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7/25/2025, 5:36:57 PM
i'm not very happy with my body so i want to know if i could get anything out of fitness for strength/appearance or if i should just give up and focus solely on cardio for health over everything else. my main problem is that i have the same shoulder size as a teenage girl. all clothes look terrible on me and i get fashion advice from ftm tranny forums.
my greatest desire is for somebody to determine if i should give up or keep trying. i'll listen if the opinion seems well informed. i'm 23 years old, a khhv, haven't talked to a woman my age in a casual setting in almost a decade, and starting to recognize that i'm way too old to feel insecure about my body. it's wasting my life. i want to know if trying to become involved in that sphere (sex, relationships) is even worth it or if i should abstain. the latter hasn't been bad so far. i've gone around 2 weeks without masturbating and my erections are being less frequent as time passes because frankly any thought of sex makes me want to kill myself. i just want to stop thinking of it forever and focus on myself, just like all the woman advice says ('cultivate a better relationship with yourself!', 'become an interesting person!', 'women will like you when they're older and want a partnership instead of a fling!') but honestly i care more about feeling good about myself than i do connecting with people. ideally i'd be alone forever with my hobbies.
my greatest desire is for somebody to determine if i should give up or keep trying. i'll listen if the opinion seems well informed. i'm 23 years old, a khhv, haven't talked to a woman my age in a casual setting in almost a decade, and starting to recognize that i'm way too old to feel insecure about my body. it's wasting my life. i want to know if trying to become involved in that sphere (sex, relationships) is even worth it or if i should abstain. the latter hasn't been bad so far. i've gone around 2 weeks without masturbating and my erections are being less frequent as time passes because frankly any thought of sex makes me want to kill myself. i just want to stop thinking of it forever and focus on myself, just like all the woman advice says ('cultivate a better relationship with yourself!', 'become an interesting person!', 'women will like you when they're older and want a partnership instead of a fling!') but honestly i care more about feeling good about myself than i do connecting with people. ideally i'd be alone forever with my hobbies.
7/25/2025, 4:27:14 PM
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i'm not looking for fitness advice otherwise i would go on fit. what i seek is ethical advice. ethics as in how i should live my life, shape my character, etc. seems like blindly spouted off advice without reading my post.
but yes. i played sports in high school and middle school. during a warm up run, in the orange glow of a balmy autumn afternoon, i saw my silhouette cast onto the seaside path, and first noticed my deficiency. the point of my measurements today was to confirm that yes, objectively, my shoulders are narrow.
i'm not looking for fitness advice otherwise i would go on fit. what i seek is ethical advice. ethics as in how i should live my life, shape my character, etc. seems like blindly spouted off advice without reading my post.
but yes. i played sports in high school and middle school. during a warm up run, in the orange glow of a balmy autumn afternoon, i saw my silhouette cast onto the seaside path, and first noticed my deficiency. the point of my measurements today was to confirm that yes, objectively, my shoulders are narrow.
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