What will you lads call your firstborn son?

>match with girl who is totally my type on a dating app
>we follow each others socials and message each other for a week
>i get scared at the idea of actually having to go on a date and get burnt out from texting every day
>i ghost them
>repeat the cycle
I want to be in a relationship but i always feel this immense burden when i meet someone new, im scared that by the time im ready to enter a relationship ill be an old out of shape slob and no one will want me