Thread 82961400

My boyfriend wants me to be clingy and obsessive but last time I was like that with someone he harassed me in secret for months and recruited people for a hate chat and kept acting like I was a big evil abuser just for being a orbiter he didnt want, so I learned to stop being clingy with anyone because I dont wanna be harassed just for being needy with someone who dislikes me.

Pic related is the e-boy i orbited, he said all those things all because I wanted to be in his life.

I love my boyfriend and he's helping me heal from the trauma and I no longer orbit the e-boy who hates me.
My boyfriend and I arent online only, he has visited me two times in person already. We both live in California.

>>82961400 (OP)
>wants me to be clingy and obsessive
That's obviously unhealthy for both and you shouldn't do it. Call him a retard and ask why he'd want you to become an anxious wreck.

>>82961400 (OP)
This is why men should never settle for used goods. I will only settle for a virgin.

Didn't read lol fuck you and your gay drama

>>82961400 (OP)
you are a dumb teenage whore and you should get offline immediately before you destroy your life.

>>82961400 (OP)
Chickn I know this is you. Hi

>>82961432
I am a virgin. This was just discord bullshit.

>>82961439
Lots of people picked his side and shit talked me. Many such cases.

>>82961466
I'm pushing 30. I'm most likely older than the early 20s men on here.

>>82961480
I never said I wasn't.

>>82961466
sadly she's almost 30

>>82961466
To be fair tho the e-boy who hates me is 23 year old white man in england. And he's the one who kept recruiting for a hate chat and shit talking me for months instead of just blocking me everywhere. He was the immature one not me.

>>82961400 (OP)
>I obsessed over another guy and my bf didn't like that and wanted to see that I was capable of showing him the same affection.

Honey you landed a man and need to prove to him those feelings you're capable of are not reserved for some unattainable microceleb you orbited. They're for him if you're with him and if they aren't then you're nothing.

>>82961400 (OP)
Just stop messaging this guy. Simple as.

>>82961610
The drama is months old and a year old and it happened before I even met my current boyfriend.
I dont orbit the e-boy who hates me anymore. But i am scared to orbit anyone again because I dont wanna be murdered over shitty discord beef. (I met one of the people involved in the hate chat in person because one of them lived near me)

Like I said in my op, I love my boyfriend and he's helping me heal.

>>82961660
Ok so answer my question. Are you capable of showing the same obsession to this boyfriend that you apparently held to this other guy? Because let me tell you, I've been in your bf's position before. If you show even the slightest hint that you'd do for another man what you cannot do for him, he will leave you. Either he has the self respect to do it quickly, or will spend a year debasing himself, twisting himself into a pathetic facsimile of what you fell in love with to try and justify staying with you, all the time knowing that there is some mythical guy from the past that you obsessed over that you can't bring yourself to even pretend to act like around him.

>>82961694
No she's not capable. I can only imagine what grotesque abomination of flesh this being inhabits to orbit teenage males on discord

wow a chickn thread that's somewhat reasonable
>>82961505
>I am a virgin.
he wants you to fuck him, not to orbit
go do it and he's going to be happy

>>82961735
Shut up. I asked her a question and I'm curious to see, even in my jaded late 20's, if it is possible for a woman to display the feelings she is so clearly capable of to the man she defines as her savior from herself.

What is impeding you? What is stopping you from simply being what he wants you to be, given that you were so ok with being like that to a guy who hated you? Are you broken in the mind? I can smell the BPD from here but I want to believe even now that there is hope speaking to your kind logically

>>82961735
Lol shut up. The e-boy in the screenshots is a 23 year old, hes no where close to being a teenager. I said his age earlier in the thread.


>>82961754
I have cptsd from childhood trauma and cried over the hate chat the 23 year old e-boy made for like a week. My boyfriend understands I was scared and traumatized by the discord hate chat and stopped orbiting anyone at all

>>82961812
You're dodging the question. Are you capable of giving him the obsession and yandere style affection he yearns for? Or was that just for the rando who hates you?

Are you capable of seeing why that's a direct fucking knife to his pride as a man? He's thinking "Oh yeah she loves me, but she's not driven to obsession over me, what a loser I am. I should hang myself" That's what he's thinking right now because you won't give him what he wants or give him a reasonable explanation.

>>82961812
why are you larping as chickn?

>>82961400 (OP)
>I could literally beat you black blue and purple and you'll come back
godddddd I wish I had someone I could say this about

>>82961837
she doesn't even love this guy, she just uses him for validation. i feel bad for the dude that he has to see her post about her obsession with this other guy all day, every day and friend collecting other random anons from threads. she's actively shopping for other men to be his replacement right in his face. i hope he's able to work up enough self respect to leave first

>californian leftists
who cares
nothing of value here

>>82961989
He won't. I've been where he is. It's why I'm asking and why I'm so sure she's intentionally dodging my question. She will NOT give the same level of obsession to her "Savior" She takes him for granted and does not feel that encompassing infatuation he knows she is capable of and they will not last.

And if she can't show that level of obsession, even for a month or two, it'll be her fault.

/r9k/ - teenage girls and discord

>>82961989
>>82962029
I am OP and he met my parents in person and my boyfriend is deeply ingrained in my life. My parents expect him to be the one I marry. You're making claims that dont exist. If I wanted a new boyfriend I would have ditched him after the first meet up and blocked him but I love him because he brings stability into my life. It also takes two to tango, he also could have abandoned me after the second meet up but he didnt

>>82962120
you are not chickn

>>82962120
you 'love' him because he provides a service to you. you don't care about him as an individual human person with thoughts and emotions, an inner life and a soul. to you he is just scaffolding for you to build your own self up upon and as soon as you find someone who you can use to climb higher, you will monkey bar to him and ghost this current boy like you've ghosted so many others. the least you could do is fuck the poor sap

>>82961400 (OP)
hey so i hope you can realise this but different people are different so you shouldn't project your past abuse onto him just like you wouldn't want him projecting past bad experiences he has had with other women onto you
that being said maybe take it gradually but many guys do like clingy girls
and i think the previous awful guy you were with would have been terrible to you regardless from the looks of things, you don't need to blame yourself

>no response
go figure.

>>82962314
>>82962709
>schadenfoid
i thought you were the poster who hates all men and wants them to suffer?
guess i was wrong about you...

>>82962120
So give him the affection that he wants from you. Why do you keep ducking that? He wants you to be obsessive, so satisfy him. You did it before with another guy and he knows it so fucking do it again to a guy who deserves it.

>>82961400 (OP)
make him a flatbread pizza with extra pepperoni

>>82964289
Chickn listen to this man my beloved