Thread 82869591

I'm not saying this to be mean or anything but if you are an autistic man you will likely live and die as a virgin (according to statistics) without ever knowing what love feels like. So what are your options? You really only have one option
>embrace a life without love
This is probably your best bet. Learn how to live without womem because women are incapable of loving you but fret not, Because it's not your fault. Women are just simply not capable of loving kind and sensitive men.

Inb4
>b~but what about autistic women
Why would they be different lol?

>>82869591 (OP)
this guy is autistic and has had sex btw

>>82869591 (OP)
i know man ill just get a few dogs and adopt a son probably i havent given up yet but its not looking good im a real one but most people dont value relationships of any kind like i do theres so many humans on here but i feel lonely

>>82869623
dont give up anon, youll find someone for you. dont listen to this faggot, hes a filthy sex haver who rejects girls but puts other people like him down

>>82869616
Stop ruining my threads.

>>82869623
>i know man
It's about knowing your limits. That's what It's all about.
>i havent given up yet
I get it. It feels good to hold onto hope, but we have to be realistic as well. Take your time anon. One day you'll be fine with your situation.

>>82869640
stop fucking posting them. i told you i would

>>82869660
literally dont listen to him. never give up

>>82869674
>stop fucking posting them
You know exactly why I can't do that.
>literally dont listen to him. never give
Why are you like this?

>>82869591 (OP)
I know anon. I gave up a long time ago.

>die as a virgin (according to statistics) without ever knowing what love feels like
Dying a virgin while knowing what love is, is so so much worse

>>82869703
May be, but a least you know :(

>Why would they be different lol
aaaand there's your women hating post

>>82869714
>aaaand there's your women hating post
Calling it women's hypocrisy does not mean that I hate women. Foid.

>>82869709
For me it was an illusion, someone who (very convincingly) pretended to love me on discord before leaving me after a few months. Fellas, don't e-date.

>>82869687
>why are you like this
because youre being unfair to your fellow r9k users by lying and misleading them. youve had sex and rejected 3 girls. you dont deserve to say these things.
im so sick of you faggot demoralisation posters, gender war posters, etc, youre all lying sex having faggots, agents of the jews, youre fucking evil. you are EVIL for what you do, and youll never be a good person, and the fact that 4 women had interest in some pathetic fuck like you is insane to me

>>82869714
God I love hating women so much. Honestly funny how little it actually takes

Idk man, in my experience the girls who are the real deal, the smart savvy creative girls--actually *do* like sweet sensitive guys who are open and real with them. As long as you can be yourself, autism doesn't matter even if it's awkward as fuck that doesn't matter IF YOU PUSH THROUGH, get your thoughts out even if you sputter because then your courage shows, and they like that. You only cuck yourself when you give up and say nothing, then they will pity you and you have lost you shot.
t. fairly high functioning autist/terrible social anxiety, khv until age 20, 30 now and am able to date pretty much like a normal human, not casanova but an average normie, probably am a 6 attractiveness but might be higher if I got in better shape

>>82869767
yeah bro dont listen to op, hes a sex having faggot who rejected 3 girls, hes talking out his ass

Also DUH but, working on yourself i.e getting financially stable, in good shape, and having interesting hobbies is the holy trinity of being datable. Don't shirk all this shit and then blame it all on your autism. I know that autism makes some of it harder but you can still do it bros

>>82869819
dude (the op) is fat and has had sex, and rejected 3 women. its not the autism or the weight, or anything

>>82869731
>because youre being unfair to your fellow r9k users by lying and misleading them. youve had sex and rejected 3 girls. you dont deserve to say these things
So what do I deserve?
>im so sick of you faggot demoralisation posters, gender war posters, etc, youre all lying sex having faggots, agents of the jews, youre fucking evil.
Explain why I'm Evil for simply sharing my opinion?
>and the fact that 4 women had interest in some pathetic fuck like you is insane to me
I only dated one of those four women though.

>>82869864
>so what do i deserve
you "deserve" to go live your normalfaggot life and shut the fuck up
>explain why im evil
because you are pushing your demoralisation (suicidefuel) onto others. you will probably indirectly cause suicides. fuck man all the demoralisation makes me want to commit suicide, i cant fucking bear it
>i only dated one
because you rejected the other 3

>>82869886
>you "deserve" to go live your normalfaggot life and shut the fuck up
I'm not a normie.
>because you are pushing your demoralisation (suicidefuel) onto others. you will probably indirectly cause suicides.
I simply can't bear responsibility for what others choose to do with their lives.
>fuck man all the demoralisation makes me want to commit suicide, i cant fucking bear it
But you are a woman. Why does any of this bother you so much? I actually like you so please don't do anything stupid now lol.
>because you rejected the other 3
Because we weren't compatible.

>>82869913
Wait so you did reject 3 women? Why even post OP at all? Clearly you have the ability to attract women, you're not one of us

>>82869591 (OP)
skill issue im autistic and i just had sex with a hot shemale

>>82869929
>Wait so you did reject 3 women?
Yes I did.
>Why even post OP at all? Clearly you have the ability to attract women, you're not one of us
Because I feel the same loneliness that everyone else here feels. The same despair etc.

>>82869913
>im not a normie
you are
>i simply cant bear the responsibility of what others do
but you can acknowledge your actions will lead to these outcomes
>but you are a woman, why does this bother you
i hate seeing my fellow humans suffer at the words of others. i want all of us to make it. also, making these posts only fuels the misogyny further. ive been here 10 fucking years, and its never been this bad, i just want at least 1 fucking person to stop, itll make so much of a difference
>please dont do anything stupid
ive been planning suicide for a while and this board only makes me wanna do it more
>because we werent compatible
not everyone gets what they want. maybe they were good women.
you seriously dont know how many would kill to have what you have. ive never even had a person love me or show interest in me, youre stupid

>If your an autistic male you should consider giving up
I have. I'm a NEET incel shut-in.
I simply hope that a non-escort foid will fuck me before I die.
I get occasional matches, so maybe it will happen some day.

>>82869935
ops had sex with a real bio woman a d rejected 3 others, hes just a fakecel

>>82869986
>you are
If that helps you feel better.
>i hate seeing my fellow humans suffer at the words of others
What if I'm suffering too and this is my way of coping?
>ive been here 10 fucking years, and its never been this bad, i just want at least 1 fucking person to stop, itll make so much I'd a difference
So me stopping means that much to you?
>ive been planning suicide for a while and this board only makes me wanna do it more
Don't commit suicide. You mean the world to someone.
>not everyone gets what they want. maybe they were good women.
They were but we just weren't compatible.
>ive never even had a person love me or show interest in me,
But what about your ex boyfriend?
>youre stupid
Youre cute.

>>82870068
everyone suffers and can cope without pushing it on to everyone else. i manage just fine. instead i channel it into helping others, giving them hope
>so me stopping means that much to you?
literally yes
>dont commit suicide, you mean the world to someone
who? where? there is no one. unlike you, i have no one
>what about your ex?
ah yes, the person i e-dated who cheated on me with multiple women and encouraged me to kill myself, gave me tips too, called me fat and ugly and retarded constantly, hated every interest i had. such a loving man, he totally cared, had interest in me and loved me
>inb4 abusechad
i was 16 and thought id never have anyone and i put up with it because he convinced me id never have anyone if i left him. i hate modern dating and wanted to push through it so i could ensure a future for myself. i broke up with him because i was miserable

>>82870159
>everyone suffers and can cope without pushing it on to everyone else
I guess.
>i manage just fine. instead i channel it into helping others, giving them hope
I used to do that but I discovered that I get nothing in return lol.
>literally yes
I see.
>who? where? there is no one. unlike you, i have no one
In this very moment you have me and I'm willing to listen. Even if we go.seperate ways after this I still care enough about you to listen.
>ah yes, the person i e-dated who cheated on me with multiple women and encouraged me to kill myself, gave me tips too, called me fat and ugly and retarded constantly, hated every interest that I had. Such a loving man, he totally cared, had interest in me and loved me.
At this point I can't tell you that you are wrong or try and convince you that it wasn't that bad. You've truly met some god awful people.
>i was 16 and thought id never have anyone and i put up with it because he convinced me id never have anyone if i left him
He used you and discarded you like you meant nothing.
>i hate modern dating and wanted to push through it so i could ensure a future for myself. i broke up with him because i was miserable
You made the right decision. Nice girls deserve nice men.

>>82870235
>i get nothing in return
being a good person means you do good things even if theres no reward. i get called a retarded whore skank whatever daily on here but i still try my best. i actually get more suicidal in return if anything
>in this moment you have me and im willing to listen
but you almost never listen to me and if i say one slightly "wrong" thing im suddenly a retarded bitch again. such is being a woman ig
>i cant tell you that you were wrong
no one would ever be able to convince me that im wrong because even tho im miserable, lonely, and likely will never have anyone, at least im not with him anymore. loneliness is better than him

>>82870302
>being a good person means you do good things even if theres no reward.
Being nice to people who give you nothing in return feels more like a chore.
>i get called a retarded whore skank whatever daily on here but i still try my best.
What's in it for you?
>but you almost never listen to me and if i say one slightly "wrong" thing im suddenly a retarded bitch again.
I listen to you now. Sorry for calling you names yesterday.
>no one would ever be able to convince me that im wrong because even tho im miserable, lonely, and likely will never have anyone, at least im not with him anymore. loneliness is better than him
You should never take shit from people. You did good breaking up with him. So how do you cope with loneliness except for being nice? Being nice has never helped me in that regard sadly.

>>82870346
it is a chore. it is unrewarding. but at least im doing something and trying my best.
>whats in it for you?
absolutely fucking nothing except the knowledge that im trying to be a good person
>sorry for calling you names
you dont have to apologise
>so how do you cope with loneliness
i dont. why do you think i plan to kill myself? i have not a shred of hope for myself

>>82870390
>it is a chore. it is unrewarding. but at least im doing something and trying my best
So you feel good about yourself for doing it? You don't expect anything in return?
>you dont have to apologise
I do. I was mean to you.
>i dont. why do you think i plan to kill myself? i have not a shred of hope for myself
I have hope for you. Dont hurt yourself.

>>82870422
i do feel good about it. i dont expect anything from anyone. having expectations only leads to disappointment. on top of that, there is nothing these people can give me in return
>i have hope for you
theres no point, im already dead and done. you can just hope i make a difference on this board

>>82870473
>theres no point, im already dead and done. you can just hope i make a difference on this board
Don't leave.

>>82870505
what should i do, stick around and hope for better? continue to live just to be treated like shit, live in suffering, and be alone forever? im good on that

>>82870558
>what should i do, stick around and hope for better?
That's what we all do. I don't feel like living either but I know that I can't suicide.
>continue to live just to be treated like shit?
That's what I'm doing.
>live in suffering, and be alone forever? im good on that
You won't be alone forever.

10+ bodies before the age of 20. its not over if youre an autistic male, you just have to use the charm to your advantage
nigger
>embrace a life without love
to live IS to love. nigger.

>>82870596
>i cant suicide
i can, i dont have anything or anyone to live for.
i dont wanna live my whole life just to be a pushover treated like shit. i can't do it.
>you wont be alone forever
i will, unlike you, since you have people jumping at the chance to be with you.
anyone whos with me will never love me because they are with me out of desperation (and will eventually grow to resent me for even being born) or because they want a gullible lonely autist to toy with and break. i have no desire to try

>>82870735
>i can, i dont have anything or anyone to live for.
Live for me then because I like you.
>i dont wanna live my whole life just to be a pushover treated like shit. I can't do it.
I'm treated like shit all the time and it doesn't bother me. My friends and people in general take advantage of me. People are shit and we need to learn to accept that. Kudos for still being a good human being despite everything that you have gone through.
>i will, unlike you, since you have people jumping at the chance to be with you
I've been friendless almost all my life and most of my relationships have failed.
>they are with me out of desperation (and will eventually grow to resent me for even being born)
It feels like this now because your ex was a humongous dick.
>i have no desire to try
From one internet stranger to another, you have to. You are genuinely a nice person and the world needs more people like you.

>>82870847
>live for me
no im good. that wouldnt mean much
>it doesnt bother me
clearly it does on some level otherwise you wouldnt be the way that you are. get better friends
>people are shit and we need to accept that
i already have accepted it but im still upset about it. they could choose not to be shit so fucking easily. but humanitys inherent greed means no one will ever do anything to benefit others unless it benefits them. they need something in return, they need their brownie points, they cant do things just because.
>it feels like this now because your ex
no genuinely, thats what happens when you settle for someone youre not in love with. it goes both ways, id be pretty sad if i settled again, and id likely grow to resent them and myself even more than i already do
>the world needs people like you
nice people arent built for this world. you get chewed up and spit out, stomped on, treated like shit no matter how hard you try

>>82869714
Autistic women are much less likely to be alone than autistic men and they still get the ick from autistic men.

>>82869591 (OP)
demoralization FAG
never give up

give up and the chance of anything changing is nill.

>>82872325
>never give up
You are right and I'm wrong.