>>81868602
i guess it depends. if i'm left alone with no contact for a full day or feel like i'm being abandoned, i can lash out. i can't cope with being ignored. no communication if i see you active (and i do check things other than just discord. like if i see you playing a game on steam while not answering me) i will be upset. i likely won't lash out the first time this happens, but if you tell me you weren't with someone i KNOW you were with or active during a certain hour and i ltrly have evidence otherwise, yes i will lash out. communicating goes a long way for me, i can be okay with your absence for a bit, or at least cope with it, if you just tell me you'll be back within x amount of time. otherwise, i feel abandoned. but, like the store example i used, i can be inwardly upset, but i won't make that apparent to you. i will "cutely harmlessly pout" until you return. i might cry because i miss you, but yeah lol.

i think it's important to note that i'm not fearful because of anything specific. i haven't done anything other than stop being friends with said person, but they have a tendency to be hateful regardless.