside world
I grew up poor, therefore the middle class and rich people do not exist

>fundamentally they want more, and in many times its quite miserable,
Nigger you literally just restated the point I made in the "strawman."

Not everyone pretends their bad marriages are good, and no not every marriage that looks good is bad. Sometimes nice things are just nice, can you actually not conceptualize that?

>most marriages end up in divorce,
Current stats put the projected divorce rate for first marriages at 36%. For Whites, it's about 29.5%. Far less than "most."
https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/FP-25-06.html

>even the ones who dont are often times miserable
Again, according to fucking what? What stat are you quoting here?

>google marriage statistics
See above, cunt

>you know why they have affrairs? because they arent happy.
Yeah, when people are happy they don't cheat. Because they are satisfied with their partner. You fucking mong.

>have to accept not having good sex
People don't have good sex when they are unhappy. When they are happy, they do have good sex. This is a simple concept. Marital satisfaction isn't predicated on cheating, as cheating will END the marriage 90% of the time.

>>82391381
>as cheating will END the marriage 90% of the time
i think cheating is just a betrayal of trust, which is what the problem is
other forms of betrayal of trust like stealing money, lying, or whatever will also end a relatinoship

and what i said is still true; men want more but have to settle for monogamy or be alone

but thats ok if you want to pretend you or other men dont want more you can go right ahead and live your lies idc bro im just saying the truth

>>82386220 (OP)
Meaningless metric to judge yourself by.

>>82391432
>pretend you or other men dont want more you can go right ahead and live your lies
Nigger I have only ever wanted one. I have literally been married before, and at the time I only wanted the one. You can say that I'm lying if you want, but you have nothing to base that off of. It's literally how I feel.

Yes, a breach of trust will end the relationship. Pair bonding via sex is important, and if you pair bond with someone else there is nothing to really stop you from saying "fuck it, I'm running off with this person instead." Hence why it is a betrayal of trust in the first place.