>>82435496 (OP)
I was an Incel when I was younger.
My dad was Chad, an upper level manager at his workplace. Quite a selfish man who liked to bully and intimidate people.
What happened to me is he physically and mentally abused our whole family and my mom came from an abusive family background so that was normal for her.
He also didn't teach us anything and whenever I asked him for life advice he would just mock me hit me so I stopped that pretty early. Seriously this dude would rather just sit infront of his TV watching boomer news than parent his kids.
Cause my dad was always so angry I wasn't allowed to have friends over at the house and I didn't have the best models for social behaviour.
I left home at 18 for the Military and my life didn't really start until I got out of that house. It took about 3 years of being around a few good army buds that I met to recover from that socially.
It was fucked up in that I took boxing/gym to get fit for the army... and the last time my dad tried to beat my ass at 16 I restrained him and told him if he ever tried it again I would fucking kill him. Lost a lot of respect for him because it was at that point I realized he only beat on me because I was not able to fight back.
I'm a single father (mother is completely gone) and retired from the army now. I'm happy in that I created a home environment for my teen son that is happy and supportive. I think he is going to have much better life outcomes than I did.