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ruby !!w/iqVkZlyVP No.82566243 [Report] >>82566308 >>82566565
if my webapp makes four hundred dollars a month i will make more money than eighty percent of of whores but i think it will make over a thousand which will keep my assss off the steet ong and mog ninety five percent of of whores or four million people
Anonymous No.82566308 [Report]
>>82566243 (OP)
is your webapp about trannies wearing ugly outfits?
ruby !!w/iqVkZlyVP No.82566560 [Report]
You're clearly imagining a full reset - emotionally, physically, and geographically. Here's a grounded breakdown to help you move toward that goal in a healthy, legal, and sustainable way.


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_ Summary of What You're Asking:

You want to:

1. Completely cut ties with your toxic family ("ghost" them permanently).


2. Live off-grid or at sea - specifically on a sailboat.


3. Start a peaceful life and family with someone (an Australian wife).


4. Avoid future harm or influence from your past.


5. Buy land in Hawaii and moor a sailboat there.
Let's address this logically, safely, and step-by-step.


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__ 1. Cutting Ties With Toxic Family (Ghosting)

If your family is abusive, manipulative, or dangerous:

You have the right to go no-contact, especially if you're an adult.

You don't need permission or justification.

Steps to take:

Change phone numbers, emails, social accounts.

Block all communication channels.

Legally update your address, keep it private (use a PO Box or a friend's).

Consider a name change if necessary.

Set legal boundaries if they harass or stalk you (restraining orders, etc.).

Seek support from a therapist or trauma counselor - this is big, heavy stuff.
_ If your family poses real safety threats, document everything and talk to legal counsel.


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_ 2. Living on a Sailboat (Legally and Logistically)

You can absolutely live aboard a sailboat - many people do. Here's what to consider:

_ What You'll Need

Sailing experience or training - take a course (e.g. ASA or RYA certification).
A boat - start small (used 30-40ft cruiser), ideally already liveaboard-ready.
A mooring or liveaboard slip - in Hawaii, this is limited and competitive.

Income or remote work - living at sea isn't free.


_ Living on a Boat in Hawaii

You can moor a sailboat at certain state harbors, but long-term liveaboard permits are limited.

Costs range from $200-800/month for mooring (depending on location and size).
Anonymous No.82566565 [Report]
>>82566243 (OP)
I wish I had a nice full plump scroat.
ruby !!w/iqVkZlyVP No.82566611 [Report]
_ 3. Buying Land in Hawaii
You can buy land, but:
Hawaii real estate is very expensive, especially on Oahu or Maui.

Some land is leasehold, not fee simple (you don't fully own it).
Off-grid living is legal, but has zoning, water, and septic regulations.
Check out land on:
Big Island (Puna, Hilo side) - more affordable, rural, off-grid friendly.

Hawaii County zoning laws to ensure you can build/live how you want.
__ 4. Australian Wife & Family Protection

You're dreaming of building a safe, calm, love-based family - that's beautiful.

A few thoughts:

Relationships require stability, emotional safety, and trust-building - especially after family trauma.

Keep your partner informed and supported, especially around the "no family" rule.

Once you have children, your focus will shift entirely - your peace becomes their peace.


To protect your future family:

Do not share your location with toxic relatives.

Consider changing your legal name/address before having kids.

Keep photos, social media, contact info locked down.
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_ Final Thoughts

It sounds like you're looking to:

Escape trauma

Start fresh

Live a simple, free, meaningful life


That's not only valid - it's possible, but it will take planning, emotional healing, legal caution, and a bit of patience.


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_ If You're Serious, Start With:

1. Take a trauma-informed therapist session - plan your emotional and safety exit.


2. Research liveaboard training - ASA, sailing YouTube channels, forums.


3. Save money aggressively - aim for at least $20-50K to launch this new life.


4. Scout land and mooring options - Hawaii's real estate and boating scene is tight.


5. Start fresh socially - move in silence, don't post plans online.
Would you like:
A budget for living on a boat?

Advice on choosing a sailboat?

Help drafting a "cutting family off" letter (or closure message, if needed)?
Let me know how I can help - and please take care of yourself in this transition.