I have a gf and we’re both pretty young. She’s fresh out of high school and I’m a sophomore in college. Problem is though it’s really difficult to spend time with her. I live with my mom and it’s near impossible to have the house to myself, mainly because my older brother is a worthless druggie leech who lays around all day doing fuck all with his life. Going to her house is out of the question because it’s tiny and run-down, meaning her batshit insane family who’s always home would catch on. My only real options here are to fuck her at my grandpa’s house which would be such a colossal pain in the ass or fuck her in my car, which I don’t want to do because she’s a virgin and I want her first time to be special. Seriously this is so fucking annoying. I can’t overstate how annoying it is when you love someone so much but you’re unable to spend quality time with them. What the hell do I do here? Should I just move out at this point?

If there are any anons with similar experiences/circumstances do share. I’m transitioning into adulthood and it’s honestly kicking my ass.

If I'm interested in a girl my mind can't formulate conversations because it starts rushing with shit like wondering if I'm being too inquisitive or coming through too serious.

If the goal is to get to know someone, what questions do you make, and how do you balance looking laid back (when you clearly are autistic)? Should I ask plainly if the only question I have in my mind is asking whether she's dating someone or not?