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33 year old truecel lifelong neet here. It never gets better.

>>82883729
i unneeted, worked from home for a couple years, then moved out and now after a year and a half i wanna kms with the weight of everything and being alone (before i'd have other humans around me after all)

>>82883643 (OP)
34, Feels like I'm in a weird place right now. Poor with bunch of debt but noticing a lot of women from a vast amount of age ranges are into me. If I had money I'd of probably pulled the trigger with one of them but I also would of fucked myself with how girls are these days. Like I said, feels weird.

Looking for a job is much harder compared to years ago when I had no experience. It's the first time in my life when I can picture myself become homeless if things continue like this.

>>82884036
How do you even get debt? I'm 33 a neet and 0 debt, but also 0 net worth. Is it really hard to not spend money you don't have?

anybody else just stopped getting any female attention right around the time they turned 33

I used to pull woman man, I wasnt a chad by any means but id at least get some scraps from time to time but the minute I turned 33 I was just invisible to them

>in b4 you got old/fat/bald
people say I look young for my age, Im still at my high school weight and I got a full head of hair

>>82884271
sounds rough good luck anon

I'm a 34 year old NEET and I've been ungodly horny in the afternoons lately. Way more horny than I remember being as a teen.
>>82884313
I am balding and it definitely has ruined my chances with women, but I feel I'm lucky I ever had sex at all. I'd fuck guys/trannies or let them fuck me, but I'm too paranoid about diseases.

>>82884297
Easy, Illustration degree plus I'm very lazy at times. Also I could have bought a couple bitcoin at $4000.

>>82884360
i know that feel anon, i have not had sex in six years and the memories of the sex that I did have feel some fever dream that never even happened

>>82884381
I begged my dad to invest in bitcoin in March 2011 and he didn't. I didn't have a bank account of my own until 2015. Anxiety and retardation has been my downfall throughout life.

>>82884408
I had a blowjob three years and the last time I was actually inside a woman was ten years ago. It's a terrible feeling. I'm just so tired, but also extremely horny.

Good damn nlggers these threads are dying fast every time nobody posting

Trying to avoid normie retard npc goy cattle cancellation before making it and retiring type shit

I need m's nigga and I'll fuck off this gay rat race normie public life holy fuck

>>82883643 (OP)
38 here just watching my baby daughter I guess I am not a very good dad playing with my phone

>>82885297
i don't get replies to my posts unless i bait hard in these threads
people just want to tell you where they are in life then they keep up with the thread every hour or so

>>82883643 (OP)
39. Not a NEET, incredibly successful, yet not top 1% so it's not good enough. Not sure why I work so hard when I have no reason to do so.

>>82885330
Everyone just wants to talk about themselves, in these threads.

>>82885346
it's about sharing our experience

>>82885297
i have nothing interesting or new to say. i have no advice to give. i'm just an ugly fuckup shut in wizard.

stuff isn't even bomb anymore

>>82885330
I'm not convinced most the posts are real people. Many threads here are lifting their posts from other sites like twitter and reddit and just post them 1 for 1 here.

>>82885346
it's more they need to sell a narrative that 30 something losers are here in any volume. These same issues happen in every general here but britfeel. Also much like 30+ all but britfeel never stay constant, they 404 usually after 12 hours or less no matter how much engagement was fed into them.

>>82885838
>30 something losers are here in any volume
where else am i supposed to be? nobody will hire me. nobody wants a disabled older loser for a friend, women have never wanted anything to do with me. are you supposed to magically turn successful once you turn 30? i didn't get that opportunity i guess. since i'm ugly, disabled, and retarded. guess i'm even an outcast here.

>>82885838
We have no other outlets and are looking for people to relate to. Things always feel better when you know you are not alone and other anons are going through the same thing.

>>82885883
this
if any 20 year olds are reading this save yourselves before you end up needing a thread like this as your only way to have the faintest connection with other human beings

>>82885953
you guys act like there was a choice at some point to magically become someone attractive and successful. really weird cope.

>>82883643 (OP)
31 trying to get neetbux. I lost my eye and I've become schizophrenic and that's all there is to my pathetic life now. I want to have a girl live with me but realistically who would want to spend their time with an old man that lives with his parents at this age. I find myself staring at girls more tho they're hot

>>82885971
idk man volunteer or try to find ANYTHING out there

>>82886021
i volunteered a few times and it was always nothing but old people and actual retards volunteering too.

How the hell do people get neetbux? Im over 30 and have several diagnosed mental illness. I applied for welfare once and got denied despite being a lifelong neet.

now that i know people here expect/demand you to be successful at 30+ i guess i'll stop posting on this board. see ya.

34.
Life is going good.
A bit boring, but I've learnt to enjoy life as it is, not as I would wish it to be.
Which is a hell of a lot better than it used to be in my 20s.
Physically fit and sound, dont have these back issues everyone is talking about. Hearing as taken a beating but then again I spent my 20's trying to be a musician/partying/going to concerts so I guess I'm paying for it despite using earplugs.

>>82884297
Could be student loans. Could be medical debt.

>>82885838
>it's more they need to sell a narrative that 30 something losers are here in any volume
this, the place and thread are too fucking slow for these generals to be authentic, you have a group already made and you have like other generals with a feeling of a community. Instead it's just these weird blog posts over and over again

>applied to 3 jobs during covid, got them all, turned one down
>quit job because it seemed easy to find one
>3 years and still everyone refuses to hire me or fires me during the hiring/training process for no reason

Im fucking losing it
My mom is nearly dead and no one will fucking hired me
Im unironically losing my fucking shit now. I have no other option
I am going to starve because these fucking niggerloving pieces of shit refuse to hire a healthy white male

>34
>no education or certification
>working shit jobs like line cook or dishwashing
>barely making enough for rent
>sick and tired and in pain all the time
>no friends because I'm ugly, stupid, socially inept
Spite is the only thing keeping me going.

For those neets who got bored with video games, how do you spend your time? I've been neeting for a year now and surprised video games have kept my interest for this long. But the past couple days I've just been browsing 4chan and YouTube

36 year old here, this year has been awful for me but I am over the wave of depression that hit me earlier in the year. I finally have a few good things going for me again and am back to being positive about life.
Little by little things have been improving for me.

>try dating site again
>talk to guy for almost a week
>accidentally sperg out trying to be nice
>accidentally sperg out trying to relate
>accidentally sperg out trying to be personal
>no messages today
ha ha ha fuckin oops

>>82885777
whatever, i don't really care. if the majority of posts are bots at least i know i'm bot repellant when i make a thread

>>82887356
Your name isn't Vanessa is it?

>>82887378
nah, profile name starts with an E

>>82887386
Okay no worries then. My blood ran cold because I had a woman sperg out on me about how much she hates men and will not cook or clean.
It's not a sexism thing, I just like being clean.

>>82887409
oh damn
mine was me telling personal anecdotes, realizing they're probably actually sad and I shouldn't have mentioned them ever, let alone in week one, and then waiting to be ghosted
this is not rehearsed, and yet, it is well-practiced at this point
I'm sorry anon, I would cook, I like cooking
I don't like cleaning, but I understand that if you don't have a job, then you can clean, and it's not like a fuckin slave trade
thank you; this has been my tedtalk

>>82887455
You're fine anon he didn't deserve you.
Same, cooking is so much fun. Top 3 things you like to cook?
I have no problem cleaning desu. You cook and I clean? Can you fold the laundry atleast, I hate folding laundry.

>>82887490
Thank you, anon ;-;
That sounds perfect
I actually like laundry, I like the smell when everything is still hot from the dryer
You deserve better, too, you sound completely reasonable

I turn 40 in a week. I am full of existential dread and ennui. My life is comfortable, but pointless and I have nothing to look forward to.

>>82887513
Awesome, I like living in a clean space, it makes me feel more comfortable.
Anon you're perfect, what kind of detergent should I buy?
Thank you, I just want to be comfortable and have someone to visit restaurants and markets with.

is the meme about the guy who finally starts his career and finds women still don't want to date him real?

>>82885297
I am not 30 just yet.

Is age the reason I am constantly tired? I'm only 31 but whenever I am about to go do something I suddenly become tired as all hell then decide not to do the thing I wanted to do. I don't think age is the issue. There are people older than me still being active. Maybe it is because I work night shift? Should I see a doctor?

>>82885838
/brit/ has three different generals across three different boards

>>82885874
>are you supposed to magically turn successful once you turn 30?
no, you're supposed to snap out of your acceptance of being a loser and start working like hell to not be a loser anymore

it's supposed to flip a mental switch, not existential switch

>>82885971
>you guys act like there was a choice at some point to magically become someone attractive and successful. really weird cope
The moment you chose to do anything but take accountability for your life is in fact the moment you chose to accept the possibility or reality of being a miserable loser.

You always had the choice to work toward doing something about it, no matter your situation. You chose however to give up because you couldn't handle the responsibility.

>>82887583
Same; my house was never clean growing up, so it's also very important to me to keep it clean now
I like All Free & Clear detergent, personally
We could go anywhere
I should have done anything besides sit online my whole life lol

>>82886190
you're a drama queen

are you just here for people to pat you on the back and say there there to your sob stories?

you actually resent being told that you need to sort yourself out before it's really too late because you *will* regret then that you never tried?

certified unc music

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-V_GygtBQJo&list=RD-V_GygtBQJo&start_radio=1

>>82887617
Nutrient deficiency. Perhaps Magnesium for testosterone.

>>82887651
I'm a blue collar worker so I often get dirty at work and don't want to bring it inside. Are you okay with keeping some open floor space to make rooms easier to clean?
I've never used that kind of detergent, just generic Tide, does it have a pleasant scent?
Let's go on nature walks too, they don't have to be hikes just out and about enjoying time off our phones.
How do you feel about dogs?

>>82887714
That's cool; I can relate better to bluecollar
Yeah, that's no problem at all, I don't like cluttered houses anyway
It kind of has an extremely mild scent, I like the arm & hammer one too; I like a lot of health and beauty products, but I don't like anything scented heavily, the less the better, a lot of scented products can cause acne, so I got into the ones that claim to be more natural
Yes, absolutely, sounds good; bring the dogs on the walk too, they can smell interesting things out there that they don't normally get to; I can relate to that, too lol

>>82887617
>>82887671
Low t definitely. Good luck getting treated for it in burgerstan though. Only troons are allowed to get test prescriptions and not the men that actually need it to improve their lives.

>>82887751
Did you just ignore what I said? Your body produces testosterone naturally. If you have low test it's probably because your body lacks fuel, because you aren't ingesting what you must.

>>82887750
>doesn't like cluttered houses
Perfect, I love it. Are you okay with me having a few orchids and other plants?
Sounds good to me, i'm not a fan of heavy perfume smells. They make my nose run sometimes.
I don't have a dog yet but I want one in the future. I'd like to adopt a smaller terrier type from the Humane Society.
Mmm a nice scent is the smell of pine trees or redwood trees on a warm day, it's a nice comfortable scent. Or the smell of the ocean on a clear or foggy day.

>>82887832
It should be this easy in real life ;-;
I like plants a lot, I don't have any though
I would keep plants and a snail
I always see those herb gardens you can keep on the kitchen counter, I wonder if they're for real, or if people use them for drugs lol, if they're real, I want one
My parents have always had one jack russel terrier at a time through out my whole life; I would love to have a little terrier again
I think I would like walking anywhere; my favorite job I ever had was paper routes lol
There was this one neighborhood that was like, down a hill, it was like sunken down somehow, all the houses were in that 60s/70s mod style, the whole neighborhood was beautiful and heavily wooded, I always liked walking around down there, especially when it snowed
Come to think of it, most of those must have been pines
I've never seen the ocean desu

>>82887887
Snails are cute.Those indoor herb gardens are neat but a little gimmicky, if you get one make sure you have plenty of sunlight and space. Depending on the type of plant it can outgrow the container, like a cherry tomato plant can get huge.
I would like a Jack russel, they're so energetic and sassy. Good dogs to train from what I have seen.
Your old job sounds pretty nice, walking around and checking places out. I have never seen snow so not sure how walking around in that is.
I think you would enjoy the ocean, it's hard to describe in words. It's loud, quiet, cold, and comforting at the same time. Where i'm at the water is freezing to go into but it's enjoyable. The cold sea water wakes you up instantly.

>>82888023
Hmm, I suspected as much lol; thank you for the tip, btw :)
I haven't seen snow in long time lol
When I was a kid, it snowed pretty heavy here almost every year, but I feel like it's been almost a decade now since the last big snow storm
It's sort of hard to walk in, it sort of feels like if loose sand went up to you ankles or knees, you sink in some, you walk on top of some
It makes the sky look strange, like grey and thick, and you can see the sun shining through the thinner spots, and the light refracts off of them; it sort of feels like being on a stage, like there's curtains above you and on one side, not like closed in, but maybe kind of closed in in a way
I was never cold since I was walking the whole time, if you wear just a couple or a few layers, the walking keeps you warm if you don't stop; I had forgotten about that, that was why it felt warm
I bet I would like the ocean; I would like anything new lol
There's so much I never did

>>82888081
You should get yourself a regular pot, a plastic container that goes under it that catches excess water and a nice sunny spot. Much cheaper and easier to grow a plant.
Are snow storms hard to deal with? I've only experienced big coastal rains before and they can be a pain.
Walking in snow sounds like walking wide legged(?) trying not to sink into it. The way you describe snowy atmosphere sounds comfy desu, reminds me of very foggy weather where you feel insulated and muffled.
This Christmas i'm going to experience the snow for the first time, i'm traveling to a different state for the holiday and excited about that. I hope my work boots are good enough for walking around.
Anon when you say it like that I want to take you exploring. One of my favorite spots to visit is a Redwood forest where the trees are so huge and tall they block out the light from the ground. The ground is red from their bark and feels like you're on an alien world.

>>82883643 (OP)
I'm 33 and never had a gf. Not a virgin cuz I got date raped. Only got head because I took a vacation and some girl was bored. Got a big boy job and make 115k a year but all my money goes to my elderly parents. Anyone want to be my gf? Please be cute and wealthy

>>82888188
That's the exact kind of thing I want to do, explore
I honestly had thought, when I was younger, that I could just choose not to care about seeing anything
I've never left the Midwest, that was a dumb place to try to be okay with never leaving lol
I hope your trip is good; my guess is west coast to east coast? I don't really know well enough to guess though lol
I'm glad you go places, I bet that's better for you
I think I will get a plant, I've read strawberries are pretty forgiving

>>82888279
Exploring nature is definitely fulfilling with how many different biomes exist in the US. Idk anything about the Midwest besides hearing about the Great Plains and corn, I am ignorant lol.
You could try exploring different areas near you on a day-trip visit.
Westcoast to CO so high altitude mountain range. Breathing can be hard at high elevations, takes me 1-2 days to not feel kind of sick.
I get so tired of living in a larger city with the amount of people around, getting away is good for my mental health.
Yes do it, strawberries are pleasant to grow. You can also get a terrarium and keep a pet snail and feed it strawberries.
Anon I enjoy talking to you, do you have any contact info? I can post mine if that works better

>>82888406
If you heard about the plains and the corn, then you already know everything lol
I actually know what you mean about altitude though; I have family that lives in a region below sea-level, I literally have a head and stomach ache for a day or two everytime I go lol
I like talking to you too, I have discord, does that work? you should drop yours if you have one

>>82888474
Lol no way, really? Aren't there forests and mountain ranges?
Whoa I didn't realize low altitudes could have that effect, I've lived at sea level all my life.
Discord works, I'll add mine to a separate post after I post this

>>82888517
My icon is a goose, maxmachina

>>82888522
:)
sent
mine is madotsuki in Mario 64 lol

im starting to think my best option is to just leave 4chan, join reddit, and do meetups and stuff in my city. i get no play on this board and people seem to actively dislike me. thing is people feel that way everywhere i go.

>>82885329
Wtf are you doing? Go and take care of your daugther.
>VY8XD

I know I don't belong here yet at 29 but I just wanna make sure, we DO get virgin wizard powers at 30 right? Please tell me I haven't been avoiding all this sex I could have been having for nothing...

Level 36 wizard reporting in.
Life has turned into a stalemate that I dread. There's nothing I'm looking forward to.
I've been employed for the last 10 years and I feel like a need a very long vacation.
Also I'm incredibly stressed about work and also about living with my parents in a noisy area. I don't even remember the last time I had a good night of sleep or a peaceful and quite day. On the bright side I guess that when your biggest dreams are being able to sleep 8h straight and read a book in silence after dinner they are somewhat achievable.

>>82886687
>Instead it's just these weird blog posts over and over again
The goal is always to get engagement and they have no strong way to get said engagement so they have to spray and play as it were until they get the bites they want. These threads could be made by some lonely anon trying to find others or some glowie trying to create "evidence" of issues on the rise (look at the poorly made women hate threads) but I wager the most likely answer is mods/jannies need this board to keep up appearances for either advertisers or their own personal pride so you get these very strange threads like look like a LLM made them.

>>82886740
>fires me during the hiring/training process for no reason
normies don't like to be around weirdos. they will smell it on you and cast you out.

>>82889515
severe depression can unlock powers yes. like not caring about anything because you think you're already dead, that's a power.

If someone told me 10 years ago that the thing that would make me depressed would be balding I wouldn't believe it. I do infact have more serious problems than losing my hair but is this one I keep obsessing over. I don't even care about dating but I've always been self conscious about my looks and this is the final nail in the coffin. It's also a pretty clear message that I'm not young anymore. I always kept pushing things and procrastinating because I still had time, now I realize I don't have that much because since I turned 30 things and problems that were left unattended have been getting worse exponentially.
Today I was shaving and I put the electric shaver close to my head, looking for closure but being fully aware I wasn't going to do it.

>>82890975
I've been balding since my teens. Worse than Costanza. Can you imagine the mindfuck? I should honestly be dead. If it only started at 30 you can be thankful.

>>82891028
And how are you feeling about it now? Did you shave or simply stopped giving a fuck?

>>82891055
I buzz it every 2 weeks or so. I see no hope whatsoever for anything because I'm also short. People will see me as a freak, something to see and think "thank god I'm not that guy".

As someone who started balding in his 20s and coped for years, the very moment you get a glimpse or your scalp and have to constantly worry about styling your hair, trim it. The stress is not worth it.

>>82887601
having a job was the sole requirement for finding a wife in the 50s. times have changed.

>>82888569
>>82888517
i hope you both die in a car accident