Thread 82881153

>Work with mostly women
>Get the feeling they all think I'm gay
>Most of them are married with kids or have boyfriends
>A lot of them are in their 20's and 30's.

It's like a Monkey's Paw punishment, I swear. You get put into a setting with a lot of women who are moderately to somewhat attractive, and they're all in relationships. I don't think any of them are single. The ones that are single are either divorced or are single mothers. There really is no winning. I wonder if some like me, but they just assume I'm gay?

>>82881153 (OP)
who cares what they think
multiple people asked if im gay just cuz im a nice guy who got raised properly fuck them lol

>>82881261
I wish I didn't care what people think about me, honestly it feels like as I got older I started caring more and more about stranger's opinions. You'd think it'd be the opposite. When I was a teenager/young adult I lived more carefree and didn't care if people thought I was a weirdo. Now that I'm older I guess I feel more inclined to conform and act like an adult in public.

I mean...I'm 33, so I guess I can't handle society judging me for being 33 and...I don't know...wearing anime t-shirts or dressing/appearing childish in public. I envy people around my age who still have that "I don't care what people think about me" mentality and don't mind rocking graphic t-shirts and playing Switch or some shit in public. Everyone always says to "Just bee yourself" and in reality they're probably right. You should just be yourself. I think it makes people more depressed to force themselves to conform to standards or ideals they don't want to.