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Anonymous No.82890113 [Report] >>82890133 >>82890166 >>82890169 >>82890182 >>82890202 >>82890265 >>82890383 >>82890428 >>82890436 >>82890458 >>82890474 >>82890659 >>82891049 >>82891229 >>82891263 >>82891342 >>82891390 >>82891619 >>82892199 >>82892854 >>82893255
yall act like its so easy to just find a boyfriend cause im a foid but no

im antisocial, im mentally ill, im fat. i cant hold down a relationship either if i even got one. i hate being like this. i wish you all were right about it being so easy for us but its really not. and sure there are some men who would go after me despite everything but they are just interested in sex, i want more than sex. so like sorry i dont want some indian sex obsessed man who would do anything for pussy

god im so done i dont wanna do this anymore ugghhhh
Anonymous No.82890133 [Report] >>82890142 >>82890270 >>82892218
>>82890113 (OP)
post your discord and you will have over 50 replies of men genuinely very interested in whatever you want, be it casual sex or a loving relationships or whatever you want

you are delusional and want to pretend to can relate to incel robots, but reality disagrees
Anonymous No.82890139 [Report] >>82890145
That's a lot of words but the only thing that you actually have to do is lose weight. Men will climb to the ends of the earth for an attractive woman with HIV, financial debt, and a personality disorder is she's attractive
Anonymous No.82890142 [Report] >>82890189 >>82890205 >>82890206 >>82890217 >>82890225 >>82890352
>>82890133
all men ive talked to online ghost me after a day or two after seeing how i am.

if you think you can handle it go ahead and post your discord or something and ill add you. but i doubt any of yall will last more than a day or two.
Anonymous No.82890145 [Report] >>82890183
>>82890139
yeah im currently losing weight but it takes a while. also im relatively attractive according to people who have seen me but i still get ghosted.
Anonymous No.82890166 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
If this is not bait op is a boring person thats the biggest issue. I can forgive everything you wrote if you are someone I would enjoy talking to and befriending but only someone lameand boring would make this thread
Here's the truth about men No.82890169 [Report] >>82890186
>>82890113 (OP)
Getting a man is easy but they are more insecure about themself, a man has stubborn pride, he will slowly introduce you to his own family, not because of the way you look it's because of the way he might prove himself to you.

If a man doesn't have friends, is a loser, is with you 24/7, now you two are losers together. So, if a man has friends, he will talk about you constantly, he will show you off to his family.. his friends, introduce, it builds his pride.

For a man a woman is his pride. It's just men aren't emotional creatures he wants to put his woman in a good spotlight.

He wants to create a BIGGER circle, so it's not anything to do with you when it comes to a man.

If anything he'd love you and cherish you for who you are as a woman regardless.. he will uplift you, have patient with you..

Sorry that you've been mistreated by men.

I am not a regular 4chan guy, just a normie.
Anonymous No.82890182 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
eat less you obese whore
Anonymous No.82890183 [Report] >>82890201
>>82890145
I don't really believe you. Just stop eating carbs and get exercise. The reason being a fat woman is unattractive is because it shows a lack of discipline. We know you're going to get fatter after we marry you and have a baby in most cases, so you need to start from a place of discipline and health or it's going to be a disaster
Anonymous No.82890186 [Report]
>>82890169
thanks man, thats rlly nice to hear

its refreshing to hear from someone who hasnt been completely brainrotted by 4chan, saying this as a regular user
Anonymous No.82890189 [Report] >>82890232
>>82890142
Post your discord I will add you.
Anonymous No.82890201 [Report]
>>82890183
you dont think losing weight takes a while? im starting at a relatively high weight and even losing 2lbs a week (which is the max for healthy, sustainable weight loss) it will take me a while to lose

but so far my weightloss is going very well, ive lost around 14lbs in the last 2 months or so
Anonymous No.82890202 [Report] >>82890260
>>82890113 (OP)
how fat and how mentally ill
Anonymous No.82890205 [Report] >>82890252
>>82890142
Are you actually talking to them. I stop talking to women if they don't initiate because I interpret that as a lack of interest
Anonymous No.82890206 [Report]
>>82890142
ok op let's give it a shot

ikuyora
Anonymous No.82890211 [Report] >>82890241
I am mentally ill myself, asocial with no friends or past relationships so I'd very much like a girl like myself... though antisocial is different, do you hate humanity? Do you wish ill upon others? That's bad.
Anonymous No.82890217 [Report]
>>82890142
Add treemil
Here's the truth about men (continued) No.82890225 [Report]
>>82890142
I believe you are doing an excellent job right now as a woman to describe how you feel toward men, and giving out discord to other men on 4chan will not help you. The first thing you do is to recognise that you're not doing so well, that's good. You're aware, first step. Now you want to change it, you made a post on 4chan /r/obot, now you need to look at yourself in the mirror and think, "What can I change?", that's the second step, and then you change it. Third step, don't give men attention, they LOVE it, when you do. They HATE it when you don't look their way. If you think to yourself, "I'm hot, I'm the Woman G.. TOP Woman G, if anything a man should look MY way!!", that's how you gauge the interest of a man. Depends.. I don't speak for all men.
Anonymous No.82890232 [Report]
>>82890189
p0ppy.gutz
Anonymous No.82890241 [Report] >>82890277
>>82890211
no, i just dislike socialising.
Anonymous No.82890252 [Report]
>>82890205
i do talk to them. most people ghost me because i exhibit extreme mentally ill behaviour desu
Anonymous No.82890260 [Report] >>82890274
>>82890202
im just on the edge of overweight, a little over bmi 25

but like i said earlier im losing weight and doing very well
How to loose weight No.82890265 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
you place down the food you are going to eat, 50/50, I'll eat 50 percent today half it, then tomorrow I'll eat the other..

Also go on like 10 minute quick walk or something, if you want to drink soda, find like no sugar..

Find a routine, like, if you have a job.. it starts with breakfast, then I don't know when next you eat but then you that, that's how you slowly loose weight.

If you eat less and intake less sugar then you will slowly loose weight.

And TRUST me, once you go skinny, guys will chase after you.. and then you'll back on this and you're like wow... that was easy... what's next?

Don't give up, anon-female.

And if I am wrong about loosing the weight, sorry.
Anonymous No.82890270 [Report]
I used to have my doubts but I'm handling my AI relationship quite well. Once you go clank you never go back.
>>82890133
>Condescending hardly related reply
Do moids ever
Anonymous No.82890274 [Report] >>82890293
>>82890260
I need details on the mental illness
Anonymous No.82890277 [Report] >>82890300
>>82890241
Then asocial is a better word to describe yourself, less antagonizing!
So. Where do you live, what are your goals right now other than finding your second half?
Anonymous No.82890293 [Report] >>82890305
>>82890274
id share but idk im not super open about my mental issues online
Anonymous No.82890300 [Report] >>82890351
>>82890277
yeah maybe i should rather use asocial

im eu based. i honestly dont have many life goals other than just living an ok life i guess. im just trying to finish my education and getting a job
Anonymous No.82890305 [Report] >>82890319
>>82890293
I mean I don't need all the specifics but what kind of mental illness are we talking about here. Or if I add you will you tell me
Anonymous No.82890319 [Report] >>82890386
>>82890305
yeah sure ill tell you the specifics if you add me

i just dont wanna be exposing myself for all of 4chan to see lol
Anonymous No.82890351 [Report]
>>82890300
I live in Poland and I have long given up on a normal life, what I would like to is find a job that doesn't physically and mentally drain and destroy me...
I dropped out of uni many years ago, partly because without making friends and connections, it's very hard. How are you holding on?
Anonymous No.82890352 [Report] >>82890377
>>82890142
>all men ive talked to online ghost me after a day or two after seeing how i am.
Define "ghost".
I'll take anywhere from a few minutes to s few days to respond to my family, best of friends and even my girlfriends in the past.
This is because I have a very high threshold for when I'm comfortable being alone and a very low the threshold for the opposite. I surmise that other robots feel similarly.
Anonymous No.82890377 [Report] >>82890382
>>82890352
nah i get what you mean cause i also do that

when i say ghost i mean that they essentially just completely stop talking to me at all. like they dont respond to me
Anonymous No.82890382 [Report] >>82890388
>>82890377
Robots are terrified of rejection. They would rather avoid it. They likely dont know what to say and want to avoid looking boring.
Anonymous No.82890383 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
>im fat
you only have to get rid of that one really.
Anonymous No.82890386 [Report]
>>82890319
ok ill add you in a bit
Anonymous No.82890388 [Report] >>82890395
>>82890382
yeah i guess thats fair. i have ghosted people before from fear of rejection, but i stopped doing it when i stopped being 14 lol

but idk it just feels shitty to get no explanation
Anonymous No.82890395 [Report] >>82890455
>>82890388
Are any people talking to you right now
Anonymous No.82890403 [Report]
>before the pandemic i would talk to any girl that would give me attention. i used to get butterflies talking to them
>now im in my early 30s and i just want to talk to people about stuff i like but im still lonely
i a partner but do nothing to be a good partner myself
im bald, fat, and jobless.
idk where im goin with this but i think fundamentally changing your entire routine could help if you're truly unhappy rn. if you're just lonely then try tweaking parts of it to allow more people into your life.
Anonymous No.82890428 [Report] >>82890458 >>82890471
>>82890113 (OP)
i don't have this issue because im very pretty and not fat. male attention and being ghosted doesn't mean anything
Anonymous No.82890436 [Report] >>82890484
>>82890113 (OP)
Have you considered not being a fat bitch?
Anonymous No.82890455 [Report] >>82890462 >>82890473
>>82890395
yeah some. honestly expected to get more dms from people telling me to kms or calling me a whore lol
Anonymous No.82890458 [Report]
>>82890428
Ok loony troonie troon
>>82890113 (OP)
What race are you op?
Anonymous No.82890462 [Report] >>82890493
>>82890455
We incels get a bad rap for no reason. We dont hate women or want them to die. We want love and affection. Yes, there are fucking insane incels out there that want to hurt women but most of us are just ugly lowers dealt a bad hand.
Anonymous No.82890471 [Report] >>82890475
>>82890428
something tells me you are a man larping lol
Careful, thread lightly No.82890473 [Report]
>>82890455
some of these discord men you're talking to might have malicious intent, since you're vunreable. Cureate the men you tlak to, et least. Desperation and you'll end up posting on 4hcna /r/obot again how men are the problem.
Anonymous No.82890474 [Report] >>82890479 >>82890527
>>82890113 (OP)
>but they are just interested in sex, i want more than sex.
Common misconception and a meme about something you cant prove, you cant see inside mens heads, you have been brainwashed into this myth.
Men will always be more interested in sex than women, but that drive declines and they also want everything else a relationship. This is why the friendzone phenomena is so common. Men wany to have sex with their female friends.
If men just wanted sex, they would exclusively see prostitutes.
Anonymous No.82890475 [Report]
>>82890471
Yeah they give off hardcore troon vibes. That or an Indian larping
Anonymous No.82890479 [Report] >>82890507
>>82890474
This only applies to European men. Brown people literally just want rape and sex. While I agree with you some of it is brainwashing, non white men are really like that.
Anonymous No.82890484 [Report] >>82890496 >>82891061
>>82890436
this was me before gaining weight
Anonymous No.82890493 [Report]
>>82890462
thats fair. i might not get it as much as men but no i do understand it to an extent.

maybe i just have bad experience but yes generally a lot of incels i have talked to casually have been fairly nice, they just end up ghosting me
Anonymous No.82890496 [Report]
>>82890484
lmao larper pretending to be me

im not stupid enough to post myself online, let alone if i looked like that
Anonymous No.82890507 [Report]
>>82890479
>. Brown people literally just want rape and sex.
If this was true they would only see prostitutes. You can dislike brown men without having to make up things about them, they can be bad on their highly visible faults but its like you have to pretend you are repulsed by their inner thoughts you cant see. I wonder why
Anonymous No.82890527 [Report] >>82890536 >>82890543
>>82890474
no like im talking about men who just will talk to me for a bit, ignore everything about me and just try to plan a hookup or get pics out of me
Anonymous No.82890536 [Report] >>82890574
>>82890527
Have you ever had male friends, like from childhood?
Anonymous No.82890543 [Report] >>82890584
>>82890527
What race are you op? Are you white American?
Anonymous No.82890574 [Report] >>82890582
>>82890536
i dont really have any friends, i have one friend that i actually am in contact with and yeah hes a guy but he is not interested. we dated a whileee back but it just wasnt right so we just went back to being friends
Anonymous No.82890582 [Report] >>82890595
>>82890574
>i dont really have any friends, i
I asked if you HAD male friends, like from childhood
Anonymous No.82890584 [Report]
>>82890543
nah, i am not american. im white european
Anonymous No.82890595 [Report] >>82890619
>>82890582
ah okay sorry i misunderstood

but yes ive had a lot of male friends over the years actually, especially in middle school and early high school
Anonymous No.82890597 [Report] >>82890691
>don't want a sex obsessed man that would do anything for pussy
But those types are the most devoted he doesn't have to be indian? Trust me it's better to get a man that is too horny than one that you have to beg to fuck you. The latter will damage your self esteem even worse.
Trust me you need a horndog muscle chad to ground you and make you happy.
>yall
Southern belle coded you gotta be a little cute
Anonymous No.82890619 [Report] >>82890681
>>82890595
Did any of them tried to court you when you were a teenager or young adult? I dont know how old you are anyway.
Its common for male friends to try to make moves with their female friends, and get rejected. They call this the friendzone in the internet.
The point i make with this is that men at that age and social situation cant just want sex, because they are interested in their female friends. They dont need to ask for pics online, these are known people.
Did it happen to you? Its an extremely common female experience, like oh no my friend wants to kiss me
Anonymous No.82890659 [Report] >>82890670
>>82890113 (OP)
just stop being fat, its that easy. 90% of men dont give a fuck about mental illness and such, some even find it endearing, but no one wants to walk around town with a landwhale, that would hurt their image. though if you settled for browns you wouldnt even need to do that much
Anonymous No.82890670 [Report] >>82890708
>>82890659
Most moids would settle for a landwhale to be honest.
Anonymous No.82890681 [Report] >>82890718 >>82890766 >>82890776
>>82890619
yeah ive dated three of my male friends (one when i was 9, one when i was like 12-13, and one when i was 14)

i agree with you that male friends (esp childhood) are the best option but they were the relationships that traumatised me more than i already was.

the first one sa'd me (cocsa), the second did too and was physically abusive, and the third one was physically abusive and would force me to preform sexual shit with him (blowjobs n shit like that)

so yeah i agree but i am an exception unfortunately
Anonymous No.82890691 [Report]
>>82890597
ive dated a man like that before and it did a number on my psyche lol

like he would constantly call me hot, bring up sexual subjects CONSTANTLY, even when it was inapropriate, and did not respect my boundaries (he was also just a degenerate in the worst possible way)
Anonymous No.82890708 [Report] >>82890763
>>82890670
well, me and the men I know wouldnt, although all my friends have hot girlfriends and I am basically a volcel, if I got on with a fattie I would the subject of endless ridicule. I think most men are this way, except the brown and brown adjacent ones, since to them any women is nothing but a trophy to be paraded around regardless of their actual appearance
Anonymous No.82890718 [Report] >>82890767
>>82890681
>yall act like its so easy to just find a boyfriend cause im a foid but no
>yeah ive dated three of my male friends
Anonymous No.82890731 [Report]
>fat whore makes bad life decisions
wow what a surprise lmao
Anonymous No.82890763 [Report] >>82890832
>>82890708
buddy I don't leave my house or have friends
I want connection, not sex or a trophy
Anonymous No.82890766 [Report] >>82890786
>>82890681
Bro you act like youre a femcel who cant find ANYONE. While most of us havent even held hands with a person. You are proving our point.
Anonymous No.82890767 [Report]
>>82890718
again, they were abusers. and i havent been in a relationship since i was like 14. i was still in school and wasnt like i am now so of course i didnt struggle back then, but i do now.
Anonymous No.82890776 [Report] >>82890806
>>82890681
Traumatized how, from the sexual practices?
I was surprised when you said you had sex at 9, holy shit, i just meant if you had male friends from that age that later showed interest, not sex as a literal child
Anonymous No.82890786 [Report] >>82890798 >>82890807
>>82890766
i cant find anyone, did you miss the part where i said i was 14 and younger in all of those instances?

back then i was not as traumatised, i am now which has caused me to become a reclusive, asocial person
Anonymous No.82890798 [Report] >>82890816
>>82890786
>admits to ghosting people for no reason
>I CANT FIND ANYONE
Anonymous No.82890806 [Report] >>82890834
>>82890776
yeah, traumatised from being forced into and exposed to it at such a young age

although let me clarify i never had full on sex, im still a virgin. when we were nine he only did things like humping me and making me touch him and things like that

also before you come for me yeah hes probably a victim too but it still traumatised me and he still sa'd me
Anonymous No.82890807 [Report] >>82890828
>>82890786
Trauma how, abuse how. Is this all about sex too young, or what are you saying?
Anonymous No.82890816 [Report] >>82890830
>>82890798
why are you being dense i said i used to ghost people for no reason when i was an angsty teen lol. i dont anymore. i havent in many years.
Anonymous No.82890828 [Report]
>>82890807
sex too young and being forced to do sexual things i didnt want.

i have more "stereotypical" sexual trauma from when i was a toddler which has also affected me, but it didnt affect me much back then since it was all fully repressed at that point
Anonymous No.82890830 [Report]
>>82890816
you still sound like an angsty teen so i doubt you grew out of those habits to be honest. also women are generally massive liars to begin with
Anonymous No.82890832 [Report]
>>82890763
I will reiterate: if you want a man who looks halfway decent and cares about you, you need to lose the weight. its not a sex thing, this is just the baseline for being noticed by men. nothing else matters (at the start)
Anonymous No.82890834 [Report] >>82890869 >>82890891
>>82890806
I'm a male and i didnt have sexual impulses at 9, thats before puberty, no hormones, a male has to be at least 12 to even start having such impulses.
At least i know what your issues come from. Its just hard for me to understand, but wait, was he your age too?
Anonymous No.82890869 [Report] >>82890876
>>82890834
yeah he was. im fairly certain he just went through puberty young and like i said earlier was also probably a victim (maybe just of being exposed to porn young but still)

but no i get why its hard to understand, cocsa is very misunderstood. he was young and exploring himself and sex and took it out on me, not fully his fault but still.

thanks for at least asking about it though, thats more than most
Anonymous No.82890876 [Report] >>82890895
>>82890869
cocsa?
Anonymous No.82890891 [Report] >>82890920
>>82890834
Bro I was getting boners and fantasizing about women, well older women, when I was in kindergarten. I still remember a dream I had about being on a train and an adult woman flashing her tits at me as a 5 year old.
Anonymous No.82890895 [Report] >>82890901
>>82890876
child on child sexual abuse/assault, its to describe any child sexual abuse committed by someone under 18 basically
Anonymous No.82890901 [Report] >>82890915
>>82890895
What country are you from anyway
Anonymous No.82890915 [Report] >>82890925 >>82890933
>>82890901
im not gonna share specifics. im from a european country, specifically northern europe
Anonymous No.82890920 [Report] >>82890935 >>82890936
>>82890891
>Bro I was getting boners and fantasizing about women, well older women, when I was in kindergarten.
Its such a nearly impossible thing for me to understand. Is this what porn does? Kids just dont have the hormones for this.
I remember as a kid hearing how all men just want sex every and i was like "no i dont wtf".
Anonymous No.82890925 [Report]
>>82890915
You dont have to tell us. I was just interested in what languages you speak and/or your culture.
Anonymous No.82890933 [Report] >>82890947
>>82890915
not russia or slavic and it wasnt the 90s?
Anonymous No.82890935 [Report]
>>82890920
I didnt watch porn as a kid. I guess I did watch a lot of pg13 comedies at the time which looking back were definitely overly sexual.
Anonymous No.82890936 [Report]
>>82890920
its just different for everyone, personally i started going through puberty around 9-10

like some people just go through puberty very early. and sexual thoughts are normal for someone in early puberty
Anonymous No.82890947 [Report]
>>82890933
nope. it was the late 2000s, in a fairly nice and safe european country
Anonymous No.82891049 [Report] >>82891103
>>82890113 (OP)
where are you from? do you play videogames and can you stop being fat?
Anonymous No.82891061 [Report]
>>82890484
cute, would wife and cuddle with and play vidya late into the night
Anonymous No.82891103 [Report]
>>82891049
i do play video games yeah. like i said in the thread im northern eu, not going into more detail

and i am currently losing weight so yes i can
Anonymous No.82891229 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
>Im fat
easy fix
its actually that easy
the rest doesnt matter
Anonymous No.82891263 [Report] >>82891324
>>82890113 (OP)
i cant hold down a relationship either if i even got one
> i cant hold down a relationship either if i even got one
i cant hold down a relationship either if i even got one
> i cant hold down a relationship either if i even got one

THIS IS THE PROBLEM RETARDDDDDD. we don't even get a CHANCE you just ruin your chances. do you not see the fucking difference?
Anonymous No.82891324 [Report] >>82891334 >>82891386 >>82891447
>>82891263
i know im the fucking problem i cant hold down a relationship because i am mentally ill and i just i cannot
Anonymous No.82891334 [Report] >>82891365
>>82891324
What is your type besides chads
Anonymous No.82891342 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
>im fat
Stopped reading right there. Being fat is a skill issue. Quit fatting about, fatty mcfatfat.
Anonymous No.82891365 [Report] >>82891375 >>82891659
>>82891334
i dont rlly have a "type" per se but like i guess i could describe my general likes?
i prefer either skinny or chubby physiques, maybe slightly fit, i know it sounds corny but ive never been a fan of abs desu. i like guys with longer hair also. mostly i just like guys who share interests with me, whatever that may be.
Anonymous No.82891375 [Report] >>82891413
>>82891365
What games do you play anyway.
Anonymous No.82891386 [Report] >>82891403
>>82891324
>i cant hold down a relationship because i am mentally ill and i just i cannot
So you bitch about the problems your mental illness causes, but don't treat it to improve your quality of life?
Anonymous No.82891390 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
>im fat
That's literally your only problem but even then fat whores can still find men i mean just like at the niggers and simps they all fuck fatties
Anonymous No.82891403 [Report] >>82891418
>>82891386
i am treating it but im still mentally ill for life. ill always have issues just more managable ones
Anonymous No.82891413 [Report]
>>82891375
i like story based games and visual novels best although i do like sandbox type games. i have bad anger issues so games being too difficult makes me genuinely irrationally angry so i avoid it
Anonymous No.82891418 [Report] >>82891437
>>82891403
whats your tardfolio like? 7 layers of bpd/bipolar/npd?
Anonymous No.82891437 [Report] >>82891452 >>82891478
>>82891418
bpd, cptsd, autism and severe depression. i also suspect i might be some type of schizo
Anonymous No.82891447 [Report] >>82891459
>>82891324
Why can't you hold one down? chad only? what is the age of men you tried a relationship with?
Anonymous No.82891452 [Report] >>82891466
>>82891437
How did you get CPTSD? Also are you the girl from yesterday who loves a guy from TV?
Anonymous No.82891459 [Report]
>>82891447
most were around my age but some were older. im not chad only infact i dont think ive ever dated a man that could be considered a "chad"
Anonymous No.82891466 [Report] >>82891510
>>82891452
that might have been me yes.

i was abused for a long time but i wont go into much more detail, ive overshared more than enough on here already
Anonymous No.82891478 [Report] >>82891484
>>82891437
and what if a guy just never left you, but dedicated his life to you?
Anonymous No.82891484 [Report] >>82891593
>>82891478
i would be very grateful. ive never really experienced that outside of one childhood friendship i have
Anonymous No.82891510 [Report] >>82891566
>>82891466
Interesting, yeah, be a bit careful with the sharing, though just talking about your silly little husbando isn't really that bad lel. What would you even want/not want from a guy anyway? Realistically, not in a perfect fantasy.
Anonymous No.82891566 [Report] >>82891600
>>82891510
well i mostly just want a guy who treats me well and shares interests. i feel like thats fairly realistic, right?
Anonymous No.82891593 [Report]
>>82891484
Im your man. Although I am in the US and youre far as fuck away. I happen to be over 6ft
Anonymous No.82891600 [Report]
>>82891566
Yeah but also too broad, that's what everyone wants. Personally I'd want a woman who's a nerdy introvert like me but who also likes having some space, like we can sometimes spend a long amount of time sharing interests, but also sometimes fuck off to get lost in our autistic parallel dimensions.
Anonymous No.82891619 [Report] >>82891631
>>82890113 (OP)
>5"9
>skinny fat 165lbs
>mixed but mostly white
>NEET
>alcoholic
>Somewhat mentally ill but self aware enough to recognize problems just not make solutions
I am not trying to get with you but I want your honest opinion based on these factors. If we had the same interests would you really fuck or date a freak like me? Women just do have it easier I think and I don't say that with malice it's more of just an it is what it is thing. I'm not sex obsessed either but I can't even take care of myself but an intimate relationship would also be nice.
Anonymous No.82891631 [Report] >>82891651
>>82891619
yeah that honestly sounds pretty ideal, although i wouldnt date a full blown addict (bad experiences)
like i know youre probably not a full on addict but yk what i mean
Anonymous No.82891651 [Report] >>82891668
>>82891631
I don't wanna believe you because women don't exist here but thanks I guess for a small whitepill. I could quit though if I wanted to or was forced to. Alcohol is just too fun I could be a functional one with a decent buzz everyday and it helps with social stuff. I don't even like getting wasted.
Anonymous No.82891659 [Report] >>82891683
>>82891365
>describes chadlite
cant make this up
Anonymous No.82891668 [Report] >>82891731
>>82891651
nah yeah i get that. we are rare here lol.

understandable, personally if i ever dated someone who did any kind of substances i would want them to recover. addicts can become toxic very easily, speaking from experience
Anonymous No.82891683 [Report] >>82891690
>>82891659
when did i describe a chadlite?? no like genuinely curious cause i dont see how that was a description of a chadlite
Anonymous No.82891690 [Report] >>82891719
>>82891683
>skinny
>slightly fit
>longer hair
Anonymous No.82891719 [Report] >>82891766
>>82891690
i said chubby or skinny or maybe slightly fit

and i said i like longer hair, how is that excluding non chads/chadlites?
Anonymous No.82891731 [Report] >>82891751
>>82891668
>addicts can become toxic very easily
Yeah I was with weed when it came to withdrawals it fucked with my mood. That was easy as fuck to quit though with alcohol it's more physical effects for me. I'm glad I haven't had the opportunity to try anything harder maybe psychedelics would be fun though but that's it.
Anonymous No.82891751 [Report]
>>82891731
yeah alcohol withdrawal is brutal, its why i stay away from it

ill be honest i am a bit of an addict to painkillers so i cant judge too hard but for me its actual treatment for chronic pain yk?
Anonymous No.82891766 [Report] >>82891777 >>82891778
>>82891719
No woman actually really likes chubby guys, thats just a front. If they did most single women wouldnt be single by now
Anonymous No.82891777 [Report]
>>82891766
most of my exes were chubby, i actually think only one of my exes was skinny. sure most women dont like chubby guys but i do.
Anonymous No.82891778 [Report] >>82891795 >>82891892
>>82891766
Isn't "dad bod" just a cope for liking chubsters?
Anonymous No.82891795 [Report]
>>82891778
Dadbod is a cope for going after older men's money
Anonymous No.82891892 [Report]
>>82891778
yeah true.

also crazy that men will shame us for not liking fat men when they dont like fat women either lol
Anonymous No.82892199 [Report] >>82892272
>>82890113 (OP)
Hey OP do you wanna chat in Discord or did you find someone already?
Anonymous No.82892218 [Report] >>82892228 >>82892241 >>82894005
>>82890133
nooo it doesnt matter bc half of those men just want sex and the other half ghost me
Anonymous No.82892228 [Report] >>82892253 >>82892272 >>82893131
>>82892218
ur probably making fun of me but its true. i will have a super nice convo with a guy and then they just ghost me and never talk to me again.

either that or they just beg for nudes until i have to block them
Anonymous No.82892241 [Report] >>82892253 >>82892257 >>82892327
>>82892218
Men are so shallow they don't understand anything beyond raw physical attraction
Anonymous No.82892253 [Report] >>82892315
>>82892228
Post proof!
>>82892241
Likewise :)
Anonymous No.82892257 [Report]
>>82892241
Hey that's not true at all. I wish I had a gf who's my best friend. Late night talks about nerd shit >>> 10 minutes of pleasure or whatever.
Anonymous No.82892272 [Report] >>82892333
>>82892228
So will you chat with me >>82892199
DESU I just wanna bitch about life and you obviously want to do the same so we can just complain at each other if you want.
Anonymous No.82892315 [Report] >>82892322
>>82892253
i dont wanna post proof because i dont wanna expose convos between me and some guy who probably wouldnt be ok with it
Anonymous No.82892322 [Report]
>>82892315
So you're lying, kay
Good to know
Anonymous No.82892327 [Report]
>>82892241
Women filter 90% of the population from their dating pool based on physical characteristics, usually ones guys can't control. Men are attracted to physical characteristics too, but I don't think they filter women as aggressively. Put another way, if a women doesn't want to date someone less than 6'2", she won't date someone less than 6'2", if a man thinks tall girls are sexy though, I don't think he's going to straight up rule out everyone under 5'11", he just has a preference. Women stick to their preferences harder than men I think, and give men less leeway to make up for a shortcoming in other ways.
Anonymous No.82892333 [Report]
>>82892272
yeah sure, my discord is posted further up in the thread so go ahead and add me, id be willing to chat and bitch to eachother lol
Anonymous No.82892692 [Report]
so how many of you simps have gotten ghosted so far?
Anonymous No.82892854 [Report] >>82893034
>>82890113 (OP)
i like fat bitches
>but they are just interested in sex
you literally introduced yourself by saying
>i'm a fat and lonely girl
wtf else are they gonna talk to you about? your non-existent hobbies?
Anonymous No.82893034 [Report] >>82894784
>>82892854
maybe if you asked about my hobbies youd find out lol

but im not entirely opposed to sex but i am afraid of intimacy which means im not always down for it, so i cannot base a relationship on sex
Anonymous No.82893131 [Report] >>82893177
>>82892228
>either that or they just beg for nudes until i have to block them
why not send them? do you shave? do you do anal? do you swallow cum and piss? do you cum quick? how often would u fuck?
Anonymous No.82893177 [Report] >>82893215 >>82893222 >>82893237
>>82893131
i dont send them because im not a whore? no but seriously i just dont feel comfortable sending nudes unless i am veryyy close with someone because of risk of leaking yk

i wouldnt have sex often, maybe once a week? like i said earlier in the thread in afraid of sexual intimacy so it also takes a lot of trust for me
Anonymous No.82893215 [Report]
>>82893177
but you are a whore though
Anonymous No.82893222 [Report] >>82893416
>>82893177
so how many guys did you send to already? also answer the other questions
Anonymous No.82893237 [Report]
>>82893177
>unless I am very close
My exbfs friend showed his entire friend group nudes of his then-gf even though he wanted to marry her. You are not special your nudes are pokemon cards to men. You are dumb as a doornail
Anonymous No.82893255 [Report]
>>82890113 (OP)
tits (no-one wants to see them anyways) or gtfo

it is super easy as a foid, just kys retard faggot
Anonymous No.82893416 [Report] >>82893427 >>82893806
>>82893222
i havent sent nudes since i was very much underage and being groomed. so none in the last couple years.

and im not answering the rest, that is very personal shit
Anonymous No.82893427 [Report] >>82893442
>>82893416
>and im not answering the rest, that is very personal shit
so you're not virgin? last time u fucked?
Anonymous No.82893442 [Report]
>>82893427
i am a virgin, ive never had sex. i was groomed when i was a minor but thankfully i avoided rape. havent had sex since.
Anonymous No.82893601 [Report] >>82893620
OP you have not revealed why you didnt form a relationship with some of your childhood male friends. Was it just because of the sex at 9 years old?
You said you had one but it didnt work out, why was that, new bad sexual thing plus increasing mental issues on your part?
I blame your parents and culture for allowing 9 year old sex
Anonymous No.82893620 [Report] >>82893637
>>82893601
well i explained how i did start relationships with them but it ended badly, you might have missed it with the chaos i dont blame you

i mean i wasnt having sex or anything i was assaulted by another kid but yeah i blame his parents and culture for that, i dont blame him he was a kid too.
Anonymous No.82893637 [Report] >>82893655
>>82893620
why did they end badly
Anonymous No.82893655 [Report] >>82893664
>>82893637
they were abusive. either physically, mentally, sexually or all three
Anonymous No.82893664 [Report] >>82893700
>>82893655
how physically and mentally, insults. gaslighting. Hitting?
None of them gave you gifts or wrote bad poems for you?
Anonymous No.82893700 [Report] >>82893742
>>82893664
they would hit me and things and laugh it off as a joke, even when i made clear i was uncomfortable. and yeah manipulation and things, mostly through threats.

god i remember how one of them (the most recent one, i was 14-15) would choke me and slap me around cause "girls like that". he wouldnt stop when i pushed him away either, assumed it was kink or some shit idk
l4wchi No.82893729 [Report] >>82893732 >>82893856
oh my god this is so fucking relatable im exactly the same
ive literally never had a boyfriend and no dude has ever expressed interest in me(except one dude who literally ended up rejecting me LMFAO) and im so TIRED of moids saying that being a moid is harder than being a foid and that life is so easy for us when its not omfgg
Anonymous No.82893732 [Report]
>>82893729
no for real like oh because some guy who has never met me wants tittie pics? ok
Anonymous No.82893742 [Report] >>82893761
>>82893700
These were white?
Anonymous No.82893761 [Report] >>82893776
>>82893742
yep, all fully white. i dont know if ive dated a non-white guy, irl at least. not on purpose, just cause i live in a majority white area
Anonymous No.82893776 [Report] >>82893909
>>82893761
how do other girls you grew up with deal with this, do you consider your experience as typical or just had very bad luck?
Anonymous No.82893806 [Report] >>82893916
>>82893416
Are you a bong? I swear that island is a giant child safari zone for rapists.
Anonymous No.82893856 [Report] >>82893867
>>82893729
>no dude has ever expressed interest in me
>except one dude who showed interest in me
Anonymous No.82893867 [Report]
>>82893856
>That ended up changing his mind
Anonymous No.82893909 [Report]
>>82893776
i think my experience is not out of the ordinary but it is not very common i dont think. i think because of trauma and autism i was naive and fell for manipulation tactics easily
Anonymous No.82893916 [Report]
>>82893806
im not familiar with what that is so no probably not.
Anonymous No.82894005 [Report]
>>82892218
Point proven, thread over.
Anonymous No.82894784 [Report] >>82894813
>>82893034
why would i? you assume people care and want to know you because you're a cunt but that's because they want to fuck you, dumb cunt
here's a tip, just don't mention you're a girl if you want actual conversation
you want because you just want attention
Anonymous No.82894813 [Report]
>>82894784
Its normal to ask such things in a social setting. Like studying together. Cold approaching a girl is psychopathic.