Thread 83092228

>be me (a girl)
>my sister tells me about a dude
>this dude likes her alot (he wants to marry her)
>he is also a retard who is quite creepy and manipulative
>she is not interested and friend zones him
>he still talks to her (still having the intention to marry her)
>she knows this but she dont want him
>she keeps him around (she likes the validation)
>I told her that he is retarded but she has to stop playing with him.
>Like yes he manipulated you, but if you know this will not go anywhere stop. You playing with his heart.

Is this the reason you guys are so sad? Ngl, I get it, its extremely selfish behaviour. Its hard to talk to women (as a woman). Its like walking on eggshells sometimes. You have to make it as soft as possible, but thats incredibly annoying.

>>83092228 (OP)
fret not OP
this is a canon event for him
he'll join our ranks soon enough, unless he has a father figure to set him straight lmao

>>83092228 (OP)
that's one of the reasons yeah, it's a sad sight to see people letting others walk all over themselves but i mean, it's their choice
just distance yourself from him and make her stop telling you about him, whatever they do is their business

>>83092228 (OP)
Part of the reason i guess. there is a non zero chance that the guy will snap and do something harmful with your sister since as you said it he's a creepy retard, it's obvious to anyone looking at the situation but more likely than not if that happens your sister will deny all accountability and pin all of the blame on the retarded guy as if she wasn't purposefully keeping him around to play with him when bored. Society will also agree with her. Main source of my sadness is the whole "Women are always angels and do no wrong, men bad" thing.

>>83092228 (OP)
Basically me but as a male, I keep in touch with a retarded manipulative foid just because zero other women give a shit about me and I'm frankly tired of searching. I might unironically marry her out of sheer hopelessness.

>>83092242
My sister even talked to his mama multiple times. But she knows he wants her badly. He said yes to all her whims. I told her soft to stop because its can end nasty (as he stalkes her on the low) and that he will be incredibly hurt.

>>83092257
>there is a non zero chance that the guy will snap and do something harmful with your sister
Thankfully he lives far faar away. He talks to other girls but he is very serious about my sister.

>>83092304
some guy traveled to another country to stab a guild mate because he stole some rare equipment in a game fembot. don't underestimate crazy angry humans

>>83092260
Dont do it man. Dont even think about doing it. You are setting yourself up for failure

>>83092278
y'know OP, sometimes we tell these younguns' but they don't listen, so now they have to go through these things to really and I mean *really* learn
Just keep your sister safe, man
You're a good sister for caring about her

>>83092228 (OP)
i cut out any women that friendzones me

>>83092340
I'm just being realistic, it's not like any decent women want a mentally ill poorfag, they've all got much better options.

>>83092228 (OP)
Tell this to this dude.

Instead of pulling a number out of the ether I will put in the effort to actually recall every time this happened.
Six times.
I told myself I would stay optimistic through my 20s and I had six opportunities, if you can call it that, which all ended like this. People tell you to let go of things, but I let go of everything after 30 and do not recommend it.

>>83092426
That dude doesn't specifically exist. OP is baiting.

>>83092426
I dont have his number man, I can ask her but that's awkward as shit. I'll make her stop that's for sure
>>83092380
This guy somehow got her email, and even though she never showed shere she lived, he somehow found the city she lives in. This man might aswell know her address.

>>83092413
Okey but you can fix your money man. You can also heal your mental state. Those are fixable. I wish you well anon. Stay strong <3

>>83092540
>you can fix your money man. You can also heal your mental state
"Fix your money", uh, most poor people don't just magically stop being poor. Social mobility is really hard. And there's not way to heal being autistic.

>>83092494
Like I said, keep your sister safe
two ways now outta this; either he snaps and assaults her, or someone gives him a wake-up call and he leaves her alone

>>83092555
I don't disagree with anything you are saying, but its fixable.
>there's not way to heal being autistic.
tru dat. but (depending on the level of tism) you can cope somewhat.

>>83092566
will do anon, thanks man.

>>83092590
Ironically the best way to stop being broke would be to live together with a woman so we can have double incomes with a single rent, but being poor is a big barrier to attract decent women in the first place.

>>83092617
That's one way, but it doesn't always work. When you live alone you can also workmaxx, and save a lot. Living with parents is honestly the ideal here, but its incredibly annoying.

>>83092260
Do you know her from here? Oregano

>>83092697
>workmaxx, and save a lot
Not without qualifications really, I barely make ends meet.
>Living with parents is honestly the ideal here
My family is a bunch of poor shits who can't sustain me. I'm not even going to inherit anything of worth when they pass.

>>83092766
nta but I feel you, bud
have you considered joining the military?
you can join as a reservist and do it part-time and sometimes even get free or heavily discounted housing, and the pay is decent once you make corporal
reservists cannot be deployed either unless they volunteer

many trades in the military offer a lump sum pay upon graduation and more bonuses on top of that

>>83092766
God damn man. But do you have a degree? that must help somewhat.

>>83092836
>joining the military
>as an autist
>one of the core features of autism is sensory issues
>eat army food, get up at 4am, put up with shouting and bullying, crawl through mud
Would end up offing myself within minutes, spergy softbois are not meant for that.

>>83092228 (OP)
you legit gotta be blunt and tell her to stop being a narcissistic bitch. being soft wont do anything. tell her this is for her own safety as well, since this dude is clearly a stalker and WILL hurt her.

>>83092872
she'll cut me off and i love her dearly. she doesn't take harsh comments well. i have to tell her softly

>>83092228 (OP)
>Post berserk
>Imma real woman
TROON CONFIRMED LMAO

>>83092869
>eat army food, get up at 4am, put up with shouting and bullying, crawl through mud
for 9 weeks
after that it's a boring desk job at the base

>>83092946
i know cis women who like berserk. its really not that uncommon, the manga is very popular.

>>83092228 (OP)
Kinda, except I never really did anything manipulative or creepy. Eventually you just get burned one to many times being used for attention and just give up.
Being caring and obsessive about someone you like is a nuclear deterrent to women.

You could drug her and then direct him to have sex with her while she's unconscious. It's a valuable lesson she needs to learn and you'd be doing a good deed.

>>83093141
psychopath behavior. no. dont fucking do that.

>>83093258
It's only fair, in an ironic punishment fits the crime kind of way.

>>83092228 (OP)
Tell him to troon out like you did and how much better it is

>>83092228 (OP)
>this the reason you guys are so sad?
Not me personally, no.

I've seen this kinda crap a lot though and it's why I don't talk to normal people outside of work. Both men and women are usually willing to use someone else for emotional or material gain and it's sickening indeed. I hate seeing it and I want no part of it.

Though of course, I also tend to avoid the people desperate and stupid enough to be lured into such a trap even after I have told them what is happening