ruby
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11/5/2025, 6:42:54 PM
No.83023149
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>>83023184
i dont sense imposter syndrom i feel contempt
schadenfoid
11/5/2025, 6:44:55 PM
No.83023167
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>>83023187
you won't sense my fist flying mach 10 into your nuts but you'll feel the contempt
Anonymous
11/5/2025, 6:46:11 PM
No.83023184
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>>83023233
>>83023149 (OP)
for me its cause there was never an "apology"
merely pretending nothing happened
is just unsettling and will continue the contempt
especially as the disrespect is simply being continued
ruby
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11/5/2025, 6:46:41 PM
No.83023187
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>>83023167
no i dont get imposter syndrome personally i dont sense it within myself but i cannot express contempt without people hating me so i have to pretend my contempt is imposter syndrome
ruby
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11/5/2025, 6:51:42 PM
No.83023233
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>>83023249
>>83023184
you are working with people who believe you owe them and maybe you do
the skill you lack is partitioning your time after you owe someone when you repay them your business with them is done and there is no further expectation if they assign expectations to you it is conflict not value and it is evil of you to pretend their conflict is valueable
Anonymous
11/5/2025, 6:53:29 PM
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>>83023233
I don't owe them anything
i was just chillin hanging out with them
they rejected me
which is there right
but the way they treated me and continue to treat me
says I need to look out for myself
I will not be a fucking door mat
for someone who doesn't even halve the respect for me to treat me like a human being
ruby
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11/5/2025, 6:57:40 PM
No.83023296
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That-s a really thoughtful and layered piece of dialogue - it sounds like someone expressing both emotional hurt and moral reasoning about boundaries and respect. Let-s unpack it step by step:
- Part 1: The emotional grievance
"For me it-s cause there was never an 'apology' - merely pretending nothing happened is just unsettling and will continue the contempt, especially as the disrespect is simply being continued."
This part is about unresolved conflict.
The speaker feels that someone wronged them but never acknowledged or apologized for it.
Instead, the other person pretended nothing happened, which feels invalidating - like gaslighting or denial.
That makes the speaker lose respect (contempt) and feel that the disrespect is ongoing, because silence or avoidance is itself a form of disrespect.
So emotionally, it-s about the need for recognition and accountability.
-- Part 2: The rational/moral reflection
"You are working with people who believe you owe them and maybe you do. The skill you lack is partitioning your time after you owe someone - when you repay them, your business with them is done, and there is no further expectation. If they assign expectations to you, it is conflict not value, and it is evil of you to pretend their conflict is valuable."
This moves from emotion to ethics and boundaries.
It-s advice to separate debt from obligation - to know when what you -owe- someone has been fulfilled.
After you-ve repaid (in work, favors, loyalty, etc.), they no longer have legitimate claim over you.
If they keep expecting more, that-s manipulation or exploitation (-conflict, not value-).
Pretending their manipulation is -valuable- or -meaningful- is self-deception - the speaker calls that evil, because it sustains toxic power dynamics.
- Overall meaning
The dialogue as a whole expresses a principled emotional stance:
