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7/12/2025, 2:55:30 PM
In answer to a very common question on /adv/ the basics of small talk
This is NOT Game, NOT PUA wankery, NOT memorizing scripts, NOT 'evolutionary psychology', just the concepts of natural dialog.
It is NOT only about approaching pretty girls only to get a date
This IS about developing both
>the concepts and skills of conversation
and
>comfort with speaking with strangers.
Over time this will lead to you developing the confidence, skills, and social circles that will make your life better and, over time, get you a GF or BF.
You do this by starting small
>being comfortable with simple exchanges with strangers
up to
>learning to sustain a conversation over time
to
>making a friend
to
>maintaining a circle of friends
and so on.
This thread is for the very first steps of this journey and for people to ask questions, give advice, and so on.
The basics of conversation.
>https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=how+to+make+small+talk&view=detail&mid=6ADCB726A268BAB43A8E6ADCB726A268BAB43A8E&FORM=VIRE
>https://www.forbes.com/sites/christinapark/2015/03/30/an-introverts-guide-to-small-talk-eight-painless-tips/?sh=2dae6e09574a
>https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/how-to-make-small-talks
>https://preply.com/en/blog/small-talk-questions-to-make-conversation-easier/
>https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=how+to+do+small+talk&docid=608051586035101294&mid=C2DE2978035736B97D7CC2DE2978035736B97D7C&view=detail&FORM=VIRE
This is NOT Game, NOT PUA wankery, NOT memorizing scripts, NOT 'evolutionary psychology', just the concepts of natural dialog.
It is NOT only about approaching pretty girls only to get a date
This IS about developing both
>the concepts and skills of conversation
and
>comfort with speaking with strangers.
Over time this will lead to you developing the confidence, skills, and social circles that will make your life better and, over time, get you a GF or BF.
You do this by starting small
>being comfortable with simple exchanges with strangers
up to
>learning to sustain a conversation over time
to
>making a friend
to
>maintaining a circle of friends
and so on.
This thread is for the very first steps of this journey and for people to ask questions, give advice, and so on.
The basics of conversation.
>https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=how+to+make+small+talk&view=detail&mid=6ADCB726A268BAB43A8E6ADCB726A268BAB43A8E&FORM=VIRE
>https://www.forbes.com/sites/christinapark/2015/03/30/an-introverts-guide-to-small-talk-eight-painless-tips/?sh=2dae6e09574a
>https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/how-to-make-small-talks
>https://preply.com/en/blog/small-talk-questions-to-make-conversation-easier/
>https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=how+to+do+small+talk&docid=608051586035101294&mid=C2DE2978035736B97D7CC2DE2978035736B97D7C&view=detail&FORM=VIRE
6/30/2025, 7:24:30 PM
>>33294573
A few ideas
>Wait until Black Friday, go to a local megastore in a trenchcoat.
>Jump up on the checkout, throw off the coat to reveal you are wearing nothing but Santa Claus socks and flip flops
>Start jacking and shooting people while shouting "I hate firemen" until the cops shoot you
or
>get a car. fill it full of tannerite, at least 400 pounds. and apraypaint "I love nigger but hate jesus" on the sides, hood, and back
>Drive it around until the cops chase you, make sure you are dash cams as long as possible
>pull over and as the police approach shoot the tannerite
or
>Go to a large cemetery with a 6-9 year old girl you've kidnapped
>spraypaint the words to several gangsta rap songs word by word on multiple headstones
>Hang a statue of Buddha covered in swastikas
>Build a large fire and have the girl tied up like you're going to throw her in a a sacrifice
>As the cops approach say the voice in your head say you got the lyrics wrong and kill yourself
A few ideas
>Wait until Black Friday, go to a local megastore in a trenchcoat.
>Jump up on the checkout, throw off the coat to reveal you are wearing nothing but Santa Claus socks and flip flops
>Start jacking and shooting people while shouting "I hate firemen" until the cops shoot you
or
>get a car. fill it full of tannerite, at least 400 pounds. and apraypaint "I love nigger but hate jesus" on the sides, hood, and back
>Drive it around until the cops chase you, make sure you are dash cams as long as possible
>pull over and as the police approach shoot the tannerite
or
>Go to a large cemetery with a 6-9 year old girl you've kidnapped
>spraypaint the words to several gangsta rap songs word by word on multiple headstones
>Hang a statue of Buddha covered in swastikas
>Build a large fire and have the girl tied up like you're going to throw her in a a sacrifice
>As the cops approach say the voice in your head say you got the lyrics wrong and kill yourself
6/27/2025, 2:41:11 PM
>>33281885
Travel = luxury good
partying = luxury good
A large fraction of women use luxury goods to signal their value, mainly to other women.
So for a minority of women travel, partying, or both, are status markers to other women.
the TYPES of status markers SPECIFIC women focus on can tell you a lot about what the women value, but their specific behavior in these groups varies.
For example, there is a small but vocal minority of Christian women who do extensive travel to do missionary work, often feeding the poor or teaching poor children. They go with a heavy chaperone presence because they are hoping to attractt a Christian spouse with the financial means to also travel, proving her children will be cared for. These high-travel women are more likely to be virgins at marriage because that is part of their value to their target male audience, instead of target female audience.
So obviously saying
"Why do women..."
in such a way, implying not just that all women are focused on partying and travel, but also that all women have the exact same motivation for similar actions, reveals that you are a very poor level of knowledge of people in general and women in particular.
My advice is that you get some friends and meet more people.
Travel = luxury good
partying = luxury good
A large fraction of women use luxury goods to signal their value, mainly to other women.
So for a minority of women travel, partying, or both, are status markers to other women.
the TYPES of status markers SPECIFIC women focus on can tell you a lot about what the women value, but their specific behavior in these groups varies.
For example, there is a small but vocal minority of Christian women who do extensive travel to do missionary work, often feeding the poor or teaching poor children. They go with a heavy chaperone presence because they are hoping to attractt a Christian spouse with the financial means to also travel, proving her children will be cared for. These high-travel women are more likely to be virgins at marriage because that is part of their value to their target male audience, instead of target female audience.
So obviously saying
"Why do women..."
in such a way, implying not just that all women are focused on partying and travel, but also that all women have the exact same motivation for similar actions, reveals that you are a very poor level of knowledge of people in general and women in particular.
My advice is that you get some friends and meet more people.
6/16/2025, 5:50:19 PM
>>33217229
Since you are either too dishonest to admit they exist or too lazy to read them, the summary of the other roughly 60,000 threads asking the exact same stupid fucking question can be summarized thusly:
Leave your fuckin ghouse, go to as many different places as you can, and talk to people until oyu make friends.
Since you obviously have no more hobbies than you do freinds, get hobbies, too.
And read some books so you can at least fake a personality
Since you are either too dishonest to admit they exist or too lazy to read them, the summary of the other roughly 60,000 threads asking the exact same stupid fucking question can be summarized thusly:
Leave your fuckin ghouse, go to as many different places as you can, and talk to people until oyu make friends.
Since you obviously have no more hobbies than you do freinds, get hobbies, too.
And read some books so you can at least fake a personality
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