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7/7/2025, 7:03:42 PM
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This general is slow. However, unlike many generals, it is carefully curated by a dedicated Anon (me) who makes an effort that no post goes unreplied if he can find something helpful to say. This means that, should a thread die before your post was replied to, he will go back and cross-reference it in the next thread. You can follow cross references to archived threads using the 4chanx extension (ask if you need to know more) or manually search https://archived.moe. If you don't wanna deal with that, OP will gladly refer you to the reply if requested to.
Also: I am currently working on an FAQ to try help people with onboarding. I haven't had the time yet to write one up but I take suggestions.
7/3/2025, 8:48:11 PM
>>40237100
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>So you're saying it will only go *down* from here?
It *might* dip. But it is very important to know that if your feelings are contradicting your circumstances (feeling unsafer than ever in a safe environment) then that is a green flag and healing. Think of it as the kind of injury where the painfulness of the healing process is not universal and the degree of pain experienced has no bearing to the healing process. It can be painful, it can be painless, but neither is a bad sign.
>my old car blew the tranny (/o/ word, not /tttt/)
Holy shit that piece of jargon was new to me, thank you! Got a chuckle out of me.
>probably I wouldn't be able to afford one.
Financial matters always are a pain in the ass, if it isn't covered by whatever form healthcare takes for you that can doubly suck.
>And then, I don't want to break down before her and tell I'm trans outright.
I have a perhaps interesting take for you: a therapist should be a gynecologist of the mind. We expose intimate things to them, and if they have any business to be in their business, and they aren't complete noobs, we would expect them to have "seen it all" already. Our intimates are their bread and butter, and to them it should be mundane. There is comfort in that thought, to me.
>Of course everyone knows, they're just nice.
Not to hugbox but you *sure* they would be so polite?
>And in Thirdiestan, being trans is not life insurance.
Maybe a different angle: do you know other lgbt peeps in your country? Sometimes tightly knit networks form in thirdie countries for self preservation.
>>40238566
>They don’t care about my interests unless it’s something they’ve heard through others is a prestigious interest to have or something they can use to show off to their friends.
That in and of itself is incredibly gross, but I didn't mind them, I meant you and me. I was suggesting the two of us have a chat about your passions. You really have been treated awfully, Shinji. My goodness.
(2/2)
>So you're saying it will only go *down* from here?
It *might* dip. But it is very important to know that if your feelings are contradicting your circumstances (feeling unsafer than ever in a safe environment) then that is a green flag and healing. Think of it as the kind of injury where the painfulness of the healing process is not universal and the degree of pain experienced has no bearing to the healing process. It can be painful, it can be painless, but neither is a bad sign.
>my old car blew the tranny (/o/ word, not /tttt/)
Holy shit that piece of jargon was new to me, thank you! Got a chuckle out of me.
>probably I wouldn't be able to afford one.
Financial matters always are a pain in the ass, if it isn't covered by whatever form healthcare takes for you that can doubly suck.
>And then, I don't want to break down before her and tell I'm trans outright.
I have a perhaps interesting take for you: a therapist should be a gynecologist of the mind. We expose intimate things to them, and if they have any business to be in their business, and they aren't complete noobs, we would expect them to have "seen it all" already. Our intimates are their bread and butter, and to them it should be mundane. There is comfort in that thought, to me.
>Of course everyone knows, they're just nice.
Not to hugbox but you *sure* they would be so polite?
>And in Thirdiestan, being trans is not life insurance.
Maybe a different angle: do you know other lgbt peeps in your country? Sometimes tightly knit networks form in thirdie countries for self preservation.
>>40238566
>They don’t care about my interests unless it’s something they’ve heard through others is a prestigious interest to have or something they can use to show off to their friends.
That in and of itself is incredibly gross, but I didn't mind them, I meant you and me. I was suggesting the two of us have a chat about your passions. You really have been treated awfully, Shinji. My goodness.
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