I played retail WoW from Lich King to Warlords of Draenor. What is a good server for a comfy leveling experience and more or less decent raiding? Is Warmane any good? It seems it's the server with the biggest population. Also, what about Turtle? I never played Vanilla.

Is there any fantasy franchise asides from maybe 40k that isn't extremely soft and full of faggotry?

It feels like this genre is full of homos who cannot comprehend the rule of cool and could never hope to design compelling action elements. It's seems like only Asians get this memo.