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6/23/2025, 10:38:21 PM
So imma be real and get this out the way, I'm good looking and have been told this by numerous people and get complimented by strangers daily. People genuinely give me celebrity treatment, constantly coming up and wanting to talk to me, doing nice guy/girl shit, when I'm at the gym they want to load up my weights for me (genuinely). They shower me with praise and all that shit for literally doing nothing other then my normal routine.
But then eventually... They go distant, then the praise turns to back handed compliments, then to insults. And sometimes even snakey underhanded shit
>Found out one dude told a girl who was interested in me that I was a dog and I had multiple women already
I genuinely don't and am not like that.
>Before I found out he was the reason the girl started acting coldly towards me. This same dude confessed to being jealous of me when he made a remark about my shoes and another person said he was just jealous... Which he then admitted too
The same happens with women though, I only recently lost about 40lbs of weight a year ago now and never got attention from anyone before. Now it seems like everyone wants to come up and talk to me, get to know me, ask me for life advice of all things (like bruh, I'm 26, I ain't even got my own life figured out) But it feels like they realise that I'm just a person with my own shit to deal and not some perfect being, to which they then start to despise me once I don't match the idea of me they had in there head.
This isn't meant to be some brag post. This is genuinely the shit I've started to deal with now and I don't know how to operate through it
But then eventually... They go distant, then the praise turns to back handed compliments, then to insults. And sometimes even snakey underhanded shit
>Found out one dude told a girl who was interested in me that I was a dog and I had multiple women already
I genuinely don't and am not like that.
>Before I found out he was the reason the girl started acting coldly towards me. This same dude confessed to being jealous of me when he made a remark about my shoes and another person said he was just jealous... Which he then admitted too
The same happens with women though, I only recently lost about 40lbs of weight a year ago now and never got attention from anyone before. Now it seems like everyone wants to come up and talk to me, get to know me, ask me for life advice of all things (like bruh, I'm 26, I ain't even got my own life figured out) But it feels like they realise that I'm just a person with my own shit to deal and not some perfect being, to which they then start to despise me once I don't match the idea of me they had in there head.
This isn't meant to be some brag post. This is genuinely the shit I've started to deal with now and I don't know how to operate through it
6/23/2025, 9:54:45 PM
So imma be real and get this out the way, I'm good looking and have been told this by numerous people and get complimented by strangers daily. People genuinely give me celebrity treatment, constantly coming up and wanting to talk to me, doing nice guy/girl shit, when I'm at the gym they want to load up my weights for me (genuinely). They shower me with praise and all that shit for literally doing nothing other then my normal routine.
But then eventually... They go distant, then the praise turns to back handed compliments, then to insults. And sometimes even snakey underhanded shit
>Found out one dude told a girl who was interested in me that I was a dog and I had multiple women already
I genuinely don't and am not like that.
>Before I found out he was the reason the girl started acting coldly towards me. This same dude confessed to being jealous of me when he made a remark about my shoes and another person said he was just jealous... Which he then admitted too
The same happens with women though, I only recently lost about 40lbs of weight a year ago now and never got attention from anyone before. Now it seems like everyone wants to come up and talk to me, get to know me, ask me for life advice of all things (like bruh, I'm 26, I ain't even got my own life figured out) But it feels like they realise that I'm just a person with my own shit to deal and not some perfect being, to which they then start to despise me once I don't match the idea of me they had in there head.
This isn't meant to be some brag post. This is genuinely the shit I've started to deal with now and I don't know how to operate through it
But then eventually... They go distant, then the praise turns to back handed compliments, then to insults. And sometimes even snakey underhanded shit
>Found out one dude told a girl who was interested in me that I was a dog and I had multiple women already
I genuinely don't and am not like that.
>Before I found out he was the reason the girl started acting coldly towards me. This same dude confessed to being jealous of me when he made a remark about my shoes and another person said he was just jealous... Which he then admitted too
The same happens with women though, I only recently lost about 40lbs of weight a year ago now and never got attention from anyone before. Now it seems like everyone wants to come up and talk to me, get to know me, ask me for life advice of all things (like bruh, I'm 26, I ain't even got my own life figured out) But it feels like they realise that I'm just a person with my own shit to deal and not some perfect being, to which they then start to despise me once I don't match the idea of me they had in there head.
This isn't meant to be some brag post. This is genuinely the shit I've started to deal with now and I don't know how to operate through it
6/19/2025, 9:14:08 PM
And besides from that, dudes in the gym won't leave me the fuck alone
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
6/16/2025, 9:41:26 PM
>>33229776
You can't believe how much I wish I was joking
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
You can't believe how much I wish I was joking
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
6/16/2025, 9:15:40 PM
>>76267881
>>76267882
OP here, agreed.
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
>>76267882
OP here, agreed.
Genuinely it's fucking up my shit, even if I go to the gym with say my brother or my dad. I won't be able to get a good sesh in cause these people won't leave me THE FUCK ALONE.
I'll tell them "listen man, I ain't really gonna talk as I'm training with my dad/brother" and they'll STILL hang round, watch me lift, ask me questions about my lift. Like DUDE, take a hint and FUCK OFF.
>And if you wanted to know what I'm lifting or how much weight I have on the bar...? USE YOUR FUCKING EYES!!!
I don't often get to train with my dad so it's one of the few times I actually get to see him. Being in my mind twenties and shit.
And if I'm by myself in the gym they'll ask for my opinion on everything, like they want my approval on what type of curls to do or how much weight "I" think they should be lifting. Bro... Use your own head.
>worse Is when they ask for fucking LIFE advice. Like bro IDK. Go to a therapist or something. I don't have all the answers to your life. And secondly, why the fuck do you care about my opinion? Ask YOUR friends, or your mom, or your dad. I'm just a dude that goes to your gym.
Genuinely, when I was a fat fucker, no one approached me and now Im thinking I preferred it that way
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