Thread 82439016

fell for a friend collector again award

>>82439016 (OP)
anon if ur actually willing to talk about things im interested in, ill add and talk with you

>>82439180
what do you like to talk about and do

>>82439211
scorched earth, anime, youtube, anime girls, silly things on the internet, war stuff, games. hell i just like answering questions too

>>82439233
what is scorched earth?

>>82439258
its a roblox game that looks like a ww2 battlebit and plays like battlefield, you can dig and build in it and has insane terrain modification

>>82439283
im boring and dont know much history or play war games i feel id disappoint you and youd get bored of me quickly

>>82439283
>roblox

Bud

>>82439413
yeah I can see that being a problem, idk what to talk about half the time either, and if ur struggling ill prob feel like u got no interest in talking the first place and assume it was another nothingburger

>>82439283
scorched earth is a dos game you faggot zoomer

>>82439016 (OP)
that sucks anone. do you want to talk a bit here? where did you even add that friend collector from?

>>82439016 (OP)
1. how do you define such a person?
2. how do you recognize such a person?
3. is what they are doing really bad or could it be viewed positively from some perspectives?

>>82439016 (OP)
>mfw don't WANT to be a friend collector
>mfw neither one of us makes the effort to message first
Out of the dozens of anons I've met over the years, I'm still in contact with 2 of them and that's it

>>82439472
yeah itd probably just hurt us
>>82439493
what is there to say really, im just too boring for people and they stop talking to me or unadd me. i added them from here
>>82439504
>1. how do you define such a person?
someone you add from here that isnt really interested in being your friend
>2. how do you recognize such a person?
they stop talking to you quickly or arent very interested to begin with
>3. is what they are doing really bad or could it be viewed positively from some perspectives?
it makes me sad so it feels bad

>>82439571
meh we can talk about whatever just to pass the time and so that you won't feel as bad. what made you add that guy? were you guys talking about something you liked?

>>82439571
>they stop talking to you quickly or arent very interested to begin with
but that can just happen can't it? not everyone can click. i think it might be unfair for you to put the blame on the other person for that

I thought the woman I added was ghosting me but after 2 weeks of silence she recently gave me a nice response. I am learning that there are all sorts of people in the world and I can't control them or expect them to act the way I want them to. I'm happy we are even still having a back and forth at all if we don't become friends it's fine but if we keep talking that's great

>>82439638
if this is a /soc/ type woman she probably has 100 messages per second and it took her two weeks to get to yours. i hope that's not the case though, just wanted to warn you.

>>82439650
I've noticed other women are a little flighty because I'm not giving them the immediate dopamine tinglies of flirtation but they are still authentic

>>82439602
>what made you add that guy?
lonely
>were you guys talking about something you liked?
not really he talked about what he liked and ignored me usually
>>82439629
yes but some people do this a lot i think. may be i am just too boring for literally everyone

>>82439666
trips checked
>lonely
fair
>he talked about what he liked and ignored me usually
that's not very nice. what would you want to talk about with a friend? or what would you like to do?
n22vs

>>82439950
i dont know, maybe i would talk to them about what games they are playing or whatever they wanted i just want to be less lonely. but i dont think that is enough for people.

>>82439571
You haven't met a high level one yet. One that
>slowly shows interest in you
>adds you
>start talking and both of you realize you have alot in common
>talk alot like 5-8 hours on the first day
>almost completely drops you the next day and never dms you unless you do it first
Consider yourself lucky

>>82440043
why don't you talk about the things you like instead? games n stuff too. people enjoy talking about themselves sure, but eventually you're gonna run out of questions to ask anon. or you could tell them about your day too. what did you do today anon?

>>82440046
i met someone that talked to me for a week like that. i thought i finally had a friend but then they started ignoring me. i dont know if they were a friend collector though. i probably bugged them and deserved it.

Very gay thougheverbeit

>>82439016 (OP)
there is a person on r9k saving the discord ids of friend collectors, it would be nice if you outed this person :)

Friend collecting is funny. Here is my digitial menagerie, mmm yes this specimen is a black guy in canada that got in trouble with the law for acting schizo towards his mom. Ooh but this other one paid an escort for sleep sex but kept selling it as real, very interesting feature

>>82440074
i am a boring and uninteresting person, i dont know what to say to someone about myself that would entertain them. i dont have fun hobbies or cool interests
>what did you do today anon?
i went to my doctor and she gave me new pills i have to pick up from the pharmacy later
>>82440099
he just uses an alt so whats the point.

>>82440129
>he just uses an alt so whats the point
at least he has to go make another account

>>82439016 (OP)
what actually is a friend collector and whats the point. i havent ever actually added anyone from the internet so never seen one.

>>82439420
>>82439474
nta but there's a roblox game called scorched earth, it's a ww2 team fps where you can build fortifications, capture positions, etc. has nothing to do with the old dos game, silly boomers

>>82440129
>that would entertain them
see that's not the right thing to think. you don't talk with someone with the idea of having to entertain them. conversations don't always need to be funny, or the most interesting ever. just say whats on your mind, if you have a question about whatever ask them instead of google for example even if you think it's stupid. and besides, you don't always have to be the one making efforts, if the other person doesn't reciprocate then it's really not your fault most of the time anon. people nowdays dont bother committing to friendships, they'd rather just bounce from person to person.
>i have to pick up from the pharmacy later
what kind of pills did she give you? i might have to start taking them soon aswell...

>>82440161
u play too anon?

>>82440136
he probably will any way
>>82440146
i dont know. i wish i knew
>>82440241
nobody would ever want to get to know me or care whats on my mind for long
>people nowdays dont bother committing to friendships, they'd rather just bounce from person to person.
most people even here seem to have online friends. i dont even have that. its my fault, that is very clear to me. id have friends if it werent
>what kind of pills did she give you? i might have to start taking them soon aswell...
what kind of pills do you need? she gave me prozac

>>82440366
>nobody would ever want to get to know me
that's not true anon cmon. like i said before, it's not a you problem. it's a society problem. nobody wants to get to know nobody. but some rare people do! so dont give up on trying to find a friend yet
>seem to have online friends
"seem" is the key word anon. just because random people online say they have friends or do cool shit it doesn't mean it's true. most people are like you otherwise they wouldn't be here in the first place
>what kind of pills do you need?
eh i dont know for sure yet. im going to assume something like adderall or some kind of SSRI. i ain't taking SSRIs though.

>>82440626
sorry my wifi and internet went out
>it's a society problem. nobody wants to get to know nobody. but some rare people do! so dont give up on trying to find a friend yet
its hard to have hope after so many failures
>seem" is the key word anon. just because random people online say they have friends or do cool shit it doesn't mean it's true. most people are like you otherwise they wouldn't be here in the first place
i see a lot of people with success stories tho. atleast people who play games with each other
>eh i dont know for sure yet. im going to assume something like adderall or some kind of SSRI. i ain't taking SSRIs though.
oh do you have adhd

>>82441643
>its hard to have hope after so many failures
yeah, that's true. i never said it was gonna be easy. getting good at social stuff is hard, but i think it's worth struggling for, so keep trying!
>i see a lot of people with success stories tho
have you tried asking them how they're supposedly so successful?
>people who play games with each other
well yeah, having something to do together regularly is like one of the fundamental things needed to build a relationship. it's like, going to the same place everyday to see the same person. do you play any games anon?
>oh do you have adhd
yeah, im pretty sure i do. it sucks! have you been taking meds for long?

>>82441716
>getting good at social stuff is hard, but i think it's worth struggling for, so keep trying!
ill probably give up on everything soon so ill keep trying until then
>have you tried asking them how they're supposedly so successful?
they give me the same advice and stories as reddit does when i ask or whine there
>do you play any games anon?
i guess i like a few games. i dont feel like playing much any more though. i feel hollow when i do. i think the last games i really liked was fields of mistria and stardew. do you like games? i assume you like genshin?
>yeah, im pretty sure i do. it sucks! have you been taking meds for long
ive been off and on meds since i was 11 or so. im sorry about your adhd, i hope meds can help you

>>82441826
>so ill keep trying until then
good! ill be rooting for u
>they give me the same advice and stories as reddit does
yeah i guess that figures. so don't even bother with them
>i dont feel like playing much any more though
i also kinda feel the same. to me now everything just feels like a cope but yknw, i got nothing better to do most of the time. i also like stardew valley! i played it a bit. what do you like the most about it? right now i mostly play helldivers 2.
>you like genshin?
eh. the game is pretty bad rn. i just like hu tao
>since i was 11 or so
oh wow, thats a lot. sorry anon, have the meds been helping at all?

>>82442161
>to me now everything just feels like a cope
thats always how i felt really but it used to be a nice feeling cope. now it feels hollow and i really hate the feeling after i finish a game
>what do you like the most about it?
i like befriending krobus and moving him in as a roommate, i like imagining hugging him and making him feel less alone with me
>right now i mostly play helldivers 2.
is that fun? i thought about trying it but i saw that "but i am friend" screenshot so i never did
>eh. the game is pretty bad rn. i just like hu tao
thats a shame
>oh wow, thats a lot. sorry anon, have the meds been helping at all?
theyve stabilized me before so i guess. taking them doesnt make me happy

>>82439016 (OP)
What is your discord, my account got banned and I wanted to contact the anons but I can't remember the usernames and now I'm worried a lot

>>82442322
>but it used to be a nice feeling cope
yeah that's true. i miss the times when i used to enjoy games a lot, now the feeling is very rare
>i like befriending krobus
that's very nice of you anon! hmm i like fishing the most. it's very relaxing
>is that fun?
yeah it's pretty fun! been playing it for quite a long time. you should definitely try it! and perhaps we could play together too if you do
>"but i am friend" screenshot
heh i know what you mean but that's just a joke. the community is actually very friendly
>taking them doesnt make me happy
i think that's the case with most ssris sadly. thats why im kinda scared of taking them myself

>>82439016 (OP)
i am just shy in talking over text. I am sorry.
Not the friend collector but if I ever come across that way, I am sorry.

>>82439016 (OP)
>talk to person on a chat site
>they ask for my discord after we talk for a couple hours
>they add me
>never hear from them again
>repeat
I've """collected""" a good number of people that just refuse to talk despite being the ones that wanted to add me. I don't understand.

>>82439666
>may be i am just too boring for literally everyone
nta, but I used to think this.
Eventually, after adding a bunch of literal who's and joining a plethora of discord servers, I found one that clicked perfectly for me.
Yeah it hurt a little to get ignored and it hurt a little to tell someone that I don't think we could be friends, but that pain is necessary.

>>82439180
are you a femboy or a cute girl

>>82439016 (OP)
happens to the best of us at least once