A few months ago I weighed 240lbs, most I've ever weighed by a lot.
Finally buckled down and started going to the gym and dieting.
I used to diet every few months in college when I would put on a few pounds, I was alway successful with it to.
I figured that this time should be no different.

The first week was great, I lost 10 pounds really easily, getting down to 230lbs.
I was going to the gym 3 times a week, doing weights and cardio
I also completely cut sugar out of my diet, no more soda at all, I only drink water.
I paid more attention to what I was eating, made sure to eat mostly protein and vegetables.
I really feel like I've been doing a great job with this whole thing.

Here is the problem, flash forward 2 months now and I've gained 4 pounds. I'm at 234 current.
Literally how is this possible? I feel like I've done everything right, I'm even working out now
and I'm completely failing to lose weight, something that was easy for me in college when I would just starve myself.
I don't understand how this is physically possible.

>>81617785
we're in a similar boat, you and i. unfortunately my ego is too big to get a girlfriend that isn't on my level. If i have to bust my ass and work hard to get the money and looks required to obtain a girlfriend, any girl i choose in my eyes will just be an evil whore who deserves to die. Why can't I just be loved for being who i am? That's what I want. So becoming hotter and richer is not a path forward for me, personally. I'm still gonna do it, just because it's better. At this point I"m pretty sure that even if I could stop being an incel, I will always be a volcel.

>>81604297
you don't need to be made uncomfortable by anybody that you could kill with your bare hands.
Regardless,
the first two sound like annoying bitches, the last one seemed to have just been goofin' around. It's fine, it happens.
I also avoid looking at people in public, i feel like it's a decent courtesy to not bother anyone.